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WOMAN’S FIANCE GOT VIOLENT WITH HER FOR THE FIRST TIME, FEELS LOST

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WOMAN’S FIANCE GOT VIOLENT WITH HER FOR THE FIRST TIME, FEELS LOST

My fiancé (32M) got violent with me (28F) for the first time. We are supposed to be getting married this month

I desperately need advice, I’ve been sitting on the floor crying for an hour because I have no idea what to do.

My fiancé who I have been with for 8 years got violent with me for the first time today. We were arguing when he suddenly grabbed me by the throat and pinned me against the wall. It all happened really fast.

He immediately apologised, asked if I was okay and then told me he needed to go for a drive to calm down. He isn’t back yet.

We’re supposed to be getting married on the 17th of this month.

I know the most obvious thing would be to cancel the wedding and leave him but ONE incident over the course of 8 years – is that really worth losing all the money spent on this wedding?

Is it worth losing the man that I love? I feel like I can’t think clearly. How am I supposed to deal with this situation?

Netizen’s comments

Cancel the wedding at the very least if you are not ready to leave him. But I suggest to get some distance at least or just leave him. The fact that it happened for the first time after a long time is not a guarantee that he won’t so it again.

Then therapy or whatever for the both of you. You might need help to get through what he did and he certainly needs it.

WOMAN HATES BEING PREGNANT, SAYS “PEOPLE ONLY SEE THE SURFACE”

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WOMAN HATES BEING PREGNANT, SAYS “PEOPLE ONLY SEE THE SURFACE”

i hate being pregnant and i wish it would end.

i’m nearly 37 weeks. I’m so close, but it doesn’t feel like there’s an end in sight. people love to say ‘pregnancy is beautiful’. whoever said that is a liar.

no one understands what you’re going through. you’re looked at as hormonal, dramatic and emotional. no one understands that your body is no longer yours, you don’t feel like yourself, you feel left out, your body won’t ever be the same, you have to go through a life-altering event just to get it over with.

the anxiety of hoping your baby is okay. the restrictions of your movements. the list of food that you’re not allowed to eat. it is never ending.

i feel like people only see the surface. the baby shower, gender reveal and bump pictures. but it’s so much more than that.

i HATE being pregnant. i truly do. i’m excited for my baby, but i want to feel like myself again. it’s almost over for me, but i know i won’t be the same after this experience. if you feel this way, please know you’re not alone.

Netizens’ comments

  • The best is when people say “sleep now while you can.” It’s damn near impossible to sleep well with this freeloader that’s smashing your bladder flat while simultaneously kicking you in your cervix.

POLICE CAR & BLACK SEDAN REVERSE TO AVOID COLLISION, END UP BOTH CRASH INTO EACH OTHER

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POLICE CAR & BLACK SEDAN REVERSE TO AVOID COLLISION, END UP BOTH CRASH INTO EACH OTHER

In the age of social media, viral videos have become a common phenomenon. A 2019 video depicting a Singaporean police car narrowly avoiding a collision only to end up in an accident has resurfaced, this time capturing attention on TikTok.

Originally shared on Facebook in September 2019, the video found a new audience on TikTok when user @watever0001 reposted it on last Thursday, Nov. 30.

The Incident: A Play-by-Play

The video unfolds as the police car navigates the roads near West Coast Park. Waiting behind a large lorry, the vehicle is about to take a left turn onto West Coast Highway.

Motorcycles pass by, and just as the police car begins its turn, a black car emerges from the right, resulting in a tense moment of evasion.

Miraculously, both drivers manage to avoid a collision in the first instance. However, the relief is short-lived as both cars stall momentarily. The attempt to reverse out of the situation proves challenging, leading to a second, albeit less severe, collision.

The incident takes a turn for the worse as both cars start moving forward simultaneously, resulting in a more substantial collision.

The recording car, witnessing the unfolding drama, decides to move backward and away from the escalating situation, ultimately turning onto the third lane.

The second collision, more forceful than the initial near miss, raises concerns about potential damage and consequences for both drivers involved. The impact of the cars colliding is more pronounced, leaving viewers to wonder about the aftermath.

As the recording car retreats, it captures the aftermath of the incident. Turning onto the third lane, it distances itself from the unfolding scene. The aftermath of the collision, though not fully detailed in the video, leaves room for speculation on the extent of the damage and the reactions of those involved.

