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WOMAN NEVER BRUSH TEETH GO TO WORK, WEAR SAME CLOTHES EVERYDAY, CUSTOMERS NOTICING

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Is it ever acceptable to tell someone they smell?

What happens when a coworker smells so bad? Am I supposed to pull them aside and tell them personally? Or just tolerate it and let my nose get violated?

It’s so bad that even customers have been telling me about it.

I’m talking full on bad hygiene;

  1. doesn’t brush her teeth or tongue
  2. wears the same exact clothes day in & day out
  3. leaves oil stains + black fingerprints on everything she touches
  4. comes to work sick; coughs & sneezes everywhere -refuses to take MC or wear a mask & has single-handedly caused everyone in the office to catch her flu on multiple occasions. Including myself.

Nothing to do with a medical condition / monetary issues but it’s just really lacking in personal hygiene.

I genuinely don’t know if it’s too “mean” to tell her or just let her continue being the way she is.

Netizens’ comments

  1. Straight away “Eh you smelly la!”
  2. Tell your boss and let them deal with it. If customers notice, it becomes a professional issue which management needs to address.
  3. Bring it up with your boss regarding the customer issue. Are you friendly with them? If so you could gently bring it up in private conversation..maybe start off by saying you don’t want them to be embarrassed but there have been some customers that mentioned their hygiene situation and you wanted to give them a heads up in case one of them decided mention it to your boss (so that they could fix the issue first before that happens). But yeah if you’re not close to them it’s better to leave it to your boss/HR.
  4. how do you know she does not brush her teeth or tongue? but anyway… for me, I won’t say anything and just tolerate. It really isn’t my business… unless it’s someone who’s a friend or more, then perhaps I would say something

GF LOST WEIGHT & BECAME CHIO, NOW GOT MORE MEN LOOKING AT HER & BF NERVOUS

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My (24M) gf (23F) has been getting more male attention lately, do I have anything to worry about?

We’ve been together for 2 years, she recently had a “glow up” and lost some weight through the gym. She’s been dressing in different clothes and doing her hair and makeup more often.

She used to never wear those type of clothes. I didn’t have an issue with it, I loved her confidence and she was really happy and proud. I’d always compliment her and tell her she looks beautiful.

With the gym, she made some new friends. Again, I encouraged her to be social and make friends. She used to be very shy and had trouble making friends. Her new friends go out a lot, which she never did before. She was a complete homebody.

Now that she’s going out, she’s getting attention, and it makes me really nervous sometimes. She gets excited about it and tells me about it.

Truthfully she’s out of my league now, she always was but it’s very apparent now, and it just makes me worried. I showed a pic of us to a coworker and he thought I was joking when I said she was my girlfriend.

Guys look at her and say things even in front of me, even if she is wearing normal clothes. Like some guy randomly yelled that she’s beautiful yesterday and she was wearing sweats, somehow that’s more annoying than a remark.

We had a fight about it once and I got upset, because her getting excited seems like she wants other guys attention. She said that she never got complimented in the past because she was ugly and now she feels liked.

I just feel like we’re going to end soon and she’ll dump me to find someone better than me.

BF TELLS GF HE WON’T MARRY HER BECAUSE “WOMEN ARE SHAMELESS, THEY CAUSE 80% OF DIVORCES”

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My longtime boyfriend (33M) says he will never marry me (31F) because “women are shameless”

My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 years, and when we first began our relationship he never mentioned that marriage was off the table.

I specifically remember having conversations with him about marriage once our relationship became serious, and he always said that he was “open” to getting married, as long as it wasn’t “rushed”. That was 5 years ago.

In the last year or so, his entire view on marriage has changed. He now says that he has no interest in getting married because “women initiate 80% of divorces” and that “nobody wants to work through the slightest marriage problems” and would rather just “get a quick divorce”.

At the end of his little rant he also said “Nowadays, women are shameless”.

I’m so hurt by this, and marriage was always something that I wanted in my life. My family keeps asking me when we are going to get married since we have been together for almost a decade, but now I have to accept the fact that marriage is never going to happen, and it makes me very sad.

Another strange thing that I have now noticed/realized is how my boyfriend always talks bad about kids being born “out of wedlock” and I have told him that I really want kids, which he said “will happen eventually” but does that mean he’s going to have “out of wedlock” kids with me??

Also, I’m starting to get anxious about my time clock for having kids starting to run out, so I can’t afford him to keep procrastinating and pushing these major life events aside.

He’s my life partner and I still love him more than anyone in my life. I’m just so devastated that I won’t be able to marry the man who I have been deeply in love with for the past 8 years.

Are there any possible solutions to this problem as I see it?

