A netizen shared how she lost all her guy friends because their wives see as her a threat as she is “hot”.

Here is the story:

“All my guy friends’ wives see me as a threat. I know because they expressed their displeasure and these guys told me about it.

These wives do not like it when my friends hang out with me but are ok if they hang out with other girls in our clique.

I asked myself honestly if I did anything to make them uncomfortable but the answer is no. I even tried to befriend the wives but they still see me as a threat.

I have zero interest in all my guy friends so there’s no way my actions would have suggested otherwise.

Frankly speaking, I think I am just average looking though most people say I am hot.

Really upset because I have lost these friends due to their wives’ insecurity.”

I’m tired of smelling my boyfriend’s farts/ass all day, every day

I sniff his laundry to check if it’s dirty or not, chances are that any bottoms smell like ripe butt. I’ve gotten to a point where I don’t sniff anymore–if it’s on the floor, it’s dirty.

He eats curry or pizza? Well, I’m screwed for 24 hours. Constant fart odors in our room all day. I leave and come back, walk into fart zone. There’s a literal scent threshold that I cross in the door frame.

He hasn’t showered for more than 1 day? Swass through and through. Sitting down, standing up… even during intercourse if his cheeks are spread, I smell it.

I’m so tired of smelling this smell. I don’t know what to do. Is this normal for men? I’ve been with him for almost 7 years. I don’t know if it’s the fact that I never noticed until now or if he just stopped caring!!! Does this mean I don’t love him anymore? Help!!!!!!!!!

Oh and sometimes he doesn’t brush his teeth for a couple days.

Someone please save me.

Guess I should point out that when I say “bottoms” that doesn’t just mean underwear. I won’t sniff underwear. I mean jeans, sweatpants, other pants that don’t have stains on them so they look wearable again, but somehow they sometimes carry the butt smell. And tbh I didn’t think that was possible but it’s something Ive been noticing more and more lately so it’s weird.

A netizen shared how his/her brother has been posting explicit images of himself online and found contraceptives inside his bag.

Here is the story:

“Seeking sincere advice… what to do when your sibling goes engages in “wild” activities?

It was pure coincidence that I found out but at the age of 20, he was posting explicit photos of himself on Twitter and had condoms in his bag.

I was so shocked because it felt like I had been living with an entirely different person all these while as the usual behavior at home was a goody-two-shoes to our mum.

We had a big quarrel between us about him asking me to not control and just let him be and have not spoken much since 1 year ago, but I didn’t expect to uncover that he seemed to have gone even wilder after being given free reins.

Yet, he still remains the goody two shoes in front of the mum and every time I see it, it just feels so hypocritical to me.

I know technically I have no rights to care since he is no longer a child. But is it really right to not care?

Though he would probably not even care for whatever I say anyway (his personality has been that he is always deemed right and would never stop at getting what he wants; fun fact: he has also never apologized for anything before for as long as I can rmb)

so I’m also at my wit’s end on how to stop him even if I want to… this dilemma on what is the right thing to do in such circumstance has been eating into me and troubling terribly…”

My wife finally told me her secret.

After 15 years of marriage she tells me she never loved me. That she was pressured to marry me. That she will never love me the way I would want her to. That my son is the only reason she stayed.

Ended with her saying every time we slept together, a piece of her was taken away but just didn’t have the nerve to tell me

Netizens’ comments

• Take off the last sentence and switch genders and you are writing my exact same story from 5 months ago.

• It hurts right now but I promise you with every passing day, you will feel lighter and freer without the crushing weight of their unhappiness baring down on you.

• You will stop believing you are who they said you were and you remember who you are. It’s awesome on the other side.

• You’ve got this and God speed!

• Communicating openly and honestly with your wife is vital at this point. While the revelation may be hurtful, it could be the first step towards finding a resolution, whether that involves seeking counseling or potentially making decisions about the future of your marriage.

• Remember that you have friends and family who care about your well-being and can provide support during this difficult time. Seek out trusted individuals with whom you can share your feelings and thoughts.

• In such moments of deep personal turmoil, it’s crucial to remember that you are not alone, and there are people and resources available to support you. Take things one step at a time and give yourself the space and time you need to heal and make decisions for the future.

• It’s important to prioritize your own emotional well-being, as this revelation can have a significant impact on your mental and emotional state. Consider seeking professional counseling or therapy to help you navigate these challenging emotions and make the best decisions for yourself and your son.

A netizen shared how he has been married to his wife for almost 3 years but he doesn’t love her anymore – he said that he doesn’t dare to ask for a separation.

