A netizen shared how she recently got a new job and was sent for a CPR/AED course, and the male instructor lifted up her shirt and bra during the demonstration.

Here is the story:

“I recently got a job as an events organizer and the company sent me for a half-day CPR+AED course with 3 other newbies.

Near the end, the male instructor wanted to demonstrate how males can perform CPR and AED on females. I was 1 of only 3 girls present out of the 15 people in the class so he selected me.

The CPR part was ok, he was v professional in showing how to do it while having minimal contact with my chest.

But when it came to the AED, he stressed that it was very important to remove all clothing before applying the pads.

Then to my horror, he pulled up my shirt and bra, completely revealing my chest to the class. I was frozen in shock as he showed them where the pads should be placed and invited them to look closer, which many of the male students did.

I glanced at the other 2 girls and they looked equally horrified. He droned on about how “modesty is worthless if the person is dead”, “saving her life is the priority”, etc.

While I agree with his statements and concede that he did not touch me inappropriately, I still felt humiliated and wished he hadn’t done it.

My embarrassment intensified when I overheard my 3 male colleagues discussing me in lewd terms after the class.

So my question is, is this worth quitting over? It took me 6 months of applications and interviews to land a job so I really don’t want to, but I just feel miserable thinking about having to work with three creeps who have a twisted perception of me.”

Editor’s note: I highly suggest you report this to the police, really.

My ex girlfriend cheated on me so I hooked up with and started dating her mom. She’s obviously not happy and I think I might be her stepdad someday

Her mom is a widow and hasn’t been with anyone since her husband died 7 years ago. She was young when she got pregnant and is only about 19 years older than me.

She’s one of those older women who takes really good care of herself and she was always really nice to me almost flirty but not really. I dated her daughter for about a year and we always had a good relationship and because she was alone, my girlfriend’s mom and a widow I helped her around the house sometimes.

Just basic handyman stuff like I fixed a pipe once and replaced her water heater for her etc. She was always very nice and always made me lunch and offered me money.

I’d take the food but turn down the cash. She was a nice lady and I loved her daughter so I wanted to make sure she was okay.

Well after I found out my ex cheated on me and we broke up her mom messaged me on Facebook and said she heard we broke up and was sorry to hear that.

She said she was surprised that we broke up because things seemed like they were going well. I told her in a gentle and “not talking bad about her daughter” kind of way what happened and she said she was so sorry to hear that and disappointed in her daughter and that if I needed to talk she was here.

Well I did and we we talked and after awhile she asked if I wanted to come over for dinner and maybe a drink or two.

I got there and she fed me and poured us a couple drinks then things got heated eventually and we slept together.

We started dating and hooking up in secret for a couple months. Honestly I am ashamed to say I only did it to get back at my ex at first but we ended up falling in love and we wanted to be official. We decided to tell my ex over dinner because she deserves to know the truth.

She invited my ex to her house for dinner and she was shocked that I was there of course. Her mother confessed that after we broke up we talked and started seeing eachother and things clicked really well.

My ex was NOT happy to say the least. She called her mother every name in the book while we tried to calm her down then she started attacking me and asking me how I could do this when I reminded her that she’s the one who did this.

I was happy when we were together and she’s the one who decided to cheat not me. I told her I genuinely love her mom and want to be with her and I wanted us to be on good terms and let the past be in the past.

She ended up storming out of the house and driving away. Her mother cried while I comforted her and she hasn’t talked to her mom since that dinner 3 weeks ago.

I’m hoping she’ll come around eventually. Things with her mom are great though. She’s the most wonderful woman I’ve been with and I think this could be it.

The age difference plus dating her daughter previously makes it a bit weird but I want it to work and I think we can get there.

My boyfriend believes that I “owe” him favours in bed because he “puts a roof over my head.”

The title basically says it all. My (F28) bf (M27) has said to me several times that I have to blow him because he puts a roof over my head.”

I have lived in his house with him for the last 3 years, and I pay him rent each month. I buy all of our groceries, cook all of our meals and clean the house.

I go down on him every time we get intimate, and it’s never reciprocated in any sort of way. Our intimate life in bed feels very one sided and unfair from my perspective.

He has said that I owe him multiple times in the past few weeks and it has left me feeling pretty upset and angry.

I have also tried to talk to him many times about how I feel our activities in bed is one sided, however he will ignore me and completely stonewall me whenever he doesn’t like what I’m saying.

Netizens’ comments

Yikes. Even if you didn’t pay rent or buy anything you don’t owe anyone favors. That’s not how relationships work

The fact that you do pay rent makes it even worse

Tell him you will stop paying rent and he can pay for head, and tell him you’re quite expensive

I (M29) felt lonely this weekend so I slept with the woman (F59) I met online on a swingers site

She messaged me a while back but I’ve never been into her. I kept talking to her as she gave me compliments which made me feel good. She’s about 154cm tall, and a little curvy with short hair.

I drove to her and met her near her place. She invited me back to hers and we both knew what we wanted.

