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UPSTAIRS VS DOWNSTAIRS NEIGHBOUR, SMOKE GO UP, RUBBISH COME DOWN, SUE EACH OTHER

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In a peculiar case that highlights the challenges of harmonious living in tightly packed urban environments, two neighboring couples in a Housing and Development Board (HDB) block in the Northeastern region of Singapore found themselves embroiled in a legal battle.

What started as a dispute over cigarette smoke and alleged harassment escalated into a courtroom showdown that resulted in unexpected outcomes.

The Smoke and the Rubbish: An Unpleasant Confrontation

The controversy began on the 15th floor of an undisclosed HDB block in the northeastern region of Singapore. Ms. Pua Siew Yok, a resident on that floor, would occasionally enjoy a smoke on her balcony with her sliding door closed to contain the fumes.

Unfortunately, the smoke seemed to find its way into the flat directly above, where Mr. Ng Kok Hwee and Mdm Chua Kim Choo resided.

Frustration grew within the upper unit, and it appears that retaliation was the course of action chosen by Mr. Ng and Mdm Chua.

Their response was both unconventional and unsettling—they started discarding liquids, wet food, and even baked watermelon seeds onto Ms. Pua’s air-con ledge and kitchen window as an act of retaliation.

Claims and Counterclaims: A Legal Showdown

As the situation deteriorated, legal action became inevitable. Ms. Pua accused her upstairs neighbors of trespassing and causing a private nuisance, alleging that their actions infringed upon her right to enjoy her living space without unnecessary disturbances.

In turn, Mr. Ng and Mdm Chua countersued, asserting that Ms. Pua’s smoking was also a form of trespassing and private nuisance that negatively impacted their quality of life.

The courtroom drama unfolded, with both parties presenting their evidence and arguments. To support her claims, Ms. Pua provided CCTV footage captured from her unit.

The footage allegedly showed Mdm Chua dropping an egg onto Ms. Pua’s air-con ledge and scattering melon seeds onto her property. The evidence presented a compelling case of harassment and trespassing.

The Verdict: A Surprising Outcome

After a thorough review of the evidence and arguments, Judge Jonathan Ng awarded Ms. Pua nominal damages of S$500 and aggravated damages of $8,000 for the harassment and trespassing. Additionally, an injunction was issued to prevent Mdm Chua from further littering on Ms. Pua’s property.

However, what truly raised eyebrows was the dismissal of the claims related to smoking. Mr. Ng and Mdm Chua had contended that Mdm Chua’s asthma was exacerbated by Ms. Pua’s smoking. Judge Ng ruled that there was insufficient evidence to establish a direct link between Ms. Pua’s smoking and the worsening of Mdm Chua’s condition. The judge’s decision hinged on the lack of concrete proof regarding the duration and frequency of Ms. Pua’s smoking sessions.

POLY STUDENT TRAFFICKED GANJA TO FUND GAMBLING & ALCOHOL, JAILED AND CANED

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Kwan Jun Yan, a 23-year-old individual, has been handed a stern sentence of 13 years imprisonment and eight strokes of the cane on August 4, 2023, for consuming and trafficking cannabis (also known as marijuana, weed, ganja) when he was still in polytechnic in 2017.

Kwan Jun Yan’s journey into the world of cannabis consumption and trafficking began during his time as an 18-year-old polytechnic student.

Driven by a need for quick cash to fuel his seemingly “extravagant expenses,” which included soccer betting, cigarettes, and liquor, Kwan turned to his supplier, for a “job” to make some quick money.

In a series of events that underscore the influence of peer pressure and misguided perceptions, Kwan’s involvement with cannabis commenced in April 2017.

Introduced to the substance by a friend, he was captivated by the allure of its perceived “coolness” and he smoked weed wanting to look cool and impress people.

As Kwan’s financial needs grew more pressing, he made the fateful decision to approach his cannabis supplier for employment, seeking a means to earn quick money.

Concurrently, he resumed his cannabis consumption. His supplier proposed a proposition: assist in the collection and delivery of cannabis to clients in exchange for a significant share of the profits, which he then agreed.

Kwan’s trafficking operation came to a screeching halt on July 11, 2018. He was apprehended by officers from the Central Narcotics Bureau (CNB) while in possession of a substantial quantity of cannabis. The arrest took place as Kwan awaited instructions from his supplier.

The legal proceedings found Kwan Jun Yan guilty on counts of trafficking cannabis and consuming a cannabinol derivative. He was sentenced to 13 years imprisonment and 8 strokes of the cane. The sentencing takes into account the substantial quantity of drugs trafficked—329.99g of cannabis—and underscores Singapore’s strict stance on drug-related offenses.

