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SELF-CENTERED FRIEND FOUND OUT WE WENT OUT WITHOUT HER, NOW FOMO KEEP TEXT US

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I have this friend (A) who’s in my clique but the rest of us don’t rly like to hang out with her. Basically she’s very self-centred and only cares about herself and what she wants.

Wants everything her way, will show attitude if she doesn’t get her way

If we decide to go somewhere she doesn’t like, she will black face the whole trip and keep complaining about this and that.

And for the outing she plan, we are not allowed to make any comment cos she will kick up a big fuss and act one victim that we don’t appreciate her.

Basically she’s always very negative and make us feel uncomfortable so we don’t like to hang out with her. To deal with this, we created a new chat group cos none of us have the guts to remove her from the old one.

But then one day my other friend accidentally typed in the old chat “see y’all tmr” and although she deleted it very quickly, we think A still saw it.

Now she fomo, so keep jio us out individually

She never expose us in the chat group but now she keeps pm each of us to ask us out. She’ll ask us what we’re doing over the weekends, free for dinner anot this kind of things and it’s very hard to not to tell her that we are alr meeting just without her.

Feels bad to also keep saying that we’re not free to meet too. But good thing for her is she very persistent never give up.

Keep asking and asking. The funniest tactic she used was that she dreamt of us going out to eat durian so she jio me out to eat but I can’t stand the smell of durian and my whole clique knows so I don’t know which planet she is living on.

Maybe metaverse.

GIRL SCOLD HUSBAND FOR FINDING MISTRESS, HUSBAND TELL HER LAST TIME SHE ALSO HIS MISTRESS

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I can’t believe what I’m hearing. My husband just admitted to having a mistress outside. I’m so angry that I can’t even speak.

He reminded me that he was also married before and meeting me cost his marriage

He must have noticed my anger at him for find a mistress, so he quickly retaliated with something even worse. He told me that I was his mistress too, the last time he was married to his ex-wife before me.

At this point, I’m completely speechless. I can’t believe he would stoop so low as to compare me to his mistress and blamed me for breaking up his marriage in the past.

He was the one who told me that he had no more feelings for his ex-wife and asked me to be together with him at that point of time.

I was so hurt and angry that I just wanted to scream at him and make him feel the same way I was feeling.

But I knew it wouldn’t do any good. He was determined to make me feel guilty and he had done a good job of it. I tried to stay calm and think of what to do next. I knew I needed to confront him about his actions and put an end to this mess.

At this point, I had had enough. I couldn’t believe he was trying to justify his actions and make me feel guilty that I was also a mistress to being with.

He tried to argue even more but I was done listening. I told him that I wanted nothing more to do with him and that I was done.

We are now at the stage of talking terms and honestly maybe it is my karma for breaking up someone’s marriage which is why someone came into the picture now to break up my marriage.

WOMAN FORGED DOCTOR’S PRESCRIPTION TO BUY CONTROLLED DRUGS AT HOSPITALS, ARRESTED

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WOMAN ARRESTED FOR FORGING DOCTORS’ PRESCRIPTIONS TO PURCHASE CONTROLLED DRUGS FROM HOSPITALS’ PHARMACIES

The Police have arrested a 42-year-old woman for her suspected involvement in forging doctors’ prescriptions to purchase controlled drugs from two hospitals’ pharmacies.

On 10 March 2023, the Police received a report from a hospital that a woman had purportedly produced a doctor’s prescription to purchase controlled drugs on behalf of a clinic. The pharmacy staff suspected that the prescription was forged and reported the matter to the Police.

Through investigations, officers from Tanglin Division established the identity of the woman and arrested her on 13 March 2023. Several items, including electronic devices, controlled drugs, four rubber stamps and forged doctors’ prescriptions were seized as case exhibits. Preliminary investigations revealed that the woman had allegedly forged at least 40 doctors’ prescriptions and deceived the pharmacy staff of two hospitals to deliver about $4,112 worth of controlled drugs and drug paraphernalia to her.

The woman will be charged in court on 15 March 2023 with forgery for the purpose of cheating under Section 468 of the Penal Code 1871. The offence carries an imprisonment term of up to ten years and a fine.

The Police takes a serious view of any person who engages in fraudulent or dishonest conduct. Offenders will be dealt with severely in accordance with the law.

If you have information relating to such crimes or if you are in doubt, please call the Police Hotline at 1800-255-0000, or submit it online at www.police.gov.sg/iwitness. All information will be kept strictly confidential.

