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MAN FELL IN LOVE WITH HIS ONE NIGHT STAND, BUT SHE ONLY USED HIM FOR HIS BODY

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Obligatory not today, but a few weeks back. I had a one night stand with a good friend of mine.

Before it we had a good friendly relationship, talked to each other every day, and I think we both started to develop some feelings.

Then one night after some drinks, one thing lead to another, and we got intimate between the sheets.

The issue arrives in the fact, that after that night, I was ready to turn this into a relationship, my feelings for her shot through the roof.

But for her it was the opposite, she had recently gotten out of a relationship, and I was just a rebound for her.

Now I am not only heartbroken, but I’ve also lost a friendship I feel like, we talk less and less, we don’t see each other often anymore, and it’s just become awkward.

TL;DR Slept with a good friend, lost both potential relationship and friendship

Netizens’ comments

  1. Sometimes the allure is better than the reality.
  2. It happens to the best of us! Give it some time to see if that can mend the friendship and maybe restore some of it, although if your feels now are entirely romantic in nature, that won’t work for you. It is okay to have tried and failed. I wish you the best.
  3. I hate to say it, but you were a rebound and it is possible she did not feel anything so she has become distant.
    It sucks, but that is life and you have to move on. IF she truly wanted you she would be trying to be with you. bad timing
  4. That is why you don’t sleep with your friends. Lesson learned. There will be plenty more
  5. My man just learned that girls be like, ” I know a place” then take take you to the deepest pit of sadness you’ll ever know

GUY GOT EX-GF PREGNANT BUT SHE WANTS TO GIVE AWAY THE BABY FOR ADOPTION

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Ex gf wants to place our baby for adoption, not sure that I can

I’m 23. My ex-girlfriend is 20. We met while we were still studying. I’ve since graduated but she has 2 years left.

She’s 21 weeks pregnant and wants to put the baby up for adoption. She was around 14 weeks pregnant when she told me she was pregnant. We had already broken up 2 months before that and I honestly had no idea she was pregnant.

She said she needed space to make her own decision and that’s why she didn’t tell me.

From the moment she told me she was pregnant I told her I would support whatever decision she made. I respect that it’s her decision. I believe in a woman’s right to choose and all that.

I feel guilty that I got her pregnant. I’m internally panicking at the idea of a baby and the idea of being a father is wild and unreal to me right now.

But when she told me she was planning to put the baby up for adoption it felt like a gut punch. She’s already connected with possible adoptive families.

In no way do I think she should be forced to be a parent. I would never want to contribute to that. I completely understand her reasoning. It’s just making me feel sick. She seems as content as she can be with the decision. She knows this is the “right” decision for her.

I don’t know if I can consent to it. I’ve started researching contested adoptions. I think it’s sort of crazy and I’d have to be willing and prepared to completely support and parent the baby on my own and be able to prove it.

I feel guilty thinking about coming in and ruining all of her plans. Maybe it wouldn’t be fair to anyone for me to do that, but I’m becoming more uncomfortable with the idea of adoption every day.

I’ve not told her how I feel because I know it took her a while to come to her decision and even though she feels it’s the right one it’s also a highly emotional thing for her.

I spend a lot of time trying to rationalize why adoption is the best thing for everyone.

MAN DUMPED WOMAN AFTER SHE SMELLED LIKE POOP WHEN THEY WERE PIAK-ING

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I lost attraction to a woman because she smelled like poop when were in bed together and now she’s angry at me.

We were hooking up doggy style when I noticed the back shot air literally stunk like poop. I was immediately turned off and I found myself thinking the next day that I don’t wanna sleep with this person anymore.

I find a lack of hygiene to be inconsiderate and even a little disrespectful to partners; especially when its noticeable during intimacy.

I tried to be mature and have the conversation in person but even then I knew she would take it pretty bad. She spirals down into very negative thoughts about herself and I didn’t want her to think there was anything wrong with her as a person so I tried to bring her down slowly.

When the morning rolled around she made a joke about me going to work and basically ended it with “You’ll provide for us, baby” which I just had to shut down.

I was already trying to figure out what I was gonna say but that kinda made me realize that she has far deeper feelings and intentions for me than she initially displayed.

I told her that while I think she’s a great person, I don’t think we should continue seeing each other or hooking up anymore.

She immediately spiraled and I went into repair mode. I tried to minimize damage by blaming myself. In short I basically gave her the “Its not you, its me” cliche and it kinda worked too well because she exploded on me a couple of days later in my Instagram messages.

