I’m 30M and my GF is 36F. We’ve been together for about 6 years. Is it normal for 36-year-old women to be too tired for bedtime activities about 3 times a week? A lot of the time when I try to initiate she says she’s too tired.

I was wondering if she’s too tired due to work, but I’m also in the same line of work as her. Her working hours might be a bit longer than mine, but there’s not much difference.

Then I thought maybe she wasn’t really enjoying it? But when we do it, she does actually get quite wet.

What other possible reasons are there?

It has been like that for quite a while already, around 4 years. For the last few years I’ve just resorted to relieving myself but I don’t feel like doing that for the rest of my life.

Maybe another possible reason is that I take too long to ‘finish’? Usually, we do it for around 30 mins until she says she starts to feel tired down there so we transition to other kinds of “jobs”.

At least she manages to get the job done eventually. But a lot of the time I can see she starts to look kinda tired and I have to try to finish it asap or else she might start pulling a long face and looking a bit sulky.

So is it normal for 36F to feel tired or kinda sore down there after about 30 mins?

Here is what netizens think

• A few points to consider here. Are you two staying together? Is she doing the housework alone? What position is your 30 minutes in?If she doing housework alone, of course she feel tired everyday taking care of a big child. If the whole 30 minutes she is the only one moving then of course she has to be tired.
• Its you and her. Trust me. I’ve done an hour before, and if you’re with the right partner, it’s never tired

My wife is an Instagram influencer. She gets a lot of likes and comments and she posts a lot of spicy content.

I’ve told her several times it makes me uncomfortable how much people objectify her online, but I’m not ever gonna tell her she can’t have her insta anymore because it means a lot to her and she works hard at it.

I told her it stings a little when dudes who follow her and also follow me so they know that I’m her husband comment things like “I love you my queen,” and she likes the comments.

Like, I get that it’s just the internet but it still hurts to see other men saying she’s their queen and then to see her encourage it.

Well recently ive decided to try and get past all that and to try and to be more understanding.

So I’ve been liking all the posts and commenting on all of them and replying to other peoples comments on the posts.

Like when I see some guy say “you’re so hawt I wanna suck those things so bad,” instead of getting angry, I try to recognize that he’s paying her a compliment so I’ll reply something like “oh yeah man, me too!”

One guy said “I wanna marry this chick” and I playfully replied “beat you to it ”

She came to me pissed yesterday and demanded to know why I was commenting on all her posts and talking to all the dudes in her comments.

I explained I was trying to be more supportive and that I know that interacting with the posts more and leaving more comments and stuff helps the algorithm and gets her more exposure for her page.

She said she doesn’t need my help. That kinda hurt like damn I’m not even allowed to interact with my own wife’s Instagram posts?

How do I resolve this?

So for context, my boyfriend is a doctor, Most of his friends are from work and they all seem to dislike me and act distant maybe cause I’m not a doctor too? Idk and don’t care honestly, since we started dating they’ve been asking to hang out without me and they leave any event I’m at. My boyfriend said they’re just taking their time to get used to me.

Anyways, His B-day was days ago, I’d arranged for the party and paid for everything. It wasn’t a surprise since the party was held at the restaurant, and he needed heads-up so he could invite his doctor friends.

We got there then his friends started arriving, They came to greet him and started shaking his hand and hugging him while completely ignoring me though I was there next to him!.

The tension started when one of them started making remarks about the way I dressed, I sucked it up but another friend started interrogating me about my degree then implying I was ignorant of my food choice (wtf?).

An hour later another one asked if I could leave because they wanted to discuss work stuff and it’s confidential. I was so shocked I laughed asking why he thought it was appropriate to discuss work during a party and he replied that I had an “attitude”.

An argument ensued and they ‘demanded’ that I leave but I said absolutely not, My boyfriend finally spoke up after it escalated and asked that I keep the peace and go home but I refused and reminded him and let his friends know that I’d arranged for this party and paid for it and so they should leave since they’re just “guests”. He pulled me aside and begged me to go home after they said if I don’t leave then they will but I still refused. They left, all of them, and the party was cut short. my boyfriend was upset and started complaining at home that I ruined his B-day the minute I started arguing with his friends. I told him they were being disrespectful to me but he said I was wrong too cause they said they wanted to discuss medical stuff and I should’ve respected that and not made it “personal”.

He’s not speaking to me now, I was so hurt I couldn’t argue anymore, I felt like I ruined his birthday by making a scene like he said and acting pass-aggressive.

Am I wrong?

To say that the reason I refused to leave was that I figured they used the “medical stuff discussion” as an excuse to get me to leave early.