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WIFE SAYS HER HUSBAND IS A “SCUM”, INVESTIGATED FOR HARASSMENT IN OFFICE

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Ahh where do I even begin? My husband was sent home Thursday from work after two hours and stated he “was being investigated.”

Obviously I’m curious why and ask. Welp. He was being investigated for harassment at work. Okay. I don’t make decisions impulsive so I wait till the next day to find out the results as his work says they’ll have it wrapped it by Friday. (This whole time though I’m ignoring him.) he’s giving me this sob story that everyone at work is against him and they’ve all congregated to “sabotage” him.

So Friday comes around and they allow him to keep his job. But he signs an agreement that it happened and it wouldn’t happen again. Something at this point still isn’t sitting right with me so I tell him if he wants me to speak at all to him he needs to tell me the girls name.

He tells me. I go back and forth about messaging her. (I’d never tell him).

I asked the victim

She is 21. (I am 34 and my husband is 40). When she started at their work she was very damaged. my husband began to flirt. They exchanged numbers. He gave her rides home after work. She said in his car he’d ask her to kiss him and she would say no. She said she tried distancing herself from him at work but he started to get weird and aggressive.

She stated he would pull on her hair or grab her butt. He would tap on her shoulders. He would stare at her. She also said if another man at work was speaking to her he would get very mad. She didn’t feel safe. She said she wanted to message me but got scared and didn’t want to make it worse for her. I get that.

What should I do?

18 Y.O MOTORCYCLIST DOES “SUPERMAN” STUNT WHILE SPEEDING, KILLED IN FATAL CRASH

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In today’s digital age, videos have the power to capture attention and spread like wildfire on social media platforms. Sometimes, these videos showcase remarkable feats, while others highlight the consequences of reckless actions.

One such video recently took the internet by storm, featuring a Malaysian biker engaging in a dangerous stunt that ultimately ended in tragedy.

Video went viral online

The incident unfolded when a video, shared widely across various social media channels, showed two motorcyclists defying traffic rules and running through a red light at an astonishing speed.

The video gained rapid traction due to its shocking content, capturing a dangerous stunt known as the “superman” maneuver. Sadly, this thrilling act turned into a nightmare as one of the motorcyclists collided with a car, resulting in dire consequences.

Performing “superman” stunt

As the video played out, it became evident that the motorcyclists were taking significant risks. The footage showcased one biker lying on his stomach, with his legs raised in the air, while the other closely trailed behind.

This brazen act occurred at 4:30 am on June 4th, along the Tun Dr Lim Chong Eu Expressway in Penang, Malaysia. The motorcyclists disregarded the red traffic light, propelling themselves at an alarming velocity.

The ill-fated moment arrived when a car made a turn from the opposite direction. The motorcyclist executing the daring stunt failed to decelerate in time, leading to a collision with the unsuspecting vehicle.

In a fortunate turn of events, the second motorcyclist narrowly evaded the accident, escaping potential harm.

Mat Rempit Activities

Social media users were quick to speculate on the intentions and background of the motorcyclists involved. Many theorized that the two teenagers were participating in what is commonly known as “mat rempit” activities.

This term refers to individuals who indulge in motorcycle stunts and street races, seeking an adrenaline rush and a sense of thrill. While these speculations cannot be confirmed with certainty, they add an intriguing dimension to the incident.

Died at the scene

Tragically, the consequences of this reckless act were devastating. The 18-year-old motorcyclist, identified as Muhammad Akid Mat Rozi, lost his life at the scene due to severe injuries sustained during the collision.

The impact of the accident was profound, not only for the young biker’s family and friends but also for the wider community who mourned the loss of a life filled with potential.

Conversely, the driver of the car involved in the collision suffered injuries to his left hand. The abrupt encounter caused considerable distress and physical harm to both parties, leaving lasting implications for their lives.

Police Response

Following the incident, law enforcement agencies promptly initiated an investigation into the circumstances surrounding the tragic event. Southwest district police chief Superintendent Kamarul Rizal Jenal revealed that they were diligently gathering evidence to determine the sequence of events.

