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MAID PUTS DETTOL INTO RIBENA DRINK & GAVE IT TO EMPLOYER’S GRANDSONS TO DRINK, JAILED

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In a recent and unsettling turn of events, an 18-year-old foreign domestic worker, Mila Rindi Antika, has been sentenced to four months’ jail for a disturbing act that left her employer and family in shock.

She added Dettol into the Ribena drinks of her employer’s young grandsons for them to consume, according to TODAY.

Background

The incident involves Mila Rindi Antika, an Indonesian domestic worker, who pleaded guilty to adding a harmful substance to a Ribena cordial syrup using a Dettol product. This tainted syrup was unknowingly used by her employer to prepare a drink consumed by her son and two grandchildren.

On August 4, Mila, when alone, mixed Dettol into a Ribena cordial bottle, strategically avoiding surveillance cameras.

The unsuspecting victims of Mila’s actions were her employer’s son and two grandchildren. While one noticed a chemical taste in the drink, the others remained unaware of the contamination.

Upon detecting the odd taste in the Ribena, the employer initially thought that the maid didn’t wash the cup properly and replaced it with another cup.

However, the employer’s sister then smelled the Ribena bottle and noticed a smell like disinfectant and she confronted Mila, who denied any wrongdoing. The employer, unsure of the evidence, initially refrained from further action. It wasn’t until later, with the discovery of the hidden Dettol bottle, that the gravity of the situation became apparent.

The employer’s search for the hidden Dettol bottle, deep under the kitchen sink, marked a turning point in the investigation. The subsequent police report initiated a series of events that brought the case to light.

IX. Laboratory Confirmation

A laboratory test confirmed the presence of Dettol in the Ribena cordial bottle, providing irrefutable evidence of the contamination. This scientific confirmation supported the legal proceedings against Mila.

In the face of mounting evidence, Mila admitted to her actions when questioned by the police.

WOMAN CAN’T SLEEP BECAUSE HUSBAND LIKES TO GET “TOUCHY” DURING SLEEP

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My hubby has a bad habit of always being very touchy in the middle of the night during sleep. Fondling or putting his heavy arm over my body the entire night.

Over the years, I have developed very bad sleeping because of him and became very grouchy in the day. I get startled easily in the night and I need to wake up at 4am+ for work.

When Hubby didn’t sleep well, he simply MC all the way and he don’t care. Seriously he can clock beyond the MC quota per year and has been changing 22 jobs for the past 18 years.

I have been thinking of separating room with him and I rather sleep with my boys. But this is not a long-term solution due to room layout also.

I need help or else I will feel my productivity very low and I’m seriously sick of my hubby’s irresponsible habits all these years.

All the scolding and divorce threats on him don’t work.

Netizens’ comments

  • He may touch you unconsciously when he’s sleeping. Maybe cannot be controlled since he is not conscious.
    However, bad / insufficient sleep is very detrimental for the body and mind.
    Get another bed or split the queen to two single, etc. Don’t sacrifice your health.(To keep your marriage or not is a separate issue)
  • Fonding is one of the love languages between couple. This is one of it that your hubby do it to you. How about yours expectation or love language to your hubby?
  • I am more concerned about the 22 jobs in 18 years.

GUY SAYS ADULTHOOD IS TIRING, NOT ENOUGH TIME FOR EVERYTHING

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Screw adulthood lol it’s so tiring

Is it just me or there’s just seems to be countless issues to deal with? Firstly there seem to be not enough time for everything, I’m like always planning when to study, when to submit my assignments and get stressed easily.

Work can be stressful for those who are working. Financial issues, everything is so expensive now due to inflation. Social issues, am grappling with some friendship issues rn as well. Family stuffs here and there that everyone got to handle.

Some of us may have other issues like relationship issues? Used to be in a bad rs and was plagued with issues lol. And I guess though lesser now, pandemic woes can be a concern for some.

How do y’all deal with it when stress gets overwhelming? I’ve tried doing things I like to do which are stress relievers, but they always seem to be just a temporary distraction, and when I’m done all the thoughts come back again.

