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55 Y.O MAN JOBLESS FOR MONTHS, FINALLY FINDS A JOB BUT IT’S FAST FOOD, NO CHOICE

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Getting an interview after months of looking. Of course its fast food. I’m 55 years old. But I need an income!

I haven’t worked since 2020, because of lockdowns and a sick relative I had to take care of. Been applying for many career oriented jobs, but threw in some fast food/retail applications because I am desperate.

I’ve done fast food before. pay sucks and you are overworked….My Bachelor of Science is useless as I haven’t used in 20 years. I’ve applied for those jobs anyways and the crickets chirp loud lol.

Maybe the experience will be a stepping stone to show I can still work. I really hope I don’t get trapped and end up there until I am 90.

Just venting, it’s an income and I will be able to pay bills if I get it. I was really hoping for receptionist or similar….wishful thinking

any other older folk have thoughts?

Netizens’ comments

  1. Honest work is honest work.
  2. If you get the job Continue applying to other jobs. You are way more likely to get an interview somewhere better if you are already employed, even if it’s fast food. Maybe especially if it is. My dad called it “job hunting from a position of strength”
    You got this! Nothing wrong with fast food either. A friend of mine has a retirement account because he was a general manager at a fast food chain for some years.
  3. I had to quit my job of 22 years right before covid due to an injury when I was 44. I took a warehouse job for lower pay and quickly absorbed 4 peoples’ jobs when they laid off people. I was recently wooed back to my old job for a lot more money and no physical. Our old experience is needed.
  4. Sadly a degree that long ago is near redundant, and it’s the experience the degree afforded to give in the relevant field that’ll now count. I did one in the 90’s, in career change now, and I’m just about to finish another Bch of Sc. and landed a good graduate job next year, I’m in my early 50’s. I don’t even mention the old degree in resumes and interviews. But I hope I’m wrong in your case and you can still leverage it. Sometimes they can work against you if your seeking entry level jobs…just a thought.

BF DEMANDS GF STOP WEARING MAKEUP & PERFUME, SAYS SHE LOOKS LIKE PROSTITUTE

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My bf [30M] wants me [25F] to stop wearing makeup, getting my nails done, and straightening my hair. Is he trying to control me?

My boyfriend recently told me he does not like when I wear makeup, get my nails done, straighten my curly hair, and wear perfume.

He said when I do so I am a fake person, I am disrespecting him and he constantly says I look and smell like a prostitute.

Mind you he knew before he started dating me that I like to do those things listed. I rarely get my nails done and I only straighten my hair when I am getting a haircut because my hair is easier to maintain.

I wear makeup to work but it is not heavy. I only do my eyelashes, eyebrows, and some blush. I love my perfume and I love smelling good I don’t see an issue with it.

I’ve told him multiple times that it is very disrespectful to tell me I smell like a whore and his rebuttal is that is what prostitutes smell like.

I told him I feel like he is trying to change me, control me and disrespect me. He claims he is not.

Netizens’ comments

  1. Hol up…..disrespecting him with choices you make about your own body? Leave this one alone
  2. Im a social worker who has spent a portion of my career working with domestic violence victims. While I can definitely say that this will escalate, this behaviour from a partner is often the early stages of domestic violence when they begin to establish control in a relationship. It is often followed by isolating the person from friends and family, heightened verbal and emotional control and ultimately physical violence.
  3. When my sister got her first boyfriend. First he told her he didn’t want her to wear blue eyeshadow, it made her look cheap. So she stopped wearing blue eyeshadow. Then he didn’t want her to wear any eyeshadow or mascara. She stopped. Then it was all make up. She stopped.
    The thing is, if he’d told her he didn’t want her to wear makeup, she would have been like you’re ridiculous no. But he got her to do it bc the “requests” were small ones.
    They’ve been married for 40 years. He’s never worked. She hands over her entire paycheck and he spends it as he sees fit. She does not have her drivers license and sometimes she’ll wait for hours after work for him to pick her up bc he’s at the bar drinking.

MAN MET ONLINE DATE, WHO ASK ABOUT HIS JOB & SALARY LIKE IT’S A JOB INTERVIEW

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Are adult relationships in Singapore destined to be more unromantic?

Had another date with a woman I met through online dating. Felt like I just went through another job interview. I was asked about my job, salary, whether I am dating to marry and BTO, while I asked about hobbies, passions, interests, etc.

I am 35M and date around my age if it matters. This is the fourth date I’ve had with a woman in a row who has no chill.

I miss the good old uni days where I would just laze around in my ex-gf’s room and do nothing all day. Or study in a library before catching a movie with friends. Or sneak out in the middle of the night to do some intense physical activities which shall remain unnamed.

Is it an unreasonable ask to find someone with some chill? Has work and adult life killed romance? Is the BTO-marriage rush really that big of a factor?

I rent a room in a HDB flat way out west for 750/month. I don’t see the rush. Why so kancheong?

