My married ex-boyfriend’s wife is still stalking me
I am a divorcee with 2 young girls and got involved with a married man somewhere in Aug 2016, not knowing he was married then.
We went for holidays and he even stayed at my apartment almost everyday thus I never suspect he was married. We acted like married couple and my girls doted on him. A year plus into the relationship, he suddenly ghosted on me with a reason that he needed to think about our relationship.
Months passed by and no news from him. Then I found out he was in a relationship with another girl through his IG posting. I was broken indefinitely, and began to dig further. It was only then that I found out he was actually married and still going around acting single. This new girl was his new fling. I ended everything and walked away, even ignoring his apology texts a few months later.
2 years had passed, when suddenly a girl texted me and claimed that she was his wife. They have been married since 2011 and currently going through divorce due to his infidelity and wanted me to stand in for her in court to testify. I explained to her about finding out his status only at the break up stage. I even took the initiative apologize to her. But that didn’t stop her from trying to stalk me after i rejected her request.
It’s been months, I received friend request from every social media platform i have. Tiktok, IG, FB, Twitter. I didnt accept and ignored her. She viewed all my IG stories (mine is not private). She texted me asking me to delete whatever postings I have when I was with her husband for example, a photo of my kids during our Krabi trip. He was not in the photo but she knows he was with us. A photo of a cute couple shirt we had, and again he was not in the photo. She requested that i removed all the hashtags involving me and him which i used during our courtship. She asked me to dispose off those shirt and telling me to delete whatever memories i have of him.
I am a person who cherish memories and i dont remove pictures just because someone doesnt like it. So it is getting ridiculous and annoying. I have told her to stop stalking me as i am now seeing another person but she still does that.
What should I do?