So I work in tech and have been remote since the very beginning of the worldwide thing. I was only in the office for about 3 months before we went remote. I’m not a very bad employee but I also didn’t go above and beyond with my work. I did was needed to be done and only took on extra tasks if I was asked to.
I like working from home, especially since I can get an extra hour of sleep every morning and I can cook all my meals at home. I have time to workout and dabble in my hobbies. My productivity is great as is everyone else’s in the company.
Anyways today my boss sent out a mass email saying we are returning to the office full time starting next week. I know most people are unhappy about this but management doesn’t care. So I responded to the email by saying “well expect lower productivity if you force us back to the office”.
No one responded to me. Later today my boss called me and told me that they are doing some cutbacks and that my position has been eliminated effective immediately. I’m in an at will state so I know I can’t do much. Luckily I can probably get a job pretty much whenever I want.
I just thought it was funny how fragile some people are.
Here are what netizens think:
I was forced back into the office last September. Then we had a COVID outbreak and everyone worked from home for a month from late December to late January. Then they made us come back. But the parent company is struggling to find developers and finally relented to let us work from home 1 day a week. And after a couple of weeks of this, they bumped it to 2.
If you’re a developer, please leave this company for a job at 3x the pay – then tell them the only reason you started interviewing was “commuting to hangout on slack”
Boss want to pay more rental and electricity let them be, make sure charge all ur devices in office and stop flushing the toilet.
I told a guy I had a crush on him and I deeply regret it. His reaction was utterly disgusting and disturbing
He said we’ll need to get to know each other before he decides if he likes me back or not and I agreed and asked what he would like to know about me.
Instead of asking any normal questions one would ask to get to know a fellow human being, he told me to send him “naughty pics” of myself in “bra and panties” from the “front and back view”.
When I told him I wasn’t comfortable with doing that he asked why. I told him I don’t have to justify myself and he was like “why are you giving me attitude” and “I can’t feel attracted to a girl if she doesn’t send me pics, I’m not attracted to faces and I don’t talk to people unless I’m attracted and the only way is those pics.
If you don’t send them then we can’t talk and I’ll delete you because then I won’t be attracted. Also note if you send them we won’t immediately be in a relationship. It can take a year for people to fall in love.”
I was utterly repulsed by this and called him out on his emotional blackmail and manipulative behavior. Then he started blaming me and saying I put myself in these situations by being obsessed with boys.
His hypocrisy is surreal as he was just asking me for pics but it’s my fault that he objectified and dehumanized me?? Wtf!!
I was baffled and utterly disgusted with this awful excuse of a human being. I cussed him out and we blocked each other. I feel so angry because I made myself vulnerable for someone so trashy. I regret ever talking to him. Just thinking about the way he acted makes me wanna puke all over him.
A netizen shared a story about his colleague that he described as a nightmare for being ultra-sensitive.
Here is the story:
This particular colleague of mine… I think she might have been badly bullied by guys in the past such that she takes on an extremely feminist, chauvinist approach to people. Outright “calls out” males in the office for being lazy, too alpha, can’t dress but a single comment about the ladies in the office wouldn’t be tolerated by her.
She is a monster when it comes to online group discussion because she takes everything too personally. Resulting in petty tantrums instead of productive work.
During lunch/dinners, a few colleagues have mind what they say and became boring, such that they don’t share fun things anymore in fear she use that against them/ gets offended.
I am thinking of distancing myself from her. What do you think?
any tips on how to act in front of her?
Here are what netizens think:
Stay away from her. I’ve worked with someone like that; she’s now blocked on my insta. When I’ve only ever blocked 2 persons on insta. LOL
Don’t engage her at all. Be boring around her, and say “Maybe you’re right.” or “Sure, you’re allowed to have your own opinions.”
Find ways to naturally leave her out. Eat at places that she dislikes. Do projects that she doesn’t want. Meet at times where she’s not free.
Have her become the notetaker during discussions. If she’s too busy typing notes, she will be too busy to argue.
Do NOT express your dislike for her until you have left the organisation.
I’m seriously considering divorcing my overweight husband.