It was then she accused me of only dating “the wrong people” so that I could have a pedestal to put myself on.

She said that she was the best option for me and that I’m stupid for not wanting to be with her. She accused me of chasing dysfunction because its the only way for me to appear good or functional by comparison.

That actually made my angry but I still bit my tongue. I wanted to tell her really bad that I really just called things off because she smelled like a marinated rubbish bin and still expected me to f her.

I just left her on delivered and she blocked me after an hour of me not responding.

GF LETS BF PUT HIS KKJ IN OTHER WOMEN, THEN GETS ANGRY WHEN HE ACTUALLY DID IT

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Me and my girlfriend opened up our relationship and now it’s close again. What do I do?

Me and my girlfriend decided to open up our relationship. On the first day I went to a party and slept with a woman twice and I really enjoyed it.

I saw my girlfriend the next day and I asked her if she had seen anyone yet, she said no and that she had just talked to a couple guys but she has rethought the open relationship and doesn’t want it anymore.

I said okay and I told her what happened with me and that other woman. She went ballistic and hit me as hard as she could all over my body many many times.

She then proceeded to throw a hard metal object at me and throw my phone down the toilet. To be clear, she wanted the open relationship first, what do I do now?

Netizens’ comments

  1. These comments are delusional. If you didn’t want your S.O. to sleep with others , then don’t open your relationship??? And also, people glossing over the obvious physical toxicity in women hitting him and throwing away his stuff???
  2. She thought she had a sure thing wanted an out. T ddnt happen and now she’s annoyed that you took the opportunity.
  3. Don’t let anyone here blame you for what you did, she wanted to play a stupid game and she won a stupid prize, simple as that
  4. Almost irrelevant, but did you discuss the specifics at all? She probably only wanted to open it because she had someone she wanted to f, and is surprised you even got any.
  5. Oh no, not the consequences of her actions!
    She has shown her true colors, and those colors hoisted a red flag up high.
  6. She wanted to open up the relationship to see other people, then when you went and did exactly that, she physically assaults you.

THREE 17 Y.O YPS ARRESTED FOR STEALING A MOTORCYCLE @ PASIR RIS, CAUGHT WITHIN 10 HRS

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THREE TEENAGERS ARRESTED FOR THEFT OF MOTORCYCLE WITHIN 10 HOURS

The Police have arrested three teenagers, aged 17 years old, for their suspected involvement in a case of theft of motorcycle. 

On 15 September 2023, the Police were alerted to a case of a motorcycle being stolen from a carpark along Pasir Ris Street 12. Through follow-up investigations and with the aid of images from Police cameras and closed-circuit television (CCTV), officers from Bedok Police Division established the identity of the three teenagers and arrested them on the same day. The stolen motorcycle and helmet were also recovered. 

One of the three teenagers will be charged in court on 18 September 2023 with theft of a motor vehicle under Section 379A of the Penal Code 1871. The offence carries an imprisonment term of up to seven years and a fine. Police investigations against the two other teenagers are ongoing. 

The Police would like to advise all motorcycle owners to adopt the following crime prevention measures:

  1. Park your motorcycle in well-lit areas;
  2. Install an anti-theft alarm for your motorcycle;
  3. Use a motorcycle canvas to cover the motorcycle, securing both ends;
  4. Use additional locking devices such as disc brake locks or install a suspension guard;
  5. Remove the ignition key and lock the motorcycle, whenever it is left unattended; and
  6. Do not leave spare keys inside the motorcycle storage box.

PUBLIC AFFAIRS DEPARTMENT
SINGAPORE POLICE FORCE
17 September 2023 @ 1:00 PM

Similar Case

In a bizarre yet comical incident captured on CCTV, a Malaysian-plated motorcycle rider’s ill-fated attempt to pilfer motorbike parts has become the talk of the town.

The incident, dated September 14, unfolded in a peculiar sequence of events that left both the motorbike owner and amused onlookers in stitches.

The Mysterious Thief Strikes

The CCTV footage, though not crystal clear, offers a glimpse into the unfolding drama. A shadowy figure is seen lurking near a parked motorcycle, which happens to be a brand-new, eye-catching model adorned with intricate gold embellishments.

The motorbike’s owner, who remains off-camera, can be heard exclaiming, “There! He’s trying to shake my thing! Then cannot.”