She liked being sensual which was quite fun to experience with her. As soon as I nutted I did regret it a little with post-nut clarity, I tried to leave but she convinced me to stay for a drink.

She has amazing b–bs even at that age. She was wearing a low-cut top and managed to seduce me to go again.

The second time was much better and I focused a lot on her chest.

I don’t normally do one-night stands as I need a connection first. I can’t say I found her that attractive but I had a good time I guess.

We both got what we wanted and my drive there was worth it.

I am attracted to chubby/fat women

It seems like this is getting to be a more popular opinion but it can still be very touchy to bring up in a group setting.

Lots of guys will make fun of you for liking bigger girls and it sucks :/. Honestly i also feel a bit of shame for not being able to own up to my preference.

I know some guys who are loud and proud about their love for chunky girls and I want that same level of confidence.

So i guess this is my first attempt at being proud of my attraction. Chubby girls are the best tho!! I’ve been with one for a couple months now and it freaking rocks.

She loves to cook. She loves to lounge around. She LOVES to eat and is always taking me out to try something new and delicious.

She’s the best cuddle buddy I’ve ever had by a mile. And the intimacy in bed is so awesome that its honestly kinda unfair to skinny girls lol.

After typing this up I already feel more confident

A girl shared a story about how she met a “nice” and “wholesome” guy who brought her to a hotel after boasting of his prowess in bed, only to be disappointed.

Here is the story:

“Hello everyone here, first time posting and I need some advice.

So I recently started using a dating app and met a guy there. it started off really well as I thought he was a very wholesome, nice and funny guy.

However, things went downhill after we started meeting up. he started making perverted comments all the time and brought me to hotel 81 under the guise of a staycation.

Upselling himself

He also consistently boasts about his prowess in bed and “Mighty D”, when in actual fact the “m” word we are looking for is “microscopic”.

I honestly don’t know where he gets all this confidence from, and even more confused about how to break it to him that the experience is truly mediocre at best.

Please help provide some advice I am really at a loss of what to do and very scared.”

i just found out i’m related to my boyfriend

(EX BF NOW we broke up because of this) i know this sounds like it’s not horrible but i have no one else except this boy.

He has made me happy and understands me even in difficult situations, i really loved him and after i found out this information a part of me has literally died, i feel like he’s dead to be honest.

It’s a long story and i’ve been advised to keep it private but i just feel so horrible.

we only dated for 6 months but ive liked him for 1 year before that and when he asked me out i was so happy.

it turns out his dad is my dads cousin but we never knew because apparently his dad is ‘dead’ but that’s false info.

it’s so much to take in and not only did he find out his dads alive but we are related. it’s so messed up.

we had an argument once and i was scared we would break up. i don’t know how to handle this..

Hi. I met a girl on CMB and started to go out last Dec. I enjoyed the time spent with her. But there are some problems:

1) She is always busy. Apart from work, she gives tuition and attends other lessons. Hence, we can only meet on weekends (like an hr in the morning) or weekdays evening (2-3 hrs). On public holidays, our meetup is also limited by her tuition schedule. Whenever we go out, mostly is to attend lessons (e.g. sports). I would prefer sth that are more interactive and have spoken to her a few times.

2) She wants to let nature takes its course. We have been going out for more than 7 mths. I have confessed to her a few times but her reply is always to let nature takes its courses.

3) She is more emotional than logical. When trying to have serious discussions with her, she would say that I am assuming, accusing her, or I am selfish, inconsiderate, etc. I was just sharing my views and inviting her to express hers. In the end, the conversation always digressed and what I wanted to talk abt originally was not discussed.

I really want to continue on this relationship (?) with her. But I feel that some problems if not solved, will make it challenging in the future. Also I am not sure if she is interested to take this relationship further.

Here are what netizens think:

• Wtf is “let nature takes its course” ??? Haha stop fooling yourself and find another girl asap!

• Your last sentence is telling. If you aren’t sure if she’s interested, then the answer is pretty obvious. Just continue to meet people. She’s not that into you.

• You are being strung along while she is on the lookout for a better deal. Online dating through apps are like this. She is not giving any commitment. And don’t expect any and dont wait for an answer and most importantly, don’t need to force an answer from her. It is obvious she is not into you. Stop contacting her. Date other women in the meantime. She may contact you back, if not it’s even better, off to the next one.

• U want her time…easy…ask ur mum call her and fixed a time slot with her for tuition…ta-da…..2 hours slot fixed

• Dear OP, I had a similar experience like you. Just had to accept that the priorities she wants and you want are different.In my case she prioritised everything else except working on the rs.Her friends, work, classes family, you name it.Meeting up is always limited to an hour on weekends and she will jet off elsewhere leaving you stranded of sorts. And it was always a challenge to secure the next date. And the next date could be even a month later.So, I decided not to continue, but I continued with my life meeting others who treasured our time meeting up instead.And no, I never got a closure from her. She did not even try to initiate a meet up again even after months of no messaging and contact. Total silence even until today.I guess we all had to move on somehow…