Singapore Hospital Ghost Encounter

Editor’s note: I have blurred out the name of the hospital for certain reasons but the location makes it quite obvious. If you know, you know.

When I was admitted to A___ Hospital, I had several encounters that I could not forget. This hospital really looked old, in my opinion.

The hospital is near queenstown and that may explain why since queenstown itself appear quite old. The only reason I was admitted there was because all my family were admitted there and it has sort of became our family hospital.

I had to remove a growth on my face and after surgery it got infected blah blah and I was warded for almost a week. The first 2 nights were okay and the paranormal stuff only began on the 3rd night.

There was this old lady beside me and when I was admitted, her family members did say that she was demented. Therefore, she was spouting nonsense most of the time but it was entertaining.

She always think that I was her daughter and often call me by her daughter’s name. Although she said things that didn’t make much sense, she said this on the 3rd night that scared the s**t out of me.

Let’s use a fake name “rose” so that I won’t expose her daughter’s real name. “Rose! Ask that lady to stop staring at me. I’m scared lah!”, she said to me while pointing across her bed.

However, the bed was empty… Although I ignored it at first, she started shrieking more often. I called the nurse and she covered the bed area with the curtains and she stopped.

The next day, the same thing happened but this time it’s scarier. Instead of pointing to the bed opposite her, she pointed to the chair beside me… I still choose to ignore her but I definitely felt the chills!

On the 5th day, the old lady was discharged and I was alone in the ward of course with the nurses. Then, the final incident took place…

While I was just lying around doing my thing, I noticed something moving outside the window area. Something moving back and forth.

When I turned, I saw this white cloth on the tree outside. It was just a cloth and no hair or facial features visible. Obviously, I knew that wasn’t just a normal cloth but I chose to stare at it for awhile and suddenly, it just flew up!!!

I turned my body to face the other side instead to avoid looking at that tree. The night went by and I woke up facing the window in the middle of the night!

I swear when I say that the white cloth was now dangling outside the window from the top. I tried to turn my body but somehow I couldn’t so I just shut my eyes and recited some prayers.

Eventually, I fell asleep and at that point in time, I sort of wished the grandma was still there LOL. Thankfully, there were more people who admitted into the ward that day.

That’s all that happened. I know my story is quite short but I hope it was scary…

I slept with him and can’t find the condom after he finished.

Basically what the title says. He put it on in front of me and we screwed like rabbits in bed. I don’t know if it ever slid out, he doesn’t think it did. He just pulled out and it wasn’t there.

We checked my entire room and there was nothing. It was supposed to be a pink condom so it would’ve been easy to spot.

My next thought was that it’s probably in me so I checked, he checked, I squatted and checked. I squatted and sneezed but it didn’t come out. Or it’s not there.

He did really thrust me hard, is it possible that it went in too deep?

I really really really would appreciate any advice on what my next steps should be- preferably something that involves not going to the doctor.

PLEASE HELP A FELLOW SISTER OUT!!!

Update: IT FELL OUT AFTER I CAME AND THEN IMMEDIATELY RAN TO PEE!!!

Netizens’ comments

1. It might be stuck up in u. Its happened to me before. Need to go to urgent care promptly..if its there it can stay for a little but you dont want an infection with a foreign object in your body
2. I had a similar experience with my girlfriend, the condom fell off inside her and we could not locate it. I had her leg up at one point trying but couldn’t find it and she started to panic. I took her to the doctor and I remember this room they put her in and I was like sitting outside it and she was like yelping a little as the doctor fished it out.
   We had unprotected sex a couple hours later at like 6 am.
3. Yeah, this kinda happened once with my ex-gf. I guess after I came I stayed in her a bit (she used to like that), I started to go soft, I pulled out… and it wasn’t on me anymore. I looked down and I could see it poking out of her, so pulled it out carefully.

I’m a 28F and I’m still a virgin. It’s a long story why but basically I have never had a boyfriend before. I didn’t start dating till this year because I wasn’t ready for a long time.

I know I’m late to the game but I’m scared that men will be turned off by me once they find out I’m a virgin.

I’m not waiting for marriage. I’m waiting until I’m in a relationship with someone, I can trust him, and I feel safe with him.

For context, I used to be really shy and introverted but I have really improved on my social skills and myself over the years.

