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HUSBAND GOT PROMOTED, TELLS WIFE TO QUIT JOB AND BECOME HOUSEWIFE

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My husband and I both work fulltime. He recently got a promotion and he now makes twice what I do. Since he got the promotion, he has been pressuring me to quit my job and be a fulltime housewife.

The reason that my husband is into this idea is because that would make me responsible for all the cooking and cleaning.

Right now we split chores evenly since we both work similar hours, and I like that arrangement. My husband is not a fan, he hates having to do chores around the house.

I admit that I would love to not have to work, but the tradeoff being offered is not appealing to me. I suggested that my husband should use some of the extra income to hire a maid service, and then neither of us would have to do the chores.

He accused me of “just wanting to coast off of his money without doing anything” and has been annoyed all morning that I suggested it.

Netizens’ comments

  • So he says you are “coasting off his money” but isn’t he wanting to “coast off your labor”. And whatever you do, don’t quit your job. Ever.
  • “Since he got the promotion, he has been pressuring me to quit my job and be a fulltime housewife.”
    First red flag, that’s a big nope, good buddy.
    “Right now we split chores evenly since we both work similar hours, and I like that arrangement. My husband is not a fan, he hates having to do chores around the house.”
    Why do men think women LOVE cleaning? We do it anyway because we’re adults and not disgusting animals.
    “I admit that I would love to not have to work, but the tradeoff being offered is not appealing to me.”
    You are smart. You would lose the freedom that comes from having your own income, connections at work, and the ability to continue to grow your career, which will likely become stalled if you quit.

MAID STOLE $57K OF EMPLOYER’S GOLD BARS & PAWNED THEM FOR MONEY, JAILED

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The quiet neighborhood of Marine Parade witnessed an unsettling incident as a domestic helper, Sri Hastuti, betrayed the trust of her employer, according to The Straits Times.

In a series of calculated moves, she pocketed gold bars and jewelry, totaling over $57,000, from her employer’s supposedly secure drawer. What followed was a year-long escapade of pawning stolen items and sending the cash back to her family in Indonesia.

Background

In a shocking revelation, the serene routine of a Marine Parade household was disrupted when the employer discovered missing items from a previously unlocked drawer in the master bedroom. The culprit, Sri Hastuti, had been employed by a German man, adding an international twist to the case.

This incident underscores the vulnerabilities employers face when entrusting their homes to domestic helpers. It sheds light on the importance of security measures and the need for stringent background checks when hiring help.

The Culprit – Sri Hastuti

Sri Hastuti, a 39-year-old domestic helper, had been entrusted with the responsibility of maintaining a German man’s residence. The absence of specific employment start dates raises questions about the duration of her employment.

The employer’s decision to leave the master bedroom unlocked for cleaning purposes inadvertently provided Sri Hastuti with an opportunity to exploit the situation.

The thefts occurred between July 2022 and September 2023, revealing the extent of Sri Hastuti’s deceptive actions over an extended period.

Modus Operandi

The employer’s practice of leaving the master bedroom unlocked for cleaning inadvertently facilitated Sri Hastuti’s thieving activities.

Sri Hastuti chose a methodical approach, pawning the stolen items at multiple locations across the country.

The ill-gotten gains were transferred to Sri Hastuti’s family in Indonesia, creating a web of financial deceit.

Sri Hastuti faced legal repercussions, charged with theft as a servant of her employer’s property.

On November 21, she received a 15-month jail sentence after pleading guilty to the charge.

KATONG PET SHOP STAFF CAUGHT CANING SCARED LITTLE PUPPY, SHOP ISSUES PUBLIC APOLOGY

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In the bustling neighborhood of Katong, Whatupdawg, a local pet store, found itself at the center of controversy when a video surfaced online, depicting one of its staff members caning a puppy on the store premises.

This incident, which unfolded in November 2022, has sparked outrage within the community and raised questions about the store’s commitment to animal welfare.

Details of the Incident

The circulated 30-second video provides a disconcerting view of a man repeatedly caning a small dog in an enclosed area of the store, eliciting whimpers from the distressed animal.

The incident, captured at night, also captures voices from inside the store, adding to the unsettling nature of the footage.

The video quickly gained traction on social media, particularly within the “Dogs Singapore” Facebook group. The public’s strong reaction and the potential ramifications for Whatupdawg’s reputation are under scrutiny.