Trying to be positive but been feeling like this for days

Netizens’ comments

Figure out what matters to you most, focus on those things. When those things get tiring, focus on some other things, maybe your hobbies.

Learn to take things as they come, no point to worry about things too much if they are just a possibility. Not everything has to be a big issue to you, you can think about it but don’t let it be something that you have to worry about, such as international happenings.

MAN REFUSED TO LET EX-WIFE MOVE IN WITH HIM AFTER SHE GOT EVICTED

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Ex-wife (39F) is going homeless. Our 2 daughters (4F & 6F) are moving in with me (33M) but I refuse to let my ex-wife move into my house.

My ex-wife and I were married for about 7 years and have 2 daughters. The end of our marriage was rocky and she ended up divorcing me about a year and a half ago. It was a hard time for me but after everything was finalized, I understood that the divorce was really needed and I’m truly happy now. I have moved on long ago and progressing in my life like never before. We have a good co-parenting relationship, but nothing more. I live in my own home and my ex lives in an apartment she rents.

My ex recently called me to ask for help. She hasn’t been doing well financially and can’t afford rent anymore. She told me she had nowhere to go. She asked if she could move in together with our daughters for a couple of months until she finds a new job and new place.

She said that she was going to help me out at home by cooking, cleaning, and doing all the housework. She kept going on about how she had nobody and that I’m her last hope. She said that she knows I’m able to take care of all of us financially and that it would be amazing if I helped her out in these tough times.

I told her first off that I’m ready to take in our daughters full-time whenever needed and that she could let me know anytime when I could come to pick up their stuff. My daughters are my number 1 priority and I’ll always take care of them no matter what happens.

I did tell her that I won’t let her move in under any circumstances. I told her that the financial safety and security I provide are a privilege she doesn’t have. I am always ready to take care of our daughters, but what happens to her is non of my concern.

She started crying and she kept telling me that she would be the perfect housewife and help out as much as she could. I told her that I don’t need nor do I want her as my housewife.

I know that I come off as heartless but I don’t see why it would be my obligation to help her. She isn’t my wife anymore so anything that doesn’t concern the kids, I truly don’t care about. The only obligation I have is to take care of our daughters and I’m going to do that without hesitation. I don’t want to have my ex involved in my life any more than she already is and have no plan to change that.

Do you guys think I owe her help in this situation?

I know for a fact if I went through this situation, she wouldn’t even give me the time of day. Let alone help me in any way.

GIRL CANCELED DATE BECAUSE HER HOME ON FIRE, GUY SAYS HE HOPES HER DOG DIES

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My Tinder date said he hopes my dog dies from carbon monoxide poisoning after I had to cancel last minute because there was a massive fire in my building

I’m laughing so hard right now. You can’t make this up. My stomach hurts so much from laughing lmao.

I was supposed to meet a guy for coffee today and while I was getting ready an electrical fire broke out in my downstairs neighbor’s apartment. His whole apartment burned out, we all had to evacuate because the entire building filled with smoke and toxic gas

I was literally standing on the side of the road with my dog, when I texted my date that I wouldn’t make it because there was a fire and that I was really sorry to cancel last minute.

I even sent him pictures because I thought that it was just too crazy to believe. I didn’t want him to think I made it up to get out of the date last minute. I actually looked forward to it because he seemed like a genuinely nice guy. We didn’t talk for long because he suggested a meeting right away which might have been a little suspicious but I had nothing else to do so I thought why not and started getting ready to meet him after just 3 hours of texting. (Don’t worry we were gonna meet in a public space, Im not that crazy lol)

Anyways, he got mad, called me 13 times because he had “already arrived at the cafe and now drove all this way for nothing”. He literally lives like a 10 min car ride away. I told him off for being angry and said it’s not my fault and to stop calling me, that I didn’t have time to talk to him right now because I was consoling my neighbor who had a breakdown because his cat had not been found yet.

My dog was shaking really hard because of all the noise and excitement and smoke and my sobbing and screaming neighbor. All of it really traumatized him. That’s why when my date suggested to meet up a few hours later I declined with the reason that my dog is super panicked and I didn’t want to leave him alone after going thru this scary experience.

