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GIRL BECOMES THIRD WHEEL AFTER BF CAN’T FORGET HIS EX-GF

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I’ve been dating “A” for 7 1/2 months, and we’ve been exclusive since the beginning. Everything was going well, and it’s the healthiest relationship that I’ve ever been in. We never fought and always treated each other with respect. Sex was great too.

I was more than a year out of a very long relationship when we got together, and I’ve moved on. My ex and I are on friendly terms, but there are no feelings there, at least on my side. But A ended his most serious relationship only 2 months before we met. It sounded like it was toxic and they broke up and got together many times before parting ways. I had a feeling that he wasn’t over her, but it didn’t seem to be a problem for our relationship. I fell in love with him and felt safe and cared for with him.

We met up on Sunday to celebrate Valentine’s Day since I had to work on Monday, and when I walked in I could tell something was off. He said he was really depressed, which I suspected he had been for a while. But he also said that his ex contacted him over the weekend and that it really hit him that he’s not over her. And it made him realize that there is something missing in our relationship. At the same time, he said he cares about me a lot, and does have feelings for me – but they are not the same as his feelings toward her.

I asked if he wants to get back with her and he said he doesn’t know. I asked if he wanted to see me again or to end our relationship that night, and he said he wanted to see me again. I thought we could both use time apart and suggested we meet up this weekend to talk about it.

But I don’t know what to do, and my thoughts are all over the place. I can’t sleep and I can’t eat. I’ve given him nothing but love and treated him well. It hurts so much that he can’t realize what a great thing we have together because he’s still in love with someone who never treated him well (per his own words). At the same time, I know that he didn’t give himself time to get over her when we started dating, and that this is why we’re in this situation now.

I know I probably need to walk away from him for my sanity and let him figure out his life. I feel like if I do walk away, or if he wants to end it, I need to close the door on this relationship permanently and move on, so I don’t end up obsessing over him like he’s doing with his ex.

But I still find myself wanting to try to see if he can somehow work on getting over her while still being with me, if I give him space to feel his feelings for her without judgment or anger, and time to heal. Is that just doomed to fail?

Thai Man Loses Leg After Attempting to Dismantle Live Grenade for Scrap Metal

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A man from Lop Buri province in central Thailand has suffered life-altering injuries after a live M79 grenade exploded in his home. The blast, which occurred as he tried to disassemble the explosive device for its copper parts, resulted in the loss of his left leg and critical injuries to his right leg.

The incident took place on August 3, 2025, in the Thasala district. Emergency responders and police from Mueang Lop Buri Police Station rushed to the scene after receiving reports of an explosion at a residential property. Due to fears of additional explosives, rescuers cautiously entered the house where they found 33-year-old Wuttichai Tathong severely injured and barely conscious.

Video footage shared by Thai news outlet Channel 8 showed responders struggling to extract the victim safely. Neighbours reported that Wuttichai had a habit of collecting scrap metal and suspected he had found the grenade while foraging for bamboo shoots in nearby mountains.


Dangerous Side Hustle: Scrap Metal from Explosives

One neighbour, identified only as Thanarak, told local reporters that Wuttichai had previously scavenged for recyclable materials in remote areas and was known to sell scrap copper for extra income. The M79 grenade is a military-grade weapon, and it is believed he was unaware of its full danger or attempted to disassemble it despite knowing the risks.

A nearby resident was also reported injured, though their condition remains unclear. Police have launched an investigation and are now combing the surrounding area to ensure there are no other undetonated explosives.

Authorities have also issued a strong public advisory against attempting to tamper with or dismantle any military-grade items, especially those found in forests or near military training zones. They are urging anyone who comes across suspicious items to report them immediately to the local Explosive Ordnance Disposal (EOD) team.


Surge in Explosive-Related Incidents in Thailand

This is the latest in a troubling trend of explosive-related accidents across Thailand. In May, an Australian national was detained at Phuket International Airport after authorities discovered a grenade launcher and bomb components in his luggage. Investigations are still ongoing into how the weapons were acquired and what the man intended to do with them.