Closed-circuit television camera footage was being obtained, and witnesses were being sought to assist in shedding light on the incident.

Moreover, the police were exploring the possibility of the deceased motorcyclist’s involvement in illegal racing activities before the collision occurred. This line of investigation aimed to uncover any underlying factors that might have contributed to the ill-fated event.

Superintendent Kamarul emphasized the seriousness of the matter and the need for a thorough probe. The case was being examined under Section 41(1) of the Road Transport Act, which deals with reckless driving offenses.

You can watch the videos here.

MOM KICKED ME OUT WHEN I WAS 15, NOW SHE’S HOMELESS & I WON’T LET HER LIVE WITH ME

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I’m 25 years old, I’m writing this to share my story of how my mom ended up homeless and how I was the one who had to make the tough decision to not let her live with me.

It all started when I was 15 years old. My mom and dad had been fighting a lot and things were beginning to get out of hand. One day, my mom had enough and kicked me out of the house. I was so confused and scared, unsure of what to do. I had nowhere to go, so I decided to stay with some of my friends.

It was hard living with my friends, but I was determined to make it work. I got a part-time job to help pay for my expenses, and I managed to save some money every month. I eventually got a full-time job and moved out on my own.

While I was living on my own, I barely kept in touch with my mom. We would talk every now and then, but it was never the same as it used to be. She never asked for anything, and she seemed to be doing ok.

Then, a few years ago, I got a call from my mom. She had been evicted from her home due to not being able to pay rent and was now homeless. I was shocked and saddened to hear this news. I wanted to help her, but I just didn’t have the financial means to do so.

I wanted to offered for her to come and stay with me, but I knew it wouldn’t be good for either of us. I was already struggling to make ends meet and didn’t want to take on the responsibility of taking care of her. So, I told her that I couldn’t let her stay with me.

Since then, I’ve been helping her where I can. I send her money every month to help her with her basic expenses, and I visit her when I can.

Am I wrong for not letting her stay with me?

MAN BREAKS FREE FROM TOXIC FRIENDSHIP LEADING TO A ROAD OF SELF-DISCOVERY

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What I’ve learnt about friendships.

I hang out with this group of friends and somehow am closer to this girl. We started work together and bonded as we were in the same team for years.

As times goes by the rest of the friends started to avoid her. I know its because of her attitude and negative behavior. She tends to be critical and gets angry easily as well as having a sharp tongue. She also cuts people off easily. I have empathy for her due to her coming from a broken background so I usually close my eyes to her behavior towards others. I would also speak up for her when I feel people misunderstood her. She gossips about others but is not bothered when I continued to maintain friendships with people she hate. I guess a part of me feel like a sister to her and I needed to be her moral compass as she indulges in risky behavior too. I get worried for her whenever she describes the men she’s seeing as some were toxic or turned abusive with fights and arguments. Somehow, she’s turned off to date local men who have relationships with their mothers and would always prefer to date men with no moms in their life.

She also admitted she didn’t want me to meet who’s she’s seeing because she didn’t trust her man. She revealed she didn’t want to lose our friendship should the guy want to date me. I didn’t agree with her train of thought as I’ve never betrayed her before but I let it go. I just took it that she has trust issues.

Knowing I am not supportive when I feel there are red flags, she usually only tell me about it when the relationship is over, like a month or two. I don’t recall her dating anyone more than three months. One of the worst one was that the guy was a drunk and beat her up until she landed in the hospital for 2 weeks. She only told me much later.

I start to think she has kept me at arm’s length, even though she claimed I am her best friend.

Our friendship lasted 15 years. The last 5 years, I got married, I felt she grew more and more distant and her behavior towards me got worse the longer we kept in touch. She started to be critical of my marriage, my spouse. Would try to cast doubt in my relationships, especially my marriage. Openly showed that she hated children, including my own. I start to feel that I can’t share my woes with her as she would turn it into a weapon against me later.

