I found my ex-girlfriends OF and now I feel like shit. Help

Me(20) and ex (19) gf of 2 years broke up a few months ago, it was hard but I’m eventually starting to get over her now.

Yesterday I was going through my social media and looked at my followers, I saw my ex still followed me. I know I shouldnt have been nosy but I decided to click on her account.

I checked her updated profile and I saw a onlyfans link and link to another profile. At this point I knew I should of went back, I’m sick to my stomach that I clicked on it and it made my heart drop.

I remember while we were going out, we always used to make jokes about her starting an onlyfans and she always used to say she was too shy and she would never do it. Obviously I understand, we are broken up and she can do whatever she wants of course but it’s still just tough to see.

I scrolled through her posts, knowing well I shouldn’t have and even came across a post of her talking about how shes still in love with her previous ex boyfriend, a guy who she told me she hated. Again everything normal just hard to see at this point. Just seeing her posting all these suggestive photos makes me sad and jealous.

It’s been 24 hours now and I can’t stop thinking about it. I know it’s stupid and we are broken up, I just feel like I read someone secret diary and now I know too much. I wish I could go back yesterday and not look at my stupid followers….

Any advice appreciated.

In a recent case in Kuantan, Malaysia – a homemaker found herself on the wrong side of the law, facing charges of engaging in prostitution within the confines of her residence. This incident sheds light on the broader issue of illegal activities and the importance of addressing such matters promptly.

Background of the Case

The accused, Nurul Atika, a 30-year-old homemaker residing in Staff dormitory of Keba Water Management Company, Lim Meng Road, Kuantan, was apprehended on October 17th at 5:15 PM. The arrest took place during a crackdown on vice, gambling, and secret society activities conducted by the Pahang Police Headquarters.

Charges and Legal Proceedings

Nurul Atika faced charges under Section 372B of the Criminal Code, specifically for soliciting prostitution. This section carries potential penalties of imprisonment, fines, or a combination of both. The legal proceedings unfolded with Nurul Atika promptly admitting guilt during her court appearance.

Law and Punishment

Understanding the legal framework is crucial in comprehending the severity of the charges faced by the accused. Section 372B aims to curb activities related to soliciting prostitution, with the potential for significant repercussions if found guilty.

The Sting Operation

The arrest of Nurul Atika was a result of a meticulously planned anti-vice operation conducted by law enforcement. This operation aimed to root out illegal activities, particularly those involving the sale of sexual services.

Details of the Illegal Transaction

During the operation, Nurul Atika allegedly offered illicit services to an undercover officer for a fee of 300 Malaysian Ringgit. This transaction formed the basis of the charges against her, highlighting the severity of her involvement in illegal activities.

The Accused’s Defense

In her defense, Nurul Atika’s lawyer, representing the National Legal Aid Foundation, highlighted her marital status as a full-time homemaker with three children. The recent unfortunate accident involving her husband, who is employed by a water management company, added financial strain to their already challenging situation.

Impact on the Accused’s Family

The economic challenges faced by Nurul Atika’s family, coupled with her admission of guilt, prompted a plea for leniency from the court. The defense emphasized her role as the primary economic support for her family, urging the court to consider the circumstances.

Public Reaction

The case has sparked public interest and discussions, raising questions about the societal implications of such incidents. The community’s reaction reflects concerns about the prevalence of illegal activities within residential areas.

Prosecution’s Recommendation

The prosecutor, citing the need to uphold public interest and educate both the accused and the public, recommended a sentence that would serve as a deterrent. This recommendation considered the circumstances surrounding the case and the potential impact on the community.

Judicial Decision

After careful consideration, the presiding judge, Nurul Atika, found Nurul Atika guilty and imposed a fine of 2000 Malaysian Ringgit. This decision aimed to balance the severity of the offense with the defendant’s personal circumstances.

Reflection on the Verdict

The verdict prompts reflection on the fairness of the punishment, considering the accused’s acknowledgment of guilt and the challenges faced by her family. The balance between justice and empathy in such cases is crucial for maintaining the integrity of the legal system.

