This really creepy thing happened and we don’t know what to do. Can someone please give me advice

Hey guys, me and my girlfriend moved to a new apartment at the beginning of this year. We are both very sceptical about ghosts/paranormal activities etc. But after the last few days we are both really on edge. I would like to get your guys opinion because we both don’t know what exactly to make of the situation and what to do now.

It began a few months back when me and my girlfriend were lying in bed talking and suddenly my girlfriend just froze and started breathing very heavily. I asked her if everything was okay and the only thing she could do was shush me. After 3-4 minutes she told me she saw a woman right above me just staring at me the whole time. We didn’t really think anything of this it was sort of just a creepy experience. However more of these so called sightings have happened in the past few weeks. It’s always a girl looking at me or a man in the corner of the room trying to make contact with my girlfriend. Still we always just blamed it on sleep deprivation because we do tend to party a lot and sleep late.

This was until two days ago. I was in bed with my girlfriend again and the same thing happened. She saw a guy in the corner waving at her. Because I didn’t really believe in ghosts or anything I started to make a few jokes (not too kind I know but I was really sceptical at the time). My girlfriend told me I really should be quite for a moment. After she said this I saw a look in her eyes which I will never forget. She grabbed my arm very tightly and after about 1 minute she said she had the feeling that something had scratched her. We do have 2 cats but they were both not in the room with us. After talking for a while I looked at her shoulder and yes: I saw a really big scratch mark on her shoulder. This was the moment that I knew something was not right. After doing some research the following day we agreed that we would just not make any jokes about it and ignore it for as much as we could.

Well tonight the real horror began. After watching a movie and falling asleep peacefully I am woken up by my girlfriend shaking in bed the whole time. After not responding for a minute she started to suffocate. I ran to the lights to see what was going on. Luckily she woke up and after asking if everything was okay she told me that she saw everything happen from te corner of the room where she normally sees the man standing. She had the feeling that she was being pulled into some other space. She didn’t know what is was but the only thing she knew was that she definitely had to avoid this space.

After talking for a few minutes (keep in mind my girlfriend was really scared the whole time) my girlfriend turned to me really casual and said: “babe let’s just go to sleep.” I was weirded out by this a lot because she had been panicking for the last few minutes. I also saw a really calm, yet aggressive glance in her eyes. I told her I wanted to turn the lights back on and talk for a bit. However she just kept on pushing me to go to sleep. I had the feeling something was terribly wrong so I tried to test her reaction with a few jokes that we always make with each other. She didn’t react AT ALL. She just kept saying “it’s fine let’s go to sleep. My girlfriend HATES laying on her back and here she is laying on her back the WHOLE time. I really did not know what to do. After having the same conversation with her for 15 minutes with me wanting to turn the lights on and her reacting in a really firm way saying I SHOULD go to sleep now. She just turned around and started shaking again. I ran to the lights and as soon as I turned them on I saw her normal look again. The most terrifying part of all is that she did not remember a single part of the conversation which literally happened 10 seconds before!!

We are now both sure that there is something here with very bad intentions.

I am just really looking for advice about what to do with this. If anyone has had any similar experiences in the past please tell us what you did to make this nightmare go away.

Netizens’ comments

• Move out NOW

• That might not be a ghost. It might be something worse. I’m worried for your girlfriend. Could you two stay anywhere else for a couple of days?

• that is something evil, not a ghost, you should leave that place.

All I want is for someone, anyone, to look at me and tell me that I am enough, as I am – and mean it.

I did well throughout school, work, have a good job and would be considered reasonably successful by external observations/standards, but I’ve never felt like I have been of any significance to anyone.

There’s always this feeling of needing to be able to do more, be more useful, find more ways that I can be helpful to those around me.

Which I do, and do get appreciated for, but I still feel like all that is just using talent to cover up that I don’t matter.

Yet there’s so many people around me who seem to have families and partners that embrace them for who they are, not what they do.

They may not be as professionally successful as me, but I yearn for what they have And it feels like there’s something wrong with me, like some basic part of being human is missing in me.

I just feel like no matter what I achieve and how high I climb, I’ll never be enough as a person. Something is letting everyone else shine, but why don’t I have it?

Sorry for the rant. I don’t even know what solution I am looking for by posting here. Thank you for reading.

Netizen’s comments

The biggest mistake most people made is thinking that achievements define happiness.That’s so wrong.

Most people achieve alot, but still feels empty inside. Some have big houses, but they don’t have a home.

Some have king size beds, but they don’t have a good night sleep.True happiness is wanting less and appreciate more.

As for you, the most important person that you need appreciation from is yourself. If you don’t even appreciate yourself, no one else matters.

And if you still think you are not good enough despite your achievements, I challenge you to go to a hospice for children and ask yourself this: Why are they so cheerful even though they know they don’t have much time left.

