On New Year 2023 my past rs trauma suddenly hit me which resulted in me breaking down and at the heat of the moment broke up with my current gf.
Since then my gf and I were pondering if we should patch back for 1 week. I can see she is fight for the rs. But to me suddenly I feel i’m not 100% into her already. Nonetheless we got back together.
Although in the past we met often (5/6 times a week) to chill. Even if each meetup is 2-3h for dinner. But recently I suggested to her that we should meet lesser as all she wants to talk about is her insecurities & doubts. But I hate such confrontation man.
When she suggest to maintain the frequency we meet, I’m just doing it to make her happy. But I do find her clingy/sticky now. Cause she place me on high importance and made her life revolve around me.
In summary… I used to enjoy her presence. Now I felt that I’m just meeting her out of obligation. Maybe my heart isn’t fully into her nor wanting this rs anymore. She is a nice lady, and I really don’t want to hurt her. But breaking up with her for good is in my consideration.
Here are what netizens think:
- I hope she reads this. So she can see that she’s wasting her time on you.
- Then do it la. Come here and whine for what? We also not interested in your indecisiveness and consideration.
- Your love for her has died. Pls move on instead of wasting each other’s time
- Other guys are struggling just to get a gf, what more a girl who wanna spend time with them. Then you, cant even commit. People always want what they cant have.
- Best is either you stay single for life if not karma will do its job. Don’t you know, you need to commit and be responsible in a relationship? If you can’t do it then in the first place you should just stay single, just because of the initial strong feelings and now you can just simply say that she’s clingy etc. You better pray hard that you have no kids especially your daughter and hope your daughter will never fall in love with such a useless man who can’t commit in a relationship yet got the cheek to say someone else’s daughter is clingy etc.