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41 Y.O MAN ATTACKED WOMAN WITH HEATED UP HAIR-STRAIGHTENER @ YORK HILL HDB, CHARGED

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A 41-year-old Singaporean man, Herizal Kamarzaman, was charged in court on August 5, 2023, with the offence of allegedly using a heated hair straightener to assault a woman. The alleged incident took place on June 19, 2023, within a HDB unit along the York Hill estate in the Tiong Bahru district.

What happened?

The accused, identified as Herizal Kamarzaman, allegedly inflicted harm upon a woman during the aforementioned incident, using a hair straightener that was heated up to assault the woman, with the victim sustaining injuries to her right wrist.

Herizal faces an additional charge under the Infrastructure Protection Act. The charge alleges that he recorded a video within the premises of the Central Police Division, a protected area, without obtaining proper authorization.

Herizal’s current legal status indicates that he is out on bail, having posted a substantial sum of S$20,000. The next hearing in this case is scheduled for August 18, 2023, allowing time for investigations to reach completion.

The charges brought against Herizal carry substantial penalties, each with its own set of potential consequences.

Should he be found guilty of causing hurt through the use of a heated substance, he may face a jail term of up to seven years, a significant fine, caning, or a combination of these punishments.

Simultaneously, the charge under the Infrastructure Protection Act opens the possibility of an imprisonment term not exceeding two years, a fine of up to S$20,000, or a combination of both penalties.

Adding another layer of complexity to this case is the fact that Herizal is alleged to have committed these offences while he was still on remission from his previous offences.

The period of remission, spanning from September 10, 2022, to May 20, 2024, could potentially result in an enhanced sentence with heavier punishments should Herizal be found guilty.

48 Y.O WOMAN BROKE 2 FINGERS AFTER HER HAND WAS CAUGHT IN MRT DOOR @ LAVENDER

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A train commuter, on an ordinary evening journey home, found herself in a distressing situation as her fingers were caught in the gap between the MRT door and the train cabin, resulting in her breaking her last two fingers, according to a report by Shin Min Daily News.

The incident unfolded on a seemingly routine evening at Lavender MRT station. Ng, a 48-year-old working professional, was on her way home after a long day’s work.

At about 7:35 pm on July 29th, she boarded the train at Bugis MRT station. However, this seemingly ordinary journey took a drastic turn when she found herself in a packed train, compelled to stand near the train door due to the lack of space.

As the train approached Lavender MRT station, Ng’s equilibrium was momentarily disrupted, prompting her to instinctively reach out and place her left hand on the train door for support because she was losing her balance.

In a cruel twist of fate, precisely at that moment, the doors unexpectedly opened, ensnaring her ring and pinky fingers in the gap between the door and the train cabin. The excruciating pain that followed was accompanied by a scream that echoed through the station.

Fellow passengers swiftly came to her aid. Three or four compassionate souls rushed to her side, hastening to close the doors and free her trapped fingers.

Amid the chaos, another commuter stabilized her arm, preventing potentially catastrophic consequences. Quick-thinking individuals hit the emergency button, prompting an immediate halt of the MRT train.

Station staff promptly arrived, providing essential initial medical aid before transferring Ng to their office for further attention.

Following the traumatic incident, Ng sought medical attention at a hospital. The extent of her injuries was evident, leading her to consult an orthopedic specialist, incurring medical expenses exceeding S$200. The severity of the incident warranted weeks of pain medication and treatment.

Ng expressed her hope that her unfortunate experience would serve as a cautionary tale for fellow commuters. The incident underscores the importance of refraining from placing hands on train doors, especially during the crucial moments of boarding and disembarking.

Ng also expressed her gratitude for the benevolent passengers who rallied around her in her time of need.

BF FORCES GF TO WEAR BRANDED TO SHOW OFF, GF ASK HIM TO PAY FOR IT

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I’m a woman in a career field who really doesn’t care about appearances.

My boyfriend is in a job where looks matter more, investment banking. He wears suits and has to present himself as more wealthy to look good at work.

My boyfriend wanted me to come to some work events, dinners or happy hours.

But he said that it was something we’d need to dress up for. I offered to wear some nice dresses I have and he said that it was more than that, his colleague’s wives and girlfriends wore designer and had professionally done hair and nails. And that it really was just what was needed to succeed in his workplace so he considered it a professional expense.

I said that made sense for himself but I’m not responsible for his professional expenses

He agreed to pay for the clothes and salon appointments and I also asked him to compensate me for my time getting “presentable” for those events. Additionally, if he wanted me to act a certain way during these events which were different than my usual behaviour at a social event, it should be treated like work, I’d expect to be paid for my time.