Edit: I guess I didn’t make it clear in my post, but I am looking for a serious, monogamous long-term relationship with someone special. I state so in my dating profile.

I have no problems with the questions themselves, but do you really have to ask them on the first date?

Netizens’ comments

  1. I personally think it’s to ensure both of you are on the same page. the older you get, the less time you can afford to waste with a potential relationship that may or may not be worth investing into. I might be wrong but that’s my understanding~
  2. Most people at that age are looking to settle down on a certain timeline and don’t have the time to mess around anymore. No point finding out you share the same hobbies or interests if you’re gonna end up parting ways afterwards due to a fundamental incompatibility in life goals and future plans.
  3. In Sg probably. I feel like relationships sometimes are approached here more as a business partnership than a romantic relationship. Just part of the standard package of The Singaporean Dream

RESIGNING STAFF HANDS IN 2-WEEK NOTICE, BOSS NOT HAPPY, FIRES HIM STRAIGHT AWAY

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Handed my two weeks and boss said effective immediately

I was working in this restaurant for 7 months and I was the only employee that stayed there for so long, because they kept hiring and firing people.

One of the chef who is also the owner, was being really toxic , calling people names, demeaning them, not letting them even complete their sentence. so I decided to leave.

I thought of letting them know in advance because I thought I have been working here since long so I should . But oh well, I felt really bad when he said no need to come from now onwards.

On top of that he wrote in email to other employees that I won’t be allowed to return to work because of my performance. Restaurant owners are really mean.

Netizens’ comments

  1. That’s a plus, not a minus. You were being nice to even give a notice in the first place.
  2. That means you were fired. Make sure you got proof of termination. IF they refuse that means you still offically work there until your specified date.
  3. This happened to me at a corporate job too. You are disposable, no matter the company. Treat them the same.
  4. I once turned around a company in three years (doubling revenue each year). I worked my ass off for 70 hour weeks to make it all work. The owners who insisted on micromanaging it as it grew were too lazy to keep up, making the office fall behind on project reporting and invoicing, and started treating me and everyone who reported to me like shit. At the same time I was feeling like they were looking for a reason to fire me and replace me with someone their shithead kids had gone to high school with.
    They mandated everyone put a “time sheet” app on their personal phones, that also tracked location. They said was the tracker was turned off when the employee logged off at the end of the day. I checked the admin settings, and they had been set to track 24/7 no matter what. I told everyone that worked directly for me. They said no to the app. The owners then made it a mandate to download and use that app or you would be fired.
    That was on a Friday morning. That Friday afternoon I interviewed with another company that had an opening and would pay more. The next Monday I took my chances on getting that job and turned in my resignation, effective immediately.
  5. I work with restaurant owners on a daily basis in my job, and they are some of the meanest, dumbest, and most toxic people I have ever had the displeasure of speaking to. The entitlement is unreal, and the amount of tax fraud these people try to commit is mind blowing.

PERSON SEEN STANDING ON LEDGE OF HDB BLOCK @ BUKIT BATOK, RESCUED BY SCDF

Officers from the Singapore Civil Defence Force (SCDF) successfully rescued an individual who was precariously standing on the parapet of an HDB block in Bukit Batok.

The rescue operation, which took place on the evening of June 17, drew immense praise from the public for the courageous efforts of the SCDF officers.

The incident unfolded when a concerned member of the public alerted the SCDF to a person standing on the parapet of the HDB block.

The distressing scene was captured in a video by an eyewitness, who then shared it with Mothership.

The footage depicted an individual, dressed in a white t-shirt, clinging to the wall of the HDB block while situated on the edge of the parapet.

Rescue operation

Upon receiving the distress call at approximately 5:25 pm, SCDF officers rushed to the scene. As they arrived, a group of officers positioned themselves on the floor beneath the person, their gaze fixated upwards.

Additionally, five members of the Disaster Assistance and Rescue Team (DART) were strategically stationed two floors above the endangered individual.

With utmost caution and precision, the DART rescuers initiated their operation by deploying nets to prevent the person from falling.

The person attempted to shift towards the side of the parapet that was not entirely covered by the safety nets. Responding swiftly, SCDF deployed a safety mechanism to secure the individual’s position.

Amidst the tension and apprehension, a rescuer descended from two floors above, rappelling down to the level of the person in peril.

The rescuer then prevented the individual from losing their footing or falling from the precarious height. With the assistance of officers stationed inside the HDB block, the person on the ledge was safely pulled back into the building.

As the rescue unfolded, the person showed signs of resistance, hesitating to be rescued. However, the determined maintained a firm grip on the individual, ensuring their safety.

The dramatic events that unfolded attracted a crowd of onlookers, who couldn’t help but cheer and clap in support.

Official Statement from SCDF

The SCDF released a statement providing additional details on the incident. The SCDF confirmed that they had received a call for assistance at Block 210A Bukit Batok Street 21.