In a separate incident, a garbage collector in Hua Hin uncovered a stash of explosives—including a block of C4, a live M61 fragmentation grenade, and anti-personnel mines—hidden beside a rubbish bin. The EOD unit confirmed all items were live and fully functional. These repeated discoveries raise serious questions about the movement and accessibility of dangerous weapons within civilian zones.


Growing Safety Concerns & Calls for Crackdown

The increasing number of explosive discoveries and mishandling cases has prompted calls for stricter monitoring and public awareness campaigns across Thailand. Officials are urging residents not to take risks in pursuit of scrap metal or recyclables, especially when dealing with unidentified military items.

With authorities stepping up investigations and safety checks in high-risk areas, the spotlight now turns to how these deadly weapons are ending up in the hands of civilians — and how to prevent future tragedies.

WOMAN SEE MANAGER NO UP, LOOK DOWN ON HER & CHOSE TO REPORT TO CEO INSTEAD

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Is it alright if I go directly to my boss and not my manager?

I’m 28F working in an online marketing agency. We have around 24 people at the office and the company is 3 years old.

I’ve been working there since the beginning of this year and since I have no educational background in this field, I have had a lot to learn (which is not uncommon for my field).

At the office I’m in a team of five people. One is my manager, let’s call her Jane, one is the CEO of the company, let’s call him John. Then there are my two colleagues, 31M and 35F. 35F is the newest addition to the team and we talk a lot about our work, ask each other questions and get along really well.

Now the issue is that I don’t really get along with my manager, Jane. She has around two years of experience in the business and while I do respect and admire her skills, I don’t feel that she is a great manager. I rarely get any feedback or acknowledgment which has led to me being insecure about the quality of my work and where I stand at the company.

We have had a fair few people quitting recently to seek out new challenges and some people have been let go as the market is changing. The lack of feedback is one of the reasons they move on.

I chose to go to John, as he is the CEO and also part of my team. I feel more comfortable talking to him and I expressed my issues with the lack of feedback. He was really nice about it and gave me permission to seek him out for feedback and help whenever I need it – without my manager having to be involved.

And now to the part where I might end up being an AH: I spoke to my dad about it and he mentioned that excluding my manager might create some issues. It’s unfair to her and I do see the point in what he says. At the same time I believe that it is my boss’ responsibility to make sure she is doing her best and since he has given me permission to get my needed feedback from him, I don’t think it is my responsibility to include my manager. It is a small company and everyone is quite young which means there is not a lot of experience with these things. I don’t have a lot of experience on workplace etiquette either.

Thai Man Confesses to Killing Mother, Hiding Body in Cement-Filled Bathtub in Bangkok

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A chilling crime has surfaced in Bangkok after a 33-year-old Thai man surrendered himself to police, confessing to the murder of his 73-year-old mother and revealing that he had hidden her body in a bathtub filled with cement.

The man, identified only as Tarn, turned himself in at Romklao Police Station on Monday, August 4. He led officers to his residence in Soi Romklao 27, located in the Lat Krabang district, where a strong odour was detected emanating from the bathroom. Upon investigation, authorities discovered a bathtub concealed with layers of cement, beneath which lay the decomposing body of Tarn’s mother, Worranan.

Claimed Motive: “She Complained Too Much”

According to local media reports, Tarn confessed to strangling his mother, claiming her persistent complaints drove him to commit the act. He reportedly first filled the bathtub with clothes before encasing the body with multiple layers of cement — possibly in an attempt to mask the smell and delay discovery.

Rescue personnel from Rom Sai and Ruam Katanyu Foundations were called in to assist in the recovery of the body. While details remain under investigation, it has been reported that Tarn has a history of mental health issues. Authorities have not ruled out the possibility of psychiatric evaluation as part of their ongoing inquiry.

Tarn is now in police custody and assisting with further investigations.

