My current ITE Internship life is a living hell

HI, I currently work as a intern desktop engineer at NCS. My internship is for 1 whole year as I currently only worked for a fews months for this internship. My job is to everyday go to different MOE School to work as a IT Support when it being assigned to me by my project team admin. I had no issue about the work or what so ever and my performance, attitude is always great so I see no point on why I was given such bad rating and NCS attempt to terminate my internship.

The NCS Supervisor had gave me a very low performance rating to ITE after i sent several complaints or feedback about things I faced in my job when this school I being to for the day or a week is giving me very bad treatment and service. I always reqeusted to my supervisor as not to sent me to this MOE school again after I faced such treatment by the staff there as the NCS supervisor always approved the request. Now after NCS has sent the grading form back to ITE, my ITE liasion lecturer called me on the phone telling me about the feedback issue and NCS want to terminate me just because when I raise my voice to my supervisor several times. ITE told me to tell NCS to make me stay for the company for rest of the months left for this internship and I did make the request stating that I will be better in terms of the issue NCS pointed out.

My ITE liasion lecturer did talk to me on the phone telling me that I cannot change the internship company for else will make my graduation date a fews month later than the rest and stating the poor rating by NCS I had make me hard to change IA company. This ITE liasion lecturer just don’t think other IA company suits me based on his own ideals.

I was wondering on why I cannot change the internship company and NCS can anyhow attempt to terminate me for a fews issue I stated when I faced it during work. Those issue I stated during work is I myself asking for help and guidance on what to do cause of such bad treatment faced by this school today deployed to at.

I really hoped that if possible just changed my internship company so that I can have a better life and not everyday go to different place to work and dealing with different person to work instead. I just really want a internship job where I can have a place to call home as I no longer need to go different place to work daily and having to work with other people which I don’t know and to follow what their task give me to do at the location. I want a internship job where I had a fixed location to work at till end of the internship journey.

If you got pregnant from premarital S with a useless guy, you’re the one who’s at fault.

Here’s a fact : Woman are the ones making the final call on who she’ll sleep with. Not the man. So if you sleep with a useless guy, and got pregnant from it, that’s your own fault. “But the guy should take responsibility” , um, you made the choice to sleep with him, you made the choice to make him wear protection, and if he doesn’t, you made the choice to not take extra precaution like taking morning after pills, and you can always get abortion if needed. You. Not him. You.

So if you got pregnant, how about take some accountability instead of blaming the guy and asking the guy to step up. Stop going online and post some sad story about how you got pregnant and became a single mother cause really it’s your own fault. Own up, bitch.

Before any of you losers yapping about “but but but what if it’s from SA?”, no, I’m not talking about SA. Obviously if you got pregnant from SA, the assaulter needs to be tortured to death, and you deserve all the support from everyone.

Grow the F up.

Here are what netizens think:

• Your mother did not do her job well

• It’s true. I agree. But it’s also hard to protect yourself from honeyed words. They’d be super nice when trying to lure girl to bed, but change face when it’s done. So.

• I think you have anger management. Grow up as well.

• -I do kinda agree with OP cos we can only fend for ourselves. No one else does if such things happened. Then, my nxt question is, is OP the useless guy or is there a post i’ve missed? Pls advise. I need part 2.

• More than one party can be responsible

Advice please

Hi I need some advice, I bought my hdb prior meeting my husband and he owns a condo. Our family is expanding but both our hse are too small to accommodate 2 kids, we will need to upgrade 1 of it. Is it possible to sell my hdb and get another hdb under my own name without my husband having to dispose his pte condo? For financial reasons, it’s best to keep 2 hse and without having to pay absd.

Here are what netizens think:

• I think the best option is to sell your husband. 1. It solves the space issue. 2. You don’t have to sell any property. I hope I’ve solved your problems. Best of luck.

• Rent out both ur houses and rent a black white.

• Just rent a bigger place and collect rentals from existing two houses. Problem solved.

• Keep both n rent out. Then rent bigger house. Chance of divorce is 50/50 now. If that happen in future, each go back to own nest.

• No way. Unless u divorce settle ur flat. Then marry back

• Impossible. Hdb can check their system record how many flat you own as long as married couple. Cannot run away. Simple sell your condo, hdb n then buy 5 room hdb flat or landed property. Solve your problem

• Buy overseas properties. No ABSD. Places like Melbourne and Sydney tends to experience consistent growth of between 7 to 15% annually. For the same price, a property in Melbourne will be worth more in 10 yrs time, compared to SG. But… Unlike sg, You need to know what to buy and where to buy. Lots of Melbourne and Sydney apartments being sold overseas have poor growth.