Well that’s when this guy decided it was a good idea to say that he hopes my dog dies from the smoke inhalation because apparently my dogs mental state shouldn’t be more important than the dates I set up with humans. I laughed so hard and blocked him everywhere. I still cant believe this all happened today within the last 4 hours but I guess it’s good that I have something ridiculous to laugh about that distracts me from this whole disaster because I would probably cry otherwise lol

GIRL SHARED HOSPITAL WARD WITH ELDERLY WOMAN, WHO KEPT SEEING A GHOST LADY BESIDE HER

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Singapore Hospital Ghost Encounter

Editor’s note: I have blurred out the name of the hospital for certain reasons but the location makes it quite obvious. If you know, you know.

When I was admitted to A___ Hospital, I had several encounters that I could not forget. This hospital really looked old, in my opinion.

The hospital is near queenstown and that may explain why since queenstown itself appear quite old. The only reason I was admitted there was because all my family were admitted there and it has sort of became our family hospital.

I had to remove a growth on my face and after surgery it got infected blah blah and I was warded for almost a week. The first 2 nights were okay and the paranormal stuff only began on the 3rd night.

There was this old lady beside me and when I was admitted, her family members did say that she was demented. Therefore, she was spouting nonsense most of the time but it was entertaining.

She always think that I was her daughter and often call me by her daughter’s name. Although she said things that didn’t make much sense, she said this on the 3rd night that scared the s**t out of me.

Let’s use a fake name “rose” so that I won’t expose her daughter’s real name. “Rose! Ask that lady to stop staring at me. I’m scared lah!”, she said to me while pointing across her bed.

However, the bed was empty… Although I ignored it at first, she started shrieking more often. I called the nurse and she covered the bed area with the curtains and she stopped.

The next day, the same thing happened but this time it’s scarier. Instead of pointing to the bed opposite her, she pointed to the chair beside me… I still choose to ignore her but I definitely felt the chills!

On the 5th day, the old lady was discharged and I was alone in the ward of course with the nurses. Then, the final incident took place…

While I was just lying around doing my thing, I noticed something moving outside the window area. Something moving back and forth.

When I turned, I saw this white cloth on the tree outside. It was just a cloth and no hair or facial features visible. Obviously, I knew that wasn’t just a normal cloth but I chose to stare at it for awhile and suddenly, it just flew up!!!

I turned my body to face the other side instead to avoid looking at that tree. The night went by and I woke up facing the window in the middle of the night!

I swear when I say that the white cloth was now dangling outside the window from the top. I tried to turn my body but somehow I couldn’t so I just shut my eyes and recited some prayers.

Eventually, I fell asleep and at that point in time, I sort of wished the grandma was still there LOL. Thankfully, there were more people who admitted into the ward that day.

That’s all that happened. I know my story is quite short but I hope it was scary…

WOMAN PIAK HER BF WITH HELMET, AFTER FINISH CAN’T FIND IT, GOT “STUCK INSIDE”

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I slept with him and can’t find the condom after he finished.

Basically what the title says. He put it on in front of me and we screwed like rabbits in bed. I don’t know if it ever slid out, he doesn’t think it did. He just pulled out and it wasn’t there.

We checked my entire room and there was nothing. It was supposed to be a pink condom so it would’ve been easy to spot.

My next thought was that it’s probably in me so I checked, he checked, I squatted and checked. I squatted and sneezed but it didn’t come out. Or it’s not there.

He did really thrust me hard, is it possible that it went in too deep?

I really really really would appreciate any advice on what my next steps should be- preferably something that involves not going to the doctor.

PLEASE HELP A FELLOW SISTER OUT!!!

Update: IT FELL OUT AFTER I CAME AND THEN IMMEDIATELY RAN TO PEE!!!

