Everybody farts. And when you’re in a long term live-together relationship like us (24F & 27M) you should feel comfy enough to be free & what not. Sure!!

My problem is, my boyfriend is an actual child when it comes to farting. He thinks farts are so funny. It’s a whole thing when he lets one out.

Examples: if we’re sitting on the couch watching TV together, he’ll hike his knees to his chest & push with all his might, fart loudly & laugh it off.

If he’s walking around the house he’ll stop in his tracks, bend over, spread his legs, fart & look at me to laugh. Like a toddler. Always laughs & I think it’s because he knows it annoys me.

Comments like “omg did you hear that?” “That was a wet one.” huge, exaggerated sighs of pure joy “awwwww yeah” , etc etc.

I get very annoyed not only because the immaturity but because they smell so bad…putrid. I gag sometimes. I grew up with brothers & my farts don’t smell like roses so it’s not like I’m super sensitive to this kind of thing. It’s just THAT bad. My first concern honestly was his health but he’s fine.

So here’s the kicker… I often voice my concerns to him. Tell him to try to stop farting so much around me. In our 6 years together I continue to keep my farts to myself to the best of my ability. That’s me though, I don’t expect the same from him.

At the very least I ask him to be discreet & not make it into this huge ordeal every time. I can ignore it that way.

You wanna know what his solution was?? After every loud, ridiculous fart, now he’ll try to give me a kiss. I said NO. do not try to “reward me” with affection when you act like that. Do not associate your over the top flatulence & childish gimmicks with kissing me. It’s not cute or charming. It doesn’t make me less annoyed. Don’t do it.

This starts an argument. He tries to essentially gaslight me saying things like “wooow you don’t want to kiss me?” “I’m not doing that, I wanted to kiss you anyways.” Don’t BS me dude. It’s become a pattern now. I try to tell him, please just listen to me & understand that it bothers me. If you really think to kiss me right after your farts, then just wait a couple minutes?

He says no he won’t do it because I’m just being crazy. I snap & say how it REALLY makes me feel: “I’m not crazy, It’s disgusting. It’s not attractive. If you want me to be grossed out every time you kiss me, then fine, keep at it.”

This was last night in bed & he just went to sleep after I said that. This morning he tried feeling me up & I just got up and went to my laptop to start my workday. Not interested. It really has affected my attraction towards him lately & I didn’t want to say it straight up like that because it probably hurt his feelings.

He was not willing to even listen to me though so I felt like it was the only thing to do. I don’t want to end up resenting him or overall disgusted with him as a person. Maybe giving him that reality check will help. I don’t know. Can anyone relate??

My wife is in love with her best friend

Its a sombre realization for me, like its not real and at any point I will wake up and this nightmare will be over.

She has known this friend for around 10 years ( I am 32m, she is 34f, he is 36m and his wife is 33f). He is married too. But he and his wife visit us at least twice every year and they stay with us.

I am not best friends with him but I dont hate him. He was here with his wife, and left just a few hours ago and thats why I am making this post.

Last night all 4 of us were drinking and talking, they were reminiscing about past. It was at that point that he confessed that he had loved my wife from the moment they met but never dared to say it aloud for it could mean losing their friendship, so he just bit his tongue and chose to tolerate the pain of seeing her with others instead of cutting her out of his life, because he couldnt bear the thought of not seeing and talking to her.

He talked about imagining a day when she finally realizes that he is her true love and she gives him a chance finally. We were all shocked and my wife told him that it was very inappropriate and it was clear that they couldnt be friends anymore and its better that when he leaves he doesnt try to contact her anymore.

All this time his wife was just sitting there looking humiliated, I assume she either had some suspicions or she knew about his feelings for my wife.

When we went to bed I tried to lighten the mood by saying that it didnt turn out the way he expected and I noticed my wife was also crying and admitted that she also loved him. But she also loves me and could never leave me, or share or cheat on me, thats why she took the painful decision to cut him off.

By this point she was crying heavily so I took her in my arms and she slept cuddling me. But now I am not sure how to feel about it. They both love each other, so does it not make sense for me to move away from the middle? Will she be truly happy with me? She says that she has made her choice and she is happy and satisfied with it but somehow I am still troubled.

To the most annoying person on earth

My brother is in my opinion, very, very, annoying.

Too bad I just found it out this year. Maybe he’s too stressed at work. Last time, he used to be the most charming person on earth (like 10 years ago), but now, the most annoying for what he did.

He always annoys me, either by occupying my personal space (regardless of where it is), or by disturbing my friends or social circle, talking mainly nonsensical stuff, or impersonating my tone telling nonsense – which is just crazy considering his profession as a “MAD GENIUS” – who should (by right) be very pre-occupied with all the equations and theorems, etc.