I know how awful that sounds. Just hear me out. When me and my husband first started dating we were both reasonable weights. Not fat, not skinny, just reasonable. We got along, he was super sweet, would take me out to nice places, super romantic.
We got married 7 years ago. Ever since then it’s been hellish. He got let go from his job after some budget cuts. He started playing online games, and eating out for most meals even though i offered to make him lunches before i left for work but he refused and said it would be too much work for me. We were still good romantically and apart from his slightly worrying gaming addiction, at the time we were fine.
We had our daughter 2 years into our marriage and I had some complications which led to me being unemployed for a bit because i was recovering from a few surgeries. He refused to get a job and said he would rather spend his time gaming and “taking care of our daughter” so we ended up borrowing money from my mother. This hurt because my mother isn’t in that good of a place, financially, and her giving us the money felt like a really low point.
I love my daughter more than anything and I noticed he didn’t seem too care as much as i did and preferred take out and computers more than our child.
5 Years later, I’m employed, he is not, he is now over 250 pounds, i am still at the 160-170 mark. My husband spends more time interacting with his friends online than me and his daughter, my daughter will occasionally go up to him wanting to play, or spend time with her dad, he 9/10 times will brush her off. He hardly leaves his gaming chair, we haven’t been intimate in 2 years because is physically impossible and he gets tired too quick.
I’ve counted, he has only left the house to run errands with me this year 4 times. We never do things as a family, he’s never fully there with me. I feel like a single mother to two kids, one an actual child with curiosity and a desire to do fun things, one with its ass glued to a game console.
I have tried convincing him to diet, he will always go like 3-4 days before i catch him with a takeaway box or an uber order. I’ve tried so hard with him but he never tries. Our relationship feels so one sided and i don’t know how much longer i’ll be able to hold out like this. I don’t want to divorce because i know what it’s like to grow up in a broken home but i also know what it’s like to have a dead beat father and i can’t tell what i should do?
The breathtaking waters surrounding Sentosa, a picturesque island resort in Singapore, recently witnessed a dramatic event.
A foreign-registered luxury yacht, known as “Australia,” unexpectedly ran aground and became stuck near the waters of Sentosa on 16 October, according to The Straits Times.
The Luxury Yacht “Australia”
The star of this story, the yacht “Australia,” is an opulent vessel measuring 56 meters in length and estimated to be worth a staggering A$40 million (approximately S$34.7 million).
This remarkable vessel boasts an array of luxurious amenities, including a jacuzzi, well-stocked bars, and an exclusive VIP suite.
Reports suggest that “Australia” belongs to Clive Palmer, a prominent mining magnate and former Australian member of parliament.
While the incident unfolded, it remains unclear whether Mr. Palmer was on board the yacht or not when it got stuck.
Eyewitnesses account
A resident of Sentosa was quick to notice the yacht’s predicament at about 5.30pm in the evening and promptly reported it, adding that there are a lot of rocks in the channel but only some of them are visible at low tides.
Surprisingly, this isn’t the first time such an incident has occurred in the vicinity.
The director of yacht charter company Wanderlust Adventures, 45-year-old Mr Quek Wee Teck, spoke to ST and said that this was in fact the second time this month he had seen something like this happen there.
Maritime and Port Authority of Singapore’s Response
A spokesperson for the Maritime and Port Authority of Singapore (MPA) said that their Maritime Safety Control Centre was alerted to the incident at about 4.30pm, and that no pollutions or injuries were reported from the incident.
They added that the yacht has been refloated and will be anchored to assess any damages caused, port operations were also not disrupted and the MPA will be conducting investigations into the incident.
Four Singapore-registered Porsche Luxury Sports Cars Make Headlines at Tuas Second Link
In a recent incident that unfolded at the Tuas Second Link, four Singapore-registered Porsche luxury sports cars caused quite a stir. On Sunday, October 15th, at approximately 2:30 pm, these high-end vehicles were seen cutting the queue at the border crossing to return to Singapore. However, the story took an unexpected turn as these four supercars were later spotted driving back towards Johor. Many who witnessed the incident through a shared video on the SG Road Vigilante – SGRV Facebook page believed that the motorists of these luxurious vehicles were compelled to rejoin the queue due to their queue-cutting antics.
