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GIRL FEEL FRIENDSHIPS THESE DAYS ARE “TOUCH-&-GO”, FEELS LONELY

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Does anyone feel that friendships forged nowadays are just touch-and-go?

As per the title. All the friends that I’ve made seem to be acquaintances more than friends, and it’s so hard to have a genuine connection.

Lessons are still online for me, and even though I’ve joined a CCA, we mainly just talk there and then during the activity, which just ends there.

Even online, mainly joined interest groups and we all mainly go out as a group, which I appreciate as a way to make friends in general, but not a way to forge a genuine connection with someone.

On a side note, does anyone feel that it’s very hard to ask your friends out at times? I’m in my mid-20s, and some of my friends are working, some studying.

I’ve asked them once, twice, and eventually stop asking them cuz I don’t wanna bug them, then there will be no meetup because the other party doesn’t take the initiative.

They’re usually busy or the meetup is just postponed indefinitely. Is this normal? I can text a friend for 1-2 months often and not meet.

Feeling dejected as I feel I have friends here and there, yet somehow I still feel lonely.

I know I’m sounding negative, so hopefully someone will be able to change my perspective of looking at things?

CURRY PUFF BOSS FIGHTS WITH ELDERLY MAN @ HONG LIM FOR TAKING PHOTO OF STALL

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The weekend at Hong Lim Complex took an unexpected turn when a dispute unfolded at Tanglin Crispy Curry Puff Original, at Hong Lim Complex.

What seems like a trivial incident has deep roots in a longstanding family feud, adding layers of complexity to the situation.

The Curry Puff Stall Altercation

According to Shin Min Daily News, the altercation occurred last Sunday morning, with the elderly man allegedly taking photos of the stall.

The owner of the stall, 57-year-old Peter Ng, told SMDN that he had seen the elderly man walking around outside their stall and appeared to be photographing their stall.

Mr. Ng’s attempt to inspect the man’s phone led to a scuffle, prompting a police report and medical attention.

Ng approached the man and asked to check his phone, to which the latter refused, before his fiancee stepped in and tried to grab the phone from the elderly man and a scuffle ensued.

Both parties ended up getting injured, with Ng’s fiancee and the elderly man suffering scratches in the process.

Ng then called the police to the scene, and the police force confirmed that they have also received a police report.

Background of Tanglin Crispy Curry Puff Original

Tanglin Crispy Curry Puff Original, a corner unit at Hong Lim Complex, has faced scrutiny from the Singapore Food Agency recently, being accused of not wearing masks during food preparation.

This incident follows a previous occurrence where the same elderly man was suspected of taking photos, raising concerns about potential complaints.

Family Feud: Origins and Intensity

The proximity of Tanglin Crispy Curry Puff (without the “original”), run by Mr. Ng’s younger brother Ray Ng, adds fuel to the family feud. The rivalry between the brothers is exacerbated by the closeness of their stalls, leading to suspicions that the elderly man’s actions are connected to the family discord, according to Shin Min Daily News.

The roots of the family feud trace back to their father’s decision to retire and split the business between the brothers. Conflicting narratives emerge, with each brother blaming the other for the split. Mr. Peter Ng suggests his brother’s unwillingness to return the original stall led to the second stall’s opening, intensifying the rivalry.

Ng Family’s Perspectives

Differing views on the business split and allegations against Mr. Peter Ng’s fiancée complicate the family dynamics.

The father, Ng Yong Cheong, adds another layer by suggesting that the fiancée caused problems and even led to his hospitalization. Ms. Yang, the fiancée, counters these claims, asserting unfair treatment and mistreatment at the hands of the patriarch.

Complications and Hospitalization

The family issues take a toll on Ng Yong Cheong, leading to hospitalization. Ms. Yang’s confrontation with the patriarch reveals deeper conflicts, including accusations of misreatment and being labeled a “mistress.” The complexities of family relationships intertwine with the curry puff business, impacting both personal and professional aspects.

GIRL FOUND MANY MARRIED MEN ON DATING APPS & DON’T BELIEVE IN MARRIAGE ANYMORE

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I’m in my mid-20 (F) trying to find my next bf on dating apps…sometimes for casual fun.