Here is the story:

“Hi, I got married for close to 3 years.

I don’t love my wife anymore but I don’t dare to propose a separation. I think my wedding was a big mistake.

But the house was too attractive to forgo at the time although it hasn’t fulfilled its MOP. We sleep in different rooms. Should I leave? But I don’t want to disappoint my parents.

We have no kids. I can totally see my marriage is on life support”

Editor’s note: Grow a pair and be honest with her.

A woman who got married earlier this year shared her horror story about living with her mother-in-law and warned others about moving in with their in-laws.

Here is the story:

“I just got married earlier this year and decided to move in with my mother-in-law (her husband is not in the picture).

She has retired and owns a 5 room flat. She lives there with my husband (the only son in contact with her). She has 3 other children and all do not keep in contact with her.

5 room flat – more than enough space for all of us. But many things happened that caused us to eventually move out.

Unreasonable

1) The master bedroom is empty and is used as a storage room (she has many items that she refused to throw). Before we move in, we asked her if we can use the room and she agreed. However, weeks before our wedding when we were preparing to move in, she refused to move the items in the storeroom. So, she actually expected us to stay in there with all the items she does not use but refuse to throw. I was upset but I have no choice, it’s her home.

2) Her home also does not have an electric kettle. When I bought one, she did not allow me to use it in the kitchen (although it is huge and the countertop has a lot of space). I ended up using in my already cramped room with her things everywhere.

3) When I brought some of my clothes with me to move in, she kept saying I am bringing too many things into her home. Mind you, I didn’t bring too many things since I did not even have a wardrobe (it’s full of her clothes and items that she refuses to move). I only brought 2 duffel bags.

4) She also woke us up daily at 5 am asking us to help her with house chores before we go out for work. My husband said she has never done that before we got married.

Ignored her

There are many other things but these are the ones that I can remember clearly. Throughout this ordeal (which lasted only a few weeks), I did not say anything mean to her or talk back to her at all. In fact, I tried to talk to her nicely and asked her how her day was, prepared food for her. She completely ignored me every time or just glared at me. I just remember crying a lot. She did not even talk to me, she only spoke to my husband. She did glare at him and all, but at least she talked to him.

It has been a few months but it really hurt me. It also affected my marriage negatively. It made me feel like I was better off not being married since I felt very unwelcomed. I felt like nothing when I was living there. I cannot lie but at that point in time, I even felt regret marrying my husband. She was totally normal before we got married FYI.

Finally moved out

Now we have moved out into our own resale home. Whenever I visit (just out of obligation), she is mostly normal and acts as if all of that did not happen. However, I don’t think I can ever forgive her for treating me that way. I am still extremely hurt today. I even have nightmares about it.

I have made it clear to my husband that she is not welcome to stay with us in our home, even if she gets sick and needs extra care. I feel bad but I really cannot forgive her. I wish I can get rid of this pain and hatred I feel towards her.

So.. yes.. pls be cautious about moving in with your in-laws.. you will never know their true colors until you have lived with them on a long term basis (staying overnight doesn’t count!).”

Editor’s note: Very well said.

I just had surgery a week ago and I don’t even get a chair.

I work as a host at a restaurant. I just had laparoscopic surgery a week ago, and my manager denied my request for a chair at the host table.

She said it was because “we don’t want customers thinking our employees are lazy.”I almost quit and walked out. Instead I got someone to cover my shift.

The worst part is that, before I got this job, it was standard for the host to have a chair. Apparently two of the hosts “took advantage” of it so now I don’t get a chair when I need one.

My shifts last six hours and I’m usually not allowed to sit down at all. I’m in pain and I’m tired and I’m thinking about quitting my job over it.

It’s been two days, I was sent home early last night because I couldn’t stand up straight halfway through my shift, this is affecting my income.

The rest of the employees are just as angry as I am about it, and they’re all fully supportive of me. I just don’t know what to do at this point.

My surgeon did give me a doctor’s memo. However, that doctor’s memo was for two days off, because most of the people he works on have office jobs.

He knows I have to stand up for six hours straight for my shifts and all he did was give me a few extra doses of my pain meds. Basically, a doctor’s memo isn’t gonna happen, I already tried.

Netizens’ comments

1. I can count on one hand how many times I’ve eaten at a restaurant where the hostess is seated as I check in and you know what? It had no effect on my dining experience whatsoever. Like I never even gave it a second thought. Why do restaurants do this?
2. I really don’t understand why so many places of work are so mean to their workers.
3. Take a seat. Walk in with a sign for the table that says, “broke my back. Had surgery. Now, my boss is forcing me to stand for entire shift.” See just how quickly guests start taking the business apart online and in person.
4. As a customer, you being comfortable doesn’t bother me at all, nor does it affect my experience at the restaurant in any way whatsoever, I’m there for the food, not the people standing up.
5. I have never once in my entire life been even close to being offended by an employee sitting while doing their job.

