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ACTRESS JULIE TAN SLAMS NETIZEN WHO CALL HER “FLATTER THAN AIRPORT RUNWAY”

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In the world of social media, where sharing moments and glimpses of one’s life is the norm, Julie Tan, a popular home-grown actress, has become a target for crass comments and online harassment. With over 387,000 followers on Instagram and TikTok combined, Julie Tan is no stranger to the darker side of online interactions.

Harassed by netizens

In a recent video shared on both platforms, Tan bravely unveiled the crude messages she has endured over the years. These messages not only targeted her figure but also delved into the personal aspects of her dating life.

The actress, now 31, opened up about her worst experience, a traumatic incident of harassment that occurred when she was much younger.

The video highlighted the harsh reality of the comments Tan receives, bringing attention to the disparaging remarks about her appearance and personal life.

However, the darkest chapter unfolded when she was confronted with fake obscene photos of herself on an online forum. At an age when insecurities about her body were already present, the malicious act only intensified her vulnerability.

Online harassment goes beyond the digital realm; it seeps into the mental well-being of individuals. The emotional toll of such comments can exacerbate existing insecurities, as Tan bravely admitted.

Fighting back

Despite the trauma, Julie Tan took charge of the situation. She reported the obscene comments and doctored images to the police, a testament to her resilience.

Additionally, Tan actively flags inappropriate comments on her posts, showcasing her commitment to creating a safer digital space for herself and her followers. Her actions serve as an inspiration for others facing similar challenges.

Julie Tan’s story sheds light on a broader issue — the prevalence of online harassment. The societal impact of such behavior necessitates collective action.

Tan emphasizes that seemingly harmless comments can have severe, even life-changing consequences.

Julie Tan’s journey reflects the harsh reality of online harassment and the toll it takes on individuals. The need for empathy and responsible online behavior cannot be overstated. By sharing her story, Tan encourages others to stand against online harassment, fostering a safer digital space for everyone.

SG WOMAN WOKEN UP IN JB HOTEL ROOM BY STRANGER WHO “ENTERED WRONG ROOM” AT 3AM

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In the quietude of the night, a Singaporean named Cecilia experienced a chilling moment that would forever alter her perception of hotel safety.

This incident unfolded at the renowned KSL Hotel & Resort, leaving Cecilia, a 35-year-old financial advisor, in shock and vowing never to return.

The Unsettling Night

Waking up to an intrusion at 3 am is the stuff of nightmares. For Cecilia and her family, this nightmare became a stark reality during their stay at KSL Hotel & Resort.

Taking to TikTok on November 15, Cecilia shared the details of the harrowing incident. Asleep with her husband and 21-month-old toddler, Cecilia found herself abruptly awakened by the persistent noise at the door.

The situation escalated when the door unlocked, and a mysterious man entered the room. Limited visibility made it impossible to discern his identity, casting an eerie shadow over the room.

In the dimly lit room, Cecilia’s heart raced as the intruder walked in front of her bed. The source of light was the bathroom, leaving the man’s face obscured.

The tension peaked when, in response to Cecilia’s shout to wake her husband, the intruder hastily turned on his phone camera, briefly illuminating the room before claiming to have entered the wrong room and swiftly departing.

Shaken but relieved by the intruder’s departure, the tired couple returned to bed, hoping it was a bizarre dream. Morning brought a sense of urgency as they complained to the hotel manager, seeking answers and assurance.

Post-Incident Actions

The hotel’s response was perplexing; the CCTV cameras showed no evidence of the intrusion. However, in a gesture of acknowledgment, the hotel upgraded Cecilia’s room for the remainder of their three-day trip. The bizarre turn of events left the couple pondering the safety and security of their stay.

While grateful that no harm befell them and nothing was stolen, Cecilia couldn’t shake off the unsettling feeling. The decision not to file a police report raised questions about the balance between perceived safety and the practical implications of reporting an incident with no tangible loss.

GF’S BROTHER IS WEIRDLY CLOSE TO HER, MASSAGES HER & RUBS HER TEMPLES

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Girlfriends brother is weirdly close to her

She always talked about how he gives her the best massages, rubs her temples, everytime he hears her have a facetime with me he comes into the room and completely excludes me from the conversation for over an hour sometimes.

she has him rate all of her outfits, he buys her very revealing expensive dresses, he knew we planned on moving in together and he only suggested that they do the same after she told him.

he tells her how she’s going to go on month long trips out of country with him even when she says she’s not interested.

