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GUY TIRED OF BEING A MAN, WISHED HE WAS A GIRL – MUM TELLS HIM TO MAN UP

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I’m tired of being a “man”. As the oldest male in a traditional Chinese family you might think I have it easy or as the saying goes “重男轻女”. Which means boys are favoured over girls. I feel this isn’t the case at all and it feels like the other way around.

I’m tasked to do so many things which includes but not limited to: taking care of certain household expenses, occasionally being a chauffeur for my family such as bringing grandparents to polyclinic etc, do basic household chores, buy/cook food, deal with “manly stuff” like fixing sinks, computers, cabinets whatsoever, pay for my own stuff including tuition fees and personal expenses.

All these feels really suffocating and sometimes I wished I was born as a girl. My sister gets her tuition fees paid by our parents, she doesn’t do basic chores (heck she doesn’t even know how to change her bedsheets), but gets all the attention from guys and her boyfriend. Yes, she looks like a decent girl that might make some heads turn. Even had guys coming up to our house and giving things like cakes to her etc. She goes out every other day to meet her friends. Meanwhile, I’m just here trying to survive financially and try my best for this family.

I’m not sure what do I even like at this point in time, the past few years or so was a real blur to me. Even felt like I should have signed on to avoid all these issues. At least in the army, I had friends who cared about me even though we were suffering. Uni isn’t forgiving as well, I’m struggling to stay afloat in my course (it’s a competitive one)

Mom tells me to man up. Dad doesn’t do much and is focused on work and his friends, drinking etc. He basically just listens to my mom. I never felt so unloved and uncared for at this stage of life. I didn’t even know how it happened. It’s like adulthood just slapping me right in the face. I feel like I’m just another statistic/investment plan to my family.

Don’t get more wrong, I love my family and I want the best for them. But what about me? Does no one care about my feelings? Anyone in the same boat as me? Or faced similar issues?  I’m really tired of being the go-to man in the family.

LAO HERO SEEN IN VIRAL VIDEO HACKING PYTHON TO DEATH @ BOON LAY, KENA SAMAN $1K

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A man recently faced repercussions for his actions towards a python, resulting in a S$1,000 fine imposed by NParks. The incident, captured in a viral video that circulated in April, depicted the man using a cleaver to end the snake’s life after hitting it multiple times with buckets at Boon Lay Place Market, according to Channel NewsAsia.

The widely circulated video sparked public outrage, with viewers expressing shock and concern over the man’s actions. The incident prompted a swift response from NParks, drawing attention to the need for addressing such cases promptly.

Investigated

Following the public uproar, NParks launched an investigation into the incident. The outcome confirmed the man’s actions, leading to the imposition of a S$1,000 composition fine. NParks’ group director for wildlife management, Ryan Lee, affirmed the decision and highlighted the legal consequences of such actions.

In response to the incident, NParks has urged the public to report any similar situations to their Animal Response Centre. This emphasizes the importance of public participation in preserving wildlife and ensuring the proper handling of encounters with animals.

Contrary to public condemnation, the man involved asserted that his actions were driven by compassion. He claimed that the snake was in distress and pain, leading him to make the difficult decision to end its suffering by using a cleaver, according to 8World News.

Despite the man’s justification, NParks maintained a firm stance, emphasizing the legal consequences of taking matters into one’s own hands. The imposed fine serves as a deterrent and highlights the importance of adhering to established protocols when encountering wildlife.

Recap on the incident

In the video, the man was seen picking up a python that had wrapped itself around his ankle, unravelling the snake before hitting its head with a bucket.

The people who was watching and filming the incident could also be heard laughing at the scene and throwing more things at the snake.

The man who picked up the snake, was seen in another video being bitten by the snake on his forearm before trying to pick it up again, this time holding the snake by its head and bringing the reptile into the market.

He then used a chopper to hack at the snake’s head, killing it.

ACRES’ statement on Facebook

APPEAL FOR EYE WITNESS: GRAPHIC CONTENT WARNING

On 18th April 2023, 11:25pm, ACRES hotline received this screen recorded video from a concerned member of public from a story that is no longer available – the video shows a man and five others violently hitting a protected species Reticulated python, using crates at the bicycle stand of Boon Lay Place market.

They later bring the python to notice board area beside a food stall and use a cleaver to chop the snake’s head until they confirm that the poor snake is dead.

