A netizen shared a lengthy letter to his ex-girlfriend, sharing his thoughts about why and how they broke up, and how he still thinks of her.

Here is the story:

“I know its been a few months since we broke up. Sometimes when I see you reshare stuff like TikTok videos such as “You deserve so much better”, “Don’t settle for anything less” types of emotional videos, I get so sad.

I felt like I really gave you my everything. I clear your shopping lists, I plan dates, I occasionally fetch you to & from school, I always bring gifts to your parents and try to impress them. And yet I don’t expect anything from you except emotional love.

I don’t get why you broke up with me because you think I’m childish for buying anime figurines instead of spending money on you.

I keep this hobby/interest private. Only the closest of my friends know about it. I don’t see the problem with it? It doesn’t spill over to my public image/persona.

Heck, if you want to compare dollar to dollar value, I can assure you that I spend way more on you. Maybe, you’re just trying to find a convenient reason to leave me.

But then why repost all those stuff, insinuating to your followers and friends that I didn’t treat you well in the relationship? or am I looking too much into it?

If you’re reading this, I hope you can find your ideal knight swooping in to treat you like the queen you are. I’ll be removing you and moving on with life.”

Editor’s note: Be glad you got rid of her, she’s not worth it.

I love my son to death but he’s a freaking bum that refuses to do anything with his life
He’s a good kid but he’s 25 and has zero motive in life.

He spends any money he gets on games and sits at home on the computer all day

Every time I try to get him a job somewhere he always says he doesn’t want to “make someone else rich”

I try to get him to enroll in school and it’s “school teaches you to work for someone else”

When I ask what he wants to do, he says something business, like entrepreneurship and investments. Yet he doesn’t seem to understand that you need money to invest nor have any other business ideas.

He said his dream is to make money without doing anything because all the YouTubers he watches make it look extremely easy apparently

I’ve even tried so many times to get him to do something like sign on with the army but his answer is always “I’ll die before I sign on”.

I’m not sure why he thinks like this. I feel like the 100s of social media influencers he follows has something to do with it.

I’m not sure what else to do. Can anyone else relate?

my boyfriend tells me that i look good without makeup and it’s starting to really get on my nerves

i know i look good without makeup. i sometimes go makeup-free and i feel just as pretty when i wear makeup.

but i have acne and i only do that when i dont have bulging bumps all over my face. he knows im insecure about that so i think he says this as a way to help, but he says this every single time he sees me with makeup.

he likes to put his hand on my face and wipe it off and i freak out because he’s putting germs on my face and also making my cystic acne show.

i really dont know how to make him stop without being rude. ive told him that i dont like when he does this, but i know he thinks he’s helping so he does it again.

any advice on what to say to him?

Netizens’ comments

This is a “doing bad by trying to be good” thing.

Just be honest with him and tell him how you feel, just don’t do it in a way that might make him feel attacked for his past behavior, as I have an inkling he just doesn’t understand entirely.

Makeup to a man is often shown or advertised as “she’s trying to be beautiful”

It took me quite a few years myself to begin to see it as an accessory, rather than whatever else I saw it as, for lack of a better word.

He appreciates your natural beauty, he just doesn’t know you’re trying to accessorize or compliment that with some makeup.

This is going to sound like the craziest thing ever, but I don’t care. If you want to comment mean things, go right ahead. It’s just more engagement on my post.

Also, I’m not sure if I can post this in the parenting FB group since they’re not human kids.

Anyway, here it is.

Ever since I was a kid, I’ve been buying stuffed animals, and I started taking care of them like my kids until they actually became my kids. They all have their own voices and personalities, and I love them all.

I have no idea how this happened. It’s just been happening and has been a part of my everyday life ever since I could remember. It probably happened as a mixed result from my autism and a stress response from my evil dad.

But now this is my life, and I couldn’t imagine it without my stuffed animal children! Anyway, this was just an introduction. I’ll post more later.

I know not everyone is going to understand or be nice about it but I’m going to continue posting about my kids. Cheers.

This…this blew up. Please continue sharing your stories about your own stuffed animals! We’re all in this together. thank you so much. It makes me so happy to hear about your stuffed animals.

Send me any info you want about them. I’m hanging out with my mom tonight (who is a human btw) but if I don’t update by tomorrow I definitely will tomorrow! There’s so much I want to share!

Here are what netizens think:

My cats love their stuffed animals friends and lay all over them and hug them when they sleep. It’s the happiest part of my life, having my cats and teddies get along. You sound like my cat.

I’m glad to see that there’s a lot more people out here who are the same way. My boyfriend and I went on vacation last May and we found this little dolphin stuffy, it was the cutest thing ever so we got him. It happened pretty quickly where we were making a joke and I said, “Don’t talk to me or my Dolphin Son ever again!” and the name just kind of stuck. I would always refer to him as Dolphin Son and then my boyfriend got into it also.

Blindsided divorce with cheating. I was wondering if you ever had an ex reach out that you thought you would never hear from again.