Idk if I’m just thinking I’m in the twilight zone, or if this is just normal lol.

Straight up feel like a complete 3rd wheel whenever we are all together, have never met anyone that treats their siblings like this.

probably overthinking it, but God damn does it ever weird me tf out.

Netizens’ comments

  • Some siblings form trauma bonds due to traumatic experience they had to go through together , which makes them closer to each other. I wonder if this is their situation. There might be a root cause to their closeness, I would dig deeper. If you find nothing, then you should start worrying
  • It kind of sounds like they are close and he is protective of her in a weird way. I’d find a way to talk to her about it in a way that doesn’t get her defensive

COUPLE KICKED OUT BY MOTHER-IN-LAW WHO WANTS PRIVACY IN HER 5 ROOM FLAT

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How can i accept and get over the unpleasant things my MIL did towards me and my husband?

She has did a few things (e.g: kicking us out of her house when we had nowhere to stay because she wanted privacy in her 5 room flat alone, after we paid for her refurbishing of the home / also refusing to acknowledge my presence or talk to me or reply to me).

Another issue that i get angry about everytime is when she attended our wedding reception half heartedly.

She was late and didn’t welcome my husband’s side of guests whom she herself invited. She acted like a guest and she acted like she is not a host. Throughout the wedding she didn’t really talk and black face. She is a single mother so no FIL there to comfort her. Halfway through the reception she just left and let my parents handled everything else.

It is such a bad memory whenever i think of the day i got married. I tried my best not to cry during the celebrations of the reception. My husband was sad too.

Fast forward today.. It’s been a few years and i just cannot forgive nor can i forget all this.my first year of marriage was rocky especially after being kicked out as we had nowhere to stay and had to beg my parents to squeeze into their home before finding a place to rent. In this sense i felt it was mostly her fault. I have always imagined my first year of marriage to be a good one but it was full of challenges. I have never mentioned my anger/sadness to her when we visit, and when we interact it’s always pleasant despite our history. My husband has expressed his disappointment to her previously (especially about the wedding) but she will just ignore him.

I concluded that she probably has her own issues, my husband did mention she can be quite erratic… so now I want to forgive and forget everything but it’s been really hard. How do i do this? Of course i cannot expect her to apologise or do anything, but i want to forget all this on my own terms and be at peace

FYI all these did not happen before we got married. She was totally normal and fine before we got married. Sometimes i feel a little shortchanged by this, especially when my husband has been treated so well by my parents but i have been treated like shit by his mom.

PRC MEN STOLE $132K RING FROM ORCHARD PAWNSHOP & FLED S’PORE, ARRESTED IN KL

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In a daring heist on July 16, 2023, three Chinese nationals executed a meticulously planned theft in an Orchard Road pawnshop, slipping away with a 3.01-carat diamond ring valued at nearly $132,500.

One of the thieves, 49-year-old Lu Jingnan, was sentenced on 16 November to 2 years and 8 months imprisonment after pleading guilty to a charge of theft, according to The Straits Times.

The Heist

The trio of men from China, identified as 49-year-old Lu Jingnan, 59-year-old He Yuanlin, and 50-year-old Luo Yi, arrived in Singapore on separate flights on July 11, 2023. Five days later, they targeted a Valuemax outlet at Lucky Plaza shopping centre, strategically arriving around 6 pm.

Lu entered the shop first, followed by Luo a minute later. Interestingly, the third member observed from outside, maintaining a discreet presence. Lu, posing as a potential buyer, expressed interest in diamond rings with a budget exceeding $50,000.

While Lu engaged a store executive in selecting the 3.01-carat diamond ring, Luo strategically diverted the attention of a male employee, inquiring about gold jewelry in a separate section of the shop. This diversion created a crucial window for Lu to execute the theft.

As the store executive struggled to find a suitable ring casing for the larger diamond, Lu enquired about a smaller one. Seizing this distraction, Lu discreetly pocketed the 3.01-carat diamond ring. The duo then exited the pawnshop, with He leaving the vicinity soon after.

Escape to Malaysia

Following the successful theft, Lu and He boarded a bus to Malaysia, while Luo opted for a flight from Changi Airport to an undisclosed location.

The heist took an unexpected turn when Lu and He were arrested at Kuala Lumpur International Airport on July 19. Lu, facing a theft charge, pleaded guilty and received a sentence of two years and eight months in jail. The outcomes of He and Luo’s cases remain undisclosed.