@watever0001 #spf #traffic #accident #likesforlike #likes4like #fyps) #fyp #foryou #foryousingapore #tiktoksingapore #watever ♬ Side Trip Lets Go – DJ MURAT AYDIN

MAN LAZY TO GET OUT OF BED, SO HE PUT WHEELS ON HIS MATTRESS & DRIVES IT TO WORK

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MAN LAZY TO GET OUT OF BED, SO HE PUT WHEELS ON HIS MATTRESS & DRIVES IT TO WORK

In the realm of creative solutions to the morning struggle of leaving the comfort of one’s bed for work, a man in Vietnam took innovation to a whole new level.

Picture this: a bed equipped with wheels, cruising through the streets as its occupant indulges in the ultimate act of workplace comfort.

The Genesis of Laziness: A Bed on Wheels

It all began with the age-old dilemma of the morning routine. The desire to stay snug in bed clashed with the responsibilities of the workday. Our protagonist, facing this perpetual struggle, decided to bridge the gap between work and leisure by turning his mattress into a mobile haven.

In a stroke of genius or sheer laziness, depending on one’s perspective, the man ingeniously attached wheels to the bottom of his mattress. This transformation allowed him to effortlessly roll out of his bedroom, down the hallway, and onto the streets, all while enjoying the luxurious comfort of his bed.

While the bed-wheeler faced the occasional challenge of navigating through crowded sidewalks and tight corners, the sheer novelty of the endeavor often garnered smiles from passersby. The streets became his unconventional commute route, and traffic jams posed little concern for the man who had turned his bed into a vehicle.

A Workplace on Wheels: Balancing Comfort and Productivity

One might question the practicality of such an endeavor, but for the bed-wheeler, it was a perfect harmony of comfort and productivity.

In the annals of creative solutions to morning laziness, the man who turned his bed into a mode of transportation stands as a testament to the human spirit’s endless quest for comfort. The bed-wheeler not only conquered the daily struggle of getting out of bed but also transformed the city streets into a canvas of unconventional commuting art.

@green.284 Lương 5tr nhưng vẫn phải dậy sớm đi làm 😅 #fyp #xh #douyin #xuhuong2023 ♬ bunyi asal – haa – janda nanami

WOMAN THINKS THAT COVID CAUSE HER TO BE STUCK AS A SINGLE WOMAN

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WOMAN THINKS THAT COVID CAUSE HER TO BE STUCK AS A SINGLE WOMAN

So I’ve spent about 2 years being single. 2018 was when I had my last relationship. 2019 I had some failed attempts at dating but was really too preoccupied with some turbulent times at my job and dealing with some family drama to even bother using a dating app. 2020 Covid happened and since it’s not going away anytime soon I’ve recently started to do the whole dating app thing. And I feel like I’ve kind of hit a brick wall.

It seems like one of 2 scenarios happens with most of the people I match with: The first is when I start talking to them and possibly go on a date with them and it becomes quickly apparent that there’s just nothing there. We quickly run out of things to talk about. We struggle to find common interests, or more awkwardly find that we have opposite taste/interests/hobbies. It’s possible that we may be still attracted to one another on a physical level but it becomes obvious that there’s no substance there.

The second scenario is that the person I match with do find a lot to talk about and find common interests, and have that more friendly connection but after meeting in person I find that I’m not attracted to them. I might still very much enjoy talking to them but in terms of their personality, mannerisms etc it just makes the relationship very platonic for me and I can’t really get past that. Usually I cease talking to them because I don’t want to lead someone on.

This gets frustrating after a while because it’s really not often that I meet someone that I can click with and connect both on a mental/emotional and physical level. Except for recently, I met someone [29M] who I really clicked with right off the bat. Long text message exchanges all day every day type of deal, for a couple weeks. We went on a date, it went great, hung out at his place afterwards, had a helluva lot of fun (no hook up, just a couple drinks and good conversation), made plans for another date a couple days later. Except when that day came, he texted me that morning to say that he isn’t interested in dating due to personal issues and apologized if he wasted my time. I was kind of dumbfounded to say the least so out of not knowing what to say I asked him if it was me or if I was weird or something and he said that he just wasn’t over quite his last relationship yet. Which, I get what that feels like. But at the same time, it bums me out. 

I feel the COVID affects much more than people think, it has practically destroyed our lives.

WOMAN TOOK SMALL PIECE OF TOILET PAPER @ AMK MALL, SECURITY GUARD THREATENS TO CALL POLICE

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WOMAN TOOK SMALL PIECE OF TOILET PAPER @ AMK MALL, SECURITY GUARD THREATENS TO CALL POLICE

In the mundane setting of a shopping mall, where one expects nothing more than retail therapy, an unexpected incident unfolded at DjitSun Mall in Ang Mo Kio.

