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GUY WITH A SMALL “DOWN THERE”, FEELS LIKE EVERYONE IS OUT OF HIS LEAGUE

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I hate having a small “down there:. It feels like everyone is out of my league

I am 21, a virgin and so insecure about my size (4 inches). Insults everywhere, trends on tik tok humiliating people.

It sucks that probably nobody will ever desire me. It sucks I don’t have the courage to approach girls because I am afraid to be ridiculed when I tell them I am a virgin and am small, resulting in the ultimate disappointment in bed.

I hate, that for every aspect of body shaming there is some group that deals with the same issues but not for being small (well, of course there are other people being small, but lol if you are open about it you aren’t seen as a man anymore and getting joked on forever)….

It’s no topic people will take serious if I would open up about it and there is nothing I can do against it. Even I think it’s ridiculous. I don’t know how to feel better about it. It just sucks…

Yeah some women won’t care but how can I find them without scaring them away because of my stupid insecurity.

How will they stay with an average guy if there are other average guys out there with an average size too. I’m not that special.

Why is a generally ugly body part taking up my thoughts for hours every day just because there is an inch missing to average.

It feels like everyone is out of my league. Damn that’s so stupid. Thanks for listening. Felt good to rant about it. Have a nice day.

ROOSTER CROWING AT 4AM, MAN CAN NOT TAHAN SAY CAN NOT SLEEP

Imagine this: it’s 4 am, and all you want is a good night’s sleep. However, a persistent rooster in your neighbor’s backyard has a different plan – a loud coocoocoocooing session that disrupts the peaceful silence of the night.

Frustrating, right? In this article, we’ll navigate through the dilemma of whether to complain about the noisy rooster or simply let it be.

Introduction

A. Brief Overview of the Situation

The man who posted the video said: ” I wanna complain! My house downstairs got rooster coocoocoocooing at 4am! Like that how to sleep? Should call police or town council or ACRES for help?”

Living in a community often comes with unexpected challenges. One such challenge can be the intrusion of animal sounds into our living spaces. In this case, the focus is on a particularly vocal rooster causing a disturbance.

B. The Dilemma: To Complain or Let It Be

The central question revolves around taking action against the noise or adopting a more tolerant approach. Is it worth complaining to the authorities, or should we accept it as a part of living in a community?

Understanding the Situation

A. Importance of Good Sleep

Quality sleep is crucial for overall well-being. We’ll explore how disturbances like the rooster’s crowing can impact sleep patterns and, consequently, health.

B. Impact of Rooster Crowing on Sleep Quality

What happens when our sleep is disrupted regularly, and what are the potential consequences on our physical and mental health?

GIRL FEELS “DISRESPECTED” BECAUSE BROTHER’S GF CALLS HER “XMM”

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I’m finding it so hard to try and get along with my brother’s gf. She is 2 years older than me and she keep calling me xmm instead of my name which I find its so disrespectful. She doesn’t have a stable job and have only worked part time jobs as far as I’m aware. Her last part time job was in a clothing shop but it closed down because of covid and she hasn’t been working since.

I know my brother has been giving her an allowance as both her parents have retired. She also like to poke her nose into our family matters. Once she asked me how much I earn in front of everyone and I refused to say. I find her offensive and I don’t know what my brother sees in her.

She doesn’t wear feminine clothes and has a boy’s hairstyle. She looks like a butch to me. I never told my brother that I dislike his gf but I think my behavior shows as I don’t talk much when she comes over or I will hide in my room for hours.

My parents say there is a chance my brother may marry this girl so I should try to get along with her. How? When she is so mean towards me?! I find I am more socially exposed than her as I work in many different places because of my job.

And I cannot stand it when she try to talk down to me and try to educate me about my job which she knows nothing of. Very often she will talk to me about her old school days which I find she’s so out of touch and outdated in life as I worked for more than 5 years and don’t think of school days anymore unlike her.

The breaking point for me is when I found out she entered my room when I wasn’t home, went through my things and ‘borrowed’ one of my branded handbag. I was furious.