I don’t even know why we kept in touch anymore. Soon she showed that she looked down on my family. She’s angry that I’ve ‘abandoned’ her and have taken the passage of life that everyone has taken. I’m surprised she had grievances over my marriage. I start to think she really doesn’t understand me when she easily dismisses me when we talk about things in life.

All this time for the past 10 over years, her mother had been calling me for help to mentally support my friend. I guess that was also part of the reason why I stayed on being friends because I really feel for this friend.

For the first time in our long friendship, we had a huge fight. She refused to support me when I had issues and consistently pushed my buttons. I almost had a mental breakdown. I just needed to talk to someone. I know I sought the wrong person. There was no empathy from her, only cruelty. Only telling me how much I deserved it and she knew exactly what I did wrong and its something she would never be caught in as she knows everything.

For once, I wanted the friendship to be over. So I said the one thing she never wanted to hear. I knew she would never forgive me for saying it as she’s not a forgiving person. I know it was wrong of me to hurt her.

I realised I have also allowed her to abuse me mentally for a long time. After our meet ups, I was always mentally drained and unhappy. I guess her negative energy rubbed onto me.

I have not spoken to her for ages. And I’m sure she would gossip about me like all the other people that’s she has spoke about in spite.

In a strange way, as much I missed the friendship we had, I do not miss talking to her again. I no longer feel stuck or obligated to ensure that she is ok and happy. I don’t miss her spiteful conversations about other people in a cruel way. I most certainly don’t miss how she talk about other couples.

This friendship lasted longer than it should. That’s why it ended horribly. I no longer make myself keep in touch with friends who don’t bother or are unkind.

Its credibly important to surround yourself with kindness and people who are good for you.

Life is cruel enough. Don’t be too cruel on yourself.

GIRL SIGNS CREDIT CARD FOR A MARRIED MAN TO USE, END UP PAY TILL SIAO

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Can I still make a police report someone use my credit card without permission acknowledgement?

With my biggest mistake, I signed credit card for him and given him permission. As he promised pay spending amount before due date and keep me informed. I trust him and say no need always tell me.

After 6 months, just curious open bank credit card statement letter was shocked all transaction women store expenses. So I started to call bank check credit card usage daily. It really ridiculous, two credit card have a transaction same date same time but different location one central one west. Bank staff advised me call merchants find out. WTH… He give my credit card to his wife without my permission. I tested on him, say bank called me there a transaction in Seoul. He told me yes yes his brother bring their mother go Seoul, pass my credit card to his brother help him buy things forget to inform me.

First of all, I already know was a lie and going Seoul was his wife and daughters as Trip.com replied my email flight booking name. As same date his brother and family was in Bangkok. All the lies he came up was fucking smooth , my friends told me terminate card immediate let his family couldn’t spend but I didn’t terminate and I regreted.

When he realised I know his wife using my credit card, he questioned me why I posted his family using my credit card. He always defensive arrogant threaten me, throw back credit card become he was a victim. Since his wife was GCB property agent European car, couldn’t she signed a credit card and should know it’s a crime using someone else credit card without permission. Did he forget credit card its mine and all cards is my principle card. I don’t even know his family neither his family know me too.

I do have all evidence proofs but until now i didn’t make any police report. He and his family don’t even appreciate, still ask their friends reply my post scolded me coward liar show proof out.

MAN TOOK COMPUTER SCIENCE DEGREE FOR THE SAKE OF IT AND END UP AS AN ADMIN

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I’m a failure

Got forced to go to Computer Science course years ago. Never good at it, but managed to get through and got a degree. In the working world, I managed to stay only 1.5 months cause of anxiety and not passionate about programming.

Took another job as an admin, later to public relations for 2 years. Later on, feel like I can do programming, and give that a try. So I took time to learn, but learning gets tough. Decided to resign from my job to fully focus on web developing.

3 months later, I have the basic knowledge of web developing but…I’m still very far from being good….now applying for junior, or even intern job…but everywhere, they expect you to have like 5-10 years of experience, or have knowledge on like, 5 different programming languages, when I only know HTML, CSS, and Javascript…and I’m not even that great in Javascript..