In response to the incident, Whatupdawg made the decision to terminate the employment of the male staff member involved. The store released a statement emphasizing its commitment to ensuring the well-being of the animals under its care.

Whatupdawg’s public apology

We sincerely apologize for the distressing incident involving our former staff member. Mr. Sim. who was reported to have mistreated one of our puppies back in november 22 last year.

We became aware of this issue only on June 23 of this year when approached by NParks/AVS. subsequently, Mr. Sim was dismissed. and appropriate actions were taken following reports from AVS and NParks.

We deeply regret any inconvenience caused and are committed to collaborating with the authorities to address this matter appropriately.

Ensuring the well-being of animals is our priority and we will diligently train and educate all our current and future staff members to prevent any similar incidents from occurring.”

WOMAN DOESN’T CARE HUSBAND CHEATS BECAUSE HE BUYS HER EVERYTHING

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My husband cheats on me sometimes, but I don’t care because I’m very well taken care of
I know this is against the norm because cheating is looked down upon and I used to care a lot more when I was younger but now, not as much.

My husband and I have two kids together and I consider myself fit, curvy and beautiful. Most people can’t tell that I’ve had kids. I run a few businesses and we also have a nanny which really helps both of us when it comes to having our own time.

I have always known my husband had wondering eyes and for the most part he is amazing. Except for the times where he will go fool around with someone when he goes to Vegas for the weekend or something. Before these trips, he will always leave me extra cash and, he always brings me back something. It’s never the same person and always a one-night thing. He doesn’t take girls on vacations, he doesn’t have sugar babies, he only does hookups. He doesn’t want to commit to anyone else even though in the traditional way he’s not fully committed to me either.

He is safe and I also test myself regularly. We don’t talk about it out in the open and it’s kind of one of those things I know but don’t speak of unless something in particular upset me. We are loving, intimacy is great and nothing is amiss. He lives with us and comes home everyday.

The main reason why I don’t care so much about his occasional ONS is because I’m very well taken care of. Anything I want, he will get me. If I tell him I want to go vacation somewhere, he will take me. I don’t look at the prices when I shop. And if I do decide to leave him (he doesn’t want me to but I do feel that one day I might), we have already discussed my monthly alimony and child support, which is close to the mid-5 digits. Right now, everything I spend is on his card that he pays off and he also gives me monthly allowances for me to keep/save despite me having my own money from my businesses (that he helped me open).

I have never spoken this aloud because I know people will tell me it’s wrong for me to value a comfortable life over a monogamous marriage and call me a gold digger. But the truth is, I’ve been with my husband since he was flat broke. And while I would love to have a faithful marriage, if I had to choose between that and never having to worry about money, I would and am choosing the latter.

S’PORE AH GUA SLEPT WITH 3 MEN WITHOUT TELLING THEM THAT HE WAS HIV+, JAILED

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In a recent legal case, a transgender individual faced the repercussions of not disclosing their HIV status to their partners before sleeping with them, according to The Straits Times.

The ramifications of such actions led to a conviction under the Infectious Diseases Act, shedding light on the importance of responsible behavior and adherence to legal obligations.

The Case of Mohamad Fazni Mohamad Azini

Background and Identity Crisis

Mohamad Fazni Mohamad Azini, a 38-year-old individual, found themselves entangled in legal woes due to non-disclosure of their HIV status.

Formerly living as a transgender woman from 2004 to 2014 and then from February 2016 onward, Fazni’s case raises questions about identity, societal perceptions, and the legal ramifications of medical non-disclosure.

Legal Proceedings and Gag Order

The legal proceedings took an intriguing turn with a gag order initially concealing Fazni’s identity. However, on November 21, the prosecution successfully argued for its lifting, emphasizing that such orders are not for the benefit of the accused.

District Judge Marvin Bay concurred, stating that the majority of victims had only encountered Fazni once, making it unlikely that their identities would be compromised.

Charges and Sentencing

Fazni faced three charges under the Infectious Diseases Act, involving an acquaintance and two other individuals identified as Mr. E and Mr. B.

The consequences were severe, leading to a three-year and three-month jail sentence. The charges centered on Fazni’s failure to disclose their HIV status, a critical requirement according to the law.

Fazni’s Double Life

From Natasha to Fazni

Fazni’s life transition from Natasha to their current identity adds complexity to the narrative. The use of an alias in their encounters brings forth questions about personal identity and the challenges faced by transgender individuals.