Netizens’ comments

  1. It might be stuck up in u. Its happened to me before. Need to go to urgent care promptly..if its there it can stay for a little but you dont want an infection with a foreign object in your body
  2. I had a similar experience with my girlfriend, the condom fell off inside her and we could not locate it. I had her leg up at one point trying but couldn’t find it and she started to panic. I took her to the doctor and I remember this room they put her in and I was like sitting outside it and she was like yelping a little as the doctor fished it out.
    We had unprotected sex a couple hours later at like 6 am.
  3. Yeah, this kinda happened once with my ex-gf. I guess after I came I stayed in her a bit (she used to like that), I started to go soft, I pulled out… and it wasn’t on me anymore. I looked down and I could see it poking out of her, so pulled it out carefully.

WOMAN SCARED MEN WON’T BE INTERESTED IN HER BECAUSE SHE’S 28 & NEVER POK POK BEFORE

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I’m a 28F and I’m still a virgin. It’s a long story why but basically I have never had a boyfriend before. I didn’t start dating till this year because I wasn’t ready for a long time.

I know I’m late to the game but I’m scared that men will be turned off by me once they find out I’m a virgin.

I’m not waiting for marriage. I’m waiting until I’m in a relationship with someone, I can trust him, and I feel safe with him.

For context, I used to be really shy and introverted but I have really improved on my social skills and myself over the years.

I am more outgoing, social and fun to be around I think. I also think I’m a great time in my life to meet someone and I feel like my best years are ahead of me.

Netizens’ comments

  1. Different strokes for different folks. Not everyone will mind, others will. I just say be weary of dudes who obsess over you being a virgin, telling you how you’re not like other girls or how you’re “wife material” for being one. They’ll also play the long game and bait you into a relationship if they’re desperate enough.
  2. If they’re good people they won’t mind, I think it’ll just depend on your personality and how you go about it.
  3. No. Any decent man would wait, and be honored to be your first. Especially because you specifically said you want to trust the person.
  4. I don’t think so. I’m 30 (and a guy) and a virgin. Lot of reasons why, lot of baggage I’m still unpacking, but, I hope no one everholds it against me.
  5. No men will be against you being a Virgin. But they’ll want to take it. Be selective on who you share that with. Make sure they make you feel comfortable and safe your first time.

SINGAPORE CUSTOMS CAUGHT A MAN WITH CURTAINS AND FINED $575 FOR $57.65 GST

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  • Over 4,000 cases were detected from January to October this year resulting in over $1.4 million in penalties 
  • Recent operations at the land checkpoints also showed cases involving home ware and furnishings, as well as fashion and personal accessories, are on the rise

Singapore, 9 November 2023 – In the first 10 months of this year (January-October 2023), Woodlands and Tuas Checkpoints saw 4,669 cases involving travellers and importers who failed to declare and pay duties and Goods and Services Tax (GST) for dutiable and taxable goods. The total amount of duty and GST recovered was $14,190.67 and the total composition sum (penalty) imposed was $1,422,460. In its latest operations at these land checkpoints in October, Singapore Customs (Customs), together with the Immigration & Checkpoints Authority (ICA) detected 58 cases and recovered $624.45 in duty and GST. $9,700 in composition sums were imposed. While tobacco-related cases make up half of the cases, cases involving home ware and furnishings, as well as fashion and personal accessories, like parts of furniture items, curtains, luxury bags, shoes and belts, are on the rise. About 28% of the cases from the recent operations are from these categories.

  • “It is not worth to take a risk and pay more. We have seen people trying to evade duty and GST as low as $10 to as much as $2,000 and they end up paying 1020 times more. Some may even get charged in courts. We urge all travellers and importers including couriers to use the Customs@SG web application to declare and pay for their overseas purchases truthfully, including goods carried for or on behalf of other persons,” said a Singapore Customs spokesperson.
  • During the operations in October, Customs and ICA officers directed more than 200 inbound cars and travellers for enhanced checks. During these examinations, the officers detected a variety of irregularities. The following were some detections for which composition sums were imposed:

Importation of goods for sales or commercial purposes by importers and couriers 

  1. A male Work Permit Holder failed to declare 10 sets of night curtains in his vehicle which were intended for commercial use. The amount of GST involved was SGD $60.40 and a composition sum of SGD $600 was imposed.