Not the First Cement-Covered Corpse Case in Bangkok

Disturbingly, this incident mirrors several other gruesome discoveries in recent years involving cement-concealed bodies in Thailand. Just last year, the body of a 12-year-old girl was found hidden in a 200-litre ice cooler filled with fertiliser soil and cement. Her adoptive father, allegedly under the influence of drugs and known for violent tendencies, was accused of killing her after accusing her of theft.

In another separate case, three South Korean nationals were arrested for the murder of a fellow countryman in Pattaya. They disposed of the victim’s body in a barrel, also filled with cement, which was later found submerged in a reservoir. Two of the suspects were sentenced to life imprisonment.

Ongoing Investigation and Public Response

This latest murder has sparked alarm on Thai social media, with many expressing horror at the brutality and premeditated nature of the crime. It also highlights broader concerns about untreated mental health conditions and the need for community awareness and intervention.

Police have yet to disclose the full extent of Tarn’s criminal responsibility, pending the results of psychiatric assessments. If declared mentally fit, he could face serious criminal charges, including premeditated murder and improper disposal of a corpse.

The case continues to unfold, with the authorities urging the public to report any signs of suspected abuse or mental distress among individuals in their communities.

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BlueSG Lays Off Majority of Workforce Amid Major Business Overhaul

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BlueSG, Singapore’s only electric car-sharing service offering point-to-point mobility, has confirmed that a significant number of its employees have been retrenched as the company prepares for a complete operational pause and future relaunch in 2026.

Sources familiar with the situation claim that as much as 80% of the company’s workforce has been affected, although BlueSG has declined to disclose exact numbers. The company’s decision to drastically reduce headcount is part of a broader restructuring tied to an upcoming “bold platform upgrade,” which was previously announced alongside plans to suspend services starting 8 August.

The move has raised serious concerns about job security in Singapore’s gig and transport economy — particularly for workers employed in non-unionised environments.

BlueSG Confirms Downsizing, Promises Support for Affected Staff

In a formal statement issued in response to media queries, BlueSG stated that the company will continue operations with a “lean core team” during the transitional phase. It acknowledged that the decision to downsize was difficult, but necessary to streamline resources and focus on long-term goals.

“Supporting affected employees remains a top priority — with fair severance, clear communication, and meaningful career transition,” the company noted. BlueSG also expressed intentions to potentially rehire some former staff when its new platform launches next year.

BlueSG added that it is exploring redeployment options across its wider group of affiliated companies, suggesting that some laid-off workers may find opportunities elsewhere in the ecosystem.

NTUC Steps In to Assist Non-Unionised Workers

Although BlueSG is a non-unionised company, the National Transport Workers’ Union (NTWU) has confirmed that it will step in to assist affected workers who are registered union members.

Yeo Wan Ling, executive secretary of the NTWU, said in a statement that impacted Singaporeans and Permanent Residents can also turn to NTUC’s e2i (Employment and Employability Institute) for support. Services available include job matching, career coaching, and workshops aimed at improving employability — a lifeline for those abruptly displaced by corporate restructuring.

Union members can also access the TADM@NTUC platform for workplace advisory services or file for recourse if they believe due process was not followed.

Retrenchment in the Tech-Mobility Sector Highlights Wider Risks

This development is the latest in a string of retrenchments across Singapore’s evolving tech and transport sectors, where firms are racing to balance innovation with sustainable labour practices. As more companies shift towards automation, digitisation, and business model reinvention, workers in traditional operations roles face increasing risk of displacement.

BlueSG’s announcement comes at a time when the electric vehicle (EV) and car-sharing market in Singapore is facing intense pressure from rising costs, competitive disruption, and evolving commuter preferences. While the upcoming relaunch promises a more seamless and tech-driven user experience, it remains to be seen if the company can regain the confidence of both its customers and its former staff.

For now, BlueSG’s restructuring serves as a stark reminder: in the pursuit of digital transformation, businesses must not forget the human costs involved.

Urgent Search Underway for 3 Young Thai Girls Missing After Late-Night Escape From Chiang Mai School

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A desperate search is underway in northern Thailand after three young girls, aged seven to nine, went missing from their boarding school in Chiang Mai province on the night of August 3. The girls reportedly slipped away from the dormitory in the early hours, sparking concern among authorities and widespread alarm among the local community.

