Gaming over having a girlfriend 😅
So I’ve dated this guy for 4 years. We recently broke up this year because he wanted more time to himself and play games.
He also didn’t communicate that properly with me, that he wanted us to stop video calling everyday and have more time to himself.
I had to reach out to him and talk about it because he couldn’t communicate. So we got back together and now I regret it.
He would refuse to do adult duties because he’s scheduled a “raid” to play games. He would abstain from sleeping with me and outings because he’s too busy playing games.
He also refuses to let me look at his phone and go to his house. We have fights regularly because I have compromised alot for him and he has never compromised for me.
I unfortunately have an emotional bond to him and I don’t know how to leave.
Netizens’ comments
- What have you bonded with? He’s giving you nothing, so it seems like you are bonded with the idea of him – which must be absolutely nothing like the reality of him.
- I don’t understand how people fall into these traps. Don’t you know there are guys that will want to be with you? That will treat you well and make an effort to make sure you’re happy? Think of you before themselves? Why settle for this? …twice?
- Your first mistake was getting back into a relationship with someone who has historically shown exactly zero care for you.