I recently went to the doctor to get a standard wellness visit and got some bloodwork done. I mainly wanted the bloodwork to see if my iron levels were low and check my cholesterol levels. My doctor asked if I wanted to check for stds as well and I said yes not thinking much of it. Well I got my results and I have chlamydia. I know it’s a fairly common and treatable std but I panicked a bit when I found out.

I always get tested before and after each new partner and I’ve been in a monogamous relationship with my partner for 2 years now. I know I got tested before my current partner and it came back clean. Not only that but I had a been scare about 6 months into dating my current partner and went to go get a test. I went to get tested and I had bv, which I treated, but that test also came back clean for stds.

So my only logical conclusion is that I got chlamydia from my current partner. I was really confused about this because in the beginning of dating before we had S, I had made to sure to ask if he was clean and if he got tested recently. Based on this I was somewhat worried that I got it because he had slept with someone else during our relationship. But I didn’t make any accusations. I called and told him I had chlamydia and that he needed to get tested/treated.

I then asked him when was the last time he actually got an std test. It took a bit of questioning but he eventually admitted that he did not get an std test in between me and his previous ex.

So that really pissed me off and I pointed out that he lied when I asked him if he got tested and was clean in the beginning of our relationship. I asked him if he had anything to say to that. He got quiet and didn’t say anything. He just said that he would get tested and tell me the results. I pointed out that my chlamydia didn’t show up on the test I got when I had bv either which was weird because we had been having sex for about 5 months already (with a condom but we didn’t use condom or dental dam when doing oral and we had a couple of times where the rubber broke..). He didn’t say anything to that either. I said alright let me know when you’re getting tested then I hung up because I was pissed he wasn’t apologizing or admitting to anything or talking in general.

Basically now I’m just waiting until he gets tested and tells me. But it’s been three days and we haven’t talked and he hasn’t told me that he’s scheduled his test or anything. I don’t want to make any rash decisions until he gets his test results back. But I’m pissed. I don’t know how long I’ve had chlamydia and I know the longer you have the more at risk women are for PID and other complications.

I don’t see any other possibility other than him having it from his ex and passing it onto me or him acquiring it from someone else during our relationship. Is it wrong of me to assume this? And should I push for him to get his testing done faster? The waiting is really bothering me and he hasn’t said anything about scheduling it. Am I overreacting by thinking this is possibly breakup worthy?

Ok this might seem silly but I’m conflicted on whether I was wrong here.

My husband (33) is a picky eater but I know what meals he likes and make sure to cook those. I had to give me a lot of good meals to be able to cook him his favorite things and make sure he doesn’t miss one diner.

However, lately he’s been complaining about the meals I cook that are his favourites. only because “he’s just not in the mood to eat this specific meal” so he would try to get me to cook something else right then and there. if I say no? he would go to bed hungry and without dinner…I feel bad so I just cook what he wants.

I got tired of it because it kept happening. Last night he came home and saw the different meals I cooked – he looked at them both and said he wasn’t “in the mood” to eat either of them and asked if I could cook him another meal. I was upset I said NO this is all I had on the menu. He made a face and acted sad and then was like “are you sure?….I would have to go to bed hungry…wouldn’t that make you feel sad?” I stayed in my chair and shrugged and said “as you like honey”. He got upset and told me I had no consideration for him nor do I care about his feelings and wether he go to bed hungry after working the whole day. I stayed quiet then he stormed away from me.

We didn’t speak til this morning where he said that my “as you like” attitude was hurtful amd dimissive and is now expecting an apology for it.

I am the author of “MAN FELL FOR SIAM BU “MOTHER SICK STORY” MADE OUT WITH HER IN PUBLIC“. I honestly did not expect the post to blow up as I’m afraid that my story would come across as your typical story about SG men getting con by Thai women.

However, like many have predicted, there is indeed more to the story as Moon’s dubious behavior marks the start of unraveling her true identity.

Her repeated plea for cash sparked my curiosity about her family. When probed further, she would brush me off and assured me that they are doing fine thanks to me. She would often use suggestive language as a form of diversion. Succumbed to lust, I fell into her trap leaving my suspicion lingering.