Our investigations and interviews at 7am onsite today (19 April 2023) indicate that there are police cameras and some recollected a snake sighting at 1:30am 18 April 2023 (Tue) .

ACRES is shocked and disturbed by the celebratory tone and all the cheering in inflicting suffering and death to a voiceless protected native species, with no indication of calling someone for help (NParks or ACRES).

ACRES has submitted all the relevant information to NParks, who is now investigating this further.

It is alarming that despite many educational efforts, violence towards the voiceless still lurks in our society.

Such incidents involving killing/hurting snakes have been happening repeatedly, and we hope that this case will result in prosecuting the individuals involved, serving a severe deterrence for the future of our animals in the community – whether a cute cuddly animal or a scaly reptile that many of us may be fearful of.

If you know of any individual in this video or have witnessed this act, please reach out to us at our 24-hour hotline 97837782 or email [email protected] by whatsapp/email/call. All information will be kept confidential.

M’SIAN MAN TURNS DOWN NURSE WHO WANTS HIM “MY RM8K SALARY IS TOO LOW”

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A Malaysian man submitted an anonymous post to share his recent story of being pursued by a girl.

The man mentioned in the article that the other person was a friend of his colleague, very beautiful, elegant, and 8 years younger than him. However, the man ultimately rejected her. Just because the other party is a nurse, and the man is just a salaryman with an “ordinary” salary.

My monthly income is RM8,000, so I turned her down.

The man said that his salary was only RM8,000 and he was worried that he could not give her happiness. He also felt that she should be able to find a better boy.

She even revealed that his previous relationship couldn’t go on because of the salary issue, so the man felt that no matter how good he was with her, it would be fine, but he didn’t deserve her, so he chose to reject her.

Giving up on oneself after being rejected

But unexpectedly, after the woman was rejected by him, she started drinking excessively, giving up on herself, and even stopped going to work.

The man felt deeply guilty. After making an appointment to talk, he found that the woman still wanted them to be together and said she didn’t mind that the man’s salary was only RM8,000. After hearing this, the man rejected her again; the other party added that he didn’t mind a poor boy like him.

Finally, the man couldn’t help but ask netizens: “Should I accept this girl’s pursuit?”

Original text:

最近有一位女生向我表白,她是我公司一位同事的朋友。她非常漂亮,气质优雅,年龄比我小8岁。然而,我最终拒绝了她。原因在于,她是一名护士,而我只是一个薪水普通的工薪族。我担心自己无法给她幸福,觉得她应该找到更好的男生。我的月薪只有8,000元,而且我之前的感情也因为薪水问题而分手,因此我觉得自己不配她。虽然我对她有好感,但无奈之下还是选择了拒绝。不久后,我的女同事告诉我,这位女护士因为被我拒绝而陷入自暴自弃,开始过度饮酒,甚至不去上班。听到这些,我感到非常愧疚,于是约她出来谈了一次。

她表达了希望我们在一起的愿望,表示不介意我的薪水只有8,000元,她愿意和我在一起。我仍然认为她应该找到一个更好的男生,比如富二代,而不是像我这样的穷小子。然而,她坚持认为薪水并不重要,她愿意和我共度未来。我想请教大家的意见,我应该接受这位女生的追求吗?

HAN FEIZI DEPORTED, NOW IN GOLF COURSE, THOUGHT SHE IN FINANCIAL TROUBLES

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The incident involving a 29-year-old woman, Han Feizi, verbally abusing a staff member at Singapore General Hospital has sparked widespread discussion and controversy. Her recent social media update, a fleeting Douyin video shared on Nov. 9, 2023, has reignited public attention.

The brief four-second video, initially set to private but subsequently captured by a user and shared with Shin Min Daily News, showcased Han Feizi in what appeared to be a golf course, declaring, “History is written by winners.”

Alot of netizens who saw her post writting “History is written by winners.” misinterpreted the message.

It actually means “Those who are in power or win decide what are true and false which established “facts” or “history” known to people”. In other words she is expressing that she is “wronged” or “powerless”.

Told the judge she come SG to alleviate family the financial burdens  but she went to Tokyo and Paris

The woman claimed that she is deeply in debt and her family members have cancer that requires treatment.

However, her DouYin (China TikTok) account shows her going to high-end restaurants and pools around the world such as Paris and Tokyo.