He thought that was unfair, saying that it was weird to charge my boyfriend to attend an event with him. I said that if I’m not attending as myself, but instead presenting an image for business development purposes, that’s not socializing, that’s labour.

He agreed to that at the end, and we came up with a list of things I’d need to attend an event with him… Designer dress, designer heels, jewellery, hair done, nails done, makeup done, handbag… He picked out the dress heels and bag, and he asked me to find salons to have my hair, nails, and makeup done.

When I told him how much the cosmetics appointments and the time I spent on them cost he was upset it was $700. And adding that to the clothes he bought and the time we’d be at the event, it was coming to almost $2000.

We went and I played the part, it was uneventful. Nobody paid me much attention. Felt like a bit of a waste but whatevs.

But afterwards, when I mentioned that I wanted to borrow his card to make an appointment to get the nails removed since I needed them filed down by a professional before work, he got frustrated with me. Saying that I was milking him for money and I was only with him for money. I told him that I make the same as he does.

He got pissed and said that most girls know how to dress themselves and do their own makeup nice, and I got so frustrated I said sarcastically “go date most girls then, I’m sure ‘most girls’ would looove being treated like a human dressup doll!”

He got really mad about that and I feel frustrated too, like he expects me to do unpaid for his work! Like I would never ask him to do anything for my job, let alone do my job unpaid!

So am i in the wrong?

MAN TELLS WIFE TO BE A PROPER HOUSEWIFE OR GO BACK TO WORK

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My wife and I had our second kid two years ago (2 and 6). She took two years off for our first son and is finishing up the two years for our second. Now she wants to be a permanent stay at home mother.

I told her I’m not cool with that. One being that it shifts 100% of the financials onto me and it will create tension. I made decent money and so does she. She’s not even open to WFH.

I explicitly told her that if we go down that route then I expect her to be a proper housewife. I’m talking about coming to clean home, cooked meals, every little thing. Just like how I can’t come up short at my job, she can’t come up short on hers. She’ll have the time because I could find the time if the roles were reversed.

To me, this is like an employee who is asking for accommodations that will result in decreased production no matter what and shifts extra work to other people.

Personally, I do feel like taking advantage of and I’m doing my best to get what I can get so I feel less taken advantage of. Being a stay at home parent is a lot less work than a working parent. I’d gladly be one!

I got immense pushback from her. We didn’t even get to discuss how long the stay at home mom gig would last. I mean I’m not cool with it going on for more than a couple of years. I’d divorce her in a heartbeat if she tried to make it permanent.

Childcare isn’t an issue. The schools have plenty of after school classes, my brother lives nearby and would love to watch them and millions of working parents make it work just fine.

Here are what netizen thinks:

  • Communication is a good tool. Use it. If it doesn’t work, you are already thinking on divorce, so, what do you need from us? Maybe she wants to be an SHM because she knows all these responsibilities will fall on her even if she works, so why double her work while her hands are already full?
  • This guy really thinks being a homemaker and parent is an easy job.
  • The “i would divorce her in a second” comment shows just how little he thinks of his wife. Viewing her as an employee, like his marriage is some kind of business arrangement.

NSF SAW DOCTOR FOR HEADACHE, WHO ACCUSED HIM OF CHAO KENG

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A netizen shared how he went to see a doctor for having a headache and the doctor accused him of malingering (chao keng).

Here is the story

Before you go and attack me and say it’s my fault I found a complaint on google of someone with the same experience with the same doctor.

Went into A&E for constant headache and Lightheadedness and black out. (I was already on MC) The moment I sat down the doctor (non singaporean) asked me , why I came today not yesterday not tomorrow? And I explain but he kept on making the questions more rhetorical and asked me over and over again till i didn’t know how to answer him.

When I mentioned I was on MC already he said so your not interested in serving NS? Then continued asking about my pes Status and what year am I serving ? Why? I raised my voice at him cuz I never said that and that’s a sensitive remark.

Then he was forcing me to answer this question “ Can you open up on the real reason your here? “ I was really speechless I didn’t understand why a doctor would lack so much compassion.

Then he accused me of missing my appointments and when I told him the doctors couldn’t find the cause and didn’t offer to do anymore tests he quickly said no and put his finger to my face????

After the blood take my bp dropped very Low right in front of him and I almost fainted. I think he got scared cuz he didn’t say much afterwards.

Can anyone tell me what he was doing ? Was he trying to accused me for malingering ???

I don’t get it I was already on MC so how could I have been malingering? And could he possibly black mail me to SAF? I’ve made a complaint to the hospital but yet no response.