PUBLIC AFFAIRS DEPARTMENT
SINGAPORE POLICE FORCE
14 March 2023 @ 11:05 PM

GIRL’S BANK & CPF WIPED OUT BY BTO & RENO, SAYS BF EARNS MORE BUT NOT CONTRIBUTING MORE

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My bf and I finally got the keys for our BTO and we’re both very excited to renovate our house.

We’ve also started to look around for suitable furniture and appliances and I didn’t realise how much money all these things cost.

Everything costs a lot, my money is all wiped out

Every single thing is money. Even the basic ones that are not so nice are not cheap. And when you total everything up, it’s really a lot of money.

When we were still waiting for our BTO to be built, I always envisioned my perfect home but because of the high prices, I had to sacrifice a lot of what I wanted.

Although I have a stable job, spending so much money makes me nervous because I’ve never felt so “broke” before.

My CPF account got wiped clean and my savings also took a big hit from all this expenditure. This makes me really uncomfortable as I guess I’m used to having a lot more money in my bank account.

This is the first time that my bank account has dropped below five figures and I sort of blame my bf for it.

Bf earns more than me but insist we contribute the same amount

For all our expenditure so far my bf and I have been splitting equally between two of us. I brought it up to him a few times that he should pay more because he earns way more than me and can afford it but he insisted on splitting 50/50 because we are sharing the house equally.

It sounds fair but in reality, it is not. I’m having a really hard time trying to scrimp and save to have enough to pay.

On the other hand, I see him still able to go out and have fun with his friends. As my future husband, shouldn’t he support me?

He says I shouldn’t have any expectations of him but if I’m the one earning more, I’ll also pay more of the bills so of course I expect him to do the same.

How do I convince him?

SCAMMERS MAKING A LOT OF MONEY BY PRETENDING TO BE PROPERTY AGENTS, DON’T FALL VICTIM

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POLICE ARRESTED THIRTEEN PERSONS FOR SERIES OF RENTAL SCAMS

In an island-wide anti-scam enforcement operation conducted between 9 and 13 March 2023, the Anti-Scam Command of the Singapore Police Force arrested nine men and four women, aged between 18 and 56, for their suspected involvement in recent spate of rental scams. Scammers would impersonate legitimate property agents and ask victims for payment to secure the rental of a unit before viewing the property as part of the scams. Another three women, aged between 21 and 27, are also assisting in investigations.

Preliminary investigations revealed that the sixteen persons purportedly received illicit proceeds from rental scams in their bank accounts. They allegedly allowed their bank accounts to be used to receive the illicit proceeds and withdrew the proceeds, which were then handed to others in the syndicate for easy money. Scam proceeds amounting to more than $1.3 million from 480 rental scam cases were dissipated via cash withdrawals from these bank accounts.

Those who allegedly assist another to retain benefits from criminal conduct are liable for an offence under Section 51 of the Corruption, Drug Trafficking and Other Serious Offences (Confiscation of Benefits) Act, which carries an imprisonment term of up to 10 years, a fine of up to $500,000, or both.

To avoid becoming involved in money laundering activities, members of the public should always reject requests to allow their bank accounts to be used to receive and transfer money for others.

The Police would also like to remind members of the public to adopt the following precautionary measures when securing appointments to view properties:

  1. ADD – ScamShield App and set security features (e.g., enable two-factor (2FA) or multifactor authentication for banks, social media, Singpass accounts; set transaction limits on internet banking transactions, including PayNow)
  2. CHECK – for scam signs with official sources. Verify the legitimacy of a property listing via the following means:
    • Liaise with a property agent using only the agent’s phone number registered on CEA’s Public Register. Members of the public may check whether a property agent is registered with CEA by searching for the agent’s phone number on the CEA Public Register. If the search does not lead to the property agent’s profile page, it means that the property agent has not registered that phone number with the CEA and the listing is likely a scam.
  3. TELL – authorities, family, and friends about scams. Report the fraudulent pages to the online platforms (for e.g. Facebook, Carousell, etc)

For more information on scams, members of the public can visit www.scamalert.sg or call the Anti-Scam Hotline at 1800-722-6688. Anyone with information on such scams may call the Police Hotline at 1800-255-0000 or submit information online at www.police.gov.sg/iwitness. All information will be kept strictly confidential.

