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SINGLE MUM DOWN TO HER LAST $8 AFTER LOSING HER WALLET, STILL GOT 1 Y.O CHILD TO FEED

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In a twist of fate, Nguyen Thi Hai Yen, a 30-year-old single mother working in the catering industry, faced a financial crisis after losing her wallet, according to a report by 8World News.

Nguyen, accompanied by her 18-month-old daughter and nanny, experienced a nightmare during an outing at White Sands in Pasir Ris around 6.20 pm. The trio enjoyed a meal, but little did Nguyen know that this seemingly ordinary evening would take a drastic turn.

The Lost Wallet and the Unraveling Crisis:

  1. Realization the Morning After:
    • Nguyen, unaware of the impending financial storm, only realized her wallet was missing on Wednesday morning.
    • A visit to the restaurant revealed CCTV footage, showing her holding the wallet before the crucial loss occurred.
  2. Contents of the Lost Wallet:
    • The black purse contained $600 in cash earmarked for rent, adding an extra layer of urgency to the situation.
    • Identification card, bank card, and a gold necklace entrusted to her for safekeeping were also lost.

Financial Setback and Rent Woes:

  1. Impact on Rent Payment:
    • With the lost cash intended for rent payment, Nguyen faced an immediate financial setback.
    • Despite her landlord’s understanding, the situation added stress to an already challenging financial scenario.
  2. Dilemma of a Sole Breadwinner:
    • Nguyen, the sole breadwinner of her family, hired a nanny to care for her daughter, emphasizing the added responsibilities.
    • The lost wallet jeopardized her ability to fulfill essential financial commitments.

Gets $1.3k in Donations

According to Shin Min Daily News, after news of the incident went viral, Nguyen received about $1,300 in donations from kind strangers who learned about her plight.

One donor, who spoke to SMDN, said that when he saw the notice that was posted by Nguyen online, he transferred $200 to her without hesitation, adding that he empathises with her and donated to her because she has a daughter to take care, wishing her the best.

Nguyen expressed her gratitude to those who donated, saying that she was very touched by Singaporeans’ kindness.

Additionally, her landlord also understood her situation and didn’t chase her for the rent, allowing her to delay the rent payment because of her situation.

Coping with $8 in the Bank Account:

  1. Financial Desperation:
    • Left with only $8 in her bank account, Nguyen’s financial situation reached a critical point.
    • The meager amount became crucial for practical necessities, like printing notices to seek assistance near her home.
  2. Friend’s Timely Assistance:
    • A friend, hearing of Nguyen’s plight, lent her $100, providing a temporary lifeline during this challenging period.
    • Community support emerged as a crucial factor in navigating the financial crisis.

Social Media Appeal and Community Support:

  1. Facebook’s Role in Widening the Search:
    • Nguyen’s friend suggested a Facebook post to expand the search for the lost wallet.
    • The power of social media became evident as friends, acquaintances, and strangers rallied to assist in locating the missing belongings.

INDIA MAN CARRIED DRUNK WOMAN TO NEARBY FIELD @ TURF CLUB TO MOLEST HER, JAILED

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The night took a distressing turn for a 21-year-old British national as she experienced a harrowing ordeal near a Turf Club Road restaurant in Singapore.

The assailant, identified as Indian national Erugula Eswara Reddy, subjected the victim to molestation after carrying her away from the premises.

He was sentenced on 19 January to 4 years imprisonment and 6 strokes of the cane.

The incident unfolded on the evening of August 20, 2022, leaving the victim traumatized and in need of immediate police intervention, according to The Straits Times.

Background:

In the lead-up to the incident, the woman had been enjoying a night out with friends at the Festivo @ Mr Gallop restaurant. The atmosphere, initially filled with merrymaking, took a dark turn when Erugula approached the victim, making her uncomfortable. Despite her protests and pleas, the situation escalated as Erugula lifted her off her chair, carried her out of the establishment, and proceeded to a nearby field.