Deputy Public Prosecutor James Chew emphasized the high degree of premeditation and sophistication involved in the heist. The court documents revealed that the entire scheme was carefully planned, with each member executing a specific role.

POLICE NSF CRASHED POLICE CAR INTO MOTORCYCLE & INJURED 55 Y.O MAN, CHARGED

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A full time national serviceman (NSF) with the Singapore Police Force (SPF), 23-year-old Chong Cheng Huan, allegedly failed to exercise care while making a discretionary right turn in a police car, resulting in a collision with a motorcycle, according to The Straits Times.

He was charged with causing grievous hurt to a 55-year-old who was injured in the incident.

As a full-time national serviceman, Chong held the rank of Special Constable Sergeant (1) and completed his national service on August 11, 2022.

He is expected to plead guilty on 22 December next month.

Details of the Incident

On June 3, 2022, at approximately 4:20 pm, Chong was driving a police car at the cross junction of Bukit Batok East Avenue 2 and Avenue 5.

The collision occurred during a discretionary right turn into Avenue 5, causing grievous hurt to a 55-year-old man. Surprisingly, details about the injured person’s role as a motorcyclist or pillion rider remain undisclosed.

Police Response and Internal Action

The Singapore Police Force (SPF) swiftly initiated investigations against Chong following the incident.

The police said that officers of the SPF, including national service officers, are held to high standards. The expectation is clear – uphold the law with integrity.

The police will also be commending internal action against Chong for his offence.

Chong’s Plea Date

Chong is expected to plead guilty on December 22, raising anticipation about the implications of his plea. The plea date marks a critical point in the legal proceedings and may influence the outcome of the case.

If convicted, Chong could face a maximum sentence of two years in jail and a fine of up to $5,000. The severity of the charges underscores the importance of responsible driving and the potential repercussions for lapses in judgment on the road.

LADY ASKS GUYS AT WHICH AGE DID THEY ADMIT THEY ARE OLD

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A lady was seen online asking guys on at which point of their life did they finally admit that they were no longer young anymore and realised that they are catching up on age.

This comes after the lady says that the guys in her social circle never once admitted that they were old even when all of them have already crossed their 30s.

Here is what some of the guys have in response to the lady

  • When it takes me 20 minutes to get out of bed in the morning
  • When I realised that this girl flirting with me at the petrol station was younger than my own son!
  • When I was at a party at the age of 27 and a girl that was 21 was flirting with me and said “I like older guys” as if it was a way to hit on me After that I didnt think I was old…. but I wasn’t young anymore to the actual ‘young’ crowd.
  • I still have to remind myself I’m not young. I picture myself about 25 in my head. Especially when a cute young girl walks by. Then I remember I could be her father and my old age come roaring back in my head. 😂
  • As a Father the “pretty lady walk by” has definitely taken a huge change. Part of my brain stem can’t ignore it the other part says “that’s someone’s daughter you nasty old man!”
  • When I went to 7-11 to get a packet of cigarettes and then the cashier asks me for my IC and I’m like dude I’m 40 and then I realised that oh crap I am old.
  • When I walked into a bar, saw a beautiful woman, and looked at her left hand to see if there was a ring on it before approaching her.
  • When I reached an age where I remember when my mum was that age. Next year I reach the age of my youngest recollection of my fathers age. I am not ready lol

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KIND WOMAN GIVES HDB CLEANER ANG PAO FOR WORKING ON DEEPAVALI, MADE HIM SMILE

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Deepavali, a significant Hindu festival, marks the victory of light over darkness and good over evil. Celebrated with much enthusiasm and grandeur, it is a time for joy, family gatherings, and acts of kindness.

The people of Singapore have embraced the true essence of Deepavali by extending their celebrations beyond their homes. Acts of kindness and generosity are becoming synonymous with this festival, as seen in the heartening story of Sunny Lim and her mother.

Acts of Kindness on Deepavali

TikTok user Sunny Lim shared a touching video on social media. The video captured a spontaneous act of kindness by her mother on Deepavali.

As Sunny and her mother were making their way home after lunch, they encountered a worker diligently cleaning their HDB estate. Instead of just passing by, Sunny’s mother decided to express her gratitude in a simple yet profound way.

She told her daughter to go home first as she went to “run some errands”, but Sunny decided to tail her mother discreetly and filmed her secretly from behind.