WIFE KEEP “FORGETTING” HER WALLET SO SHE DON’T NEED TO PAY FOR MEALS

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I usually go out with my wife about every Friday night. When we were dating she very commonly forget to bring her purse or money at all so I would for her but I’ve been doing this for years and I have reached my absolute limit. I’ve been frustrated paying for her before but I never said anything as I didn’t her to think I was selfish.

About a week ago we decided to go eat at a family restaurant with my wife and stepdaughter. In the car, I asked her if she brought any money and she said that she didn’t so I told her to go into the house before we leave and bring some cash. She went in and claimed she brought her purse with cash inside.

At the restaurant we receive our bill and what do you know my wife left her purse in the car. I told her to go bring and gave her the keys. She said it wasn’t in there. I went to check myself and it’s really not there. She looks embarrassed at our table and asks her own daughter to pay for her meal. My stepdaughter was going to do it but I told her to leave it as I would pay.

I told my wife this was the last straw and that she was intentionally doing this.

She denied my accusations and said to keep it down but the minute we got in the car she called me an asshole for just not paying. I responded with the fact that she 100% had the money to pay as she worked a good job and that this was ridiculous. She said I was still being a dick and I needed to think about I just said. I don’t think I did anything wrong.

Here are what netizens think:

  • If you had a problem with this thing she did frequently while you were dating, why did you marry her? Why go for public embarrassment instead of just talking to her? Way to address this in the most passive-aggressive way possible.
  • I know right! Normal husband: chat to your wife at home about wanting to budget together better. This guy : humiliate her in a restaurant in front of her kid, to prove a point
  • She humiliated herself by lying. She said she had her purse. He trusted her at her word. She lied and got caught in a lie. He didn’t say he embarrassed her before when he “knew” she didn’t have her purse. But this time he “thought” she had it, because he specifically “asked” her to bring it and she said she “did” bring it. She “lied.”

MOTHER FETCHED MAID FROM AIRPORT & SPENT DAY WITH HER, NOW COUGHING

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A netizen shared how her mother went to fetch their maid from the airport and spent the day with her, and now she is coughing and she thinks her mother is going to get Covid.

Here is the story

need to vent. I think my mother is so selfish? The maid arrived and she went to the airport to fetch her in the family car. And then she spent the whole day with the maid – masked off!

Already, she has a cold and coughing non-stop with congested chest. Why does she have to put us at risk by engaging with the maid immediately after landing?

I told her to minimize her contact with the maid – let her take an airport taxi to the house where she’ll put up and pass her food at the gate. At least for 3-4 days to clear the ART test.

But NO! She insisted and end up staying a good 8-9 hours with the maid chit chatting.

I have a sinking feeling she’s gonna get covid. Everyone I know who arrived from the maid’s country contracted covid within 5 days of arrival.

Could be that my mother also coming down with something cos she has sudden onset of cold after spending 10 hours in a place of worship (on the pretext of religious worship – but actually all the women are in the kitchen preparing food, gossipping and eating together).

Either way who infects who, I’m just angry cos here we are working from home and minimising social contact, wearing masks keeping ourselves safe.

I’ve already explained to her countless times, and she’ll agree with me, then do another thing according to her own whims and fancies.. and then she’ll come cry to me and vent on me and be all pitiful. So tired of toxic mothers.

HUSBAND’S GRANDMA ALWAYS THINKS SHE IS RIGHT, SHOUTS TO GET HER WAY

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A woman shared how her husband’s grandmother is always shouting to get her way and insisting she is right, getting under her skin.

Here is the story

How do you deal with your husband’s elders e.g. grandmother or grandfather?

I choose to ignore because when you try to talk things out or explain your POV, the elder just gets agitated and defensive. It has reached a point where I don’t even bother to say anything anymore.

A brief background. My husband and I live with his parents and his grandparents while waiting for our new place to be ready. It’s been a year of living together.

His grandmother is always nagging and asking questions nonstop. When she’s unhappy at something, she nags at you. Then she will complain to my in-laws. Then she will call her other children who don’t stay at her and complain to them also. And then she will insist we do things her way. If we try to explain our POV, she gets agitated and raises her voice to insist she is right.

She doesn’t understand that sometimes it’s difficult to try and accommodate her. She says she is always right and she is easy to get along with because her friends (from her morning exercise group) say that she is an easygoing person.

She gets upset and complains to everyone if you cook or buy something and you don’t personally go to her and offer her some. But every time you offer her, she declines. Then if you don’t offer, she gets upset. Or if you don’t offer because it’s meant for someone else (e.g. I bought a cake especially for my husband), she will go and eat it behind your back.

My husband also tried to talk to her about some of her behavior but again, she will get agitated and raise her voice at him also.

Just ranting here because I feel like I’m so suffocated having put up with her for over a year already. Sigh.