I am more outgoing, social and fun to be around I think. I also think I’m a great time in my life to meet someone and I feel like my best years are ahead of me.

Netizens’ comments

1. Different strokes for different folks. Not everyone will mind, others will. I just say be weary of dudes who obsess over you being a virgin, telling you how you’re not like other girls or how you’re “wife material” for being one. They’ll also play the long game and bait you into a relationship if they’re desperate enough.
2. If they’re good people they won’t mind, I think it’ll just depend on your personality and how you go about it.
3. No. Any decent man would wait, and be honored to be your first. Especially because you specifically said you want to trust the person.
4. I don’t think so. I’m 30 (and a guy) and a virgin. Lot of reasons why, lot of baggage I’m still unpacking, but, I hope no one everholds it against me.
5. No men will be against you being a Virgin. But they’ll want to take it. Be selective on who you share that with. Make sure they make you feel comfortable and safe your first time.

I 28F have been in an open relationship with 31M for 10 years. Recently, my partner slept with 2 girls off tinder who wer just one night stands and I got a bit itchy down there so we booked in appointments at the gp.

The gp my partner had turned out to be the same one I had a few days later, he was young like our age and really easy to get along with.

He was made aware of our open relationship and done testing to make sure we were all clean to get back to it.

Unfortunately I forgot to shave for the day so I was a little embarrassed when I spread my legs for him to take a swab haha. He pleaded for us to get more regular testing as well.

The next doctor visit followed a few days later, he seemed pretty happy to see me but what I needed to do couldn’t be done so he instead started doing mental health questions as I mentioned one of my kids are special needs and parents in this situation usually struggle.

During the questions he did seem a bit flirty and making me blush a lot. We discussed video games and lotsa chill stuff.

The questions about my open relationship came up a fair bit even when it was off topic, he seemed pretty interested in the whole thing. The appointment lasted like 45 minutes and he didn’t charge me for it.

Since then I have been having fantasies about sleeping with him and I have another appointment in a few days.

Should I turn on the flirting and see what happens? I’m not sure if I can act normal in the next appointment because I will be too wet to think haha.

Maybe he was just being nice and I’m going to make a fool of myself. Will be finding out soon anyways.

The first time we watched a movie together he stroked and took my hand. We feel comfortable with each other and recently also cuddle and stroke each other (not erogenous zones) arms, face, hair, neck, belly…

Yesterday I lay on his chest, his arms were around me and I stroked his arms. He started breathing more heavily and I noticed afterwards he had come in his pants (without touching him there).

He realized I noticed and felt very embarrassed about it, his face turned completely red. I didn’t really know what to say or how to react so I just laughed it off and went to get him some tissues.

I also realized it must have happened 2/3 times before because he would sometimes put on “more comfortable” pants while we were watching a movie.

He is not a virgin, but he has hardly any experience. I wonder if this is normal and what it means. Does he suffer from premature ejaclation? Will it go away or will he continue to come so quickly?

Netizens’ comments

1. OP you are misinformed, at least some of those are erogenous zones on most people, and the rest can be fairly intimate depending on the nature of the touch.
2. Take it as a big compliment honey. He is obviously very well into you and fancies you like hell.
   It can happen when the hormones and senses are overwhelmed. In this case your proximity and smell and touch.
3. This happens with both genders. I have a close female friend who came from making out without direct genital contact all through her adulthood.
4. I think I feel bad for the guy. He’s trying very hard to not be creepy or make you uncomfortable, but he’s super into you and you keep giving him all this attention which if he’s anything like me being turned on can be super uncomfortable if not painful.

I hate my wife she deserves what’s happening to her

I’ll keep this short. She cheated with a coworker. 4 years long affair. She was carrying his child when she met an accident. She lost the baby as well as her legs. She’s in wheelchair now and can’t ever walk again. I’m STUCK with her.

Her coworker had his cake and ate it, I’m the one paying for it. I already drained our entire savings on her operations and getting her to senses.

Now we are without savings, I’m doing 100% of the finances and housework while she stares at the window thinking about the lovable memories with her despicable coworker.

I can’t leave because we have little kids and I’ll be painted the bad guy because that’s what this society does. No matter how much we accomplish, it’s less or unappreciated.

At this point, I hope she dies! I can’t take it any longer.

Do you think divorce is that easy? I spent all of our savings to get her home from hospital and then she drops the big news of her infidelity.