Photo of cash seized

PUBLIC AFFAIRS DEPARTMENT
SINGAPORE POLICE FORCE
14 March 2023 @ 4:19 PM

GRAB DRIVERS & PAX CAN NOW RECORD AUDIO DURING RIDES AS PART OF SAFETY FEATURES

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Grab Singapore said on 14 March that with effect from 21 March, they will be rolling out a new safety feature as part of a trial, where both drivers and passengers can record audio during rides.

The feature will be available on all Grab rides, except for GrabHitch and GrabShare.

What is AudioProtect

AudioProtect is a safety feature that allows a driver-partner and passenger to record audio on their devices via the Grab app while they are on a Grab ride, provided both parties give consent.

At Grab, we are committed to providing safer rides for everyone. AudioProtect is first and foremost a deterrence tool aimed at preventing in-person safety incidents. When users are aware that their ride is being recorded, they are less likely to engage in unsafe or inappropriate behaviour. It also allows us to resolve safety incidents more quickly, as we can now rely on recordings to get the full picture. Safety incidents include accidents and instances of verbal, physical, and sexual harassment and/or abuse.

How does AudioProtect work?

Rides will automatically be recorded as long as both you and the driver have enabled the AudioProtect feature in-app. The recording will commence only when the ride starts and will end once you’ve completed the ride. This feature is available on all Grab rides except for GrabShare and GrabHitch.

Recorded audio files are encrypted and will be stored on your device for 5 days before being automatically deleted if no safety-related incident is reported. The files cannot be accessed by both yourself and the driver. These recordings will not be uploaded or accessed by Grab under any circumstances unless a safety-related incident occurs.

In the event a safety-related incident is reported, the relevant audio file will be uploaded to our system for review. Rest assured that this review will be conducted by approved and trained members from Grab’s Safety team, and that your recording will only be used for investigation purposes only.

You may disable AudioProtect at any time.

How do I enable AudioProtect on my device?

You can enable AudioProtect by heading to your Grab app > tapping on Account > selecting Safety Settings > toggling the On button > pressing Confirm to enable AudioProtect for all rides.
You’ll also receive an in-app prompt to enable AudioProtect:

Once enabled, AudioProtect will record all rides from when a ride starts to when the ride is completed. You can also turn off AudioProtect at any time from the in-app Safety Centre by toggling the button off:

Note that microphone permissions are required for AudioProtect to collect audio recordings.

How will I know if my ride is being recorded?

When the ride starts, you’ll see a small notification appear on the Safety Centre button saying “AudioProtect: On” when recording starts. You may also check your Grab Safety Centre to confirm that AudioProtect is turned on.

I have enabled AudioProtect; why was my ride not recorded?

Your ride may not have been recorded due to one of the following reasons:

  • Your driver does not have AudioProtect enabled. Mutual opt-in is required.
  • You do not have enough storage on your phone.
  • You have not allowed microphone permissions for Grab in your device settings.
  • You took a GrabShare or GrabHitch ride. Please note that AudioProtect is not currently available for GrabShare or GrabHitch.
  • Your Grab app version is older than 5.245.0 (Android) or 5.245.0 (iOS).

How do I disable AudioProtect on my device?

You may disable AudioProtect by taking the following steps:

  1. Head to your Grab app and tap on Account.
  2. Select Safety settings and toggle Off.
  3. Tap on “Disable” to confirm. The feature will now be disabled for all rides unless re-enabled.

Note: If you disable AudioProtect after a ride has already started, the ride will still be recorded for safety purposes. Rest assured that the feature will be disabled for any future rides.

Source: Grab

NSMAN PRAY THAT HE DON’T GET PROMOTED IF NOT FINE IS HIGHER FOR DEFAULTING IPPT

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For the past few years, I have been serving reservist in the army and I am holding the rank of a 3SG. I am at my third cycle this year and had just finished a two low keys in camp.

My unit is looking to promote somebody

To be very honest, I find it a waste of time but at the same time, it is a good break from the hectic work schedule that I have and also a good time to meet my mates who served with me back in the past.

Recently, my platoon sergeant whose command I am under got appointed to be the CSM because the actual CSM was posted to work overseas for a few years and they are looking for someone to promote so that he can take over the Platoon Sergeant role.

All eyes of the command team are on me as I am the most eligible candidate left due to me being able to bond with my men easily as well as make them cooperate with the activities during reservist without any complains.