On these apps I came across guys (mostly those who are dtf) who were up for the casual fun portion, and said that they are single but do not want rs.

Since I was looking for casual fun when talking to these guys, I didn’t care much when they said they didn’t want to get into rs. After a while of being fwbs/having casual hangouts, I found out (without them knowing that I did) that they were married, some even with kids, and having great rs with their wives. Of course, I broke things off with them once I found out but such high number of people cheating on dating apps makes me doubt the trust between couples…

I’m sure there are wives who cheat too so this is not limited to only guys. I’m not very experienced in the dating field and I’m not sure if this is the ugly side of romance/adult world. Just want to hear from everyone (especially married couples):

Do you get married with full trust in your partner that he/she won’t cheat? Or do you get married knowing that one of you may cheat but choose to ignore and not think about it?

Etc. Kind of scared to get married knowing I can’t fully trust any partners now..

WOMAN CHASED BY KNIFE-WIELDING MAN @ GEYLANG, SAVED BY OTHER MAN WHO GOT STABBED HIMSELF

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In the quiet vicinity of Geylang Lorong 25, a Sunday night took a horrific turn. On November 12th, at 8:13 PM, a bald man was seen wielding a knife and attacking a long-haired woman, according to Lianhe Zaobao.

What transpired next was an unexpected twist involving a heroic kick, a knife wound to the abdomen, and a flow of blood that shocked witnesses.

Eyewitness Account: The Tale of a Heroic Kick

Li Kui, a 49-year-old electrician, was at an ATM, withdrawing money when he witnessed the entire incident. He recalls, “A woman in a black-and-white striped dress came running out of Lorong 25, screaming. She was being pursued by a bald man brandishing a knife, a truly frightening sight.”

In a tense moment, the bald man caught up with the woman near the ATM, grabbing her long hair with one hand and raising a fruit knife with the other. Luckily, a bystander intervened just in time.

“At the critical moment, a kind-hearted man leapt from behind, executing a flying kick that struck the bald man’s shoulder. This caused him to lose balance, allowing the long-haired woman to escape the imminent danger.”

The Unexpected Consequence: A Knife to the Abdomen

As the long-haired woman fled, the heroic man attempted to subdue the bald attacker. However, in the ensuing struggle, the bald man managed to stab the hero in the right abdomen. Blood splattered on the ground, creating a gruesome scene.

Li Kui expressed relief that another man in red, witnessing the perilous situation from across the street, rushed to help. Together, they restrained the bald man, seizing the weapon. The wounded hero, bleeding profusely, reassured everyone that he was okay.

Background: Love Turned Sour

Investigations revealed that the bald man and the long-haired woman shared the same residence, though in different rooms.

The bald man had previously pursued the woman romantically, but she perceived it as harassment. It is believed that the attack was driven by a resentful heart, a result of unrequited love. Interestingly, the long-haired woman and the injured hero were acquaintances and friends.

Police Confirmation and Arrest: Unraveling the Mystery

The police, when questioned, confirmed a 46-year-old man was injured, and a 32-year-old man was arrested for intentionally causing harm with a dangerous weapon. The injured man was taken to Tan Tock Seng Hospital, while the 32-year-old sustained minor injuries but refused medical attention.

Quotes from the Scene: “I’m Finished”

After losing control of the knife, the bald man sat on the ground in shock, uttering, “I’m finished.” Li Kui reported that the bald man, after stabbing the hero, expressed remorse, saying, “Brother, I’m done for.”

The assailant further muttered, “I knelt down and begged her, but she wouldn’t cooperate.”

MAN TELLS FRESH GRAD TO FIND NEW JOB TO GET MORE MONEY

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A netizen wrote a response to a man who only got a minimum salary increment after working for several years.

Here is what he suggests:

I highly suggest that you need to look elsewhere. In fact, you had 5 years of experience and yet you still get below 3k is really killing yourself.

Here’s my story, i started off in a man, i get $3000 as fresh grad. I stay around 3 years and left while having 3.6k. My first jump got me to 4.5k and i stayed another 3 years. I left again for the next jump while drawing 5k and I got 6.2k on second jump. I stayed for a while this time, promoted to senior and i am getting 7.5k now.