Sequence of Events:

  1. Initial Encounter:
    • The victim, feeling tipsy but still aware of her surroundings, had engaged in drinks with friends.
    • Erugula approached her in the restaurant, causing discomfort, and persisted despite her objections.
  2. Abduction to the Field:
    • Erugula lifted the victim off her chair, carrying her out of the restaurant against her will.
    • The victim, unable to see where they were headed, pleaded with Erugula to release her.
  3. Assault and Molestation:
    • In the nearby field, Erugula laid the victim on the ground, undressed himself, and molested her.
    • The victim, in a state of distress, managed to use her mobile phone to seek help from a friend.
  4. Intervention and Arrest:
    • The concerned friend, alerted by the victim’s distress messages, initiated a search for her.
    • Discovering Erugula without any clothes on and the victim partially dressed in the field, the friend called the police, leading to Erugula’s arrest.

Legal Proceedings:

On January 19, 2024, Erugula pleaded guilty to a molestation charge and received a sentence of four years’ imprisonment and six strokes of the cane. The court considered the vulnerability of the victim and the intentional taking advantage of her intoxicated state by the assailant.

MUM-IN-LAW PHOTOSHOPS DAUGHTER-IN-LAW OUT OF FAMILY PHOTO IN LIVING ROOM

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The family photo my mother in law has hanging in her living room has me photoshopped out of it.
Hi everyone, this is a bit of a strange situation and I’m not quite sure how to handle it.

My husband and I have been married for 11 years. His parents recently bought a new home. We (me, husband, kids) went to visit them. The house was beautiful, in the living room there are a lot of beautiful framed photos.

One of the larger ones is a picture of the entire family on a vacation that we took earlier in the year. This vacation was extended family as well, so there are about 20 people in the photo. I also have this photo hanging up in my home.

The difference is-I was edited out of this picture.

In the original picture, I’m sitting next to my husband, holding one of our sons on my lap, while our other son is standing between the two of us.

In this photo, my son is sitting on my husband’s lap and our other son is standing directly in front of him. I know it’s the same photo, my family is making the same exact expressions, it’s not like there was some secret second photo taken without my knowledge.

I pointed this out to my husband who seemed just as baffled as me. He bought it up to his mother who said she had no idea how or why that would’ve happened, she is adamant that she used the same photo that my husband’s cousin sent to everyone in the group text but when we open up that photo I’m clearly in it.

She’s insistent that she has no idea how this happened, (as is my father in law, and he didn’t have anything to do with developing/framing the photos etc anyway).

I don’t have a bad relationship with her as far as I know, I have no idea why she would photoshop me out of a family photo.

EXPAT SAYS HIS SALARY OF $25K/MTH IS ONLY “MID LEVEL”, NETIZENS ANGRY

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An expat shared about the animosity directed at them by locals before boasting of a monthly income of about $20k to $25k.

However, he then went on to describe the salary as mid-level, which drew the ire of netizens who called him out.

Here is what the expat had to say:

“Disclaimer: This post is not targeted at causing any racial tension or calling out either Singaporeans or Expats.

A little about me: I am an expat living in Singapore for just over 4 years in my early 30’s with my spouse and young child (also expats).

Both of us work in Tech at relatively mid-level jobs bringing in about 20-25k total a month.

We believe we live fairly modest lives, came from very average families and very average education.

Context: Of late, it feels like there is a lot of disdain and hate targeted at expats.

While these feelings have always been there and we have faced them, it’s never been as open and blatant as it is currently is.

Question: Do Singaporeans really feel threatened by expats that they will take your jobs, or are more preferred in the workforce?”

Editor’s note: $20k to $25k mid-level? What are you working as? Iron-Man?

MAN STOLE MONEY FROM HIS OWN WIFE TO LEND IT TO HIS SISTER

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A man recently took money from his wife’s account and lend it to her sister. The man feels guilty for doing so without telling his wife. But his sister is the real demon behind it.

Here is the story:

My wife and I have joined finances but she has savings account her grandpa set up for her before he passed. It’s around 40k in savings. We both work IT jobs and get paid fairly well.

She stated to me that that money is for either an emergency or in case we plan on buying our own house. She said that in case I need money for an emergency I’m allowed to use it. I also have access to the account but so far I didn’t use anything.

2 months ago my sister asked me to lend her 5k because she wanted to pay for her wedding dress but her card had expired and kept declining. I lend her 5k but since I didn’t have the full amount of my own paycheck, I borrowed money from my wife’s savings. My sister said she’d pay me back once her new card was ready which would take less than two days. I didn’t tell my wife this because I’d replace the money in two days.

