A girl shared how she got scolded by her boyfriend while having intercourse with him over his positioning and her feeling pain, they even stopped midway just to argue.
Here is the story:
“Are there fellow females out there who was scolded by their boyfriends during intercourse?
Me and my bf were getting it on but he was hurting me (i thought it was due to the angle he was hitting it at) so I kept telling him to centralise his body, he shifted a few times but I was still feeling pain whenever he thrust so I kept telling him to move to the centre.
he then got angry at me and shouted “it’s already in the fucking centre la”.
there were also other times when we would argue mid-intercourse due to our rs problems (he would start shouting at me and we would stop intercourse halfway cos our mood was spoilt).
Traumatized
I feel like he has traumatized me and my perception of intercourse bc of the bad experiences I had w him, and I don’t know how I’m going to ever heal from this.
I can’t be the only one who was scolded and shouted at during intercourse right? (it wasn’t in a kinky way btw, but he was legit mad at me)”
Editor’s note: Just scold him back and stand up for yourself.
Shoplifting is a prevalent issue in society, impacting businesses and communities alike. Surveillance cameras play a crucial role in addressing such incidents, providing law enforcement with valuable information.
In the heart of Bukit Panjang lies a popular shopping destination, Bukit Panjang Plaza, where a recent shoplifting incident has occurred. The police are now seeking the community’s assistance in identifying the individuals involved.
The Need for Public Assistance
Public involvement is vital in solving crimes. Citizens are encouraged to come forward with any information related to the incident, fostering a sense of responsibility and community ownership.
Shop Theft
theft in dwelling under Section 380 of the Penal Code. The offence carries a jail term of up to 7 years and a fine.
Deputy Prime Minister Lawrence Wong recently emphasized the People’s Action Party’s (PAP) steadfast commitment to combating corruption, stating that it is an integral part of the party’s DNA. In the wake of former transport minister S. Iswaran facing 27 charges, including corruption, Wong addressed journalists on Jan 18, highlighting the non-negotiable nature of the PAP’s stance on corruption, according to The Straits Times.
Maintaining Integrity Amidst Challenges
Deputy Prime Minister Wong asserted that the PAP Government would continue doing everything in its power to uphold the highest standards of integrity, incorruptibility, and propriety. This commitment, he emphasized, is vital for maintaining the trust that Singaporeans have placed in the government.
The remarks came following the legal developments involving former minister Iswaran, who faced charges of corruption, obtaining items through business dealings, and obstructing justice. Wong expressed sadness and disappointment at Iswaran’s departure from politics under these circumstances, acknowledging the potential impact on party morale.
Despite the challenges posed by the situation, Wong reiterated that the PAP would not allow the incident to compromise its zero-tolerance stance against corruption. This commitment, he emphasized, remains a top priority for both the party and the government.
Proactive Pursuit of Justice
Wong highlighted that the investigations into Iswaran were initiated by the Corrupt Practices Investigation Bureau (CPIB). The government, he said, pursued the matter decisively and proactively after CPIB completed its investigations. The subsequent decision to proceed with charges, independently assessed by the public prosecutor, showcased the commitment to justice.
In court, Iswaran pleaded not guilty and is currently out on bail amounting to $800,000. DPM Wong clarified that the case would have no impact on succession and the planned leadership transition within the PAP.
Moving Forward: Leadership Transition and General Election Plans
Wong affirmed that the PAP’s leadership transition, scheduled before the next general election and the party conference in November, remains on track. He assured that the recent case would not derail the party’s succession plans.
Regarding the timing of the general election, Wong emphasized that the government’s focus is to continue its work, redoubling efforts to improve the lives of Singaporeans. When the general election comes, the PAP intends to present its report card to Singaporeans, seeking to earn their confidence and trust.
Code of Conduct for Ministers: An Evolving Framework
DPM Wong addressed the Code of Conduct for Ministers, emphasizing that it is not a static document. The Code, in place since 1954, continues to be updated. Wong pledged a review and update, considering the experiences and learnings from the recent incident.