Sincerely hoping that they don’t promote me because higher rank means higher fine for defaulting IPPT

To be honest, I am praying every day that they don’t promote me because a promotion would mean that if I default on my IPPT and get charged, the fine would be higher because my rank is higher.

It is not that I cannot pass my IPPT, but my results have been dropping from a Gold to a Silver and now just a Pass with incentive as I get older and busier with work.

I simply don’t have the time to exercise and I am worried that I might end up not having the time to go for my IPPT or end up failing my IPPT and need to go for RT which I simply don’t have the time to.

I understand the need for promotions in the army so that people can be put into command.

But in my case, I’m not looking for that kind of recognition.

I’m perfectly content with my current rank and position, and I definitely don’t want to risk the potential higher fines that I could end up getting.

Image source: Carousell, The Singapore Army/Facebook

TEACHER FROM “TOP JC” IN S’PORE ARRESTED FOR ALLEGEDLY MOLESTING FEMALE STUDENT

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A teacher described as being from a “top junior college” in Singapore was arrested last Friday (10 March) for allegedly molesting a female student more than 20 years ago.

The Singapore Police Force (SPF) said that they received a report on 19 November last year about the alleged molestation, and are currently investigating the incident.

The alleged molestation is believed to have taken place when the man was working as a teacher at a junior college in Singapore.

The alleged incident is said to have involved a female student who was in the same co-curricular activity (CCA) that the man was involved in.

A spokesperson for the teacher’s current school said in a statement on 14 march that they have suspended the teacher after being made aware of the alleged molestation incident.

However, they declined to provide further comment because of the police investigations that are currently ongoing.

Potential penalties

Outrage of modesty is punishable under Section 354 of the Penal Code, and persons found guilty face a jail term of up to 24 months and caning.

For aggravated outrage of modesty, persons found guilty face a jail term of up to 5 years, including 6 strokes of the cane.

2 SENT TO HOSPITAL AFTER HORRIBLE ACCIDENT @ SIXTH AVE BETWEEN LORRY & CAR

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An accident involving a silver lorry and a white car (an SUV) occurred near 138 Sixth Avenue in Bukit Timah yesterday (14 March) evening.

A photo of the aftermath of the accident was circulated online, showing the two wrecked vehicles stationary in the middle of two roads, obstructing both sides.

The silver-coloured lorry appeared to be worse off, with the driver’s side of the front cabin being completely wrecked and caved in.

Debris from the wreckage and shattered windows could also be seen strewn across the road.

The white-coloured SUB was seen with its bonnet dented in as it sat in the middle of the road, resting on top of the road divider.

Both lanes heading in opposite directions were obstructed as a result of the accident.

The Singapore Police Force (SPF) and the Singapore Civil Defence Force (SCDF) said that there were alerted to the accident that took place along Sixth Avenue on Tuesday at about 6.10 pm in the evening.

The police said that a 49-year-old man who was driving the lorry and his 35-year-old male passenger were conveyed to the hospital conscious.

The driver of the white-coloured SUV, a 43-year-old man, suffered minor injuries in the accident but refused conveyance to the hospital.

At the time of writing, police investigations are ongoing.

GIRL UNHAPPY HER FWB GOT MORE THAN ONE PARTNER, AFRAID THAT SHE’S IN LOVE

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I always thought that having a friends with benefits relationship was the best way to go, especially when I wasn’t looking for anything serious.

I thought it was the perfect way to have no strings attached fun with someone that I enjoyed spending time with.

Started to realise that I wanted more than just a FWB relationship with him

But I never imagined that I’d be in a situation where I’d be so unhappy.

At first, I was happy with my FWB. We had a great connection and he was always up for having a good time. We had a lot of fun together and I felt like I could trust him.

But then things started to change. I noticed that he was spending more and more time with other partners. He seemed to be seeing more partners other than me and I was feeling a little jealous and left out.

I asked him about it and he said that he was just having fun and that he wasn’t looking for anything serious, plus the relationship that I was having with him was not supposed to be serious.

That was when I realised that I might have developed some feelings for him because I wanted more. I wanted to be exclusive with him and I wanted him to be exclusive with me.

But he didn’t seem to be interested in that. I was starting to feel like I was falling in love with him and I knew that I shouldn’t be feeling that way. I was so confused and I didn’t know what to do.

I decided to end the relationship. It was a difficult decision but I knew that it was for the best. I couldn’t keep feeling like this and I knew that I had to do something.

I was scared that if I stayed in the relationship, I would really fall for him and get hurt even more.