I told my brother but he said she is just borrowing it and will return me soon. She even told me I have so many bags and she only took one bag. She don’t see the fuss?!!!!! I lost it. I used my entire vocabulary and demanded her to return my bag. I said there is covid, makes no sense to share personal use items too. She tried to play victim and cried to my brother.

Now everyone thinks I’m the bad guy for being so petty over a bag when she is my future sister in law. This is so frustrating. I don’t think I’m in the wrong. And I have no idea how to make things better when I’m so disgusted with her behavior.

GUY WANTS TO TELL FRIEND’S GF THAT HE HAS BEEN CHEATING ON HER WITH PROSTITUTES

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My friend cheats on his girlfriend with prostitutes and I’m seriously considering sending an anonymous text to her.

This has been going on for about four years and I found out about it a year and a half ago.

He’s been with about fifteen prostitutes. He told me this himself and has spoken about going to Amsterdam on a holiday and hiring hookers.

I lived with this guy too, and one day he told me he was going to the shop. When he came back he revealed he actually went to get a “hand massage” at a massage parlour. No massage, just a “tuggie”.

He’s been with his girlfriend since they were in school, so they’re dating about seven years. She loves him so much. They’re renting a house together now and are outwardly the perfect couple. But I feel like it’ll come out at some point in their relationship and I think it would destroy her forever.

I think it’s messed up and disgusting. I want to send an anonymous message to her and just let her know what’s happening but I don’t know how many people he’s told. I think he’ll know it was me. I don’t know what to do.

Netizens’ comments

  • For her hygiene and safety I would. She deserves to know that.
  • IMO I wouldn’t want to be friends with someone like him, and therefore I’d spill the beans, so it depends on how much you value your friendship. In my mind dishonesty isn’t limited to one relationship. If he’s lying to her he’d lie to you about important things too, if he hasn’t already. I personally wouldn’t trust someone like that.

MAID PUNCHED EMPLOYER’S 86 Y.O MUM IN THE FACE & CAUSED HER TO FALL & BREAK LEG, JAILED

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In a shocking case that unfolded recently, a 32-year-old maid, Oo Win Kyi, was sentenced to 13 months’ jail for assaulting her employer’s 86-year-old mother, who was bedridden and suffering from dementia.

The incident involved a series of violent acts, including punching the elderly woman, causing her to fall and fracture her thigh, according to The Straits Times.

Background of the Case

Oo Win Kyi, residing in her employer’s residence in Sengkang, was entrusted with the care of the elderly victim and tasked with household chores.

The victim, already bedridden and dealing with dementia, had suffered a stroke earlier in the year. Oo Win Kyi was well aware of the victim’s delicate health condition.

On October 19, around 5:30 pm, a disturbing incident occurred. Oo Win Kyi attempted to assist the victim in standing up to exercise, but the elderly woman slowly fell onto the ground.

The maid then pulled the victim back up and placed her on the bed, before punching her 4 times on the left side of her face, resulting in her falling onto the floor.

The whole incident was caught on CCTV camera inside the home.

The maid’s employer then brought his mother to the hospital for treatment later that night after the maid told him that the woman’s left leg was swollen, and she was then found to have a fracture in her thigh.

A police report against the made was then lodged the following day.

Legal Proceedings

Subsequently, Oo Win Kyi pleaded guilty to the charges of assaulting a vulnerable person. Additional charges, involving biting the victim’s hand and using an abs roller to hit her hand on a separate occasion, were also considered during the sentencing.

The victim, already grappling with health challenges, suffered a distal femur fracture as a result of the assault. The impact of such an injury on an elderly person, already in a fragile state, raises concerns about the well-being of vulnerable individuals in caregiving situations.

AH MA SEEN IN VIRAL VIDEO CANING DOG @ HAWKER CENTRE, BEING INVESTIGATED BY AVS

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In a shocking turn of events, a TikTok video capturing a woman caning a pet dog with a cane in a hawker centre setting has sparked outrage. The Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals (SPCA) is now stepping in to address the issue.