Court documents reveal Fazni’s involvement in obscene work in the Geylang area, offering services to men for a range of fees. This aspect of their life raises discussions about the challenges faced by individuals in marginalized professions.

The Encounter with Mr. E

The case unfolds with an encounter between Fazni and Mr. E in 2018, where Fazni, known as Natasha, engaged in unprotected intercourse without disclosing their HIV status. This incident became a focal point in the legal proceedings.

Mr. B and the Changi Hotel Incident

Another charge involved an encounter with Mr. B in a Changi hotel, where Fazni engaged in protected intercourse. This incident, while different, underscored the recurring theme of non-disclosure.

Medical reports revealed fluctuations in Fazni’s viral load, with undetectable levels turning into high levels due to non-adherence to HIV treatment. This breach of medical responsibility played a crucial role in the legal consequences.

Understanding HIV and Legal Obligations

HIV and its Stages

The Ministry of Health (MOH) defines HIV as an infection attacking the immune system, with acquired immune deficiency syndrome (AIDS) being its final and fatal stage if left untreated. This sheds light on the gravity of Fazni’s actions and the potential impact on their partners.

While HIV is incurable, antiretroviral therapy can manage the virus, improving the immune system and reducing the viral load to undetectable levels. MOH emphasizes that individuals with undetectable viral loads pose minimal risk to their partners. Fazni’s case took a turn when their viral load spiked due to non-adherence to treatment, highlighting the significance of consistent medical management.

Legal Implications and Future Appeals

Legal Consequences and Sentencing

District Judge Marvin Bay, in his grounds for sentence, highlighted the severity of Fazni’s actions, emphasizing the importance of adherence to the Infectious Diseases Act. The three-year and three-month jail sentence reflects the gravity of the charges.

Fazni, represented by legal counsel from the Eugene Thuraisingam law firm, expressed the intention to appeal the conviction and sentence. The appeal process adds another layer of complexity to this already intricate legal saga.

With bail set at $20,000, Fazni faces not only the incarceration but also financial consequences. The legal fines, if imposed, could further impact their life and financial stability.

PRI 3 & 4 KIDS TO START CLEANING TOILETS AS PART OF NEW “CLEANLINESS MODULE”

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Senior Parliamentary Secretary for Sustainability and the Environment Mr Baey Yam Keng, launched the National Environment Agency’s (NEA) Clean Public Toilets Campaign 2023 today, together with the Public Hygiene Council (PHC), Restroom Association Singapore (RAS), and Singapore Kindness Movement (SKM).

2          The Clean Public Toilets Campaign 2023 sees continued strong support from partners PHC, RAS and SKM, who are joining NEA to promote the responsible use of public toilets. This year’s campaign, which is themed “Are you nice when no one’s around? Do it right for everyone”, appeals to the concept of social consciousness and encourages the socially desirable actions of ‘Clean, Flush, Dry, Bin’ by public toilet users. The campaign draws parallels to the practicing of acts of kindness without reward and recognition, and nudges individuals to be more aware of their actions behind the closed doors of the toilet cubicle. Please refer to Annex A for key campaign visuals.

3          NEA also partners various other stakeholders to reach different segments of the community directly. For instance, NEA will reach out to more than 2,000 premises across Singapore, including coffeeshops, hawker centres, parks and recreational beaches, petrol stations, sports facilities, schools and public service agencies, to publicise campaign messages.

Ground-up Initiatives From Community Partners

4          The PHC, a supporter of the campaign since 2021, continues its partnership with NEA this year to promote wider awareness of good toilet hygiene habits through PHC’s channels and network. Mr Andrew Khng, Chairman of PHC, says, “More people should be aware that public toilet cleanliness is a shared responsibility. Premises operators, users and cleaners must put in collective efforts to do their part and keep it clean. So, let’s stop pointing to each other and work towards having clean toilets together.” To encourage this partnership, the PHC works with different stakeholders through its Neighbourhood Toilet Community Group initiative to drive the message of joint responsibility in keeping public toilets clean. According to some of the participating coffeeshops such as PDSS 318 Food Cafeteria, MEETUP @ 494 and Get Together Coffeeshop, the toilet cleanliness at their premises have shown significant improvement since joining the programme.

5          The PHC will also pilot a toilet cleanliness module as part of the Buddy Clean Workshop, a programme that aims to inculcate positive social values and norms on cleanliness amongst Primary 3 and 4 students. Through the module, students will get to pick up practical skills and knowledge on how to keep public spaces, including public toilets, clean.