I don’t want to work, or go to class, or see anyone, I wish everyone would just leave me alone.

I’m so tired of having responsibilities. I don’t want to do this anymore. Why do I have to work and socialize with coworkers and see people who don’t make me happy just to stay pleasant and on good terms with others..

I’m so tired of life and being an adult this is ridiculous and miserable.

You’re telling me you spend the beginning of your life being happy so that you have to grow up and deal with this crap?

What’s the actual point?

Netizens’ comments

• Same 23 and dealing with this now, honestly a big F U is all I wanna tell everyone.. I hate this s— but yeaaaaa I guess it’s growing up lol

• This was me 20 years ago, and it gets worse. People degenerate and the FAKEness doesn’t last long.

But I realized I needed to focus my attention on what brings me joy.

• You’re not wrong for noticing certain truths about our societal conditions, but the desire to run away from it is taking the position of surrender, and giving into that while there is still other options is foolish. This isn’t your fault for feeling like that, your biology has been pushed to the point that it no longer is functioning correctly as it should to succeed, grow, develop, and have a natural curiosity and drive for life.

What are the other options? There’s plenty, except many time when we are in abject suffering and stuck in certain mental/physical states we cannot see them, because we are ill and limited in our perception.

The basics are finding ways to minimize stresses in any way possible, and then work on building up the self to become strong and able to contend with the world. Nutrition, safety, relationships, environment, and medication can all be deployed to build up the individual to become a completely different instantiation of themselves, one who is no longer the same damaged individual who struggled to contend with the social order of humanity, and ideally one who can then become a part of the change of human order, but at the least one who is no longer personally suffering and instead has a positive, hopeful, and loving disposition to life.

I (18m) have always loved my mom because of what she did for me and my sister, but now I feel just hate and resentment towards her now.

This started in 2021 when she had thrown a small party for a UFC fight that was going on that night. I really didn’t care so most of the night i was on my phone.

I was asked many times to play drinking games with my mother and her friends but I don’t like alcohol and I don’t really want to get drunk around my mom. My mother on the other hand was enjoying herself and her friends were also.

Later in the night by 11pm many people went home, but there were just 3 guests, me, and my mother left. She and her friends were all enjoying their night by taking shots and basically just drinking a lot.

I had work in the morning so i had told them to enjoy their night and please keep the noise down so that I’ll hopefully get some rest.

After an hour of them basically not caring I come out to tell them please to be a little more quiet because I have work early the next day.

I was met with them not really paying attention and basically brushing me off the rest of the conversation.

There was one of her friends, let’s call him Larry. Larry said to me, “Hey just to let you know, it’ll probably be like this the whole night.” He gave a very we don’t care about you type attitude.

I was fed up at this point, they were playing music, drinking, and laughing so loud that i could hear it over the music.

I made a decision to move into my moms bed because it was a little farther away from where they were. To no avail I still couldn’t really fall asleep.

Fast forward to about 4am in the morning and I hear a moaning noise. At first I thought that it was someone watching adult videos, but then I realized that it was my mother.

To clarify my room and her room are basically right next to each other. She was getting intimate in my bed, in my room, where I sleep.

I was absolutely livid. It went on for a while, I honestly played music on my phone so I wouldn’t hear it. After sometime I find out it is Larry whom my mom slept with on my bed.

I wait until he leaves and it’s time for me to go to work, I get up and start packing my things. My mom gets up and I let her have it, I rip into her and let her know that she is disrespectful of my space and how I always respect her and who does this to their son.

It ended with us having a major argument and me moving in with my dad. We talked about it over breakfast on a later date and she apologized, but I don’t think I can ever see her the same as I saw her before.

I know that alcohol makes you do crazy things but I never thought to this degree. I have talked to her a number of times but recently I have blocked her from texting me.

I developed major trust issues with women because I thought they all were going to humiliate me like my mother did, I have major problems with anxiety so I now feel emasculated, my self confidence is non existent, and it still haunts me to this day.

My family is telling me to forgive her but I haven’t told them the full story because my mom doesn’t want them to know. I honestly am at my wit’s end, I still love her but I just never want to be put in a situation like that ever again.

Need relationship advice????

We have been in a relationship for almost 4years.

So my bf has a girl bestie he knew frm gaming, he already quited gaming since 2022. Thy don’t usually contact until she broke up with her bf in 2022. The girl doesn’t really have much friend and kinda negative/emo. So since she move out from her bf hse, she rented a hse nearby my bf house because it is near to public transport. She dont drive.

So whenever she need to rant or smoke buddy, she will ask my bf to go over her hse. Initially, I was like ok, she just broke up, u can go and console or be her listener. Bt then now already year end of 2023, she will still ask my bf to go for smoke/chat/ranting. I started to feel uncomfortable and voice out like why are you always available to girl whenever thy need ranting? I understand if thy don’t really communicate alot, something happened, and she need someone to talk to, but not like every month or every few month right? I really dont understand why sometimes the girls keep asking someone’s bf for ranting or like hangout eventho she know he have a gf.