What the Video Revealed
The dashcam footage captured the daring actions of these Porsche drivers. The Tuas Second Link, a dual three-lane bridge, witnessed some rather audacious maneuvers that left many astonished. The grey Porsche was the first to make its move by crossing the double white line from the left-most bus lane to the second left-most car lane. Simultaneously, a blue Porsche pulled up beside the grey Porsche, which further disrupted traffic to allow the blue Porsche to overtake it. Instead of forming up directly behind the vehicle in front of them, the two Porsche cars already in the car lane allowed the other vehicles to move forward, creating enough space for the remaining two Porsche cars – one blue and one white – to overtake.
With this synchronized move, all four Porsche cars managed to align themselves in a single row, all set to enter Singapore. However, this was just the beginning of the unexpected turn of events.
The Tuas Second Link
The Tuas Second Link is a crucial border crossing between Singapore and Malaysia. It comprises a dual three-lane bridge that facilitates the movement of vehicles between the two countries. Given the high traffic volume at this border, maintaining order and following traffic regulations is of paramount importance.
Porsche Cars Queuing in a Row
The footage of the four Porsche cars queuing together to enter Singapore indeed raised eyebrows. The video suggests that these luxury cars, known for their speed and style, had no intention of waiting their turn. They employed tactics that allowed them to gain an unfair advantage over other law-abiding travelers at the border.
The Unexpected U-turn
Despite their initial maneuver to enter Singapore in a single file, the dashcam footage took an unexpected turn. Shortly after this alignment, the four Porsche cars made a U-turn along the Tuas Second Link, heading back in the direction of Malaysia. The video’s caption claimed that these Porsche cars were “made to U-turn,” which added another layer of intrigue to the situation.
tuas 2nd link
cutting across the double white line using motorbike /bus lane to cut queue
made to uturn
A convoy of 4 porsche cars cuts queue while coming back to sg from jb via tuas..
First 2 cuts in and let’s their 2 other friends in after.
A condominium in Pasir Ris was “breached” by an outsider over the weekend, when a black car crashed and knocked down a wall of the condominium premises, leaving a huge gaping hole in the wall.
Two people ended up suffering injuries, albeit minor ones.
The Incident
According to a netizen who shared videos and photos of the incident, it purportedly took place on the 14th of October, at the junction of Pasir Ris Rise and Jalan Loyang Besar.
A black Nissan Teana crashed into the perimeter wall of the Sea Esta condominium, and was believed to have skidded after mounting a kerb and losing control, before hitting the condominium wall.
The Consequences
The car, a black Nissan Teana, left a trail of destruction as it knocked down a huge part of the perimeter wall and sent debris flying across the walkway.
The car almost crashed into a tree but stopped just in time, and the damage was quite significant.
Minor Injuries and Prompt Response
The Singaproe Civil Defence Force (SCDF) said that two people were involved in the accident and were assessed to have suffered minor injuries and refused conveyance to the hospital.
The following day, the wall was cordoned off from the public although the huge gaping hole and debris from the accident still remains.
Eyewitness Accounts
Residents in the vicinity were understandably shaken by the crash. Mr. Wu, whose unit is adjacent to the portion of the wall that was impacted, recalled a “deafening crash” that frightened his mother.
He told SMDN that he didn’t manage to see the driver or passengers due to the suddenness of the incident.
Another 46-year-old resident shared that when he returned home later that night at about 11.30pm, he was police officers at the accident site, along with a tow truck that was getting ready to remove the vehicle from the scene.
A woman recently posted her frustrations on the internet after her husband humiliated her during their bedtime hours.
The husband made unruly comments about his wife’s physique and she has since been destroyed after hearing the words that came out of her husband’s mouth.
Here is the story:
Last night was one of the nights that made me tear up the most in my life.
My husband who is working 9 to 6 came home at about 7 PM and it was our anniversary, I cooked a big meal for him and our two kids. Hoping that I would get some praise for him.