The “thing” in question is presumably one of the bike’s side mirrors or another piece of equipment attached to the vehicle. It appears that the thief’s attempt to steal the item ends in failure, prompting a hasty retreat.

He swiftly mounts his own motorcycle and speeds away, leaving the scene with nothing to show for his efforts.

“Cannot, he’s gone already,” the motorbike owner says as he commentates over the video, his voice laced with a mixture of amusement and relief.

Round Two: The Thief’s Return

Just moments after his initial failed attempt, the thief experiences an inexplicable resurgence of determination. With an unexpected u-turn, he heads back to the scene, ready to give it another shot.

“Try one more time sia,” comments the motorbike’s owner, his commentary mirroring the sheer audacity of the would-be thief.

However, much to everyone’s amusement, the second attempt also ends in fiasco. The thief’s mission to dislodge the coveted item once again proves fruitless, and he departs empty-handed, albeit with some unintended scratches on the gleaming new motorbike.

2 MEN ARRESTED FOR STEALING FROM MAN SLEEPING @ CHANDER RD, TOOK HIS PHONE & $30 CASH

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The Singapore Police Force has successfully apprehended two individuals, aged 44 and 34, in connection with a case of theft. The arrests come after a swift and diligent investigation into an incident reported on 3 September 2023.

At approximately 9:35 AM on that day, the Police received a report of a theft that occurred along Chander Road.

According to preliminary investigations, the victim had been asleep at the location when he was suddenly awakened by an unknown individual attempting to steal his handphone and a sum of $30 in cash.

The thief allegedly passed the stolen items to an accomplice before both individuals made a hasty exit from the scene.

The breakthrough in this case came through meticulous ground enquiries and the invaluable assistance of images captured by Police cameras and CCTV footage.

Officers from the Central Police Division worked tirelessly to identify the culprits, leading to the subsequent arrest of the two suspects on 14 September 2023.

During the apprehension, the stolen handphone was successfully recovered and confiscated as a crucial piece of evidence in the ongoing investigation.

Further inquiries have revealed that the arrested men are believed to be connected to additional cases of theft.

Singapore Police Force Statement

TWO MEN ARRESTED FOR THEFT

The Police have arrested two men, aged 44 and 34, for their suspected involvement in a case of theft.

On 3 September 2023 at about 9.35am, the Police received a report of a theft along Chander Road. Preliminary investigations revealed that the victim had been sleeping at the said location when he was awakened by an unknown man purportedly stealing his handphone and cash amounting to $30. The man then allegedly handed the items over to another man before they both left the location.

Through ground enquiries and with the aid of images from Police cameras and CCTVs, officers from Central Police Division established the identity of the men, aged 44 and 34 respectively, and arrested them on 14 September 2023. The handphone was recovered and seized as case exhibit.

Preliminary investigations revealed that the two men are believed to be involved in other cases of theft.

The men will be charged in court on 16 September 2023 with theft with common intention under Section 379 read with Section 34 of the Penal Code 1871. The offence carries an imprisonment term of up to three years, a fine, or both.

The Police have zero tolerance towards such brazen acts of crime and will spare no effort to apprehend such offenders and deal with them in accordance with the law.

PUBLIC AFFAIRS DEPARTMENT
SINGAPORE POLICE FORCE
15 September 2023 @ 9:40 PM

MAN FELL INTO LONGKANG @ TELOK KURAU, RESCUED BY SCDF OFFICERS USING A LADDER

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The Singapore Civil Defence Force (SCDF) recently executed a rescue operation to save a man who had fallen into a canal at Telok Kurau.

This incident, which unfolded on Sunday, September 17, showcased the quick thinking and selflessness of both observant passers-by and the dedicated SCDF officers.

The Desperate Plunge

The drama began when vigilant members of the public noticed a man in distress, attempting to claw his way up the steep, algae-covered sides of the canal. Recognizing the urgency of the situation, they swiftly alerted the SCDF.

A Heroic Collaboration

Sam Young, a member of the “Love Cycling SG” Facebook group, captured gripping images of the rescue operation as it unfolded.

SCDF officers, perched precariously on the canal’s inclined sides, worked meticulously to hoist the stranded man from the murky waters.

In the photographs, the evidence of a rescue attempt by Good Samaritans was also evident. A makeshift ladder, securely fastened with a nylon rope to the canal’s railings, bore witness to the collective effort to save a life.