Acknowledging the disappointment, shock, and sadness among civil servants, especially those who worked closely with Iswaran, Wong highlighted that there was no whistle-blower or tip-off. CPIB pursued the matter independently, conducting a thorough investigation that left no stone unturned.
DPM Wong stressed the determination of the PAP Government to keep the system free from corruption. He expressed hope that civil servants would recognize this determination, ensuring that Singapore remains special and can move forward with confidence in the future.
Transcript of DPM Wong’s Interview
Transcript of Deputy Prime Minister and Minister for Finance Lawrence Wong’s Doorstop Interview on the Corrupt Practices Investigation Bureau (CPIB) Investigation on 18 January 2024.
DPM Lawrence Wong: As all of you are aware, the investigations on Mr Iswaran were initiated by the CPIB (Corrupt Practices Investigation Bureau). And since then, the Government has been pursuing the matter decisively and proactively.
The CPIB has completed its investigations. The Public Prosecutor assessed the findings independently and this morning they decided to proceed with charges against Mr Iswaran. There are 27 charges in total – two charges of corruption, 24 charges of receiving gifts as a public servant, and one charge of obstruction of the course of justice.
Mr Iswaran has resigned as a Minister and MP and a member of the PAP, and the Prime Minister has accepted his resignation. Chee Hong Tat will be appointed Transport Minister. Grace Fu will be appointed Minister-in-Charge of Trade Relations.
We are disappointed by what has happened. We are saddened and disappointed that Iswaran has to leave politics under these circumstances. But the PAP’s stance on corruption is non-negotiable. This is part of our DNA. There can be no compromise, no relaxation, no fudging of this, no matter the political price.
The PAP government will continue to do everything we can to uphold the highest standards of integrity, incorruptibility, and propriety. That is how we maintain the trust that Singaporeans have placed in us.
The Straits Times: Given that Mr Iswaran has indicated that he will claim trial, are you concerned about how this will affect your leadership transition, as well as the timeline for the GE (General Election). As well as the level of trust amongst Singaporeans in the 4G leadership, and within the party of course.
DPM Wong: Mr Iswaran has claimed trial, so the courts will make the decision and justice will prevail, I am sure, through the process. This is how our system works. As far as (leadership) succession is concerned, there will be no impact. We have announced that the leadership transition will take place before the next General Election and before the party conference this year. This plan remains on track.
Will this incident have an impact on the party and party morale? I have no doubt that it will, but we cannot allow this political hit to compromise our zero-tolerance stance against corruption. And that is why the party, the government, will continue to do the right thing and do everything we can to keep our system corruption-free. I believe Singaporeans expect no less from us.
Channel NewsAsia: How will the Government be looking to tighten the process through which the Ministers might receive or reject certain gifts that they might be offered?
DPM Wong: There is a Code of Conduct which sets out the principles and rules in which Ministers should act, and their personal affairs. The key principles underpinning the Code are clear; they are sound; they are valid. For example, on gifts, Ministers should not receive gifts that place them under obligation in a conflict-of-interest position.
That is stated in the Code of Conduct. Of course, the Code of Conduct is not static. It has been in place since 1954 and it continues to be updated. And we will continue to review and update the Code, taking into account the experiences and learnings from this incident.
But I should also say when we look at our system in Singapore, it is a system where we do our best to try and prevent and deter corruption. It does not mean that there will be no corruption; it does not mean that there will be no incidents; from time to time cases do emerge, as we have seen in past years.
But that is why CPIB is also a key part of the system. And they will investigate any incident thoroughly and when necessary, take action as they have done in this case.
CNA: Mr Iswaran was anchor Minister for West Coast GRC in the previous election. With his departure from the PAP, will this affect the party stance on when to call for the next General Election?
DPM Wong: He was anchor Minister for the West Coast GRC. Minister Desmond and the elected MPs in West Coast GRC are now taking care of residents in West Coast Division, as they have been doing since Mr Iswaran’s leave of absence.
As for the timing of elections, I have already said, leadership transition happens before the General Election. So as and when that happens, we will think about when the elections have to take place thereafter. Meanwhile, the focus for us is to continue and press on with the work of government – because the work of government must continue. And we will continue to redouble our efforts to improve the lives of Singaporeans.