Imagine being confronted by a security guard for a seemingly innocent act – taking 2 small pieces of toilet paper from the bathroom. Let’s delve into the perplexing tale that left many scratching their heads.

The TikTok Revelation

In the age of social media confessions, this bizarre encounter surfaced on TikTok. User @quackalackin, also known as Raeann, recounted her peculiar experience that transpired in 2019. Little did she know that a routine visit to the mall’s restroom would lead to a confrontation with the mall’s security.

Raeann, accompanied by her boyfriend, found herself in an awkward situation during a dining escapade at DjitSun Mall.

A sudden nose leak and an exhausted supply of serviettes from the restaurant left them in a predicament. In a bid to salvage the situation, Raeann volunteered to fetch additional tissue from the restroom.

As Raeann innocently grabbed a few squares from the toilet roll, little did she anticipate the impending drama. Exiting the restroom, she was halted by a security guard who accused her of theft, claiming she was stealing the mall’s property.

Threats and Confusion: The Security Guard’s Odd Behavior

The bewildering saga continued as the security guard threatened to involve the police. Raeann, genuinely perplexed, attempted to reason with the guard, questioning the legitimacy of accusing someone of ‘stealing’ toilet paper. The situation escalated as the guard, adamant in his stance, dialed 999 to summon the police.

In a surprising turn of events, the anticipated police intervention never materialized. Raeann, left in a state of confusion, speculated whether the security guard had merely staged the call to bluff her. The guard’s insistence on discarding the toilet paper added to the perplexity, leaving Raeann exasperated.

Despite the lack of police presence, Raeann decided not to pursue the matter further. Perceiving the security guard’s fear of management, she deemed it an unworthy pursuit of her time. Curiously, Raeann noted that she never encountered the guard again during her visits to the mall.

@quackalackin

BTW i only took a few squares not the whole roll ok..didnt know it was illegal 🤧

♬ original sound – raeann

40 Y.O MAN STILL TAKES $8,000 ALLOWANCE FROM PARENTS

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40 Y.O MAN STILL TAKES $8,000 ALLOWANCE FROM PARENTS

Just what it says. I’ve been interested in someone. He’s 40 yo. Lives at home. I have recently found out that he takes money from his parents. Not monthly allowance but every 3-4 months one of his parents’ FD accounts matures and they ‘give’ him the interest. It’s over $8k each time.

He works part-time like 30 hours a week (more like 15 cos he only works when there is assignments, most of the time he is on standby)cos he wants more time to pursue his hobbies. He takes home around $2k per month. His company has asked him many times to take more hours but he doesn’t want to.

He doesn’t give his parents any money though he lives in their flat and his mum buys everything for him including vitamins, daily food and snacks, all his meals, soap, shampoo, etc. He doesn’t do any chores.

His parents even gave him the master bedroom cos he is now ‘grown up’. They are middle class, his mum still works but wakes up early every morning to make or heat up a huge breakfast for him and usually buys his dinner. He will skip lunch so he has more disposable income for hobbies.

Personality-wise he’s fun, easy to take to and we have a similar sense of humour and hobbies. I enjoy his company alot.

But long term, do you think someone like this would make a good partner? I’m concerned that a 40yo guy who has never been responsible for himself and spends all his earnings on expensive hobbies, well he hasn’t ‘proven’ himself to be responsible yet.

Some examples of his behaviour with me are forgetting to pay me back when I pay for meals, offering to buy me dinner at coffee shops but when we share a normal meal that is 50-50 he will want to go to cafes and restaurants, he won’t attend movies or plays or music shows with me if it’s something he doesn’t like, unless I buy his ticket cos he doesn’t want to pay for stuff that he’s just going to keep me company. He will usually announce something that he’s interested in and ask me if I have time to book cos he’s busy, yet I work longer hours than him. He doesn’t send me home unless it is convenient for him ie not a detour at all.

I feel that I’m being so money minded and calculative by thinking this way. But at the same time I feel that he wants to find someone who is like his mother, always supplementing his lifestyle with money and labour??

GUY KENA HANTAM BY AUNTIES UNTIL END UP IN HIS UNDERWEAR, KICKED IN THE KKJ

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GUY KENA HANTAM BY AUNTIES UNTIL END UP IN HIS UNDERWEAR, KICKED IN THE KKJ

A video emerged online showing a man without a shirt on, facing a relentless barrage of blows from a group of what appears to be middle aged women and a few men.

