Whenever I look back on that incident, I can still feel a heavy wave of embarrassment wash over me. It was one of the most uncomfortable moments of my life.
My ex boyfriend was more adventurous and willing to try different things while we were getting intimate and I always believed in the traditional putting it in and moving it in and out.
Told me to wear a stewardess uniform while getting intimate with me
He asked me to wear a flight attendant uniform while we were having relations. I was appalled and insulted by his request. I mean, who does that? I can only imagine how it must have felt for the women who actually worked in such positions and had to deal with creepy passengers!
I also thought to myself on how in the world could he have gotten his hands on the female stewardess uniform.
He used to fly for a certain airline but he was a male and couldn’t have a female uniform with him!
At first, I thought he was joking, but as I saw the serious expression on his face, I knew he was dead serious. He told me that he missed his flying career and wanted to “relive it in some way”.
He said that he wanted to dream that he was the flight manager and having a “hot flight attendant” to accompany him.
I was completely taken aback. How could he ask me to do something so degrading? I felt like I was being treated as an object or a toy, rather than a person. It was so disrespectful to me, and I felt so embarrassed that I just wanted to curl up into a ball and disappear.
I tried to reason with him, asking if he could just watch a movie or something, but he refused. He said that this was his “only way” of getting the feeling of being a crew back. I was at a loss for words and felt so helpless.
Ultimately, I gave in and put on the uniform. I felt so uncomfortable and exposed, and I was so ashamed of myself. It was a horrible experience and I wanted it to be over as soon as possible.
Ended the relationship thereafter
After that night, I ended the relationship. I realized that he didn’t respect me and that he was only interested in fulfilling his own selfish desires. It was a hard lesson to learn, but it taught me an important lesson about relationships and understanding boundaries.
I now know that I should never have to compromise my own dignity or self-respect for anyone else. We all have the right to be respected and to feel comfortable in our own skin.
No one should ever be made to feel like an object or a toy.