Now I’m the only money maker in the family. I have to do the work, do the kids and take care of house all by myself.

Despite all that, I asked her to visit therapy. I grew up without a home. I know the importance of family. Divorce isn’t easy. I’ll have to split up everything (house, car, bank, even our kids) This is not easy!

Leaving someone you spent 20 years of your life with when they are at this condition is not easy! I see her weeping, I see her laughing maniacally and it breaks my heart!

I can’t attend therapy or file for divorce because this will further break her down and I don’t want that. Sometimes you have to sacrifice yourself and your needs! I hate her so much that I freaking love her!

Does anyone have a problem of arguing with everyone in their life?

My parents hated me since I learned to talk because of this. And I started arguing with people online.

At work, no one likes me because I have strong views and argue with everyone. My friends also do not like me because of this, I kept quiet to make friends and the moment I tell my views, no one wants to hang out anymore.

In my defense, I think that everybody else is wrong. But I don’t want to argue. How do I be “normal” like everyone else and have peaceful conversations?

Netizens comments

• I guess you could try to see things from a different perspective? Like try to face the issue from others’ point of view. And don’t be so quick to disagree or disapprove someone’s view. Be cool-headed, calm and collected. All the best 🙂

• “i think that everyone is wrong” LOL

Nothing wrong with this tbh its just what you do after, are you talking down and being rude to people telling them they are wrong and you are always right? (assuming this is the case since everyone hates you lmfao) Could it also be that its not so clear as your are right and they are wrong and more that both you and the other party are right and its just a matter of perspective/understanding? Try not to look/talk down to people just because you are right, try to be more compassionate and understanding and talk to people kindly, not with a know it all attitude. Noone likes that.

• “In my defense, I think that everybody else is wrong.”
  That’s the root of the problem. Nobody is correct 100% of the time, that includes you. Having an ego that isn’t humbled down gives rise to cognitive biases and makes us think we’re right all the time.

Don’t focus on wanting to be right, focus on getting it right. What that means is, treat conversations as if you and anyone who are discussing on a particular topic, are both doing so to get to the truth in a neutral way that considers both party’s points of view and objective evidences/logical thinking. Not your version of truth or their version of truth. I understand this can be difficult because not everyone has this mindset and some people just want to proof they’re right. If you think they’re wrong, don’t use labels (idiot, fool etc), don’t use directly/passive aggressive language and don’t talk over them loudly. Those only serve to set up a heated argument, not a constructive discussion.

Learning when is the right time to convey your thoughts, and doing so tactfully is important. For example, if you and your group of friends are just talking about what food tastes the best, there’s no point arguing with them over something as trivial as this. Next time you want to argue with someone, ask yourself, is starting an argument with them a productive thing to do? Or do you just want to show them you’re right to feed your ego? If you just want to feed your ego, then make yourself shut up.

There’s a saying: “Never miss an opportunity to shut up.” – Mark Twain. I repeat this quote to myself if I sense I’m going to start a foolish and meaningless argument with someone.

It was my birthday and nobody remembered. I shouldn’t be upset because it’s been this way my whole life but I am (30F)

This sounds really pathetic but I had my 30th birthday a few days ago and I didn’t get anything at all.

I’m not a horrible person but I’ve never been popular. My work organized a card & collection for everyone else when they have a birthday or engagement or buying a house.

I thought this year I would get something. My manager knew it was my 30th so I was hopeful but I didn’t get anything.

I have no family or friends or partner (he ghosted me 6 months ago) so I’m used to celebrating alone. I decided to buy myself a theatre ticket to see a musical but I was so down about everything that I didn’t go.

I’m done with it all honestly. Another year gone and have nothing so there’s no point. I shouldn’t be upset but I am.

Netizens’ comments

Hey I was exactly like you a few years ago. No partner, friends didn’t really care about me, family were in a different country so it was like they didn’t exist.

I used to let birthdays and holidays go by because I felt so awkward trying to reach out to people. I was so lonely and it nearly killed me.

I don’t have any advice for you other than start small and change some of the small things that make you miserable.

For me that started with quitting my job and relocating, and then I made friends at my new job and things started slowly to get better.

Nowadays I’m in a happy relationship and have a small number of friends that I’m very dedicated to. Things do get better if you’re willing to make a change. DM me if you wanna talk.