Her mother then approached a HDB estate cleaner and handed him an angbao (red packet) as a token of appreciation. The worker’s genuine smile reflected the impact of this unexpected gesture.

The worker, engrossed in cleaning the playground area, expressed his gratitude with a simple “Thank you sister.” Sunny’s mother’s act of kindness had touched not only his workday but also his heart.

As the woman turned around, she was surprised to see her daughter following her and filming her in the act.

The Regular Acts of Kindness

Sunny revealed in the video’s caption that her mother frequently buys food and drinks for workers to thank them for their hard work. This reveals a consistent pattern of generosity beyond this specific Deepavali encounter.

While the gifts may seem small, the impact on the recipients is significant. Sunny’s mother serves as a reminder that even seemingly minor acts of kindness can brighten someone’s day.

@sunnylimsl This is my mum and she regularly buys food/drinks to thank them for their hard work. Her small effort makes their day a little better and that makes her happy. I am reminded by my mum to be kind to others and a small gesture can make someone’s day! #bekind ♬ THE SHADE – Rex Orange County

42 Y.O WOMAN FOUND DEAD IN CONDO @ DAKOTA, NOBODY NOTICED FOR DAYS & HUSBAND MIA

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In a shocking incident on Wednesday (15 Nov) afternoon, a 42-year-old Japanese woman’s lifeless body was discovered in a condominium unit at Waterbank at Dakota, according to Shin Min Daily News.

The deceased woman, who reportedly lived with her husband, resided in a unit along Dakota Crescent. This peaceful neighborhood, just a short distance from Old Airport Road Food Centre, became the unexpected site of this tragic discovery.

Initial Investigations

The Singapore Police Force was alerted to the incident at about 12.25pm on 15 November and officers found the woman lying motionless inside the unit, and she was subsequently pronounced dead at the scene by SCDF paramedics.

Contrary to initial suspicions, the police have not found any evidence of foul play. The investigation is in its early stages, and details about the circumstances leading to the woman’s demise are yet to be unveiled.

The police’s involvement was evident as multiple vehicles were parked inside the condominium, and officers were observed entering and exiting a 15th-floor unit. The atmosphere was tense as residents grappled with the reality of such an incident occurring in their community.

Discovering the Body

The woman’s body was found around noon, with investigators responding promptly. Witnesses reported a foul odor emanating from the unit when it was opened, raising questions about how such a situation could go unnoticed for an extended period.

Residents expressed shock, recounting the presence of a Japanese couple in the unit. The fact that no one was aware of the woman’s death for days adds a layer of perplexity to the situation.

Husband’s Whereabouts

Adding to the mystery is the unknown whereabouts of the woman’s husband. Speculations among residents only deepen the intrigue surrounding this unfortunate incident.

The police confirmed the case as an unnatural death and have thus far ruled out murder as investigations into her death continue. The Singapore Civil Defence Force (SCDF) pronounced the woman dead at the scene.

COMMENT: MOST GUYS SELF PLEASURE MUCH MORE THAN ‘DOING IT’ IN LIFE

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There is a comment going around online which states that guys in reality have self pleasured many many more times than doing the real deed ever in their lives.

The comment was opened up for debate within the Internet community and here are the results that were found based on the comments by many netizens who saw the comment and decided to weigh their opinions.

Here is what the Internet have to say about the comment

  • Not everybody is skilled enough to have did the real deed 7 times a day
  • First day I discovered self pleasure, I lost count after 10 times.
  • I mean … I have treated my body like an amusement park
  • Man I’m 18 and that’s how I feel everyday, like 3 a day is a struggle I don’t understand how people do more then that
  • Short of going and adding every single number together, is there a math equation for something like this?
  • Its not about skills its about hormones
  • Running your hand back and forth is certainly a lot less effort than your whole body back and forth
  • Yeah. Even when I was young had a wonderful girlfriend and we spent all day in bed, there was no way I was gonna release 7 times in a day.

Math genius weighs in

If you self pleasure once a day, 500,000 self pleasure would take you roughly 1,369 years.

Let’s say the average person lives till 80 and can’t self pleasure before the age of, let’s say, 14. Let’s also assume that this person is capable of self pleasure till their last breath.

That’s 66 years to self pleasure 500,000 times, meaning that you would have to self pleasure 7,576 times a year, or roughly 21 times a day.

This also assumes that you will have done the real deed once in your life, which you won’t, so one self pleasure will beat that ratio by infinity.

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