Social Media Update and Deportation

Han Feizi, after serving 29 days in prison, faced deportation from Singapore. The Immigration and Checkpoints Authority (ICA) confirmed her departure following the completion of her sentence. She was barred from re-entering Singapore and fined S$600. Han spent additional days in jail due to the outstanding fine.

Background and Legal Proceedings

The episode began with Han Feizi facing multiple charges, including public nuisance, abusive language towards public servants, assault on security officers, false declaration of occupation, and violations under the Employment of Foreign Manpower Act. Han admitted guilt on five charges while three were considered during sentencing.

Repercussions and Public Response

The phrase “History is written by winners” in Han’s video has sparked debates on the implications of her actions and her perspective on the outcome. This incident has triggered varied responses on social media, reflecting public opinions and the impact of such behaviors.

Conclusion

The incident sheds light on the significance of responsible behavior, cultural nuances, legal consequences, and the impact of social media in such cases. It emphasizes the importance of respecting laws, cultural differences, and the need for responsible conduct.

UNLICENSED “BEAUTICIAN” USED ALIBABA PRODUCTS TO DO FACIAL INJECTIONS ON CLIENTS, JAILED

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In a shocking revelation, Siti Palilah Ismail, a 52-year-old Singaporean beautician, recently faced legal repercussions for providing invasive facial aesthetic procedures without a valid medical practitioner’s license, according to TODAY.

Overview of the Case

Siti Palilah Ismail, operating as a self-employed beautician, conducted invasive facial aesthetic procedures for approximately two years, serving around 300 clients. Her actions came to an abrupt halt when she was sentenced to eight weeks in jail for four counts of practicing without a valid certificate.

Procuring equipment and products from the e-commerce giant Alibaba, Siti Palilah offered procedures ranging from skin-whitening jabs to placenta injections. The consequences of her actions became apparent as she faced charges and legal proceedings.

Background

In 2019, Siti Palilah underwent a three-month aesthetic course, gaining knowledge in providing invasive facial procedures. This laid the foundation for her subsequent illegal activities.

Sometime in 2020, Siti Palilah decided to venture into the beauty industry as a self-employed professional, setting the stage for her unlicensed practices.

To execute her aesthetic procedures, Siti Palilah rented a small salon space where she conducted her operations.

Utilizing social media, particularly Instagram, she promoted her services, attracting unsuspecting clients who would soon become the victims of her unlicensed procedures.

Unlawful Procedures

Timeline of Invasive Procedures

From November 2020 to November 2022, Siti Palilah performed various invasive aesthetic procedures, exposing clients to significant health risks.

Specific Procedures Performed

  1. Skin-Whitening Jabs
  2. Placenta Injections
  3. Filler Injections
  4. Botox Jabs
  5. Thread Lift Injections

Legal consequences

Siti Palilah faced four charges related to performing invasive procedures without a valid license. Her guilty plea resulted in an eight-week jail sentence.

In addition to the jail term, the court considered seven similar charges during the sentencing process.

The gravity of the case was underscored by the consideration of additional charges, highlighting the severity of Siti Palilah’s actions.

Investigative Process

The Ministry of Health (MOH) played a crucial role in investigating and exposing Siti Palilah’s illegal activities.

Andre Tan, the prosecutor from MOH, provided insights into the case, emphasizing the dangers posed by unlicensed practitioners in the beauty industry.

Customers, unaware of Siti Palilah’s lack of proper credentials, underwent various invasive procedures, risking their health.

Siti’s modus operandi involved instructing clients to lie down, cleansing their faces, applying numbing cream, and then administering the beauty products.

Each session ranged from S$200 to S$800, lasting approximately half an hour.

Health Risks

An expert report highlighted the potential risks, including allergies, infections, haematoma, and swelling, associated with the unlicensed procedures.

The report emphasized the serious health implications of Siti Palilah’s actions, underscoring the need for proper licensing in the beauty industry.

AUSSIE GUY DATES SG GIRL, CLAIMS SG GIRLS ‘LACK EMOTIONS’

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So I just dated a Singaporean girl, and it was one of the weirdest date I have ever experienced. I am an Australian and dated lots of girls with different cultural background. I have dated asian (Malaysian, Filipino & Hong Kong girls) and white girls alike. Generally my experience has been pleasant, with lots of flirting, touches, teasing and laughing.