The children – Natnicha Phewkaew (7), Jomkwan Siamlai (9) and Kamonnit Wilai (9) – were last seen leaving Rajaprajanugroh 30 School, located in the Tha Ton sub-district of Mae Ai, an area close to the Myanmar border.

CCTV footage captured the trio walking alone along a road near Mae Ai Luang Temple, Thairath School, and Mae Ai Fresh Market. Two of the girls were seen holding umbrellas, walking in the dark at around 1am.

Authorities Deploy Drones, Urge Public to Stay Vigilant

The Mae Ai Police Station has launched a full-scale search operation and is now working closely with community leaders across 15 surrounding villages. Drones will be deployed in forested and residential areas to assist in the search. The use of drones comes amid concerns over Thailand’s temporary nationwide drone ban, but authorities reassured the public that search efforts remain lawful and focused on child safety.

The police believe the girls may have entered one of the nearby residential communities, including Ban San Kong, Ban San Phak La, Ban Hong, Ban Pu Chae, and Ban Huay San, among others.

At this point, the school has not issued an official statement explaining how or why the children managed to escape undetected during the night. Thai netizens have speculated that homesickness may have motivated the girls’ decision to leave, though many question why no staff intervened.

Online, the case has gone viral on Thai social media, with widespread calls for improved safety protocols in school dormitories. Many users expressed disbelief that such young children could vanish without staff knowledge, with some questioning the adequacy of school security measures.

Missing Persons Cases Highlight Need for Child Safety Reform

This incident is the latest in a troubling pattern of missing child cases across the region. With increasing scrutiny on boarding institutions and youth care facilities, there is mounting pressure on both the Ministry of Education and local authorities to strengthen oversight, particularly in rural and border districts.

As the search continues, police urge residents of Chiang Mai and nearby provinces to stay alert and report any sightings. The hope is that with public help, the three girls can be found safe and reunited with their families soon.

This is a developing story.

Woman Discovers Dead Frog in Drink at M’sia Eatery, Netizens Disgusted

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A shocking incident at a popular eatery in Negeri Sembilan has gone viral after a woman discovered a dead frog floating in her asam boi drink, sparking widespread disgust and fierce calls for action. The customer, known as _iiimalina (Imalinawawa) on TikTok, shared a brief five-second video revealing she had already drunk a quarter of the beverage before noticing the amphibian carcass.

The incident happened at AFT Station, Merchant Square Sendayan, a spot frequented by locals in Sendayan, Negeri Sembilan. The clip, which quickly racked up over 30,000 views and thousands of comments, has stirred intense debate about food safety and hygiene standards at eateries.

In her video, the woman addressed curious netizens, stating plainly:

“For those asking whether I drank the drink — YES, I had already drunk a quarter of it 😥.”

Social Media Erupts Over Shocking Discovery

The online response was immediate and fierce, with many expressing horror and sympathy for the woman’s ordeal. Comments ranged from light-hearted jokes to serious calls for authorities to intervene:

  • “Sis, are you okay? Do you feel like hopping around now?”
  • “I thought it was just dried plum until I saw the legs. I feel sick.”
  • “Report them immediately! Food safety is no joke — what if someone’s child drank this?”
  • “Did the frog think it was a spa with lime and ice?”

The video’s virality has also fuelled conspiracy theories among some netizens, with a few questioning whether the establishment might be linked to certain groups, while others pointed out the stall’s staff attire resembled religious uniforms, raising further concerns.

Calls for Swift Enforcement and Restaurant Accountability

Many outraged Singaporean and Malaysian netizens are now demanding that local health authorities investigate AFT Station and enforce stricter inspections to protect diners. Several comments urged the victim to lodge formal complaints so that appropriate penalties, including potential closure of the business, could be considered if hygiene breaches are confirmed.

This distressing episode serves as a stark reminder of the importance of stringent food safety regulations in eateries across the region. Consumers expect basic hygiene standards to be upheld, and incidents like these undermine public trust.