When the GE comes, the PAP will present our report card to Singaporeans, and we will do our best to earn the confidence and trust of Singaporeans.
Lianhe Zaobao: We understand that some civil servants are a little bit unhappy or maybe sad that the incident has cast doubt on the Civil Service; on their good work. How has the incident actually impacted the Civil Service’s morale?
Also, we separately heard that when the incident first saw light, there were some saying that some civil servants were aware of Mr Iswaran’s behaviour. If there indeed is such a case of someone knowing the incident but not reporting, would there be a follow-up on this?
DPM Wong: CPIB pursued this matter on its own accord. This was what the Prime Minister had explained earlier in Parliament. There was no tip-off; there was no whistleblower. It was CPIB that uncovered the matter, reported it up; the Prime Minister agreed for the investigation to proceed. And CPIB has done a thorough investigation – they have left no stone unturned, they have dug deep and wide, and they have presented their full investigations to the AGC (Attorney-General’s Chambers).
The AGC has decided to press charges against Mr Iswaran. But the AGC has also explained that it will look at the investigations against Mr Iswaran first before deciding whether or not there will be other decisions to be taken against others who are involved in this matter. So, the matter is still not closed. It is still in progress.
As for the impact on the Civil Service, I am sure there will be many civil servants who are disappointed, shocked, saddened by what has happened, including those who have worked closely with Mr Iswaran all these years.
But I hope the civil servants will also see that what has transpired is the determination of the PAP government to keep our system free from corruption. That determination is clear, and we will not compromise on our zero-tolerance stance against corruption.
That (i.e. our zero-tolerance stance against corruption) will ensure that Singapore remains special; that will ensure that Singapore can continue to move forward with confidence in the future.
In a deeply unsettling case, a former National University of Singapore (NUS) student, Ng Yong Kuan, has been sentenced to two months’ jail for installing motion-activated spy cameras in female-only toilets within an NUS dormitory. The 27-year-old, suffering from schizophrenia, pleaded guilty to voyeuristic offenses and criminal trespass on January 18.
He was sentenced to 2 months imprisonment and is expected to begin serving his sentence on 1 February.
The Disturbing Incidents
Ng’s disturbing actions took place while he was staying with his sister in an NUS dormitory. Exploiting the vulnerability of the female-only toilets, Ng installed motion-activated spy cameras disguised as smoke detectors in October 2019. The cameras, were strategically placed on the ceilings, capturing unsuspecting women in the act of showering.
Ng also placed a phone on a ledge facing the door of the toilet so that he could be alerted if there was someone approaching the toilet.
Ng purchased two motion-activated spy cameras for approximately S$200 each and installed them in female toilets on different floors of the dormitory. He would retrieve the cameras after a week, transferring the captured content to his laptop. The offenses came to light on March 7, 2020, when Ng was caught in the act in the 12th-floor toilet.
Legal Proceedings and Sentencing Considerations
Ng pleaded guilty on November 14 to charges of possessing voyeuristic recordings and criminal trespass. The court took into account two other charges related to voyeuristic imagery when determining the sentence. Notably, Ng’s schizophrenia played a crucial role in sentencing decisions, with three psychiatrists affirming that his mental condition was a contributing factor to his actions.
Schizophrenia, a severe psychiatric illness, alters the perception of reality for individuals. Those suffering from this condition may experience hallucinations, paranoia, and delusions. In Ng’s case, psychiatrists noted his belief that people were watching him, and he installed the spy cameras as a response to this paranoia, seeking revenge against perceived threats.
Legal Arguments
The court considered a mandatory treatment order, which directs offenders with mental conditions to undergo psychiatric treatment instead of serving jail time. However, the prosecution advocated for a jail sentence, emphasizing Ng’s planning and control over his actions, as evidenced by his careful entry into the toilets and retention of the recorded videos.