I recently got relocated to Singapore and after a few months I decided to hit the dating scene in Singapore. I decided to hit on this girl at work, got her number and she seem excited to go out with me when texting. Just from texting, she seem fairly normal, although her texting responses to my teasing & flirting can be quite awkward at times – but I never thought much of that at that time. Anyway, fast forward to the actual date, to summarise my experience, I felt like I was out with a guy friend rather than a date.

I did the usual routine, flirting, having deep conversations, teasing, some light touches. But the only thing that comes close to a “feminine” response is some laughs, smiles & eye contact. Of course she may not be interested in me at all which could explain why the lack of what I would consider counter flirt – but then I think its safe to assume that she should have some interest based on texting cues & the fact that she agreed with the date. Anyway that was the weirdest date ever, it felt so one-sided, I lost some interest after the dinner. I was actually planning to take her to dessert after, but didnt really feel like it due to her lack of signals.

But surprisingly she suggested dessert, so I was like hmm maybe she is starting to warm-up. We went for dessert. But once again, same thing, lack of signals, it really felt like I was out with another guy. My guess is that Singaporean girls either lack emotion or have troubles expressing their emotions. I already did my part in my opinion (taking all the initiatives) so I dont think she is afraid of rejection.

Anyway at first I rubbed it off as a one off experience, ie. I shouldnt be using her to generalise the other Singaporean girls, she may be a peculiar one. But I then subsequently dated another girl & the same thing again. Once again it feels like Im hanging out with a guy rather than a girl. To sum it up, I cant feel the liveliness and energy of a girl that I usually feel on dates, which evolves into chemistry. Anyway, once again a sample size of two girls is too small to tell. But from what I gathered from my Singaporean male friends, it seems they generally agree with me that Singapore girls can be quite emotionally detached and difficult (which would explain why they are all dating Indonesian-Chinese, Malaysians etc. – something which I have always been curious about).

Extra info would be the 2 girls I have dated are at the age range of (22 to 25). Maybe they are just less experienced in dating?

So I guess I am asking Singaporean guys, what have your dating experiences been with a Singaporean girl? Was I expecting things to escalate too fast? Do Singaporean girls usually need more time to warm up before they show some enthusiasm / excitement / cheerfulness / liveliness?

Having said all that. One thing I like about Singaporean girls are that they seem quite honest when conversing. She doesn’t try to hide who she is, which I think is a big bonus. Anyway I will try dating one more Singaporean girl before giving up. I have heard the Malaysians (which are close neighbours to Singapore) are much more interesting breed. But I have no idea how to tell if a girl is Malaysian or Singaporean. I will probably check out the Malaysians girls next.

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MAN TRIED TO FLEE FROM ROADBLOCK BUT REVERSED INTO POLICE CAR @ TAMPINES, ARRESTED

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In the early hours of Wednesday morning, a seemingly routine police roadblock in Tampines Avenue 9 took a dramatic turn when a 21-year-old man attempted to evade authorities, resulting in a collision with a police vehicle.

What happened?

At approximately 12:40 am, the Traffic Police (TP) were conducting routine checks at a roadblock when the unexpected occurred. The incident unfolded in the heart of Tampines, catching both the police and bystanders off guard.

The driver of a van chose to reverse from the roadblock, directly colliding with a police vehicle. The impact left a TP officer with minor injuries, underscoring the risks associated with evading law enforcement measures.

Following the collision, the driver and his female passenger, aged 20, attempted to escape on foot. However, a brief pursuit by the police led to their apprehension, shedding light on the determination of law enforcement to uphold public safety.

Offences

The legal consequences for the 21-year-old driver are significant. He now faces charges that include dangerous driving, evasion of a roadblock, driving without a license, and operating a vehicle without insurance coverage.

An eyewitness account provided by a citizen sheds additional light on the unfolding events. The woman was reportedly apprehended in a nearby car park, surrounded by officers. Meanwhile, the man involved in the collision was seen conversing with TP officers while sitting on a kerb.

The gravity of the situation prompted a substantial police response, with more than four police cars and four motorcycles rushing to the scene. The eyewitness also noted the arrival of an ambulance, indicating the immediate response to potential injuries sustained during the incident.

By 3 am, tow trucks were on the scene, tasked with removing both the van and the damaged police car. As the incident unfolds, the woman involved is actively assisting with police investigations.

