I (21M) am convinced my (20F) wife’s pet rabbit thinks my wife is his mate, it is ruining our marriage

It all started when I was dating my wife. I met her four years ago and we have been dating all 4 years. She has had the rabbit since before I met her.

The little bastard is old and saggy and partially blind. Some parts of his body is missing patches of fur because he pulls it out to make a nest for himself and my wife.

When we met the rabbit was not a major issue. It would scratch and bite at me but my wife assured me he was just nervous to have another person in her apartment as my wife and the rabbit lived alone since my wife was 18.

We have been married one year now and the rabbit is wreaking havoc on our marriage but my wife refuses to do anything because to her the rabbit is her baby and she loves it more than anything.

When I first moved in the rabbit did not do much to me or us other than the previously mentioned bites and scratches but he shows my wife too much affection for just a owner.

We will be doing anything and she will have the rabbit with her on top of her chest on her breasts licking them and her face. She will not put it down at all whenever she is home with it. We eat dinner, he is there, she goes to the bathroom, he comes with, she is showering? He waits outside for her, watching her nude in the shower. Wife does not even let me in the bathroom with her.

It has gone to the point where whenever I show my wife affection the rabbit seeks revenge on me. Sometimes not immediately but at times he does attack me on the spot when I kiss my wife. Sometimes I find little tiny brown balls, his poop in my closet.

Another thing is that she lets the little ugger roam free all day but nighttime and when we are making love. This was not previously the case but after an accident during lovemaking and much long conversations I convinced my wife to put the rabbit in its cage when we are making love.

But now whenever I am making love to my wife, like clockwork, the little bugger knows what we are doing and screams at the top of its lungs until my wife abandons what she is doing, even without clothes on and comes to the smug little fella’s rescue. He is doing this out of pure spite.

I am aware that rabbits only scream when very stressed or in danger but he is in his huge cage because my wife spoils him only during night and when we make love, I swear he is doing this to ruin our marriage. He thinks my wife is his mate and wants to get rid of me.

I have scars all over my body from bites and scratches and my life refuses to do anything about the rabbit or how much time she spends with it.

We are in couples therapy and our marriage is very rocky. What do I do?

I GET NO ALONE TIME

My boyfriend (28M) and I (22F) have been together for 3 years now, and as the title states, I have z e r o amount of alone time.

I work, I come home, and as soon as I come home he gets off of his video games and we spend the day laying in bed. If I get up to want to do one of my hobbies, he complains I don’t pay attention to him.

7/7 days of the week I try to spend time with him, do absolutely NOTHING for hours while I watch him play his game and talk to him about it, I try to initiate intimacy in bed as much as possible, I’ve taken us out on dates every. Single. Weekend. for the past few months.

I’m the only one working, so we can’t really afford to get out and do much during the week, but i haven’t been able to do any of my hobbies, go anywhere, or do anything by myself for any period of time in over a month now.

Even when he was working it was maybe for an hour or two 3 days of the week. the few things I’ve tried to initiate doing on my own; he suggests we do it together and if I mention wanting to do them by myself, he gets extremely hurt and says I need to give him a chance to show me patience and kindness.

(ALOT of things we’ve tried to do together have not gone smoothly, especially if he’s not in control).

WHAT DO I DO IM GOING CRAZY LOL I love him to death but personal time is healthy and he gets 8-9 hours everyday and, but I’m not allowed ANY and I don’t want to hurt him by needing that, but it does, how do I get through respectfully.

Netizens’ comments

• What do you find attractive about a nearly 30 year old who is unemployed and codependent?

• So, what exactly do you get out of this relationship? Because it sounds like a job with no pay. There’s a reason why a 25yo dates a 19 year old and it’s because he’s looking for a bang maid. Which is what you are at this point

Story of my family’s encounter with a ghost pretending to be my mom

The following story were told to me by my grandmother a few years back. She was visiting us a few days ago when I asked her to re-tell us the story. I don’t know if it’s true or not, but I believe her, being a person who believes in ghosts, spirits, god etc. It goes as follows:

It was when my mom was in 6th or 7th grade. The year was 1991, I guess. All my grandma’s daughters (a total of 5 sisters, including my mom) plus her son were home.

My granddad was at work at the time. It was around 9 pm at night, all my aunts, including my mom, and my uncle were all huddled in the bedroom with my grandma.

Then, there was a knock on the door. My grandma, being the brave woman she was, went to answer the knock. Before she opened the door, she asked who it was.