GUY’S CRAZY GF KEEPS LICKING & EATING HIS EYEBROW HAIR UNTIL HE’S LEFT WITH 1 EYEBROW

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[18M] [18F] My girlfriend keeps eating my eyebrow hair

My 18F girlfriend keeps licking and eating my eyebrow hair. I know, its as weird as it sounds. She has essentially removed all of the hair in my left eyebrow and left my right one looking incredibly patchy.

I have mentioned I didn’t like it and she continued anyways. What should I do?

I really love her, I do not want to break up with her over this. She used to be normal until she joined an “eyebrow eating?????” group

We have been together for 3 years at this point, and I want to spend the rest of my life with her, but I cannot do that if my eyebrows are balding.

Plus, recently she bought a really expensive shampoo because she said it “makes them taste better”? What the f???

This has become her obession, and it’s destroying our relationship. I am worried for her and scared.

Thank you for your help in this awkward situation .

EDIT: For everyone asking I don’t let her she mostly does it when I sleep and since I am a VERY deep sleeper she rarely wakes me up while doing it.

Netizens’ comments

  1. What in the world did I just read, tell her to eat her own eyebrows man…
  2. Just because someone likes to do something doesn’t mean you allow them to do it. Tell her if she does it you’ll leave. Then if she does it, leave.
  3. Shave your eyebrows off and draw them on… But watch out she might head for your “other hairs” instead
  4. Sounds like she has trichophagia and doesnt know it. It can lead to hairballs, which can turn into ulcers which can rupture, also causes intestinal obstructions over time. Also it wouldn’t surprise me if she eats her own hair, which is more common. And longer pieces than just eyebrows.
    You can’t control what she does with her own body but you can control what happens with your own. Why are you allowing this to continue? Say no and mean it, and encourage her to get help so she doesn’t hurt herself.

WOMAN’S JOBLESS, ALCOHOLIC BF LEECHES OFF HER FOR 8 YEARS, DON’T KNOW WHY SHE STAYED

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F You Cody

Lazy a-hole. Wasted 8 years of my life to your alcoholic, unemployed, verbally manipulative bulls-t. I’m happy it’s over. I’m happy to be alone again. F. You. Have fun paying your bills without me.

Some people have asked why I stayed so long.

I have a lot of trauma from my childhood and my parents relationship. My mother went through the same thing with my father. I found myself clinging to this man who, personality wise, is exactly the same as my dad.

Subconsciously I was trying to get that love from him that I never got from my dad. I spent years thinking things would change and we would be good. Obviously never happened.

I had a moment of “I can’t do this anymore” and I finally stood up for myself and left.

F YOU CODY

Netizens’ comments

  1. Yeah, f you cody
  2. Yeah Cody, your mother looks like a hamster and your father wears ugly hats sometimes
  3. Just woke up and saw this post. Cody was my childhood dog’s name. I read “lazy a-hole” and I was like yep he was definitely lazy and unemployed then I realized you’re probably not talking about my dog.
  4. Everyone has an instance of “Cody” in their life. To all those Codys, I say from the bottom of my heart, “Go f yourself!”
  5. Cody is such a pos glad you left him, you already seem happier like a massive weight has been removed
  6. Lesson learnt, don’t be a cody in life.
  7. I dated a worthless Cody too, that bastard was married and I didn’t know until after we broke up. F all Cody’s!
  8. Chill, take yourself into account. No significant rash decisions (minor ones – hell yeah go for it). You might be about to learn who some true friends are.
  9. I have to be honest, as a guy named Cody who is not associated I still feel attacked. I apologize on behalf of all Codys worldwide for this guy who gave us a bad name.

WIFE’S APPETITE VERY BIG, HUSBAND KKJ BIG BUT STILL GO OUT SLEEP WITH 2 OTHER MEN

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Found out that my wife of 12 years was hooking with two other men

Six months ago, my( 36M) now ex wife (37F) of 12 years confessed to me that she had been hooking up with two other men over the past year of our marriage.

We got a divorce because she wanted to be with one of the other men that she has been hooking up with. Our marriage seemed to be going great and we had a pretty good life.

I keep myself in shape and I’m pretty well hung down below, as well as I’d like to think I’m a fairly good looking guy. Fast forward to now and I feel completely defeated in bed.

I don’t know if I wasn’t performing up to her standards or what was wrong because she didn’t really want to talk to me about it.

I feel empty and if I try to get back into relationships and start hooking up again, I feel like I’m going to let other women down.

Have any people experienced this with a marriage and if so, how did you get yourself back into the relationship and bedroom game, even with being older?

Side note: I am not looking to bash my ex wife. I am only looking for comfort and advice in the situation.