So my bf reasoning was she doesn’t have much frn. In my mind i was thinking, he asked me to stop chatting with one of my guy colleague or even eat with him. His reasoning was he feel uncomfortable of that guy. So now i feel uncomfortable bcz of this, bt he keep saying that they are just brother/friend. He have to be there for her to rant. I don’t smoke, so usually he will smoke far away from me or whenever he is in the office with his colleague.

Anyway, idk what I’m saying anymore. Am i too insecure or my feelings is valid? Girls out thr, pls let me know ????

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In the quiet village of Wang Nam Khiao in Thailand’s northeastern province of Prachinburi, a wedding turned into a nightmare as the groom, Chaturong, opened fire, leaving four dead, including the bride, before turning the gun on himself. This shocking incident unfolded on Saturday, November 25, casting a dark shadow over what was meant to be a joyous celebration.

I. Introduction

A. Overview of the Tragic Incident

The serene village of Wang Nam Khiao was shattered by an unthinkable tragedy during a wedding ceremony. Chaturong, a former para-military forest ranger, represented Thailand in the Paralympics for swimming and shooting. However, this achievement did not shield him from the mental anguish that led to a horrifying act of violence.

B. Importance of Understanding the Motive

While the incident is deeply distressing, understanding the motive behind such crimes is crucial. This article delves into the sequence of events, the couple’s background, and the recent measures taken to curb firearm violence in Thailand.

II. The Wedding Day

A. Background of the Couple

Chaturong and his bride, Ganchana, had been together for three years before deciding to tie the knot. The wedding was anticipated with joy, but as events unfolded, it became evident that not everything was as harmonious as it seemed.

B. The Atmosphere During the Ceremony

Friends and family gathered to celebrate the union, but the atmosphere took a turn for the worse as the evening progressed. Observers noted a sense of unease, particularly in the groom’s demeanor.

C. Signs of Unease in the Groom

At some point during the celebration, Chaturong left abruptly, raising eyebrows among the guests. Little did they know, he was about to unleash a tragedy that would shock the community.

III. The Unraveling Tragedy

A. Groom’s Departure from the Celebration

Chaturong’s sudden departure marked the beginning of a horrifying chain of events. He returned with a 9mm handgun, turning a joyous occasion into a nightmare.

B. Return with a 9mm Handgun

The groom’s return with a weapon took everyone by surprise. The festive atmosphere quickly turned to chaos as Chaturong began his rampage.

C. Shocking Act of Violence

In an inexplicable act of violence, Chaturong shot and killed Ganchana, her mother, and sister. The bullets also hit two other guests, one of whom succumbed to their injuries at the local hospital.

D. Injury and Casualties Among Guests

The aftermath of the shooting left guests traumatized and the community in mourning. The injured were rushed to the hospital, and the authorities were called in to investigate the devastating incident.

IV. Investigation

A. Law Enforcement Involvement

Local law enforcement quickly responded to the scene, securing the area and initiating an investigation into the motive behind this tragic event.

B. Initial Findings on the Motive

Preliminary investigations suggest that the couple had a heated argument during the reception. Witnesses reported that Chaturong’s insecurity about his disability played a significant role in the dispute.

C. Eyewitness Accounts of the Couple’s Argument

Eyewitnesses recall a tense exchange between the bride and groom, hinting at long-standing issues that may have contributed to the groom’s emotional breakdown.

D. Groom’s Insecurity and Fears

Chaturong’s insecurity about his physical disability, stemming from a previous accident that cost him his right leg, seemed to have intensified on the wedding day. Concerns about Ganchana leaving him may have triggered the tragic outburst.

V. The Groom’s Background

A. Chaturong’s Past as a Para-military Forest Ranger

Before the tragic events of the wedding day, Chaturong had served as a para-military forest ranger, demonstrating courage and commitment to his duties.

B. Accidental Loss of His Right Leg

A mishap during a mission led to the loss of Chaturong’s right leg. Despite this setback, he overcame challenges and even secured a silver medal in the 11th ASEAN Para Games held in Indonesia in 2022.

C. Sporting Achievements in the Paralympics

Chaturong’s sporting achievements highlight his resilience and determination, making the wedding tragedy all the more perplexing.

VI. Recent Gun Control Measures

A. Thailand’s Interior Minister’s Decision

In response to escalating gun violence, Thailand’s Interior Minister, Anutin, recently signed an order to suspend firearm permits for a year.

B. Aim of Curbing Gun Violence

The government’s decision aims to address the rising concerns of gun-related incidents, providing a backdrop to the unfortunate wedding shooting.