The Disturbing TikTok Video

The minute-long TikTok video reveals the woman scolding and holding a cane, threatening to hit the dog before whipping one of its paws, and hitting the table to scare the dog several times.

The video’s release on social media platforms has elicited a strong reaction from the public. Viewers have expressed shock, anger, and concern about the treatment of the dog, demanding accountability.

Prior to the video’s release, the SPCA said that they had already issued a firm warning to the woman during a visit to her home on May 4. This warning aimed to counsel her on the proper care of her pet, according to The Straits Times.

IV. Escalation to Authorities

Despite the initial intervention, the SPCA has now escalated the matter to the authorities. The AVS has been alerted to the TikTok video and is actively looking into the matter.

@aventmetier

I am eating halfway at Pekkio Market and this happen. This felt so wrong and stressful to watch. Theres more earlier but didnt take out my phone on time. Can any dog group or community help this dog? Location: Pekkio Market & Food Centre

♬ original sound – AventMetier

SPCA’s Facebook statement

DOG THREATENED BY ELDERLY OWNER, INCLUDING USE OF CANE

The SPCA is aware of a concerning TikTok video circulating online, revealing an elderly woman engaging in threatening behaviour towards her dog, including the use of a cane. This individual had previously been identified by the SPCA regarding similar animal welfare concerns.

On May 4, 2023, staff from the SPCA and volunteers from the Moulmein-Cairnhill Constituency Office visited her residence. During the visit, we provided her guidance and counselling to ensure the well-being and proper care of her pets. A firm warning was issued, emphasising that further action would be taken if she did not comply with our advice. Regrettably, it seems that she has not followed the recommended guidelines. Thus, we will be taking further action and have concurrently escalated the matter to the authorities.

Just like us, animals can feel pain and distress. The SPCA firmly stands for using humane and force-free training methods. By rewarding good behaviour, we may address any behavioural challenges as well as build a foundation for a positive and enriching relationship between our pets and us.

We urge pet owners never to hit, hurt, or threaten their pets to make them behave. Such methods may contribute to heightened fear and anxiety in your pets.

If you witness any cases of suspected animal abuse, cruelty, or neglect, please call the SPCA’s emergency hotline at 6287 5355 (ext. 9), make a report at www.spca.org.sg/report, or email [email protected].

Update: B (the dog) is now safe at the SPCA, receiving care from our Community Clinic vet.

S’PORE WOMAN FOUND DEAD RAT SQUISHED LIKE PRATA INSIDE HER GRABFOOD ORDER

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Imagine the excitement of receiving a box of delicious brownies as a belated birthday gift, only to have that joy turn into horror. This was the unfortunate experience of Mdm Farahliza, a GrabFood customer who made arguably one of the most disgusting discoveries in her recent order from Annabella Patisserie.

She found a dead rat squished and flattened inside her food order.

What happened?

In a shocking turn of events, Mdm Farahliza and her husband discovered a squashed, rotting rat in the bag of brownies delivered to their doorstep. The incident not only raised concerns about food safety but also sparked an investigation by the Singapore Food Agency (SFA).

Ordered as a belated birthday gift, the box of 20 brownies arrived with an unexpected and nauseating addition – a dead rat carcass. The incident left Mdm Farahliza and her husband traumatized and shocked.

Upon opening the delivery bag, the pungent smell immediately caught their attention. To their horror, they found a squashed rat carcass, leaving an indelible mark on what was supposed to be a joyous occasion.

Farahliza shared that she immediately went to the toilet to vomit because she was so disgusted by what she found.

Reporting and Apology

Mdm Farahliza took swift action, lodging complaints with both Grab and the Singapore Food Agency (SFA).

Annabella Patisserie responded promptly, issuing a full refund and extending a sincere apology via a comment on Farahliza’s ensuing Facebook post on the incident.