Edit: I gave my wife a lot of emotion, romantic, and physical love outside of our bedroom. She always complimented me on that. She never mentioned any areas where I was lacking in that department and I always asked her if there were things I could improve on.

Netizens’ comments

  1. I don’t have any great advice, but the first thing you have to understand is that your spouse cheating on you is a HER problem, not a YOU problem.
  2. I was f-ing constantly. Three or four times a day. Didn’t matter. She cheated anyway. Some people are just like that. I have a friend who told me his wife was like an AV star in bed. Anything was possible. She never denied him affection. He cheated on her constantly. Some people are just like that. I know you want closure. You’ll never get it. It’s her. Not you!
  3. It’s not you, it’s her…don’t drag yourself down.

SELF-ENTITLED GROUP BLOCKING SHARED PATHWAY, THEN SCOLDS CYCLIST TRYING TO PASS

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what should i have done in this case?

so i 19F was cycling on a shared path (very wide shared path) and this group of people were standing in a straight line (aka taking up the whole path)

as i cycled closer there was an opening in the middle and i proceeded to cycle towards it ( i was about 10m) away from there

as i got nearer (about 5m) this women standing on the right suddenly moved to the middle, i then rang my bell once and she looked at me but she didn’t budge so i proceeded to move to the right lane to overtake and she fiercely said “keep left”

i’m a very sensitive person and i hate it when people get mad at me

what should i do in the future to prevent this from happening again?

this incident happened at the rail corridor

Netizens’ comments

  1. aiyah she blur just ring ur bell next time as usual
  2. When she shouted at you to “keep left” you should have told that b-c to “keep your mouth shut”, that would be so epic hahaha
  3. I have loud hubs on my bike, don’t need a bell – so usually I just stop pedaling, which makes the hubs go bzzzzzzzz – then I shout “on your right” – this scares most to jump out of the way – but I’m on a little foldie and go pretty slowly when I’m around people.
    Oh yeh, and when pedestrians tell something at me, I just yell back, “single file” like back in the NS days.
  4. Get off your bike and throw the bicycle at her face
  5. Spit at her face
  6. Next time bring a loud haler and turn it up to the maximum volume and aim it at her face then shout “excuse me dua bui zha bor!”

AIR-ASIA PASSENGER LOST $3K OF ITEMS IN LUGGAGE, THEN COUNTER STAFF SCOLDS HIM

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Losing luggage can be a traveler’s worst nightmare, and for one man, his recent flight from Jakarta to Singapore turned into a frustrating ordeal when he discovered that his luggage containing $3,000 worth of items had gone missing, according to a report by Shin Min Daily News.

The traveler, Mr Xiao, boarded AirAsia flight QZ264 with his family on June 5, heading back to Singapore from Jakarta. After arriving at Changi Airport, they patiently waited for their luggage at the designated belt. However, after a 20-minute wait, they realized that Xiao’s medium-sized black luggage was nowhere to be found.

Xiao expressed his distress over losing valuable items. The luggage contained perfumes and souvenirs he had purchased during his trip, amounting to approximately $3,000 in value. Xiao immediately approached the lost and found counter at Changi Airport to seek assistance.

To Xiao’s dismay, his attempts to report the missing luggage were met with an unhelpful response. Allegedly, a counter staff member reprimanded Xiao, threatening to involve the police due to his raised voice. The emotional distress caused by the situation likely contributed to Xiao’s frustration. However, he felt that the staff member failed to comprehend the gravity of his concerns.

Eventually, the staff directed Xiao to file a lost and found report, assuring him that he would receive a response within a week. Despite waiting patiently, reaching out via phone and email, Xiao received no communication regarding his missing luggage.

AirAsia eventually contacted Xiao, but their message delivered disheartening news: they were unable to locate his missing luggage. In an attempt to provide compensation, the airline offered him US$180 (approximately S$243). However, Xiao found the amount to be inadequate and declined the offer. Given the substantial value of the lost items, the compensation offered seemed unjust.

According to AirAsia’s official website, passengers who experience such incidents are encouraged to contact the airline’s customer service for assistance.

A spokesperson for CAG also added that Xiao should reach out to AirAsia regarding his missing luggage, and that they would need more information about the counter staff’s alleged rude attitude before they can investigate further.

S’PORE WOMAN BOUGHT COKE FROM SHOPEE, POUR OUT & FINDS SLIMY BLACK SUBSTANCE INSIDE

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In a world where we expect our packaged food and beverages to be safe and free from any surprises, a woman and her daughter had an unsettling experience with their cans of Coca Cola.

What started as a refreshing sip turned into a disturbing encounter with a mysterious substance hidden within the beverage.

This incident raises concerns about product quality and the measures taken to ensure consumer safety.

