Met this guy at a pool party and I can’t stop thinking about him. why did he not get my contact when I can feel he is kinda attracted to me as well?
So a few wks ago I went to this pool party with my guy friend(and a bunch of his friends) So I ended up knowing and talking to one of his friend (lets called him X) throughout the night.
He said he don’t usually go to these parties and he was there because he was persuaded by his friends. It was super nice talking to him and we danced a few rounds. X would hold my hand/waist while walking me back to our table (guide me through the crowd) and we chatted throughout, small talks etc. I also can tell that he tried to initiate talks w me, not sure is it he just wanna make sure I dont feel left out -bc I didn’t know anyone there (except that guy friend but he was busy engaging w other peeps).
Then we had some food (chicken wings) but I chewed on something hard so I wanna spit them out but couldnt find tissue/napkin. So X said I can js spit on his plate and he then cover up the spitout with his used tissue. (like so nice of him to do that ??) he also got water for me to sober up.
So we cab to another bar (with the rest) and in the cab we were talking n I told him he can rest on my shoulder if he’s tired and he did.
Then when the day ended he offered to call cab for me and sent me off.. but my qns is why did he not ask for my contact, I even hinted at him.
Is he not attracted to me? or he felt intimidated bc I’m his friend’s friend? I was confused.
Should I initiate and follow his social media (idw to look desperate) or nah bc if he wanted to know me he would’ve asked for contact?
so he’s just being nice the whole time?