He totally did not even spout a word and did not notice the difference in the dinner. He eat, showered and went to bed and started scrolling on his phone.
I told him that it was our anniversary and he said “hmph”. I tried to engage him to have a night that is full of passionate love but he suddenly pushed me aside.
I asked him what was wrong and he said: “your belly is too big, it’s very hard to get hard”.
I was destroyed when he said those words. I bear for him two children, go to NTUC to buy food, cook and clean.
I barely have enough time for special diets or exercise.
I went to the toilet and cry and he did not even bother to comfort me. He went to the kitchen took a beer and started watching Youtube videos.
Later he off the light and said tomorrow he have a meeting early in the morning and started to snore.
I don’t know what to do…
Its seems like after many years of marriage, nothing is special anymore.
Alright… This didn’t happen today but since I only learned about it today I think it counts.
A couple months ago my bf n I were in a LDR. I flew out to see him for a week, and when I left I accidentally left a pair or my underwear at his place. It had fallen under his bed so I hadn’t noticed it when packing. He told me a couple weeks later that he had found them and had put them in the wash. No problem right? Wrong. God… I am mortified by what he told me today… I tend to discharge quite a lot after my period, and this was the case with said underwear.
BUT CHRIST ALMIGHTY I did not expect him to tell me there was a WORM IN MY DISCHARGE. I know he loves me simply by the fact that he washed them, and said nothing to me until 6 months later. I’m embarrassed, don’t know how the worm manifested it’s way into my underwear.
A little drunk rn while typing this out so hopefully, it makes sense. Strangers of the Internet enjoy this story as there is no way I’m telling this to anyone IRL.
Here are what netizens think:
a fly probably laid eggs on your underwear while it was chillin’ under the bed and he found them when a maggot hatched.
I highly doubt that there were worms in the underwear when the OP was wearing them. Fruit flies and regular flies love to lay eggs in decomposing proteins and fruit fly maggots do look a lot like little tiny worms.
Pinworms are tiny. Months later, they would be so dried and small it would look no different than a fiber.
There was some show i saw that was people telling stories(with re enactments) of parasites they caught. I think it was called…. the thing inside of me? Or something about as unsettling
The Singapore Red Cross (SRC) is pledging USD 150,000 (SGD $205,264.50) in humanitarian aid in response to the ongoing crisis in Israel and the Palestinian Territories, according to the SRC’s press release.
The Singapore Ministry of Foreign Affairs also said in a statement on 16 October that they are pledging to contribute $300,000 to humanitarian relief efforts as well.
This gesture serves to support their Red Cross Red Crescent Movement Partners, including the Palestine Red Crescent Society (PRCS) and The Magen David Adom in Israel (MDA).
Both of these organizations are active members of the International Federation of the Red Cross and Red Crescent Societies, collectively working towards alleviating the humanitarian crisis in the region.
A Timely Humanitarian Response
As the region witnesses an alarming escalation of violence, particularly in Gaza, the SRC has stepped forward to address the plight of innocent lives affected by the turmoil.
The ongoing violence has resulted in numerous casualties and widespread suffering among civilians in the region. Many have lost their loved ones, while others remain displaced and without homes.
Mr. Benjamin William, Secretary General/CEO of the Singapore Red Cross, has expressed the organization’s deep concern for the situation.
He emphasized the severity of the crisis, acknowledging the relentless efforts of the Palestine Red Crescent Society and the Magen David Adom in providing critical assistance to those affected.
These brave staff and volunteers risk their lives daily to offer aid, and the SRC is ready to bolster these relief efforts.
A Call for Support
Recognizing the urgency of the situation, the Singapore Red Cross has launched a public fundraising appeal starting from 16 October 2023, which will continue until 31 January 2024.
This appeal aims to garner support from Singaporeans and residents to contribute to the much-needed relief operations in the region.
The appeal seeks to provide aid and assistance to individuals and families impacted by the crisis. It is a call for compassion and solidarity to help the affected people rebuild their lives.
Upholding International Humanitarian Law
In line with universally accepted International Humanitarian Law, the SRC urges the protection of non-combatants and critical infrastructure.