I just…I don’t even know what to do now…I just feel like I’m never going to be great in programming…now, I’m interested to learn Software Testing but I don’t know where to start…

I’m not even the best at my own course… I am now lost in life… Jobless and not knowing what to do next…

Here are what netizens think:

  • Take a step back. Plan our your thoughts. Re-assess the best possible plan. Work towards it with small goals.
  • IMO, you may want to pause and do a SWOT analysis of yourself, before you move further. Understand your strengths and passion to define your career path. Explore the opportunities which may need your experiences and build a portfolio of your achievements (big or small). Good luck and all the best…
  • This is call 3 min passion. Very very bad habit to have. No willpower. Best change or give up and accept.
  • Got forced… If not happy just flunk only. Or go study the course that makes u happy. Nobody can force u.

WIFE CHEATS ON MAN AFTER 24 YEARS, AMOUNT OF YEARS MEANS NOTHING

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I’ve been married for 24 years. We have a 16-year-old daughter. For the past two years, my wife has been living with another man.

I’ve done everything I can, but she won’t move out. She says she still loves me, and that she’ll get back together with me in the future.

But I know that will never happen. She’s a pathological liar, and she’s taught our daughter to lie just the same. I have no social media outside of this place, so I have no defence. She managed to turn everyone against me, including my parents.

It’s been a long two years since she left.

I’ve been struggling to make ends meet, and I’m always worrying about our daughter. I can’t help but feel like a failure. I don’t want to go to work anymore, but I have to. I’ve been trying to stay positive, but it’s hard. I constantly feel like I’m on the verge of a breakdown.

I’ve done everything I can to make her stay, but she won’t. I’ve tried to be understanding and supportive, but she’s not interested. She’s been living with this other man for the past two years, and I have no idea what goes on between them. All I know is that he’s not the man I thought he was.

It’s been a long two years, but I’ve managed to stay strong. I’ve kept the house clean and tidy, and I’ve managed to pay all the bills. I’ve been there for our daughter, even though she’s not interested in seeing me. I’ve kept myself busy, but all I want is for things to go back to the way they were.

But that won’t happen. I know that now. My wife won’t come back, and our daughter won’t listen to me. I’m alone in this fight, but I’m determined to stay strong and keep going. I know that this isn’t easy, but I’m determined to make it through.

I’m determined to stay strong and keep going, no matter how hard it gets. I won’t give up.

MAN BOUGHT CONDO IN KL, BUT GYM CAN NOT USE, NEVER BUY CONDOS IN MALAYSIA

A video haad went viral after a condominium resident was stopped by the security guards and told that he needs to apply for approval before using the gym.

The headed to the gym in the morning, but was stopped by the security guard at the door. He informed that the resident was not allowed to use the gym unless he had applied to the office two days beforehand.

This was ridiculous. Why on earth did the office need two days to process a simple application to use the gym? The man asked the security guard, but he just shrugged and said that was the rule.

The owner of a condo unit in Kuala Lumpur, Selangor said:

“At AmerinMall — After buying the house, remember to apply for the gym in advance on working days, even though we pay enough maintenance fees every month. Remember to inform your boss two days in advance to take leave for the gym. Wait for Amerin office to open and then fill out the form. This is not at all troublesome for the residents here, really not troublesome at all. “Actually, these two “abang” (brothers) are really polite. They haven’t done anything yet. The management is also great; it was just my impulse to go down and exercise without any life planning. All the mistakes, big and small, are my fault.” (sarcastic)

Before go gym in condominium need to apply 2 days in advance

According to the video, residents are required to fill up a form 2 days in advance before they are allowed to use the gym.

This is obviously not true, the security guard in the video was given a bit of authority and wanted to be able to display that “power” that he had after being an uneducated loser his whole life.

This “hero guard” shouts at the resident will. It will end up costing his job

Here are what netizens think:

  • NEVER BUY CONDOS IN MALAYSIA, either build half way got problem, or never build finish or build finish no after sales support like this
  • No choice like 3rd world mentality that’s why $1 is 3 ringgit.