• You will not be able to buy another HDB upon selling your current one since y’all are married. I can go into more details, feel free to PM me

Be more confident, even though it hurts now. Be better. Grieve but improve.

So I reconnected with my ex after 3 months. At the time he pissed me off by being too needy, and childish by needing to be in the centre of attention. He needs a partner who can be more “sayang”. And… we were in a friend group where… there was someone else who could do it.

After the breakup, I muted all members of the group. I focused on my new job. Then… my new job flunked. Bad manager, minimal guidance, left out to fend for myself… and I couldn’t survive. I’m looking for new work and things are looking bright. Likely new role may be a bit out of my depth but I think the manager is good, or at least better.

Then I reconnected with my ex group. The main reason was because of the networks he had. We had a one on one. Things seemed fine. We could talk. And… I felt like we could be friends. He said that he agreed that he needed someone more patient. And that I should be more confident. He said that “we both have very high standards of our partners”. I laughed and agreed at the moment because I thought that he did have high standards. Meanwhile I’ve been called out by loved ones for having too low standards.

We hung out a bit more. We never really talked about the explosive breakup (which I initiated). And things seemed to be going well. I didn’t think to redo the relationship, and reminded myself on why we didn’t work out. And then… he revealed that that he was dating that member of the group that was more patient with him.

I saw it coming. I predicted it the day that I dumped him. I knew that… he needed an anchor, and that I couldn’t be that. I knew that the other group member was more patient and could better put up with him. I know what it works

But it still. F–king. Hurts.

I’ve listened to some podcast. Asked a friend to scold me. She did, and assured me: “ LIKE OBVIOUSLY YOU’RE A 10 AND HE’S A 3”. I knew this back then. I rated him a 3. But he was so persistent in loving. Saying that he was willing to give it all and all that. He’s the gravity well for the group, and I was the queen. Now that’ll change.

Things can’t go back… I need to be… the f–king king. He’s right, I need to be more confident. I can get better guys. I am not the failure my toxic boss set me up to be. I CAN IF I WANT TO.

2023 f–king sucks. Break up. Failed job. F-king terrible school projects. BUT I AM KING. I am amazing. I will be better. I cannot let go of this feeling. I can build my own networks. If he’s willing to “help” and “we want you to be happy too.”, then I’ll use it as a stepping stone.

I hope that this fire doesn’t burn out. I really, really, after all these f–king years, need to be better. Not just feel it for a bit, and then… revert. Put my all into the new job. Get up get out there and network. Buy what I need to buy to network. Build my skills for personal and professional use.

For now it hurts. My heart is tight. I feel slighted despite knowing logically full well that it won’t work out. I just feel humiliated. And I can’t sleep. But it’s all on me now. They have their own rs. I have my own emotions to… deal with. I know that I have to let it pass… but it still… F. It’s hard.

I’m 31 this year and my gf is 25, we have been dating for about 2 years.

My GF has beautiful hair that seems a lot more low maintenance than most women I know. She doesn’t use all a hundred different hair products, nor does she blow dry it. It honestly doesn’t take her long to style her hair or anything. However, she always insist on using this special towel to dry her hair.

She insists that she can’t use any regular towel for her hair. She gets mad if I use her hair towel as a regular towel too. She says that the towel should only be used for hair. She even bought an extra one of these towels that she keeps in her drawer at my place. She also takes the towel with her when she goes on vacation.

I usually don’t mind it, since the towel doesn’t take up much space, and it better than listening to a hair dryer all the time. But it’s a bit weird because I don’t know anyone else who has a towel just for their hair.

When we were clearing our leave, we decided to go a staycation. Before the trip, I asked my GF to leave her towel at home since we’ll be staying at a hotel. It would seem weird to be a towel to a hotel where there is already plenty of towels.

Since we planned to leave early in the morning, GF spent the night at my place. I noticed that she packed the towel she kept at my place in her suitcase. When she was asleep, I took the towel out. She didn’t notice the towel was gone until after we got to my parent’s house.

I thought it was okay, and my GF didn’t seem mad at all during the whole trip. However, when we got back at my place, my GF got into her car and drove off without saying goodbye. She texted me later saying she’s mad at me because of that stupid towel and she needs some space. I keep calling and texting her, but she won’t respond.

My friends think she’s being overly dramatic, but my GF isn’t that type of person. Now I’m wondering if I messed up.

Here are what netizens think:

• 100% it’s about him not seeing her as an equal. Even if there is no real reason for her to need a special towel besides that she likes it, his behavior is breakup worthy to me. If he’ll do this over a towel that he thinks she doesn’t need, what else will he take away from her?

• there seem to be a lot of posts on here about men undermining women because of their hair routine, especially curly haired women with a different routine. It’s so gross. Different hair has different maintenance needs.