6          RAS continues to advocate for clean public toilets. Mr Ho Chee Kit, President of RAS, says, “Since launching the LOO (Let’s Observe Ourselves) Campaign @ Hawker Centres in 2021, we have reached out to 80 hawker centres. Educational tissue packets on showing kindness to cleaning attendants were distributed to more than 25,000 public patrons, garnering more than 1,200 online pledges to keep hawker centre toilets clean. With the launch of the LOO Campaign @ Coffeeshops on 16 November this year, we look forward to continued support from all stakeholders.”  Through the LOO Campaign @ Coffeeshops, RAS will conduct training on toilet design and maintenance for related staff, toilet audits and public engagement activities through outreach activities at the coffeeshops.

7          For its part, the SKM believes that keeping public toilets clean for the next user is a simple yet important act of kindness that contributes to the well-being of a community. “By cleaning up after ourselves in public restrooms, we help instil a sense of responsibility and consideration in others and become a greater version of ourselves,” says Ms Michelle Tay, Director of SKM. “Inculcating the consideration of others also means we are responsible for one another, accommodating a sense of community and unity. Being greater leads to a kinder you, ultimately creating a stronger us. Let’s strive towards a kinder and more gracious society.”

Collective Action and Co-ownership by Everyone

8          Over the years, NEA has also made efforts to enhance public health standards in relation to the Environmental Sanitation Regime, and to support the enhancement of public toilet infrastructure. The Environmental Public Health Act 1987 was amended in 2020 to mandate baseline cleaning standards and place greater accountability on premises owners to meet those standards. In 2020, NEA also introduced a Toilet Improvement Programme for toilets in hawker centres and coffeeshops. Please refer to Annex B for a factsheet on toilets in some new hawker centres, and toilets in some hawker centres which were renovated as the centres underwent Repairs and Redecoration.

9          However, these efforts, on their own, would be insufficient to raise the overall standard of public toilet cleanliness in Singapore. All toilet users should use facilities responsibly, and this is what NEA’s annual Clean Public Toilets Campaign underscores. Rather than look to public toilet operators or cleaners to improve the cleanliness of public toilets, each of us should adopt a conscientious attitude of cleaning up after ourselves after each use of a public toilet.

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WOMAN IGNORED BY WAITER AT RESTAURANT, WHO ONLY TALKED TO HER BF

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I was completely ignored and talked over by a male server while ordering food

my boyfriend lost his job so I’ve been paying for the majority of our recent dates, which is completely fine by me because my work is going well.

I had a craving for *restaurant name withheld* and we decided to go there. We walk up to the counter, the man behind the counter asks my boyfriend if we’re ready and I said “I know what I want, he’s never been” the guy cuts me off at the last word (never looking at me or acknowledging me) and says to my boyfriend “take as much time as you need!”.

So he finally decides and my bf tells me to go first, I start to order and the server is looking at my bf instead of me.

I tell him what I want and he completely ignores me. An awkward moment goes by and my bf nervously repeats what I said and then the server puts it in the system.

He then orders his food as I pull out my card and stand there holding it waiting for the total. He looks at me holding the card, faces my bf again and says the total.

I put the card in and pay. At this point I’m pretty annoyed. My bf got a drink that’s behind the counter, and I got a fountain drink that is self serve.

Someone else fills up his drink and puts it in the counter. Another moment passes and I ask if I can have my cup. Server made an annoyed face and handed my cup to my bf, we were also on different sides of the register so he made the choice to grab the cup from my side, then move his hand across the register and hand it to him.

Micro-aggressions aside, I was paying for the meal. He was waiting for my bf, (who had never been) to order for me and know the total. It’s been really grinding my gears lately.

STUDENT SAYS HE WANTS A FORBIDDEN RELATIONSHIP WITH MARRIED WOMEN

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After some of my fail relationships with girls my age or lower here, and as I’m about to graduate, I realize that one thing I have never tried is to have a relationship with a married woman. Had a senior 4 years my age that I liked back in the past, but she turned me down because she deemed me too immature for her taste (or at least that is what I guessed). I started to realize that what I need is warmth, experiences, and understanding of an older-sister figure, yet also providing me the space to become the man to protect her.

So why married?