Facebook user Venus Mars took to Facebook on Jun. 29 to share her unsettling encounter with Coca Cola.

Having purchased 30 cans of the popular soft drink via Shopee directly from the Coca Cola company, she and her daughter decided to enjoy a can.

However, their excitement soon turned into disgust as they noticed an unusual taste in the drink.

In an attempt to investigate further, they poured the contents of the can, only to discover a dark, gooey substance.

Venus Mars mentioned feeling the urge to vomit immediately upon making the unsettling discovery. The “best before” date on the can indicated that it was still well within the acceptable consumption period.

The incident left Venus Mars and her daughter traumatized, unable to comprehend what they had encountered. The fear of consuming a potentially harmful substance sent shivers down their spines.

With no knowledge of what the substance was and feeling too overwhelmed to investigate it further, they turned to sharing their experience online to raise awareness and seek answers.

Netizens’ comments

  1. Don’t throw it away , call SFA to collect it and they will investigate and inform the public…as coke was drink by millions a day…need to know what happened.
  2. Wish all cans were transparent
  3. Don’t buy drinks nearing to expiry date, i bought 6 bottles of beer from shopee nearing 6 months expiry date and bottles came in mouldy and one even broken, lessons learned.
  4. Call SFA hotline they come to collect send to lab test.
  5. I already stopped buying food and drinks from Shopee. Their quality is really…

WOMAN’S LEG SEVERED AFTER IT GOT “SUCKED” INTO MOVING TRAVELATOR @ BKK AIRPORT

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A shocking incident occurred at Bangkok’s Don Mueang Airport, resulting in a woman losing her lower left leg. The incident took place at approximately 8:40 am on June 29.

The woman’s leg became trapped in a moving walkway after she fell down due to an impact from a piece of luggage.

Reports from Don Mueang Airport confirmed the occurrence of the accident, which left the woman severely injured.

According to Thai media Manager Daily 360 Degree, the woman’s leg was completely severed above the knee and she was then sent to the hospital.

The incident happened in Terminal 2 of Don Mueang Airport, where the woman was preparing to board a domestic flight.

Following the accident, the injured woman was promptly taken to Bhumibol Adulyadej Hospital for immediate medical attention where the hospital staff is providing necessary treatment and care to address her critical condition.

Authorities at Don Mueang Airport have initiated an investigation into the accident.

Closed-circuit television (CCTV) footage will be thoroughly examined to understand the sequence of events leading up to the incident.

The engineering team at the airport has temporarily halted the use of the travelator involved in the accident.
A comprehensive evaluation will be conducted to determine the cause and implement necessary safety measures to prevent similar incidents in the future.

The incident serves as a reminder of the importance of safety precautions and vigilance when using airport facilities and at the time of writing, investigations into the incident are underway.

Other freak accidents

Last month, a woman in Indonesia was found dead 3 days after falling into the gap at an airport lift.

According to a report by Tribun Medan, an Indonesian woman, Asiyah Sinta Hasibuan, fell to her death after falling into a huge gap between the lift and the ground outside while she was exiting the lift.

The shocking incident took place on 24 April at the Kualanamu International Airport in Medan, Indonesia and was caught on CCTV.

Her dead body was later found 3 days later at the bottom of the lift shaft, on 27 April.

The CCTV footage, which has been circulating on social media, shows the woman entering the lift, which has doors on both sides.

The doors behind her then opened first but she was unaware and appeared to be confused as the doors in front of her stayed shut.

The doors behind her then closed and the lift appeared to have stalled as the woman started to panic, as she then pressed the buttons on the lift and took out her phone to make a phone call.

The doors in front of her then opened and the woman then took a step forward, without realising that there was a huge gap between the lift and the floor, and she then fell to her death down the gap.

Asiyah was on her way home at the time when she got a call from her niece who was having problems with her documentation and stopped by the airport staff.

She rushed to the airport and called her niece while inside the lift, and her niece found it weird that her aunt didn’t show up and became unreachable.

The niece then asked the airport staff for help to look for her aunt, but the staff couldn’t find her, saying that they had even checked the elevators, which they described as working fine, with no signs of Asiyah.

The niece couldn’t contact her aunt and ended up missing her flight, and she then reported her aunt missing the next day, saying that she was in a lift at the time when they lost contact.

Staff members at the airport later came across a foul stench coming from the lift a few days later, and a maintenance team was then deployed to check it out, and that was when they discovered her body.

The case was then reported to the North Sumatra Police with the airport authorities assisting them with the investigations, and that was when the police discovered that Asiyah had fallen through the gap when they check the CCTV footage.

A video of the disturbing video can be found here. (Warning: Images are distressing, viewer discretion is advised)