This includes vital facilities such as medical centers, water and power systems, ensuring that humanitarian actors, including the Red Cross Red Crescent Movement, can access and provide support to civilians in need.
The ongoing hostilities, which began escalating significantly on October 7, 2023, have resulted in over 4,000 casualties in both Israel and the Gaza Strip. This tragic situation has left thousands more injured, exacerbating the already dire humanitarian crisis in the region.
Mass Displacement and Humanitarian Needs
The crisis has forced an astonishing number of people to flee their homes in search of safety. More than 1 million people in Gaza have been displaced, and this number is expected to rise further, underscoring the urgent need for humanitarian assistance in the region.
In the Palestinian Territories, the PRCS is actively providing support to communities in the Gaza Strip and the West Bank.
They are transporting casualties to hospitals, offering critical emergency medical care to the injured, and distributing essential relief items like mattresses, blankets, kitchen kits, water, dignity kits, and shelter to displaced families as safely as possible.
MDA has also acted promptly by deploying medical teams with ambulances and intensive care units to provide essential care for the injured. They have intensified their blood donation drives to support medical facilities and have dispatched helicopters for evacuation operations to transfer civilian casualties to hospitals in the south.
S’pore Red Cross’ Press Release
Singapore, 16 October 2023 – In response to the ongoing crisis in Israel and the Palestinian Territories, the Singapore Red Cross (SRC) is pledging USD 150,000 in humanitarian aid to our Red Cross Red Crescent Movement Partners, including the Palestine Red Crescent Society (PRCS) and The Magen David Adom in Israel (MDA), both members of the International Federation of the Red Cross and Red Crescent Societies, to support their ongoing relief efforts in the region. SRC has also launched a public fundraising appeal from 16 October 2023 to 31 January 2024 for the relief and recovery operations.
“We are extremely concerned by the escalating violence that is happening in Gaza. The loss of innocent lives and the suffering endured by the civilians in the region are heart-wrenching. Our hearts go out to those who have lost their loved ones, or have their loved ones missing, and those who have lost their homes and are displaced.
The Singapore Red Cross (SRC) is closely monitoring the situation with our partners in the Red Cross Red Crescent Movement. The Palestine Red Crescent Society and the Magen David Adom have been working tirelessly to provide critical assistance to those affected, with their staff and volunteers risking their lives everyday. SRC stands ready to further support the relief efforts. When we launch our fundraising appeal in the week ahead, we look forward to the support of Singaporeans and residents to bring much-needed relief aid and assistance to individuals and families,” said Mr Benjamin William, Secretary General/CEO of the Singapore Red Cross.
He added, “In line with universally accepted International Humanitarian Law, we strongly urge for the protection of non-combatants and critical infrastructure such as medical facilities, water and power systems, so that humanitarian actors, including the Red Cross Red Crescent Movement will be able to have access to civilians needing help.”
The ongoing hostilities in the region has significantly escalated since Saturday, October 7, 2023, specifically around the border between Israel and Gaza. According to latest reports, over 4,000 people have lost their lives in Israel and the Gaza Strip. This tragic situation has left thousands more injured, compounding the humanitarian crisis.
The crisis has also forced a staggering number of people to evacuate their homes and seek safety. As a result, more than 1 million people in Gaza have been displaced. With this number expected to rise, reflecting the pressing need for humanitarian assistance in the region.
In the Palestinian Territories, PRCS is actively aiding communities in the Gaza Strip and the West Bank. PRCS has been transporting the numerous casualties to hospitals, as well as providing critical emergency medical care to the injured. The emergency ambulances have been operating at full capacity since the crisis started.
The PRCS has also been providing urgent field relief, including mattresses, blankets, kitchen kits, water, dignity kits and shelter to displaced families as much as the security situation allows for safe movement of their staff and volunteers.
MDA has also responded swiftly to the crisis by deploying its medical teams with ambulances and intensive care units to provide essential care for the injured. They have also ramped up their blood drives to help medical facilities. In addition, the MDA has dispatched its own fleet of helicopters to carry out evacuation operations to convey civilian casualties to the hospitals in the south.