Probably because I see them as hotter and more forbidden – the more difficult it is to get the more appealing. Yes, yes, I know that my taste in women is degenerative and if I get caught trying to flirt with a married woman, I will be beaten to death. And I don’t really like widows either, I like to have the feeling of taking away the wife of another man and successfully conquer the feeling of a settled, serious, and difficult woman. People say that the more challenging it is, the more satisfying it feels to overcome. I have tried to flirt with girls who had boyfriends before but so far it wasn’t successful (one of them agreed to sleep with me as fwb but cut me off a few days afterwards out of guilt).

What should I do in my case? When I start to work, should I flirt with my older female colleagues and persuade them to leave their husbands for an adventurous and immoral-feeling relationship? How should I do so without the risk of losing my jobs or reputation?

For your information, I would rate myself a 8/10, I have an okay appearance, a bit on the thinner side but also taller.

WOMAN BOUGHT EGGS FROM TOA PAYOH FAIRPRICE, WENT HOME & FOUND THEM MOULDY

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In a recent incident, a woman detailed her unsettling experience with eggs purchased from the FairPrice Toa Payoh HDB Hub branch.

The Woman’s Experience

The woman, speaking to 8world News, disclosed that she bought the eggs on a Monday evening, intending to use them for her family.

Little did she expect that what seemed like a routine purchase would turn into a moldy ordeal. The eggs, purchased at around 11:16 pm, were initially set aside at home, awaiting placement in the fridge.

However, it was during this seemingly mundane task that the woman noticed an unpleasant surprise – the eggs were covered in mold.

Despite the egg box being transparent, the mold was not discernible at the time of purchase. The woman expressed her surprise, stating, “You really can’t tell through the box.”

Reporting the Issue

Upon the discovery of the moldy eggs, the woman promptly reached out to FairPrice via Facebook Messenger to bring the issue to their attention.

In response, FairPrice’s spokesperson not only apologized for the inconvenience but also offered a solution. The woman was advised to return the products with the receipt for a refund or exchange at her convenience.

FairPrice Group’s Perspective

FairPrice Group emphasized the paramount importance they place on food quality and safety. The group assured customers that they could return substandard products to the supermarket of purchase, accompanied by receipts, for an exchange or refund.

BF WORRIED AS GF CONSTANTLY MEETS HANDSOME GUY ALONE

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I (24M) have been with my girlfriend (20F) for about 2 months + and things have been great so far. I’m very happy whenever I’m with her. However, there’s something that’s been bothering me since a month ago.

Basically, she got to know this guy (let’s call him Adam) from a mutual friend of hers a month ago, and they started talking and texting (not sure how regularly though), and then arranged a meet up to have lunch not long after.

She then informed me a day before their lunch that she was going to meet Adam for lunch at city area and asked if I was okay about. To reassure me, she showed me his instagram profile and holysmoke, he’s honestly a 10/10 in terms of looks LOL.

So I started to get jealous over him and I relayed how I felt to my girlfriend, and she continued to reassure me that they’re just friends and she loves only loves me.

She then asked if she should cancel the lunch session with Adam, to which I said no because I don’t want to be “that controlling boyfriend” and I respect her right to meet anyone she wants.

Fast forward to this Saturday (2 days ago), she suddenly told me that she’s going to study with Adam to prepare for her upcoming exam (exam is tomorrow). The study session lasted for the whole day, from like morning to night.

Again, I got bothered by it and told her about it. She then asked if she should cut her study session short, and of course, i said no because i dont want to be an unreasonable bf. Anyway, I was supposed to meet my girlfriend today to study together, but she told me yesterday that she don’t think it’s a good idea to head out to study today since her exam is tomorrow.

So, I asked her if I am a distracting study partner, and if she had managed to complete her agenda on Sunday, to which she answered yes for both of the questions. She then further explained that she don’t usually go out a day before her exam.

I was still very bothered by it so I told her how I felt about all of this yesterday night. She told me this is how she is.

She treats guys the same way she treats her female friends. The thing is, she was accused previously by her ex-friends and ex-bf that she hung out too frequently with guys alone. However, since her conscience is clear (she only see her male friends as just friends), she is okay with hanging out with them alone. She then proceeded to reassure me that they are really just friends and she loves me so much.

So my question here is, is it normal for me to feel uncomfortable and jealous about this? Or am I just too insecure to deal with this maturely? I dont really know how to approach this issue since this is my first relationship… your help and opinion are greatly appreciated! 🙂