How can someone like him be so boliao ah?

Both of us are usually normal in front of (MOST) other people but I donno now why we have to talk to each other like we both just came out from the institute of mad hippopotamus.

By now, he should have already known that I am still seriously mad (at him) for what he “geniusly”, or more like “crazily”, did. Seems like most geniuses are crazy (sometimes). Can’t help it.

Considering his “genius” status, how can he be so talkative and talk non-stop hah?

True or not true also cannot differentiate izzit? Ppl what kind of person you still donno?

If you can’t know a person’s true personality after decade(s) then I tell you what.. you might as well befriend all the glassware instead, or lightbulbs also can.

Besides, even if they not happy with what you say about them or do not agree with you, they’ll at most just bling or blink back at you. At least they won’t lecture you back like how I will.

Life would be much simpler that way for you, lalalalala.

BROTHER, to be frank, I am still mad at you, duh. Don’t you know what you did were very annoying? >-<

So please stop talking to me for at least a century, please la hah.

THANKS first ah.

Love ya and remember to eat your MADicine.

KISS,

Goodbye for awhile (if you can act normal at least, to not be so annoying to me)

Or Forever (if you can’t)

Finally, forgive me for being too frank here.

I seriously think I need some time away from you, as usual. Staying by your side is actually very unhealthy to me. I like people who are simple and straightforward.

Your mind is too complex whereas I strive to be as simple and grounded as possible, still, I often feel overwhelmed by the complexity of your thoughts. I think you should use your ingenuity in the right place like how to make your gf happy.

No point irritating each other anymore, how childish bro

Equality is a word that many people like to talk about all the time. Whether you are a male or female there is always two sides to the coin.

In a Reddit post, a netizen asked: “What are some privileges that females have but they are ignorant about?”

The thread started to become a heated discussion with over 100 comments, the following is a list of comments stated by netizens.

• Divorce & child support laws

• Woman colleagues can ask guy colleagues to help do manual / lifting work and no one bats an eyelid. Woman have better emotional support social circle.

• I think a few that is related ti reservist:

1. Not being judged for going to ICT
2. Not having to worry about ICT call ups (for eg training before ICT, 1 day meetings,etc) that may affect their plans

• More tax benefits (working mothers, spouses of NSMen), More emphasis on women’s health (vs men’s health), Priority in disasters (look at Titanic, Ukraine etc… Women and children are evacuated first. Is it because women are weaker and need to be protected?) Priority in custody for children in divorce cases (Is it because got to enforce female role as caregiver?) ,Pay gap in modeling, conventional kind or ahem otherwise. (Its demand and supply, so while privilege, I would argue that its justifiable. Just like sports paying men more.)
• men are also expected to pay for dates, earn more, propose, pay for most expenses after marriage

• Got woman charter, no man charter.

• Women get in for free during ladies night

• Companies pander to women during International Women’s Day by giving them discounts while nothing happens on international men’s day.

• Women can falsely accuse men of sexual assault and have her identity protected while the accused man has his name plastered all over the news (this happened last year, there was a doctor who was falsely accused. It’s in the straits times)

• Men give women free validation and they get real confident real fast.

• When trouble strikes, men are expected to die for women or “women and children get saved first”

• A woman can hit a man in public and he is expected to take it. When a man retaliates the public will jump on him

• Women get a head start in life (no national service to hold them back, ICT included)

Do you agree?

My wife had gone crazy for sx…

My wife and I have been together for 25 years. We’ve always been very active in the bedroom, but everything has since escalated to whole new levels.

About 4 months ago she started bioidentical hormone replacement therapy testosterone. She has turned into a nympho.

It’s unbelievable she wants to f all the time. Two three times a day for hours on. It’s the most incredible thing ever.

New interests are showing up or having massive amounts of backdoor f-ing. Gosh, has this ever opened up a new reality for us? Anyone else experience the same?

What have you guys done to take things to a new level now that my wife is basically up for anything?

Netizens’ comments

1. I’m on the same thing as your wife and it made me the same way. My husband has been extremely happy lately. We have been together almost 30 years, and it’s like a whole new world opened up. We are having so much fun.
2. From the other perspective, I’m a husband that’s been on TRT for a while and my drive is absolutely vile now. I thought when I was young I had an overactive drive, but it’s twice as strong now. It’s a side effect of elevated testosterone levels.
3. What exactly is she taking? Calling my wifes Doctor as soon as you reply..

Hello everyone,

I’m seeking advice for my current situation with my husband. I’m just not sure what to do anymore.

I’ve been married to my husband for 5 years and we have been together for 10. He’s caring, loving, and patient. I couldn’t be happier with the exception of our bedroom life.