Deputy Public Prosecutor Selene Yap argued that a jail term would serve as a deterrent against future offenses. Yap pointed out Ng’s ability to plan his actions discreetly, showing a level of control over his behavior. Ng’s defense argued that his crimes were psychotically driven, not rooted in deviant sexual behavior, as described by one of the psychiatrists.
Air Asia, known for its budget-friendly approach, has stirred curiosity with its ticket pricing model. The transparency of their pricing, however, takes an interesting turn when examined across different devices.
Significance of Device Discrepancies in Ticket Prices
The impact of device-based pricing raises questions about fairness and consumer awareness. Understanding these discrepancies is crucial for travelers seeking cost-effective options.
Sharing a personal experience highlights the relatability of the issue. Booking a flight for a specific route and date adds context to the exploration of pricing intricacies.
Date and Time Selection: 26/Jan/2024, 5.40 pm
Detailing the specifics of the booking, including the date and time, establishes the scenario for the pricing examination.
Ticket Price: Rm209
The primary focus on the ticket price sets the stage for the subsequent revelation of disparate baggage prices.
The man said:
Booking Flight ticket from Johor to Kuching for my Mother In Law.
26/Jan/2024 5.40pm flight Ticket Rm209 But Baggage show 3 different prices.
A guy shared how he had already agreed to go for a friend’s wedding a few months back but had tested ART positive a few days before his friend’s big day.
As the guy is working part time, he does not have any medical benefits and furthermore is not paid for days he did not report to work.
Due to this reason, he mentions that he has no money to give his friend angbao and therefore did not want to go for the wedding.
However, he was too shy to admit it and he decided to use his ART positive result to siam the wedding though in actual fact, he has already recovered from the virus.
Here is the story
I had agreed to go for a friend’s wedding a few months back but however as the date approached, I kena tested positive.
As I am only working part time without any benefits, giving my friend an ang bao would be too chor for me and I myself will also be paiseh to go without giving an angbao.
However, I had to plan my excuse properly to make it realistic, so I swabbed myself 7 times on the first day of being tested positive to have 7 ‘positive’ kits.
There and then, I dated all the kits for 7 days and proceeded to send a positive ART kit image to my friend in the buildup to the wedding.
I wanted to create an image to show him that I was not feigning my illness and I really wanted to go.
In fact, I tested negative on Day 4 but I continued to tell him I was positive.
His wedding is actually on my supposed Day 6.
I felt bad at first but convinced myself that it is better than me not having money for myself by going for the wedding and giving that angbao.
In a disturbing case that unfolded after a night of heavy drinking, a 39-year-old Filipino man faced sentencing on January 18 for attempting to rape his intoxicated female friend.
The incident, which took place in 2019, resulted in a four-year-and-six-month jail term along with three strokes of the cane for the offender, who cannot be named due to a gag order protecting the victim’s identity, according to The Straits Times.
What Happened?
The incident took place on 1 April 2019. The group, originally friends from the Philippines, had relocated to Singapore for work. They went out for drinks at a bar, with the accused, the victim, and their respective partners.
The night took a dark turn when, in an intoxicated state, the accused and the victim boarded a taxi together, leaving their partners to find another cab. During the taxi ride to the man’s home, he took advantage of the victim’s incapacitated state, placing her hand on his private parts before groping and molesting her throughout the journey.
Upon reaching his apartment, the accused further violated the victim’s trust by attempting to rape her. Despite her weakened state, the victim resisted his advances, crossing her legs to prevent the assault. The man eventually desisted, leaving the room after failing to carry out his heinous act.
The gravity of the situation intensified when the victim’s boyfriend unexpectedly arrived at the apartment, prompting him to take her back to their home.
The victim, disturbed by the incident, confided in her friends and sought help from the Association of Women for Action and Research (AWARE), a women’s support group. She experienced nightmares and panic attacks for several months. Seeking recourse, she attended a counseling session on May 14, 2019, before eventually filing a police report on May 27, 2019.
Despite the victim’s initial efforts to seek help, she discontinued counseling sessions by July 2019 due to work commitments. The offender, now convicted, was granted bail of $50,000 on January 18, with an order to surrender himself at the State Courts on February 13 to commence serving his sentence.