The aunties in the video were seen hitting and slapping the man repeatedly, with one of them also “armed” with a shoe and using it to hit the man repeatedly as he raised his arms to protect himself.

Another woman wearing a black shirt then joined in the fray and the trio then continued attacking him, before one of them then dragged him by grabbing onto his shorts.

They were seen in the video scolding him about something (the audio quality is quite bad and we can’t really make out what they are saying,” before resuming their attack on him.

At one point, the man was seen hiding behind another man in black, as he shouted for him to “help me please”, before another man behind the camera retorted “nobody going to help you!”

The man then ended up being dragged all the way to the other side of the road, this time with his pants pulled down and him holding on to his underwear for dear life as the women continued attacking him.

Things then escalated even further as the women then started kicking him in his private parts.

Near the end of the video, one of the women was seen demanding an apology video from the man, as another man who tried to help him, said that he will get him to do the video “now”.

Context

According to some netizen, the conflict apparently stemmed from him insulting somebody’s mother, and it allegedly even got to the point where he was confronted at his home.

However, another netizen weighed in and said that it was because of him talking bad about somebody’s daughter.

GUY SAYS FACIAL COMPLEXION SCREWED UP AFTER ENLISTMENT

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GUY SAYS FACIAL COMPLEXION SCREWED UP AFTER ENLISTMENT

A guy recently shared with us a story of how his facial complexion got so bad after enlistment due to the constant camouflage that he has to put on his face while in training and as the company that he is in has crazy camouflage requirements.

Here is the story

“I enlisted almost ten years ago, did okay in BMT and then went on to Specialist Cadet School or like the old birds will say, SISPEC.

I was posted to Infantry (Advanced Term) after the basic Infantry course where all cadets have to go through prior to being posted out to their different vocations.

The company I was in was considered quite notorious in my time, with stringent rules and instructors of crazy personalities.

I was okay with all the rules but one thing which I could not take, was the constant amount of camouflage cream where we have to put on our faces.

Before you comment saying that camouflage is part and parcel of Army life, please hear me out.

A bit of background of my skin, my skin condition has been good all the while since young, I did not even have to use facial wash to wash my face and I still have perfect and clear skin, much to the jealousy of my friends.

I was not proud of any of my features, except my flawless skin.

When BMT began and as time progressed, I started to use facial wash to aid the removing of my camouflage cream whenever we were given time to shower.

Even during outfield, we were allowed to clean our faces with wet wipes every night and just have to apply back the camouflage cream by morning.

Even though that seemed a little dirty, it still helped to keep my face clean and flawless.

However, things changed when I went into the Advanced Infantry term.

We were not allowed to remove our camouflage even at night during outfield and in fact if it is fading away even before sleeping, we will have to apply it nicely again before we were allowed to sleep.

Sometimes, our outfield goes for as long as a week and throughout the week, with the constant application of camouflage cream to the face as well as perspiration, you can imagine how clogged up the face will become.

This made my complexion real bad, from flawless to full of acne and scars.

Even after I finished my service, the condition still did not improve and now it has been almost 10 years.

I’m saying this not to blame anyone or anything, but maybe just myself for not trying to find a way out to keep my face clean during that period of time.”

Image source: Carousell, Unsplash.com

GIRL SAYS SHE LOVES HOW HER BOYFRIEND IS HER “MOTHER FIGURE”

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GIRL SAYS SHE LOVES HOW HER BOYFRIEND IS HER “MOTHER FIGURE”

My boyfriend continues to be the mother figure in my life. I love it

I’ve talked about this here before, but I can’t get over the feeling. He’s so good at comforting me, being patient and doing fun things with me.

I went to his house (mind you were both 17) after a long shift at work and I was exhausted. He then offered to lend me some of his clothes so I can take a shower.

When I give him my dirty clothes he noticed bruises on my arms that I forgot I had from the night before.

He learned that I hadn’t eaten today because I was busy. He gave me snacks and water and eventually made me something to eat.

We spent time reading books and watching YouTube together.

Unfortunately in the midst of it I somehow started my period right then and there. I started cramping and he offered me some stomach massages and warmth.

While he massaged me, he talked about how beautiful I looked. And how I was a blessing to him. The rest of the day we just laughed and played.

His motherly ways make me feel 10 times better about my family and home life. As if things my real mother did to me never happened.

Whenever we hang out my problems just go right away.

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