Found out she was cheating less than one year into our marriage. She was immediately cold and wanted nothing to do with me. Our relationship had no fighting, no abuse. Everything seemed so wonderful. I guess she had communication issues. Im posting this wondering if anyone has ever had an ex reach out years later acknowledging there behavior or even apologizing.

I don’t expect to ever hear from her again as we haven’t spoken since September other than our lawyers finalizing the divorce.

Here are what netizens think:

• Yes! It was an incredible experience – he had been high most of our relationship and emotionally abusive. 15 years after our breakup, he asked if he could talk with me because he had an issue in his current relationship and felt like I would be a sympathetic listener. During the course of our call, he apologized for how he had acted 15 years earlier. I was gobsmacked! I think I shook for 2 days. He passed away a few years later and I’m eternally grateful that we made our peace before he died.

• your ex sounds like a completely different person from the one you married… did she ever apologize and ask to try to make things work for planning that trip to cheat???

• I had a similar situation. Married for 2 years and she up and left me for another guy who was married with kids. She had major communication issues because I thought things were great, she let every little thing bother her and never told me. Honestly I would love an apology from her for not communicating well in our relationship and hurting me as bad as she did but I don’t expect anything. It’s been 7 years since the split. Honestly I’m ok if she never reaches out because the only thing better than an apology is to never hear from her again. Significantly better off without her in my life.

A man shared his story of how he managed to bump into a woman who took his first time when he visited Geylang in his younger years.

To some people, the first time is important but in this day and age, it’s a bit overrated.

Here is the story:

I cannot believe my eyes, earlier today I was at Geylang as my colleague insisted on going there for some beef kway teow.

It’s been 20 years since I came to Geylang as I do not have any business here and often eat near my home on the Westside.

While we were eating, a familiar woman came and sat at the table next to us. Memories start to flow back and I could not believe my eyes.

When I was still a student, my friend brought me to Geylang to drink and I ended up following them to a “chicken house” and I lost my first to the “chicken”.

Time has not been forgiving for her and she looks like the auntie that sells Bar Chor Mee near my house.

I smiled at her and she smiled back, I then asked if she remember me. Obviously, she does not, there must be tons of customers like me.

But to my surprise, she said “Did I give you a red packet before”. I replied: “Yes!”. She laugh and asked how long has it been since I visited her.

I told her “20 years”, she was surprised as I was still able to remember her.

She said that she is no longer working in that “profession” as her age is no longer suitable, she is working as an admin at an office nearby.

Seems like you will never know who does what, as she looks like a regular office lady now.

My boyfriend and I decided to have a “threesome“. He’s bi and into a particular fantasy with another guy. He told me that we would only go on the apps together and be very open with each other about who we were talking to. It was supposed to be a shared activity with full transparency.

Right after we got the apps, my boyfriend got a little weirded out and said “let’s delete these apps – I’m happy with our S life.”

Then a week later, I found out he never deleted Grindr, but I had deleted all of the apps on my phone. He told me he found someone to be our “third party animal“. I was a little upset, but I did agree to the “threesome” at first, so I said whatever. He told me that they had only talked on Grindr and were planning on touching base after to holidays. I later found out that they had exchanged numbers and my boyfriend was texting him flirtatiously and the guy was calling him “daddy” and it looked like they were basically sexting with words.

I wanted to marry my boyfriend before this incident, and now I just don’t trust him. I love him but I’m just not okay with how he painted the picture of a fully transparent threesome that we would both be a part of, and then found his own S friend that he talked to behind my back. I’m very open and comfortable with him being bisexual and would be equally as mad if he were doing this with a girl.

I still love him and he’s apologized a million times and he’s open to going to therapy to figure things out. I just can’t get over my resentment and distrust.

Here is what netizens said:

Has he cut contact with this guy? It’s a bit fishy that he acted weird and said delete the apps, but then kept it himself. He intentionally kept it from you, who knows what else he’d willingly keep from you in the future. Good luck.

You should mentally prepare yourself for the possibility your boyfriend might be gay.

1 year into the service , & previously my shifts were god-tier, 7 in 7 out, which meant I could spend 1 entire day sleeping/ lazing around before I use my remaining 6 days to do things I need to do.

Now with my 4 in 2 out schedule. Things have been really tough , my bookout has been reduced to 2 days, and it staggers. (E.g If my bookout this week if Saturday, Sunday, my next one would be Fri & Saturday).

I still tend to spend 1 day napping I’m left with 1 day to do things I really want. Recently had to cancel plans with a friend cos I was too tired to go out..

I really want to Maximise & have a life outside of ns commitments but it seems like a challenge.

I’m posted to a unit where my it’s very intense & adhoc, which means if there is ops that suddenly occur in the middle of night , it needs to be addressed asap.

I’m in a unit where it’s daily ops so no jungle & activities like bmt , just policing in incarceration facility.

So I’m wondering for my stay in combat guys how do you make the best of your 2 days out ? It seems my plans have to stop until I ord in ~365 days

Netizens’ comments

Last 2 nights of your stay in sleep more than the 7hrs of uninterrupted rest. Used to have the same problem as you but i legit nap 2 days away.

After i started sleeping more in camp when nearing book out i feel my time out of camp was not so shag