In the State Courts on Monday (Jan 15), the accused pleaded guilty to attempted rape, with two charges for molestation taken into consideration. The prosecution, led by Deputy Public Prosecutors Emily Koh and Muhamad Imaduddian, sought a sentence of five years’ jail and six strokes of the cane.
The Police have arrested two men, aged 32 and 33, for their suspected involvement in a case of currency exchange scam.
On 16 January 2024, the Police received a report from a victim allegedly involved in a currency exchange scam. The victim had responded to an online request from one of the men, seeking his service to exchange Singapore (SGD) currency to Chinese (RMB) currency. He then met up and transferred SGD$8,900/- worth of Chinese currency, amounting to RMB$49,840/- into an overseas bank account belonging to one of the men. After he transferred the money, both the men fled without exchanging any Chinese currency.
Through extensive enquiries and with the aid of CCTV footage, officers from Woodlands Police Division established the men’s identity and arrested them within two hours. The duo had perpetrated the scheme to cheat the victim. Police managed to recover SGD$4570/- from the defrauded amount, whereas the other monies had been dissipated to overseas bank accounts.
The men will be charged in court on 18 January 2024 for the offence of abetment by conspiracy to cheat under Section 420 r/w Section 109 of the Penal Code 1871. The offence carries an imprisonment term of up to 10 years and a fine.
In a somber incident at the junction of Ang Mo Kio Street 22 and Ang Mo Kio Avenue 1, a collision between a motorcycle and a lorry resulted in the tragic death of a 21-year-old man, according to The Straits Times.
The incident occurred around 6:15 pm on January 17, leaving a community in shock and prompting a thorough investigation by the authorities.
Details of the Accident
The young motorcyclist, whose identity has not been disclosed, was rushed to the hospital after the collision but succumbed to his injuries, as confirmed by the police. The circumstances surrounding the accident are currently under investigation, and authorities are working to piece together the events leading to the tragic outcome.
An eyewitness, speaking to Chinese news outlet Shin Min Daily News, recounted the harrowing scene. The witness described seeing the motionless motorcyclist lying in the middle of the road, prompting immediate actions from individuals at the scene. One person assessed the injuries, another directed traffic, and a third called for emergency assistance.
According to Shin Min, the lorry driver, a 29-year-old, and several passers-by attempted cardiopulmonary resuscitation on the injured motorcyclist before the Singapore Civil Defence Force arrived at the scene.
Lorry Driver’s Perspective
The lorry driver, visibly shaken and sitting on a curb, shared his account with Shin Min. He mentioned that he was preparing to make a right turn when he suddenly heard a loud noise, causing the lorry to sway. Immediately reacting, the driver checked on the motorcyclist and promptly informed his manager about the incident.
The manager, speaking to Shin Min, emphasized the driver’s extensive experience and cautious driving habits. He clarified that the lorry was stationary when the collision occurred, raising questions about the circumstances leading to the tragic accident.
The Police have arrested a 45-year-old man for his suspected involvement in a case of theft of motorcycle.
On 8 January 2024 at about 1pm, the Police received a report from a victim stating that his motorcycle parked at a carpark along Telok Blangah Crescent was purportedly stolen. The stolen motorcycle was recovered by the Police on 12 January 2024 along Tampines Street 45.
Through ground enquiries and with the aid of images from CCTV and Police cameras, officers from Central Police Division established the identity of the man and arrested him on 16 January 2024 along Tampines Street 45.
The man will be charged in court on 18 January 2024 with the offence of theft of a motor vehicle under Section 379A of the Penal Code 1871. The offence carries an imprisonment term of up to seven years, and a fine.
The Police would like to advise all motorcycle owners to adopt the following crime prevention measures:
Park your motorcycle in well-lit areas;
Install an anti-theft alarm for your motorcycle;
Use a motorcycle canvas to cover the motorcycle, securing both ends;
Use additional locking devices such as disc brake locks or install a suspension guard;
Remove the ignition key and lock the motorcycle, whenever it is left unattended; and
Do not leave spare keys inside the motorcycle storage box.