The Singapore Food Agency said that they are currently investigating the incident and will not hesitate to take enforcement action against errant food operators.

Here is what the customer said on Facebook (SIC)

This was a horrible traumatized experienced I’ve had with food services. I’ve ordered brownies from Annabella Patisserie via GrabFood today. 8 November 2023. (Receipt attached)

When it was being delivered to my doorstep and was hanged on my gate as per my request. Fyi, The bag was Velcro sealed.

As I opened the door, there was a strong pungent smell from the bag, I was curious so I opened up the bag and took out the box from the bag and found something else inside it. It was dark, I carried it to my dining area where it was lighted to have a clearer look inside the bag and to my horror there was a dead squashed rat inside the bag.

Singapore Food Agency (SFA), kindly look into this matter. This is a very serious food contamination and hygiene matter.

Annabella Patisserie’s apology (SIC)

Dear Farah Oh Farah , sincerely apologies for the experience. We are investigating this with our partner outlet at Nordcomm immediately. We have process full refund for your order. Please get in touch with us, our Manager would like to visit you today. Thank you.

Images source: Facebook (Warning: graphic images, viewer discretion is advised)

WOMAN BORN WITH MANLY FEATURES CONSTANTLY ASKED IF SHE IS A TRANS

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A woman shared about her she always get asked if she is a man or woman as she is born with manly facial features.

Here are her frustrations:

I’m a regular woman. I was born a effing woman, I just have strong manly facial features. I tried to get to get a guy and this guy flat out ignored my pickup line to ask me the infamous question, “Are you trans?”

Are you kidding me? No woman wants to basically be told they have masculine features, trans or not. Have some respect. That literally ruined my day and it makes me feel like such S every time I’m called that.

Similar encounters

A few women commented on the story who faced similar issues shared her frustrations as well:

  • Sorry, this happened to you. It has happened to me more than I would like to admit. The most recent occurrence was at a bar a few years ago just before Halloween.
    I was out with a group of guys and didn’t really dress for the occasion I guess? I was waiting for the ladies room to be free and an older lady asked me if I would be “more comfortable” using the mens room. So rude.
  • IK WHAT YOU MEAN!!! Someone asked if I was trans once and I literally wanted to cry, I talked to someone about it and they called me transphobic
  • Some people are so dense. Even if you were trans they shouldn’t be asking that. I’ve been asked if I’m trans before and I think I have quite feminine features and my pictures in my profile show off feminine features, so I don’t think people even think before asking sometimes. It’s so rude and reflects on the person asking, not you. Please don’t let them make you appreciate your beautiful features any less.

WOMAN LEFT 2 Y.O DAUGHTER INSIDE CAR FOR 7 HRS, TODDLER SUFFOCATES TO DEATH

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In the state of Selangor, Malaysia; a heartbreaking incident recently unfolded when a mother inadvertently left her two-year-old daughter in the car, assuming she had already dropped her off at daycare.

Her daughter ended up suffocating to death after being trapped inside the car for 7 whole hours.

The Routine Morning

On the morning of 8 November, the day commenced like any other for the mother in her 30s. She dutifully sent her older children to school at 7 am, adhering to the familiar morning routine, according to The Star.

After seeing off her other children, the mother proceeded to drop her two-year-old daughter at a nearby daycare center.

However, in a twist of fate, she engaged in some “online business transactions” before heading home, assuming her toddler was safely in the care of the daycare providers.

It was only at 3:35 pm, a staggering seven hours later, that the mother realized her grievous error. The shock and horror set in as she found her daughter unconscious in the car., according to Oriental Daily News.

Despite immediate first aid administered by the father, the child could not be revived, leading to a heartbreaking pronouncement of her death at the hospital.

In the wake of the tragedy, the local police initiated an investigation to understand the circumstances surrounding this heartbreaking incident.

As the investigation unfolds, local authorities are working to piece together the events leading to this unfortunate incident. The focus is not only on understanding the sequence of actions but also on raising awareness to prevent similar occurrences in the future.