As of now, there has been no official statement from AFT Station regarding the incident. Authorities have yet to confirm if an investigation is underway, but the overwhelming public outcry suggests this story is far from over.

The case also highlights the power of social media platforms like TikTok in amplifying everyday consumer issues, holding businesses accountable, and ensuring the public stays informed about potential health hazards.

Taiwan Comedian NONO Officially Indicted for Sexual Assault and Molestation — Prosecutors Seek Heavy Sentence

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Popular Taiwanese entertainer NONO, whose real name is Chen Hsuan-Yu, is facing serious legal repercussions after being officially indicted for sexual assault and molestation. The case, which previously saw a dismissal, has now taken a dramatic turn following a reinvestigation ordered by the High Prosecutors Office.

According to the Shilin District Prosecutors Office, NONO is accused of sexually assaulting two women, identified as A3 and A5, between 2011 and 2013. The authorities have filed formal charges under Article 221 (forcible sexual intercourse) and Article 224 (indecent assault) of the Taiwan Criminal Code, and are urging the courts to impose a heavier sentence, citing the defendant’s lack of remorse and abuse of fame.

Serious Allegations Dating Back a Decade

Prosecutors revealed that the first incident occurred at a lifestyle massage parlour in Taipei’s Zhongshan District, where NONO allegedly assaulted a woman providing him massage services. During the session, he is said to have exposed himself and forcibly engaged in intercourse using his physical advantage to restrain the victim on a beauty chair.

In a separate incident around December 2011, NONO allegedly contacted a woman through social media after she liked a post related to one of his programmes. He later picked her up in a white Mercedes-Benz in Taipei’s Songshan District. As soon as the woman entered the car, he allegedly forced a kiss using his tongue and groped her chest, completing the act of molestation.

MeToo Movement Gave Victims Courage to Speak Out

The accusations only came to light in 2023, amid the growing momentum of the MeToo movement in Taiwan, which saw numerous survivors sharing their stories of harassment and assault. Empowered by this cultural shift, both A3 and A5 came forward to report their traumatic experiences involving NONO.

Initially, the case was closed by the Taipei District Prosecutors Office without indictment. However, the High Prosecutors Office overturned the decision in 2025 and sent the case back for further investigation, citing compelling evidence and inconsistencies. The case was then transferred to the Shilin District Prosecutors Office, which has now concluded its investigation and moved forward with formal prosecution.

Prosecutors Condemn Abuse of Fame and Lack of Remorse

In their statement, the prosecutors condemned NONO’s actions, stating:

“As a well-known public figure, the accused exploited his fame to prey on victims and cause serious psychological and physical trauma. Even after the events surfaced, he showed no genuine remorse or accountability.”

NONO had earlier announced a suspension of his entertainment activities via Facebook in June 2023, stating that he would reflect on his behaviour. Despite his public retreat, investigators continued to pursue the case, even obtaining multiple mobile phones as evidence through a search warrant executed in August 2023.

Case Timeline

Year / DateEvent
2011–2013Alleged sexual assault at massage parlour and molestation in car
May 2023Taiwan’s MeToo movement inspires victims A3 and A5 to come forward
21 June 2023NONO announces suspension from entertainment industry
2 August 2023Police search NONO’s residence and seize phones as evidence
2024Case was initially dismissed by prosecutors
2025High Prosecutors Office overturns decision and orders reinvestigation
4 August 2025NONO formally indicted, prosecutors seek heavy sentence

The case will now proceed to the Shilin District Court, where a judge will determine NONO’s legal fate. If convicted, he could face significant jail time under Taiwan’s criminal law.

This ongoing legal battle underscores the importance of due process and reflects the growing impact of the MeToo movement in Taiwan and beyond, encouraging more survivors to speak out — regardless of how much time has passed.

Wife of Bedok North Crash Victim Searching for Stranger Who Performed CPR on Husband

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The widow of a motorcyclist who tragically passed away after an accident near Bedok North Road is making an emotional appeal to find a Good Samaritan who tried to save her husband’s life through repeated CPR efforts.