I found out my gf is married

10/28/2023 is the day I found out my gf was indeed married and cheating.

I had a rough day. I asked if she could come and see me because who doesn’t like holding the person they love in their arms.

It helps calms me down a lot and now I’m crying thinking about it.

She told me she was with her dad and his gf and couldn’t go out for the night. I said f it and went home. I was on ig watching stories and see her with another man and him mentioning her on his story.

I ask him if she is his gf and he tells me she is. Then corrects himself by saying she’s his wife repeatedly.

Moments later I find myself blocked on everything from her. She gave me so much reassurance and made me trust her so much. That she isn’t like the others and it turns out she is even worse then the others.

I have no clue what to do it hurts. I stopped going to the gym cos I just can’t go out of bed. I feel like I’m watching myself from a third person view. Like I’m watching myself on a tv or something.

My mind is clouded with so much memories of us. I feel like I’m reliving them again and it’s making me cry every time. What did I do to deserve this? I have been just wanting answers. She killed me.

Netizens’ comments

1. I’m going to give you some life advice I learned the hard way. Hoes will be hoes. Never trust a girl until you know every single thing in her life
2. That and send all the evidence you’ve been with her to her husband. If you want to go scorched earth send it to everyone important in her life along with an apology stating you never knew.
3. Tell the husband he deserves to know
4. Hang in there bro. It is a lesson learned and you will laugh about this in a few years. Make sure you get to know someone as much as you can before falling in love. . Reality doesn’t always match your imagination. Stay strong

Company had me come in for 3 interviews for a position only to give it to someone else and offer me another position at lower pay after saying I got the job

I applied for a Project Manager position at a local chemical company. They seemed highly interested in me and brought me in for 3 interviews.

The third interview I even spoke to the owner of the whole company and that was a positive experience. I was given an email that I was selected and to call the manager of the department before they sent the offer.

I called the manager only to find out bad news. They said they selected someone else but wanted to give me an opportunity working 6am-430 pm at a lower salary.

Needless to say I’m shattered. I just got my degree, have worked for years and was going to finally move up. I am at a loss for words.

If anyone has any kind words or ideas on what to do next is appreciate anything. I have already told everyone I know that I got the job and this was supposed to be a big step forward for me in my life.

Only to find I’m stuck where I’ve always been as a wage slave, It’s been a hard day.

Netizens’ comments

1. Speak to your present HR now, tell them you want to rescind the offer of 2 weeks and if they will accept it. If they do, great-just stay there for at minimum 6 months. If HR doesn’t, start looking for another job ASAP aggressively. Do not take this bait and switch position that this new company offered. You arent the first and definitely not the last.
2. Decline their offer. Let others know that you got bait and switched and the name of the company so that they know not to deal with that company, as an employee or a customer.
3. That is complete disrespect and is only a sign of things to come at this place. I would leave immediately and keep looking for work. You don’t owe them anything at all.

My ex boyfriend (M29) is forcing me to pay back all the money he spent on me (F22) in our relationship

early in out relationship, we would sneak around and have fun and our relationship was pretty much toxic, I have to beg for a little time for him to spend with me or to talk to me…

he was distant and always “busy” and he wrote down every single thing he paid for me or bought me as a gift.

when we broke up he started demanding money back, but it’s just so stupid and he keeps threatening me to sue me, because he has “proof” that he lent me money, but he just wrote down everything he paid (trips, movies, festivals, restaurants, clothes…)

mind that I also paid as well, but never asked for my money back. the money I actually did ask him, I already returned.

Is this stupid behaviour or am I tripping? Who’s in the fault here? Can he sue me for this?

Netizens’ comments

1. Lmao those were gifts and he has no evidence they weren’t. Let him sue and give the judge something to laugh about.
2. He can sue and get laughed out of court
3. Take screenshots of his messages to you so you have proof in the future, but otherwise just block him and ignore him. He’s not going to sue you, and no lawyer would take his case anyway. If he sues you, he’ll lose. Move on and forget this loser.
4. Tell him to go ahead and sue you. He does not have a leg to stand on.
5. Block him on everything. You don’t owe him anything. He won’t sue you he is just doing this to keep the communication open between you. It’s a form of control.
6. These were gifts. Block this dude from contacting you and move on with your life, OP.