Saw the man struggling

Young’s involvement in the rescue mission began when he was cycling along the Telok Kurau park connector that fateful morning. His attention was drawn to a middle-aged man struggling hopelessly in the canal, unable to ascend its slippery sides due to the thick layer of algae.

Although Young was unaware of how the man had ended up in such a predicament or the duration of his ordeal, his instinct to help was unwavering.

He borrowed a ladder from a nearby residence and, with the assistance of a compassionate passer-by, secured it to the canal railing using a sturdy nylon rope.

However, Young’s altruistic intentions were met with a stern warning from another passer-by, who rightfully pointed out the dangers of his proposed rescue mission. Simultaneously, someone had already reached out to the SCDF for professional assistance.

The Race Against Rising Waters

Young, the photographer and a witness to this heart-pounding incident, highlighted the increasing peril faced by the trapped man. He mentioned in his post that “the water level in the canal was getting higher,” underscoring the critical timing of the rescue operation.

In a display of gratitude and admiration, Young extended his heartfelt thanks to the SCDF for their unwavering commitment and rescue of the stricken man.

SCDF’s Swift Response

The SCDF said that on September 17, at approximately 10:10 a.m., they received a distress call near Lorong L Telok Kurau. Arriving swiftly on the scene, SCDF personnel discovered a man trapped in a drain.

They then deployed a ladder to extract the stranded individual from the perilous situation. Following the rescue, medical personnel assessed the man’s condition, but he declined further medical attention.

Images source: Sam Young on Facebook

KIDNAPPED WOMAN ESCAPES AFTER HER CAPTOR’S CAR GOT HIT IN CAR ACCIDENT

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In a bizarre turn of events on Thursday, September 14th, a seemingly ordinary car accident on a Bangkok expressway unfolded into a shocking incident.

Two drivers, a Thai man, and a Chinese man collided with each other, sparking a series of events that left everyone astounded.

The Initial Collision

The incident began when 33-year-old Mr. Somphong Sisod, a Thai citizen, was driving on Bangkok’s Sirat Expressway.

His day took an unexpected turn when a grey sedan crashed into the back of his vehicle. Little did he know that this minor accident would soon lead to a series of perplexing events.

The driver of the sedan, a 36-year-old Chinese man named Zhao Wulin, wearing a blue shirt, emerged from his car to assess the damage, according to Channel One News.

The language barrier posed a challenge, but thanks to a translation app, they managed to communicate. Zhao offered to cover the repair costs immediately, but Mr. Somphong, acting responsibly, insisted on waiting for insurance representatives.

The Swift Arrest

The situation took a bewildering turn when, out of nowhere, a group of police officers arrived at the scene and promptly arrested Zhao.

This left Mr. Somphong utterly perplexed, as he had no inkling of the deeper, darker story surrounding Zhao’s presence in Thailand.

Little did Mr. Somphong know that Zhao’s presence in Thailand was not for a holiday but rather for a sinister purpose.

Zhao had met a 27-year-old Chinese woman through the messaging app Telegram, who was in Thailand as a tourist. What began as an innocuous online conversation soon took a terrifying turn.

NextShark reported that after just ten days of chatting, the woman agreed to meet Zhao for a date. Following a meal and drinks, she felt disoriented and lost consciousness. When she awoke, she found herself in Zhao’s home, without any clothes on and in distress.

A Harrowing Kidnapping

Zhao’s intentions turned sinister as he decided to kidnap the woman. He bound her wrists and ankles with ropes, demanding a hefty ransom of 200,000 yuan (approximately S$38,000). Fearing for her life, she reached out to a friend who agreed to transfer approximately S$9,360 to her.

Zhao, with his captive in tow, proceeded to withdraw the money. However, it was during this ill-fated escape that he rear-ended Mr. Somphong’s car on the expressway.

The car collision turned into a miraculous opportunity for the kidnapped woman. While Zhao engaged in a conversation with Mr. Somphong, the woman, still bound and with ropes around her wrists and ankles, managed to escape from the car. She hailed a taxi and contacted the police, who swiftly responded to her distress call.

The ropes had left deep imprints on her skin, serving as a grim reminder of the ordeal she had endured.

Zhao’s Arrest

As the police arrived at the scene, they discovered the ropes in the backseat of Zhao’s car, along with more in the trunk. The shocking evidence left no room for doubt about his sinister intentions.