It’s been 2 months now and my sister is putting off on giving back the money she borrowed. She keeps finding excuses on why she couldn’t give it back every time. My wife hasn’t checked the savings account in ages but what if she happens to check it and she figures out 5k is missing?

My best friend says I am honest with her and I should accept the consequences of my own actions for not notifying my wife and not letting her know about the money missing. AITA?

I feel very guilty for this and for trusting my sister.

WOMAN WANT TO SHARE HER FEELING WITH HER CHILDHOOD FRIEND BUT SHE REPLIED AFTER MONTHS

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I am aware that I acted unfairly in this situation. I‘m not expecting my friend to act like my babysitter and be there for me 24/7.

I just wish she would have cared a little more. (I have known my friend since we were kids and we have always been close. 

I‘m currently going through a really tough time (depression and a close family member affected by severe illness). My (best) friend is aware of that and knows, that I don‘t have many other friends to be there for me. I texted her a few months ago, telling her about the illness – she told me she was sorry and that she hopes it will get better.

I haven‘t heard from her for a few weeks/months after that (she was still posting on Instagram, partying with her other friends, going on holiday. e.g.). I then texted her again, asking if she wanted to hang out. She then got back to me a month later like “Oh so sorry, I was very busy. How are you?“. I just answered, “Nevermind“ (which I know was unfair and I wish I could take it back). She got very protective. When I told her that I was just very sad that she didn‘t get back to me and really needed her she stopped answering.

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M’SIANS BEHIND 2002 BALI BOMBINGS, HELD IN INFAMOUS GUANTANAMO BAY PRISON & ALLEGEDLY TORTURED

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The tragic events of 2002 continue to cast a long shadow over Bali’s vibrant Kuta, where bombings unfolded, claiming the lives of 202 people and leaving over 200 others injured. The scars of that fateful day still echo, and recent developments have brought this harrowing chapter back into the spotlight.

The Horrific Day in Kuta

In a coordinated act of terror, a bomber detonated a bomb inside his backpack at Paddy’s Pub, while simultaneously, another attacker targeted a thatch-roof bar just across the road. The aftermath was catastrophic, leaving a lasting impact on Bali’s popular tourist destination.

18 Years Later: Navigating the Shadows

In an unexpected turn, Malaysians Mohammed Farik Amin and Mohammed Nazir Lep found themselves in the hands of Thai authorities, suspected of involvement in the Bali bombings. The arrests reignited the pursuit of justice for the victims and their families.

The narrative took a compelling twist when the two Malaysians, now detainees at Guantánamo Bay, pleaded guilty on Tuesday to conspiring in the October 2002 nightclub bombings in Bali. This admission unfolded years after they were held in the CIA’s secret overseas prison network.

Lawyers representing Farik and Nazir shed light on a dark aspect of their detainment. The Malaysians, along with their Indonesian counterpart Hambali, were allegedly subjected to torture during their time in CIA custody, raising ethical concerns about the methods employed.

The Legal Landscape

On January 16, both Farik and Nazir entered guilty pleas to conspiring in the bombings, a significant development in the legal proceedings. Their commitment to testifying against Hambali, the former leader of the Jemaah Islamiyah, adds a crucial dimension to the pursuit of justice.

As the legal proceedings progress, the trial is expected to delve into the details of the detainees’ involvement in the Bali bombings. The testimonies may provide insights into the planning, execution, and coordination of the attacks, unraveling the intricate web of extremist activities.

Images source: Australian Federal Police, The Star/Asia News Network

GIRL & BF ‘PIAKPIAK’, NOW SCARED PREGNANT BECAUSE PERIOD DELAYED

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Me 20F and my boyfriend 21M, we’ve been together for six months and it is considered ‘long distance’ because he is currently serving the nation and we do not get to meet each other very often.

The last time we met was two weeks ago. We went together for a staycation in a hotel in town.

One thing led to another, he taught me how to kiss, make out and then we started feeling each other to the point where I let him in without protection (he’s my first bf and I was still a virgin).

It was two strokes, half way in, because it was my first time and I could not go further beyond my comfort range, my consciousness came back after that 2 seconds and told him to take it out, to which he was very gentle and respectful about.

I asked him how he felt and he said that he didn’t feel any wetness or his ‘juice’ coming out.

All this happened on the 15th day of my cycle, my cycle has never been off and I have been really healthy and fertile. 8 hours after that, he brought me to get a morning after pill because I told him I was scared. I took it after reading through all the side-effects and what not.