I hear from my boss that my max for senior exec could fetch up to 14k. But that’s the case if I want to stay as a senior exec for the rest of my life as it is the highest non-leadership role. He mentions that if I do well, I can start to handle a few headcounts under me and promote to AM. That could give me a base of 9k at least.

I am almost 35 years old now and getting 7.5k per month, I think it’s really not bad already.

So I think you need to re-look into your options and go for the company that does not lowball you. I am doing logistics and supply chain which I think is comparable to your job scope in procurement. You might as well use me as a benchmark.

Meanwhile, some people flaunt fake credentials to advance their career

GIRL SAY DON’T WANT WEDDING RING, WANT CASH DEPOSIT INCASE MARRIAGE FAILS

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A girl shared her story online and insist to have cash instead of a wedding ring as she felt that a ring is not worth much but cash is better.

Just like hiring a contractor to do work you pay a deposit first

Here is the story:

My bf and I have been together for 2 years and we have been working for a few years now. Recently we have been looking at engagement rings.

After doing some research, I realised that diamond rings have a very low resale value so I decided that I do not want a diamond ring anymore. I read that contractors often received a deposit before completing their job and marriage is a lifelong job. So it makes perfect sense for me to take a deposit from my husband-to-be.

So I told him $50,000.

He was happy when I told him that I do not want a diamond ring but he called me crazy when I asked him to propose to me with a stack of cash. He then asked me why I want a $50k and I said the cash would be like a form of compensation for me. Like if he ever mistreats me in our marriage, I can still have some cash if things go sideways.

He then said, that is like preparing for divorce before getting married. Macham Alimony

After trying to persuade him for like an hour, he still insisted that my idea is crazy. But he has $60k of savings in his bank so he can afford it and shouldn’t be a problem for him. But he is totally unwilling to proceed.

Was I really crazy to ask for a deposit?

GUY CALLED WOMAN “MOMMY” WHEN GETTING INTIMATE, SHE STOPPED TALKING TO HIM

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I called a woman “mommy” dujring intimacy on Wednesday night and I don’t think she liked it. She hasn’t talked to me since.

honestly I’m pretty embarrassed. I’m a 27yo man for context. We aren’t officially in a relationship, Wednesday was our 4th date and we went to my place after dinner for drinks and a movie.

Well we ended up sleeping together and it was incredible. Honestly it might have been the best I’ve ever had.

I was on edge the whole time and desperately trying to hold back because I’m usually pretty quick and I didn’t want to disappoint.

Well eventually she got on top and started riding me and was talking dirty while pressing her chest into my face.

I think she knew I didn’t have much more left and she said “Are you gonna come for me?” That pushed me over the edge and opened the floodgates.

I accidentally moaned “Yes! Uhhh, MOMMY!”

I’ve never called a woman mommy during moments like this before so I don’t know where it came from but I could tell by the look on her face I don’t think she liked it.

I was super embarrassed and she didn’t stay long after that and hasn’t responded to my texts since.

MANAGER TAKES AWAY LUNCH BREAKS AFTER EMPLOYEE IS 6 MINS LATE FOR WORK

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A post on Reddit went viral after a man was punished for being late for work. His manager allegedly stop the man from going for a lunch break as a penalty for getting to work 6 minutes late.

As Reddit is an international forum, it is likely that the incident did not happen in Singapore. Luckily, we do not hear of such incidents happening in Singapore.

Here is the story:

Been working there for 4 months. I was never late and always ready like 15 min before my shift starts. Today I had a tough morning, in a bad mood and I was 6 minutes late for work. My manager called me to his office, complaining about why I didn’t call him to say I’m going to be late. I told him that I didn’t think about calling him as I knew that I’ll only be late for a bit.

After going back and forth, he told me that I’m not allowed to take my lunch break because I’m late and it was super busy. I didn’t bring my lunch, so I asked if I could at least grab a sandwich before starting my shift. He agreed, but only to cut half an hour of my pay..

I agreed and left “to grab a sandwich”. It’s been an hour and a half now since I left and I still haven’t returned. My manager just called me and I told him I quit. I don’t regret it (yet?)