Overseas purchases by travellers

  • A female traveller was found with two undeclared luxury bags. The amount of GST involved was SGD $57.65 and a composition sum of SGD $575 was imposed.A female traveller was found with two undeclared luxury bags and apparel. The amount of GST involved was SGD $56.45 and a composition sum of SGD $560 was imposed.

A female traveller was found with one undeclared luxury bag and belt. The amount of GST involved was SGD $31.30 and a composition sum of SGD $310 was imposed.

  • Undeclared cigarettes and tobacco-related products 
    • A female Singaporean was caught with two packets of undeclared cigarettes concealed around her waistline. As the cigarettes did not comply with the Standardised Packaging (SP) requirements, they were disposed of at the checkpoint. 
  • A male Singapore Permanent Resident was found with four packets of undeclared cigarettes in his bag at the bus arrival hall. Similar to the above case, the cigarettes were disposed of at the checkpoint as they did not comply with SP requirements. 
  • We will continue to conduct enforcement operations, including joint operations with other government agencies regularly, as part of our ongoing efforts to ensure compliance with Singapore’s customs and tax laws; as well as to ensure the security of our borders.
  • Under the Customs Act, any person who is in any way concerned in any fraudulent evasion of, or attempt to fraudulently evade, any customs duty or excise duty shall be guilty of an offence and will be liable on conviction to a fine of up to 20 times the amount of duty and GST evaded or jailed for up to two years. 
  • To avoid the hefty penalties and for their own convenience, we strongly encourage importers and travellers to make an advance declaration and payment for their dutiable or GST goods up to three days prior to their arrival in Singapore, using the Customs@SG Web Application. Those intending to pay for their dutiable and taxable items upon arrival may do so at our Customs Tax Payment Office at the various checkpoints.
  • If they are unsure of the applicable GST import relief entitlements or duty-free allowances, they may also consult Singapore Customs officers at the Customs Tax Payment Office. Members of the public can obtain more information by calling the

Singapore Customs hotline on 6355 2000, or referring to our website

(https://go.gov.sg/customsguideforarrivingtravellers).

  • From 1 July 2020, all cigarettes and other tobacco products imported into, sold, offered for sale or distributed in Singapore must comply with the SP requirements. Cigarettes and/or tobacco products that do not comply with the SP requirements will be disposed of at the checkpoints. Travellers must ensure that their cigarettes and/or tobacco products comply with the SP requirements before making a declaration and payment via the Customs@SG web application.
  • For a smooth and hassle-free arrival experience, we would like to remind all importers and travellers to strictly abide by Singapore’s customs and immigration laws as failure to comply may result in penalties and prosecution. The Singapore authorities adopt a zero-tolerance stance on any illegal activities. ICA will continue to conduct security checks at the checkpoints to safeguard our land, air and sea borders against smuggling activities that may pose security threats to Singapore.

WOMAN LETS DOCTOR CHECK HER DOWN THERE, INTERESTED & WANTS TO “UP” HIM ALREADY

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I 28F have been in an open relationship with 31M for 10 years. Recently, my partner slept with 2 girls off tinder who wer just one night stands and I got a bit itchy down there so we booked in appointments at the gp.

The gp my partner had turned out to be the same one I had a few days later, he was young like our age and really easy to get along with.

He was made aware of our open relationship and done testing to make sure we were all clean to get back to it.

Unfortunately I forgot to shave for the day so I was a little embarrassed when I spread my legs for him to take a swab haha. He pleaded for us to get more regular testing as well.

The next doctor visit followed a few days later, he seemed pretty happy to see me but what I needed to do couldn’t be done so he instead started doing mental health questions as I mentioned one of my kids are special needs and parents in this situation usually struggle.

During the questions he did seem a bit flirty and making me blush a lot. We discussed video games and lotsa chill stuff.

The questions about my open relationship came up a fair bit even when it was off topic, he seemed pretty interested in the whole thing. The appointment lasted like 45 minutes and he didn’t charge me for it.

Since then I have been having fantasies about sleeping with him and I have another appointment in a few days.

Should I turn on the flirting and see what happens? I’m not sure if I can act normal in the next appointment because I will be too wet to think haha.

Maybe he was just being nice and I’m going to make a fool of myself. Will be finding out soon anyways.