Mr. Somphong, unaware of the dramatic escape, continued to interact with Zhao, oblivious to the unfolding drama. Thai authorities are now investigating whether Zhao has any ties to Chinese criminal organizations and are checking for any outstanding warrants in China.

The investigation into this bewildering incident is still ongoing. Authorities are working tirelessly to unravel the full extent of Zhao’s activities in Thailand and ascertain if he had any accomplices in his sinister plot.

WOMAN ATE UNDERCOOKED FISH & GOT BACTERIAL INFECTION, BOTH ARMS & LEGS AMPUTATED

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A 40-year-old mother-of-one in California, Laura Barajas, found herself battling for her life after consuming undercooked fish. The consequences were devastating—she ultimately had to undergo the amputation of all four of her limbs, according to KRON4.

The Fateful Meal

Laura’s ordeal began when she purchased tilapia fish from a local market in late July. She had innocently thought she was preparing a simple, home-cooked dinner that evening.

With no company that night, Laura cooked the fish and ate it alone, completely unaware of the impending nightmare that awaited her.

Within days of consuming the meal, she began experiencing excruciating illness, and her life took a drastic turn for the worse.

A Descent into Illness

As the symptoms escalated, Laura had no choice but to seek medical attention. Her health had deteriorated rapidly, and she was admitted to the hospital in a dire condition. At this point, she was already grappling with sepsis and kidney failure.

The situation was nothing short of dire. Laura’s limbs had turned black, and doctors faced a heart-wrenching decision—they had to amputate all four of her limbs to save her life. The life-altering surgery was performed to halt the relentless progression of the bacterial infection.

A Friend’s Compassionate Gesture

Setting Up a Lifeline

In the face of this overwhelming tragedy, Laura’s friend, Anna Messina, stepped forward and initiated a GoFundMe campaign to support Laura, her husband, and their family through this incredibly challenging period.

The campaign revealed the shocking truth—Laura had been diagnosed with vibrio vulnificus, a bacterial infection commonly associated with raw or undercooked seafood.

Following the diagnosis, Laura underwent the amputation procedure on September 13th, a day forever etched in her memory as the moment her life took an irreversible turn.

Through the GoFundMe campaign, Anna Messina aims to raise $150,000 to alleviate the financial burden on Laura’s family as they grapple with medical bills, rehabilitation costs, and the challenges of adjusting to a life forever changed.

Image source: KRON4

SPEEDING TAXI CRASHES INTO CAR & ALSO SENT NEARBY PEDESTRIAN FLYING @ MOULMEIN RD

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In a heart-stopping incident that unfolded on Sunday afternoon, a taxi collided with a car along Moulmein Road, triggering a chain of events.

This dramatic collision not only narrowly missed a pedestrian but also left a trail of chaos in its wake.

Speeding Taxi

The incident occurred on Sunday afternoon, Sep. 17, turning an otherwise peaceful day into a scene straight out of an action movie.

It was a stroke of fortune that the whole incident was caught on camera, with footage being uploaded by Roads.sg on Sep. 18, providing a chilling visual account of the events.

From the footage, it was evident that the taxi involved in the collision was hurtling down the road at an alarming speed as it entered Moulmein Road from Mandalay Road.

As the taxi entered the main road, it failed to decelerate or make the necessary right turn. Instead, it continued to barrel forward, cutting across all three lanes of Moulmein Road with reckless abandon.

In a horrifying moment, it collided with the back of a car that was traveling in the right-most lane.

The force of the impact was devastating. The car that was struck spun out of control and crashed into the grassy road divider, sending a cloud of soil and debris into the air.

A Close Call for a Pedestrian

Amidst the chaos, there was a guardian angel watching over a pedestrian who happened to be walking along the road divider at that very moment.

The collision sent shockwaves through the area, and the cars involved came to a screeching halt, narrowly avoiding a collision with the unsuspecting pedestrian.

However, the sudden braking and swerving actions of the vehicles proved to be too much for the pedestrian to handle. In a desperate attempt to dodge the spinning cars and the airborne debris, the person ended up falling, adding to the intensity of the situation.

Swift Response by Emergency Services

As the dust settled, the Singapore Civil Defence Force (SCDF) was alerted to the accident at 2 pm.

In the aftermath of the collision, three individuals required medical attention. The SCDF promptly conveyed two persons to Tan Tock Seng Hospital, while one person was taken to Singapore General Hospital.