Before the past two year, it was great. We started off slow as this is the first relationship that I’ve ever had and slept with. He was willing to take things as far as what I was comfortable with and did not pressure me into sleeping with him.

Once we started having intercourse, things were great. We could literally not take our hands off of each other. Things intensified when we got married and it was wonderful.

There were no issues with him initiating until a couple of years ago. I noticed that his initiations have become less and we starting having penetration less and less. Now, I’m usually the one that usually has to initiate something.

However, it doesn’t usually lead to penetration. He responds to my initiations by engaging in other forms of play. He will often caress my body, rub my chest, perform oral on me, use toys on me to simulate penetration.

Don’t get me wrong, this feels great and he really takes care of me. He ensures that I finish at least a couple times. However, after he’s done making me come in this way, I try to take things further and usually get shut down.

I try rubbing his member over his shorts, dirty talk, telling him that I need him inside me so bad. However, he declines. He’s not rude about it. He simply holds me and tells me that “I’m tired” or “not tonight.”

I can clearly feel that he get hard when I rub him down there, but he still declines. I’ve told him that I want to please him and make sure he’s taken care of since he ensures that I’m taken care of, but he brushes it off and says it’s ok that he doesn’t get off.

I’ve tried wearing revealing clothing, playful teasing, talking about f-ing more to further indicate that I want him. He appears receptive, but won’t go further than what I mentioned earlier.

I’ve tried talking to him about this and how I feel in response to the lack of initiation and PIV. He apologizes and says that he’s just tired. He has made efforts to compensate by bringing home new toys, but I miss him and the feeling of being with him.

I know he works a lot and his job is stressful. However, I’ve caught him pleasuring a few times early in the morning.

In some of these instances I’ve seen him watching adult videos. Out of curiosity (I know, I know, it’s nosy of me), I’ve checked the search history to see what type of videos he’s been watching. From what I see he’s been into pegging, public toilets, and cuck types of videos.

I haven’t made a big deal out of it. I’ve gently told him that I’d like to watch with him and talk about some of his interests. He was embarrassed on the occasions I have caught him, but I try to be supportive and ask if he’d like any help with that.

Sometimes he’s receptive and will let me stroke him, but he doesn’t climax. I’ve tried suggesting penetration at that point, but he declines and says that he needs to get ready for work.

I just don’t know what to do anymore. I love him with all my heart. I’m sorry for the long post. I just feel so stuck.

I kicked a guy out of my apartment in the middle of hooking up, and you can too.

I was talking to this guy I matched on bumble for a week and I thought we had great chemistry, he told me absolutely alllll the nice things a woman wants to hear.

And so I decided to invite him over, we started making out. I went down on him and he wouldn’t go down on me which i didn’t understand because he told me he goes down on women.

Well, turns out he doesn’t. In his exact same words ” If I told you I don’t go down on women, you wouldn’t have any interest in sleeping with me” to which I replied, “yeah I won’t!”

If he was honest about it that would have been okay, but I felt manipulated, so i kicked him out.

This guy lied to get laid. I didn’t kick him out just because he didn’t go down on me.

Netizens’ comments

1. I have done this! I was sleeping with someone who tried not once, not twice, but THREE TIMES over the evening to f me in my backside after I had already refused and asked him not to go there.
   I was so angry. it took me a good day or two to really feel all the anger. but at the time at least I had the whereabouts to stop him completely and ask him to leave.
2. I had a tinder date come over to my apartment, I blew him for like 20 minutes, and then when I told him I wasn’t ready and I wanted him to go down on me, he was like “oh no I don’t do that.”
   That should have been an immediate NOPE for me, but somehow we kept going, until I told him to put on a condom (because duh, random dude from the internet??) and he refused.
   He tried to hang out in my bed just chatting to me after that, but I promptly kicked him out

Wife enjoys being natural infront of others. (And I like it)

Hi! So like title says my wife enjoys being au naturale in front of others, has this as a k!nk, and genuinely enjoys it.

I have no problem with it too. I enjoy watching her wherever possible. This has done a great deal of good to our bedroom life in the short term.

We even have a few open minded friends where she can be fully unclothed safely and with consent. (because we are clear about the interest)

Now, I’ve been enjoying it too much, a bit too much, sometimes, we actively pursue this. I understand its a common thing.

Has anyone been doing this for long term? What’s the effect on your life?

Netizens’ comments

1. As long as everyone is ok with it, why not? My wife has taken off everything in front of friends. It’s very liberating. And if you’re lucky it could lead into all kinds of added fun.
2. As you are amongst friends, you should not worry. After all, if they are ‘best ‘ friends you will know what they are like. There is nothing wrong with it.
3. I don’t see why not your all consenting adults & know what your doing aren’t you