The accident occurred on the night of 18 July 2025, at around 10:50pm, in the vicinity of 900 Bedok North Road, close to the NSMen Chalet area. The man’s wife, Hazura, took to social media after receiving an eyewitness account, which revealed that a passer-by — believed to be a Chinese man — had administered CPR “multiple times” before the ambulance arrived.

The heartfelt appeal, posted on Facebook, describes how this unknown man didn’t give up on her husband and even performed mouth-to-mouth resuscitation in an attempt to revive him. According to witnesses, he persisted in his efforts until professional medical personnel arrived at the scene.

‘Please Help Me Thank Him’

In her post, Hazura wrote:

“I am looking for this gentleman — a Chinese man who was present at my husband’s accident on 18 July 2025 near 900 Bedok North Road (NSMen Chalet area) around 10:50PM. He performed CPR on my late husband and tried his best, even doing mouth-to-mouth multiple times to help revive him before the ambulance arrived. Witnesses saw how he did not give up, and for that, I am forever grateful.”

She added that her intention is purely to express her gratitude, not to assign blame or responsibility.

“If you know who this man is — or if you are him — please contact me privately. I just want to say thank you from the bottom of my heart. May Allah/God bless you with the greatest rewards for your kindness and humanity.”

The post has been widely shared online, with netizens hoping the message will reach the man in question. Her plea has also caught the attention of local media outlets such as Shin Min Daily News and Mothership.sg.

A Reminder of the Power of Kindness

While the tragic accident has left Hazura and her family grieving, she hopes that this act of compassion will not go unnoticed. Her message serves as a powerful reminder that even in moments of tragedy, the kindness of strangers can bring comfort.

If you or someone you know has any information about the man who stepped in to help that night, you’re urged to reach out or share the post to help Hazura find him.

Let’s come together as a community to help this family find the man who went above and beyond — not just as a bystander, but as a real-life hero.

WIFE SAY UNHAPPY ABOUT MARRIAGE, HUSBAND TREAT HER LIKE A CHICKEN

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Feeling hopeless & Not being proud of

I am 39, a mother of 3 whose age from 14, 12 and 5yrs old..I have been married for 14 yrs and never once i was happy in my marriage due to my husband unfaithfulness, abused me and my kids years back but things is different now as i have finally apply ppo and now CPS is now working closely with my kids and lately due to the situation giving, my husband eventually able to come home on certain days just to ensure the safety of myself and my 3 kids..Lately everything was fine and i started to believe my husband after many wrong doing he have done and i am giving him a chance to prove that he is wiling to change and to be faithful, loving me and my kids..My husband with the kids is doing great but sadly my husband started to drift apart from..No much hug, love and kiss me..I always felt that i am like a dirt to him..is always me who comes to him and take care of his heart but when comes to me, he just treat me like a chicken..If he want to have S with me, he just do it and if not he just give excuses or move away..Not sure if he still sleep around just like how he used to be when i pregnant with all my 3 kids..

I am tired to be his doormat and i am not sure if he really proud to have me in his life for once or ever love me..I am living for my 3 kids now..I need attention and to be loved and appreciated

#whattodonext# Should i leave him?

Here are what netizens think:

  • Yes, leave him. No one deserves to be treated like a doormat or a piece of rag. You gave him the best part of your youth, gave him 3 beautiful children, and all you get back from him is sadness and grief all these years. Please live for yourself. Kids will grow up and eventually have their own lives too. It’s never too late to start anew.
  • You have made the first step to a better future by applying for PPO and CPS. Now you need to gather the courage to leave as soon as possible, starting by distancing yourself emotionally from him. People rarely change. Since he has shown you the type of person he is, you have to accept it and not hope he will improve.
  • There’s no longer a relationship, it’s just a shell. A marriage on paper only. You can decide for yourself if this is the long term path for you and your kids, or would you like to create a new path and find happiness again.
  • You need to love yourself more. Not ask questions about, I don’t know if he is ever proud or you or love you.
  • Because a man who sleeps around, just do not have respect for you.