The truth is that the S was so good that it left a strong impression on me. The crescent moon tattooed on her left arm turns me on every time we meet. We made love in various places ranging from high-end hotels like MBS to public areas like changing rooms. As soon as we set foot on our destination, we began undressing and demonstrating our affection for each other. Before we knew it, we were lying next to each other panting and exhausted. Every session ends with her whispering something to my ears to get me aroused for our next meetup. Words cannot describe how amazing the experience was.

However, good times do not last forever, and Moon was no exception. She started replying less, using busy as an excuse to avoid my calls. It eventually came to a point where I got completely ignored, driving me anxious.

I headed back to the Thai disco in search of an answer. After speaking with the manager, I came to discover that she is on a short-term visa. It was added that her recent attempt to extend her stay was denied and she is unlikely to return anytime soon. I was devastated.

Just when I thought I had lost all hope of seeing Moon again, the manager suggested trying my luck with Facebook. As they were mutual friends, he shared her FB profile with me and I began browsing through her posts.

Her public gallery revealed multiple photos of a young chap in his everyday life. What drew my attention was a tattoo that was identical to Moon on the exact same spot. It had me thinking that perhaps this person is a close contact of hers, possibly her sibling, child or even husband.

I took my questions to the manager for clarification. I got a rude shock. The person in the photo was, in fact, Moon before her gender reassignment. She used to be a male back then.

Embarrassed and frustrated, I cooped up in my room for several weeks refusing to see anyone. I questioned my sanity on whether our exchange was an outright lie from the beginning. Was all of this a scheme to con my money? I guess I will never know as she remained unreachable till today. Neither do I intend to investigate further as it will only adds to the disappointment. Things ended unanimously between us leaving a bitter taste in my mouth.

Apologize if my encounter did not turn out to be as dramatic as what many perceived to be. The intention is not to seek advice but to share about my past. I was originally hesitant to continue but was encouraged by the community. The overwhelming response is what drives confessors like me to continue posting. I hope u guys had fun listening to my story and I’ll catch everyone in my next confession. Till next time.

Part 1 of story:

I (16 F) live with my sister (22 F) and both our parents. my sister is a journalist and works for a very big and important news company, and also sells clothes as a side job.

Im only 23 this year I think I’m too young to be a mother and I’m not financially very stable yet. My boyfriend on the other hand just finished the army so we are kind of very poor if we really want to start a family.

I have been at my current job for almost 4 year. We were having our third child last year, and my wife would need a c-section so I had to take time off. Although there is a long paternity leave for the father I decided to take half of it. My employer told me to consider only taking a quarter, but I told them I could not.

Just before I announced that I would need to take this leave, I had been made a Project Manager in duty, not in the title.

When I returned, I could feel that something was off.

We had the best year that it has had in quite some time. Due to our industry, we had no impact due to the pandemic, other than royally padding bids. Talk around the office was big bonuses raises.

At my year-end performance review, I was told that I had not been able to fully reintegrate after my leave, so my bonus and raise would be withheld, and we would reassess at my mid-year review.

I was pissed, as all of my projects had better margins than what was projected, but whatever, a bit of a delay was not the end of the world.

It is illegal for my employer to directly punish me for taking the protected leave, so this felt like a way for them to get around that.

This year, the number of projects that I managed increased significantly, but the company on the whole struggled a bit. I was given some formal training as a manager via online courses that the company paid for.

At my mid-year review, my promotion was made official, however, I was told that the company was not in a position to be giving me a raise at this time, they were offering me a bonus equal to one week of my pay. I told them that with my increased responsibilities, and the results of my projects, I think that I have earned a 5% bump in pay. Denied.

I went home, hopped on Indeed, and applied for a position overseas. Had a couple of interviews that week and received an offer for about 20% more than I am making here (in a place with a much lower cost of living), with a 15k signing bonus.

I handed in my 2 weeks less than a month after my promotion and my boss is livid, saying that I leveraged my promotion to get this job, and that it is completely improper after the training that they paid for.

I told him that I did not think that my efforts had been appreciated and that you were unwilling to work with me on it.

I think that my actions were completely justified, but a couple of my coworkers also think what I did was pretty shady/unethical, so I wanted to see what y’all think.