Other similar incident(s)

In another similar heart-wrenching incident that unfolded in Malaysia on Thursday, October 5th, a devastating tragedy occurred when a mother, who works as a doctor, unknowingly left her eight-month-old baby girl in a car for several hours.

Her baby ended up dying by the time she realised that her baby was in the car, according to a report by The Star.

The Morning That Changed Everything

The incident took place on a seemingly ordinary Thursday morning at around 7:20 a.m. The woman placed her eight-month-old baby girl in the backseat of her car.

Her intention was to drop her daughter off at a nursery, a routine many parents follow to balance their work and childcare responsibilities.

However, what transpired next was far from ordinary. Instead of heading to the nursery as planned, the mother drove straight to her workplace, all the while, under the false assumption that her daughter was not in the vehicle with her. This simple yet tragic mistake would set the stage for a heartbreaking sequence of events.

Unimaginable Oversight

The mother, consumed by her daily responsibilities and work commitments, left her car without realizing that her child was still in the backseat.

Oblivious to the dire situation unfolding behind her, she proceeded to her workplace, unknowingly leaving her infant daughter behind.

It wasn’t until later in the day that the truth came crashing down upon her. In the evening, the mother’s husband called her, expressing concern that their daughter had not been sent to the nursery.

It was at this moment that the mother’s heart sank as she suddenly realized the gravity of her oversight.

A Tragic 10-Hour Ordeal

The unimaginable had happened. The eight-month-old baby girl had been left alone in the car for a staggering 10 hours, parked in the car park of Canselor Tuanku Muhriz Hospital (HCTM) in Cheras.

This hospital held a special connection to this tragic story, as the mother was reportedly employed as a doctor at the same institution.

It was only when the baby was discovered in an unconscious state at 5:35 pm that she was rushed to the hospital for immediate medical attention. Tragically, despite the best efforts of medical professionals, the baby was declared dead.

MOTORCYCLIST KILLED IN VIRAL ECP CRASH, HAD JUST GOTTEN MARRIED & EXPECTING A CHILD

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The dreams of a young freelance delivery rider, Mr. Muhammad Nurhilmi Atan, were tragically cut short in a devastating accident on the East Coast Parkway (ECP), according to The Straits Times.

The Accident: Sequence of Events

On a fateful day, the collision involving Mr. Nurhilmi’s motorcycle, a lorry, and a minibus unfolded on the East Coast Parkway.

The accident was purportedly caused by a 38-year-old Russian man, Eldaniz Ibishov, who allegedly jumped out of a minivan on the expressway.

Upon arrival at Tan Tock Seng Hospital, Mr. Nurhilmi was unconscious and, unfortunately, succumbed to his injuries on the same day.

Ibishov was arrested and charged with causing grievous hurt by performing a rash act.

Personal Background of Mr. Nurhilmi

Beyond the accident, understanding who Mr. Nurhilmi was adds a human touch to this story. He was a freelance delivery rider who had just gotten married and was expecting a child with his wife when he died.

His sister, Noorashikin Atan, told ST that her brother was looking forward to starting a new life with his wife and expecting a child in January, they had just gotten married and moved into a two-room flat in Serangoon just last month.

She shared that earlier that day, Nurhilmi had gone to pick up some documents to delivery to a customer when the accident happened.

She added that he had sent their mother a text after picking up the parcel, telling her that she was okay. But less than two hours later, their family received news that he had been sent to the hospital, where he later died.

Noorashikin added that their parents can’t sleep or eat, and her father is trying to act strong but she knows he misses his son very badly.

She added that her brother had been working very hard over the last few years so that he could let his 60-year-old father retire.

Friends paint a vivid picture of Mr. Nurhilmi’s character—kind, cheerful, and dedicated to his family. The outgoing man loved to tease his mother as well and spent his free time playing football, mobile games and riding his motorcycle.

She said that he was a joy in their lives and now that he’s gone, their family is quiet and solemn, and they can only hope that he is in a better place now.