And to her shock, someone said “It’s me. Let me in”. The only catch was, it was my mom’s voice. ah ma (that’s what I call my grandma) was shocked to hear it. It was obviously not possible that it would be my mom, as she was sitting inside.

Now, after hearing the voice, my ah ma knew something had to be done to protect her kids. So, she told everyone to grab a weapon. When everyone was armed with either kitchen knives or long wooden sticks , they went to the door and my ahma shouted “WHO’S THERE? I KNOW YOU’RE NOT MY DAUGHTER!”.

There was silence, and then, they heard a very, very, VERY creepy laugh. WAY creepier than any horror movie.

They waited a few minutes, then my mom, being the oldest, got fed up and opened the door. There was no one there, except a piece of thread worn on the feet.

The thread was not there before, my ahma told me, and the front gate was locked. Everyone was spooked out and they went to bed. Nothing has happened since.

My mom doesn’t remember anything, but I guess its a given, since its been 31 years since this incident. She’s 43 now

A netizen shared how she bought her boyfriend a Nintendo Switch as a surprise for the anniversary but is afraid he’ll find out before the anniversary as the box is too big.

Here is the story:

“Hi everyone, please help a sister out. I got my bf a switch for the anniversary and I have no idea how to surprise him. You see my idiotic self told him I didn’t get him any physical gift, just a voucher for a restaurant we both love. Given that the box is so huge, i don’t know how on earth I am going to bring it around without arousing any suspicion.

I know I dug myself into this hole but I was trying sooo hard to sell the idea that I seriously did not get a physical gift for him cos the dude would be able to guess what I got for him if he knew I got him a gift.

So to the switch lovers/gamers out there, how would you like to be surprised with a switch?

Thanks, everybody!

Editor’s note: That’s really sweet, surprise or not, I’m sure he’ll be over the moon.

Here are what netizens think:

• To have a gf that respect what the guys love, please marry her.

• What a dreamy girlfriend, my gf disrespects me and tell me to stop playing games.

A netizen shared a story about how a fortune teller told him that he would “tio 4D” but the only “D” that he “tio” was an “STD”.

Here is the story:

“I saw a fortune teller who charged me $10 to tell my fortunes.

I have always been a believer in these kind of things and i thought to myself, since its only $10, it can’t be a scam right?

I can’t remember what he said but he mentioned that I was very “wang”, which means lucky in chinese.

He added that I would have an unexpected windfall coming my way very soon, and he advised me to do more good deeds.

Well now that he told me, it’s not longer unexpected is it?

I had my hopes up and every Wednesdays and the weekends, I would religiously buy more than $50 worth of 4D.

It has been over 3 months since that meeting with the fortune teller, and the only money that I won was a iBet consolation prize, i won $30 from a $10 bet.

And maybe the fortune teller got it wrong when he said I would “tio” something because last month i went for a health checkup and found out that I had herpes, an STD.

Tio 4D don’t have la, the only thing that I tio is STD la knn.

My life is ruined.”

Editor’s note: Although there isn’t any cure for herpes, there are anti viral medications that can help prevent outbreaks bro. This one really suay sia lol

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I gave birth to twin boys 4 months ago and love them with all my heart. I thought my 42-year-old husband felt the same. He had been distant with me since even before my boys were born, but he seemed to love them.

Over the weekend he revealed that he has an 18 year old girlfriend and has now left to go live with her, saying he no longer wants to see our children again.

I will be ok as a single mother in the sense that I was the one paying all our bills and was able to juggle working freelancer online and taking care of the kids since my STBX didn’t ever change a diaper but just played with them. But wow. My kids are going to grow up without a father. Maybe they’re too young for it to hurt as much. I don’t know.

Where do I go from here? Will my kids be ok? Never imagined this. Ever.

Here are what netizens think:

• My god your husband is a child. Walking out of his two babies for someone who is basically a child themselves. Your sons don’t need THAT for a dad but I hope someone is looking out for you and that other girl too.

• As a 50+ male, I just don’t get it. 18 is a child in my mind. No offense to 20 to 30 year old’s but those fall into that category in my mind too (maturity wise). if I were single I would not date anyone less than 40 because I just don’t think I’d be comfortable with anyone less than that age. Totally gross.

• You don’t get it because you’re a good person who wants to date a partner/equal instead of someone they can own & control. At least that’s my interpretation of people who do what he’s doing.

• 18 is still a child. I didn’t feel like a proper adult until like last year when I was 27. I can’t imagine what an 18 year old and a 42 year old has in common. This guy is a groomer and should be investigated.