Wish me luck!!

Going Viral

The story became viral with 60,000 upvotes on the thread and over 4,000 comments. Many netizens pitch in their thoughts and started discussing work ethics.

Stories started to pour on the thread with one of the users stating:

Which is why you don’t start work early. My coworker used to get to work 20 minutes early everyday and would start working and I kept telling him don’t do it.One day he was 15 minutes late because of the WEATHER (which made the bus late) and my boss says make sure you make up that time even though he’s obviously made it up since he was 20 minutes early for work for months. After that, he started on time!

How about Singapore?

What should one do when an employer is breaching rules of the employment act.

In Singapore, one can always refer to the Ministry of Manpower’s website for employment rights. The topics covered are

  • Hours of work and overtime
  • Annual leave
  • Sick leave
  • Public holidays entitlements
  • CPF contributions

and beyond.

BF’S KKJ TOO BIG, GF CAN’T TAKE IT & FEELS PAIN WHEN THEY POK POK IN WOOF WOOF POSITION

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How to do doggy if your bf is too big down there?

Hello everyone I have an amazing life with my boyfriend and we fulfill each other’s greatest desires but he really enjoys the doggy position and we do that but it is rather painful for me because of his large girthy member.

I love him and I love sleeping with him, but it hurts a lot. What doesn’t help is that he has quite a lot of stamina and it takes him a while to finish

My gynecologist said to try to stretch more often but while it did help with the pain, it doesn’t make it any more comfortable or pleasurable. Usually it just takes me out of the mood and I just hope he finishes as soon as possible.

Even oral is very uncomfortable for me and unsatisfying for him because I can barely take half of it.

I want to satisfy my bf but bc its so painful we dont do doggy as much as we do other positions is there any methods or tricks that I can use to make this position more enjoyable for myself?

Netizens’ comments

  1. For girth, lube is essential. Find one that’s compatible with the protection that you’re using. Also, before penetration, having him during foreplay try to get 2-3 fingers in you at a point where you are comfortable. This may mean that doggy is the grand finale, not the main event.
  2. I mean, there’s realistically not much you can do about it, a friend of mine has a condition where anything thicker than a finger hurts her, so even an average sized penis is painful, but she’s not willing to give up on it to avoid the pain, i wouldn’t really take this as some advice, i’d honestly just say to follow your doctors advice, and stretch more often to fit it well, and keep up with it over time
  3. Sadly, I don’t think there’s much you can do unless it involves toys. Remember though, it can stretch to about 14″ diameter though since it can push out an entire newborn baby.

GIRL’S ROOMMATE PIAK HER BF WHILE SHE SLEEPS, “AH AH AH” TOO LOUD UNTIL SHE JUST LEFT

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my roommate is f-ing her bf while I’m sleeping

I don’t really know where to put this, but I woke up last night when my roommate and her bf came back to our dorm room at 4 am.

I tried going back to sleep, but I’m like 80% sure they started getting naughty with each other, and at that point, I was just angry that they were loud enough that I couldn’t go to sleep, so I left.

I’m not comfortable with my roommate f-ing while I’m asleep a few metres away. There is no divider, no desk, no anything, and I’m in perfect eye view.

I don’t like her boyfriend, I don’t want to hang out with her boyfriend, and I certainly don’t want to see him “going inside” my friend.

I spend 12 hours of the day outside of the dorm so they can have their alone time and privacy, and it makes me upset that I can’t sleep without them intruding.

I don’t care about how much they f each other, I just would really prefer that it wasn’t around me, and I don’t have another place to sleep.

I’m angry, but I kinda just want to know if this is warranted. Am I being prudish or unreasonable? I was going to have a conversation with my roommate about how uncomfortable that makes me (especially when I didn’t even know he was coming over), but I feel like I’m being mean. Let me know what y’all think.

Netizens’ comments

  1. Turn on the lights, grab a snack and sit on your bed eating while you offer feedback on both of their performances. They will likely stop.
  2. You need to tell your roommate that you made efforts to let them be alone. You don’t want to listen or watch them in that act. Knock that shit off or find a new roommate. Your reaction is completely normal.
  3. Just get up and tell them to shut the f up