For the rest of the staycay we did it once more protected.

Fast forward to today, I should be having my period but it has not come. I am concerned and scared. All thoughts and worst case scenarios are swarming at me.

Yes it’s only the first supposed day but my nerves have been so tightly wound up I’m really starting to lose sense.

My boyfriend has been sweet about it, he has had a bit more experiences with doing it as he has had girlfriends before.

When I raised to him my concerns, he’d validate it but also try to calm me down by saying conception would not be so easy because it was only ‘two and a half strokes’.

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28 Y.O WOMAN WHO IS A “V”, ASKING ADVICE FOR BEST FIRST PIAK PIAK EXPERIENCE

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I’m a 28F V and past trauma has fed a deep fear of S. is it possible to have a good ‘first time’?

I am honestly insanely scared. I go stiff at the thought yet loads of people have told me that actually having a relationship and going through with it with someone I trust will help the situation.

But I’m so scared, I can’t let anyone touch me. I don’t open myself up at all. I post a lot on different channels because I need to let it out sometimes. A lot of people have contacted me offering to teach me more about S . I’m not an idiot, I’m fairly sure they’re taking advantage of me.

But should I be doing it? Is that the solution? Texting strangers about S online?

Is there any hope for me? I’m scared it’ll hurt and me horrible and literally that I’ll ask the person to stop and they won’t. Or that I’ll just lie there frozen.

Because in the past I’ve always kicked into a freeze response. My brain just shuts downs. My clothes have always been on, except unfortunately in March when a man handed his hands under my shirt and on my breasts while taking my ‘measurements’.

I’m such an idiot, I just trusted him and I thought the bad feelings were residual from when something similar happened when I was 14. I have to block it out all the time. My breasts were the only place no one else had touched me till now. And this recent weekend I’ve been trying to update my wardrobe and I’ve been getting so stressed out buying clothes and I think it’s something to do with what happened. I got a bra fitting done and I started crying in the changing room.

Gosh, sorry about the ramble. I can’t sleep and this has been on my mind for weeks and I thik I just needed to say it. I’m in therapy but it’s all new and they’re still trying to figure out if they can help me. I’m wondering if I need to drop out of therapy and just deal with it myself. I’m so confused, I feel I’ll never be safe with men.

SIAO LANG DRIVER HOLDS BABY OUT OF CAR WINDOW WHILE WAITING AT TRAFFIC LIGHT @ GOMBAK DRIVE

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In a disturbing incident on January 16, 2024, at approximately 7:06 PM, a man was spotted holding his newborn baby out of a car window along Gombak Drive. The eyewitness, who captured the incident from the rear-view mirror, expressed horror at witnessing the act. The video was also shared on the SG Road Vigilante – SGRV Facebook page.

Driver Did It Twice

The eyewitness reported the incident, stating that the driver repeated the concerning action twice in succession. The incident occurred at a traffic junction outside the Ministry of Defence (Mindef) premises along Gombak Drive.

The eyewitness raised alarms about the safety of the newborn, highlighting that infants are typically supposed to be secured in a car seat cradle while traveling.

According to the account, the mother of the newborn was in the front seat of the car, carrying the baby at the time of the incident. The eyewitness expressed shock and concern over the apparent lack of proper safety measures for the newborn.

Risk To Baby’s Safety

The act of holding a newborn out of a car window poses significant risks to the infant’s safety, as it goes against standard safety practices. Newborns are required to be securely fastened in car seat cradles to ensure their protection during car journeys. Holding a baby out of a car window not only violates these safety norms but also exposes the child to potential dangers on the road.

It is crucial for parents and caregivers to prioritize the safety of young children by using appropriate safety equipment such as car seats designed for infants. Such measures are in place to prevent accidents and injuries during car rides, and their proper use is a legal requirement in many jurisdictions.

This incident underscores the need for public awareness regarding child safety in vehicles. It is a timely reminder for parents and guardians to follow established safety guidelines to protect the well-being of infants and children while traveling.

What The Netizen Said

Not sure what this driver was doing yesterday evening 16 Jan 24, 7.06pm outside Mindef as he held his new born baby out of the window like this twice in succession as I watched from the rear view mirror in horror.

New borns are supposed to be strapped to a car seat cradle but the mother was carrying the baby at the front seat.