Conclusion

In conclusion, the case of Nurul Atika serves as a poignant reminder of the complexities surrounding illegal activities within residential areas. Balancing the legal consequences with the individual circumstances of the accused is essential for a fair and just legal system.

So my gf whom I’ve been dating for a couple of months recently told me that she is strongly against having a kid in the future. She doesn’t want to get tied down by having a kid and lose her freedom in doing whatever she wants to do in the future, and she is not fond of kids in the first place. Personally for me I’m not 100% sure if I want a kid, but I always felt like it’s the natural progression of being in a relationship, getting married, and having kids.

Just want to get some views from you all: Is your partner also against having kids? And if so how do you deal with it if you really want one? Does your partner’s mindset change over time with age etc?

Here are what netizens think:

• Accepting someone as themselves is, very important. You can’t expect the person to change. Having children, or getting married is very much personal and a choice. If having children is something that you want, or you’re going to be resentful or your parents will pressure you into having one. Then walk away from this relationship now.

• Do respect her decision and her views of not having kids but also think of your own future too. If you are OK with not having kids then go ahead keep the relationship. If you really really want to have kids in future then I suggest both of you to mutually break up and go on with your respective lives. Marrying her in this case will lead to a difficult marriage life.

• My friend who is against having kids married a guy who wanted a big family. He said he was OK with not having kids. For the first five years, the marriage was OK. Now he just makes bitter kid-related snipes at her in front of us and it becomes extremely uncomfortable to be around the two of them.

• Buay gum don’t marry end up divorce

I am nearly 38 weeks pregnant and nearly everything is irritating me at this point. On Friday afternoon my husband came home from a bad day at work and was having a very negative attitude.

As soon as he walked through the door he was complaining about how messy the house was. Not only am I verily pregnant and unable to do much at this point, but I’m also watching our 2-year-old daughter during the day that has been getting into everything. So yes the house was messy and the dishes weren’t done I’ll admit to that.

Then he was complaining that I didn’t have dinner ready for him and that I wasn’t making dinner that night. I usually cook 90% of the time but that day I was just so tired and done with everything so I suggested we go out.

I tried to explain how it’s difficult for me to do stuff now, how I’m tired, how our daughter was bouncing off the walls that day and he wouldn’t listening to any of it.

Then he compared me to his friend’s wife by saying “You know, John’s wife is pregnant too and does x, y, and z and she even gets dressed and puts makeup on every day”

Well that’s when I absolutely lost it. I told him to get out, and not come back until the end of the weekend. That I’d had enough and wanted time to myself.

He packed a bag and went to his brothers house, and sent me paragraphs of texts before I finally decided to block his number.

I used the weekend to take my time to clean up and then just spend the rest of the time playing with my daughter.

Not only did he tell his brother about my little freak out, but he told his mother and now she’s been texting me non stop about how I’m being a bad wife. It’s like he’s turned everyone against me over night.

Anonymous for obvious reasons.

My friends complain about their pay but do nothing about it… Long story short, I dropped out of school more than a decade ago because I had severe ADHD and wasn’t getting anywhere by conventional learning. I started reading books about basically everything and bettered myself.

After a year, I called a few small companies begging for a chance to consult for them knowing absolutely nothing in terms of work experience.

Fast forward 12 years.. I own a consulting firm, employ 10 field engineers, and 2 office workers. My company grossed $21.7 million in 2021. My expenses including payroll add up to 71% bringing in a total of $6.93 million of potential income for me yearly.

I don’t say this to brag. I say this to inspire. I live a rather modest life. So much so, my friends don’t even know I’m a millionaire and assume I only have $30k max in savings.

I’m usually the butt of education jokes in my circle but I just sit back and smile. Deep down I know education is a social construct, just another way of measure oneself against another.

Deep down I know that education is also important but not at the expense of believing in yourself.

People, believe in yourself!