COUPLE QUARREL AFTER WIFE DON’T WANT TO HAVE KIDS, IS IT GETTING MORE COMMON?

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In today’s society, the decision of whether or not to have children has become a topic of increasing importance for many couples.

The traditional notion of starting a family immediately after marriage is being challenged as individuals prioritize personal aspirations, career goals, and financial stability.

Understanding the Importance of Family Planning

Family planning plays a vital role in shaping the dynamics of a relationship. It involves thoughtful consideration of various factors such as financial stability, emotional readiness, and lifestyle preferences. Couples who engage in open discussions about their desire to have children can build a strong foundation for a fulfilling and harmonious future.

Changing Perspectives on Parenthood in Singapore and Factors Influencing the Decision to Have Children

In recent years, Singapore has witnessed a shift in perspectives on parenthood. While the traditional mindset still values having children as a natural progression of marriage, younger generations are reevaluating this notion. They are embracing the idea of individual freedom, exploring diverse life paths, and questioning the societal expectations of starting a family.

Several factors influence the decision-making process when it comes to having children. Financial considerations, such as the high cost of living and the increasing demands of raising a child, often play a significant role. Additionally, career aspirations, concerns about work-life balance, and the desire to pursue personal interests can also affect a couple’s decision.

Impact of a Childless Marriage on Couples and Common Reasons for Conflict in a Childless Marriage

When couples have different views on having children, it can create tension and strain in their relationship. The desire for parenthood can be deeply ingrained and emotionally charged, leading to conflicts that may be difficult to resolve. The sense of unfulfilled dreams and expectations can cause emotional distress and put a strain on the bond between partners.

In cases where one partner does not want to have kids, while the other does, conflicts can arise. These conflicts may stem from divergent goals, societal pressures, fear of missing out on the experience of parenthood, or concerns about the long-term impact of not having children. Communication breakdowns and unaddressed emotions can exacerbate these conflicts.

Societal Pressures and Stigma Surrounding Parenthood

Singaporean society has traditionally placed high value on parenthood, viewing it as a duty and a means of ensuring the continuation of the family line. As a result, couples who choose not to have children often face societal pressures and may encounter stigma. These external influences can intensify conflicts within the relationship and contribute to the couple’s quarrels.

Open and honest communication is crucial when couples find themselves at odds regarding the decision to have children. Both partners need to express their desires, concerns, and fears in a respectful manner. A willingness to compromise and find alternative solutions can help bridge the gap and foster a stronger emotional connection.

MAN RECEIVES JOB OFFER: “OUR WORKPLACE IS VEGAN, YOU MUST BRING VEGAN LUNCH”

 I was excited. I had just graduated with a degree in marketing and had been looking for the perfect job for the past few months. I was thrilled to find this position and was eager to get started.

But then I saw the fine print. The job offer stated that the workplace was vegan-only, meaning that I had to be a vegan if I wanted to take the job. This was a huge shock to me.

 It said that the workplace was a vegan place, and that employees had to be vegan too. I couldn’t believe it!

I’m not vegan. In fact, I’m the exact opposite. I love eating meat and dairy products, and I can’t imagine my life without them. So this job offer was a complete surprise. I was so excited to start the job, but now I felt like I had been tricked.

I tried to argue with the human resources manager, but she wouldn’t budge. She insisted that the workplace was vegan, and all employees had to follow the same lifestyle. I was so frustrated, and I seriously considered quitting. I just couldn’t believe that I had to give up my favorite foods and lifestyle just to work at this place.

Here are what netizens think:

  • I will be a worktime vegan if the pay is good enough.
  • Do you believe in UFOs, astral projections, mental telepathy, ESP, clairvoyance, spirit photography, telekinetic movement, full trance mediums, the Loch Ness monster, and the theory of Atlantis? If there’s a steady paycheck in it, I’ll believe anything you say.
  • this actually seems less annoying than forcing me to attend company team building events n stuff.
  • Most breads aren’t vegan, since they contain eggs and/or milk I think