MAID PUTS DETTOL INTO RIBENA DRINK & GAVE IT TO EMPLOYER’S GRANDSONS TO DRINK, JAILED

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In a recent and unsettling turn of events, an 18-year-old foreign domestic worker, Mila Rindi Antika, has been sentenced to four months’ jail for a disturbing act that left her employer and family in shock.

She added Dettol into the Ribena drinks of her employer’s young grandsons for them to consume, according to TODAY.

Background

The incident involves Mila Rindi Antika, an Indonesian domestic worker, who pleaded guilty to adding a harmful substance to a Ribena cordial syrup using a Dettol product. This tainted syrup was unknowingly used by her employer to prepare a drink consumed by her son and two grandchildren.

On August 4, Mila, when alone, mixed Dettol into a Ribena cordial bottle, strategically avoiding surveillance cameras.

The unsuspecting victims of Mila’s actions were her employer’s son and two grandchildren. While one noticed a chemical taste in the drink, the others remained unaware of the contamination.

Upon detecting the odd taste in the Ribena, the employer initially thought that the maid didn’t wash the cup properly and replaced it with another cup.

However, the employer’s sister then smelled the Ribena bottle and noticed a smell like disinfectant and she confronted Mila, who denied any wrongdoing. The employer, unsure of the evidence, initially refrained from further action. It wasn’t until later, with the discovery of the hidden Dettol bottle, that the gravity of the situation became apparent.

The employer’s search for the hidden Dettol bottle, deep under the kitchen sink, marked a turning point in the investigation. The subsequent police report initiated a series of events that brought the case to light.

IX. Laboratory Confirmation

A laboratory test confirmed the presence of Dettol in the Ribena cordial bottle, providing irrefutable evidence of the contamination. This scientific confirmation supported the legal proceedings against Mila.

In the face of mounting evidence, Mila admitted to her actions when questioned by the police.

WOMAN CAN’T SLEEP BECAUSE HUSBAND LIKES TO GET “TOUCHY” DURING SLEEP

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My hubby has a bad habit of always being very touchy in the middle of the night during sleep. Fondling or putting his heavy arm over my body the entire night.

Over the years, I have developed very bad sleeping because of him and became very grouchy in the day. I get startled easily in the night and I need to wake up at 4am+ for work.

When Hubby didn’t sleep well, he simply MC all the way and he don’t care. Seriously he can clock beyond the MC quota per year and has been changing 22 jobs for the past 18 years.

I have been thinking of separating room with him and I rather sleep with my boys. But this is not a long-term solution due to room layout also.

I need help or else I will feel my productivity very low and I’m seriously sick of my hubby’s irresponsible habits all these years.

All the scolding and divorce threats on him don’t work.

Netizens’ comments

  • He may touch you unconsciously when he’s sleeping. Maybe cannot be controlled since he is not conscious.
    However, bad / insufficient sleep is very detrimental for the body and mind.
    Get another bed or split the queen to two single, etc. Don’t sacrifice your health.(To keep your marriage or not is a separate issue)
  • Fonding is one of the love languages between couple. This is one of it that your hubby do it to you. How about yours expectation or love language to your hubby?
  • I am more concerned about the 22 jobs in 18 years.

GUY SAYS ADULTHOOD IS TIRING, NOT ENOUGH TIME FOR EVERYTHING

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Screw adulthood lol it’s so tiring

Is it just me or there’s just seems to be countless issues to deal with? Firstly there seem to be not enough time for everything, I’m like always planning when to study, when to submit my assignments and get stressed easily.

Work can be stressful for those who are working. Financial issues, everything is so expensive now due to inflation. Social issues, am grappling with some friendship issues rn as well. Family stuffs here and there that everyone got to handle.

Some of us may have other issues like relationship issues? Used to be in a bad rs and was plagued with issues lol. And I guess though lesser now, pandemic woes can be a concern for some.

How do y’all deal with it when stress gets overwhelming? I’ve tried doing things I like to do which are stress relievers, but they always seem to be just a temporary distraction, and when I’m done all the thoughts come back again.

Trying to be positive but been feeling like this for days

Netizens’ comments

Figure out what matters to you most, focus on those things. When those things get tiring, focus on some other things, maybe your hobbies.

Learn to take things as they come, no point to worry about things too much if they are just a possibility. Not everything has to be a big issue to you, you can think about it but don’t let it be something that you have to worry about, such as international happenings.