Upon arrival at the scene, SCDF officers observed a person standing on the parapet. To ensure the safety, the SCDF deployed a safety life air pack as a precautionary measure.

Furthermore, nets were swiftly put in place, and the specialized DART rescuers rappelled from two floors above to carry out the rescue operation.

After the successful mission, the individual was conveyed to Ng Teng Fong General Hospital for further medical evaluation and care.

@mothershipsg Saving lives @Singapore Civil Defence Force #tiktoksg #sgnews #scdf ♬ original sound – Mothership.sg

FAIRPRICE HOPES CUSTOMERS WILL BE HONEST & PAY 5¢ FOR PLASTIC BAGS @ SELF CHECKOUT

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In an effort to reduce plastic bag usage and promote sustainability, FairPrice, has introduced a new policy requiring customers to scan a barcode and pay five cents for each plastic bag used at self-checkout counters.

Starting from July 3, this initiative comes in response to the upcoming mandatory plastic bag charge that will be implemented across major supermarket chains.

FairPrice Group’s Chief Sustainability Officer, Chan Tee Seng, emphasizes that the aim of this new policy is to create a seamless and user-friendly experience for customers.

Rather than increasing staff at self-checkout counters, FairPrice is implementing an honor system. Under this system, customers will be responsible for scanning the barcode themselves, ensuring that the number of bags used is accurately accounted for.

FairPrice believes that the majority of their customers will act responsibly in adhering to this practice. He said that “If they’ve taken five bags, then they scan it five times. And we believe that by and large, many of our customers will do the right thing.” 

Recognizing the importance of education, FairPrice is actively training their frontline staff, including cashiers, to engage customers in conversations about the environmental reasons behind the plastic bag charge.

By providing information and raising awareness, FairPrice aims to encourage customers to make conscious decisions regarding their plastic bag usage.

FairPrice Group plans to disclose the details of how the funds collected from the five cent charge will be utilized for environmental or social causes in approximately 18 months. This transparency ensures that customers are aware of how their contributions are making a difference and supports FairPrice’s commitment to sustainability.

At present, FairPrice already imposes a charge of 20 cents per transaction when customers request plastic bags at the cashier in 11 of their outlets, regardless of the number of bags used.

Additionally, for 178 convenience shops operated by FairPrice, such as Cheers and FairPrice Xpress outlets, the charge per transaction is 10 cents.

With the implementation of the new policy, the mandatory charge of five cents per bag will apply to all supermarkets and convenience stores, including those with smaller bags compared to traditional supermarkets. This consistent approach ensures fairness and reinforces the message of responsible plastic bag usage.

Dr. Amy Khor, the Senior Minister of State for Sustainability and the Environment, has expressed her hopes that the plastic bag charge, similar to schemes in Hong Kong, Taiwan, and Britain, will reduce plastic bag usage by 60 to 90 percent.

With around 400 major supermarkets, including FairPrice, Cold Storage, Giant, Sheng Siong, and Prime supermarket stores, implementing charges for disposable shopping bags, the impact of this initiative is expected to be substantial.

16 Y.O S’PORE BOY TORTURED MUM FOR 8 MONTHS, BROKE HER RIBS & THREATEN HER WITH CHOPPER

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In a harrowing case of domestic violence, a mother experienced a prolonged period of mistreatment at the hands of her own son. Over eight months, she endured physical violence, resulting in severe injuries, while her husband stood by and watched without doing anything, according to The Straits Times.

The incidents escalated to a point where the mother’s life was threatened. This article aims to shed light on this distressing situation, examining the legal proceedings, the impact of counseling, and the need for accountability and rehabilitation.

The mother, who shared a similar height with her son, was subjected to numerous acts of violence. In one instance, her son forcefully dragged her into the kitchen, brandishing a chopper and threatening her life. The court documents revealed that he uttered the chilling words, “I will kill you.”

Recognizing the danger, the mother urged her son to put down the weapon, which he reluctantly did before the police arrived at their family home. These acts were not isolated events; they persisted over several months, leaving the mother in a constant state of fear and pain.

A particularly disturbing incident occurred when the mother and son were discussing the son’s future education. Frustrated by his mother’s inability to answer certain questions, the accused became agitated and struck her head with a hard-cover report book.

The mother, fearing for her safety, locked herself in her bedroom and called the police. However, her son managed to find the key and forcibly brought her into the kitchen, holding a chopper threateningly and repeating his intent to kill her.

Pleaded guilty

The 16-year-old boy pleaded guilty to several charges, including voluntary causing hurt, voluntary causing grievous hurt, and criminal intimidation.

The court also considered additional charges of voluntarily causing hurt during the sentencing process. These offenses were committed between March and November of the preceding year. Due to the accused’s age, a gag order was imposed on both the victim and the perpetrator.

The court proceedings revealed that the accused had a history of physically assaulting his mother. Recognizing their son’s anger management issues, the parents sought help from a Family Service Centre for counseling.

Additionally, the accused received support at the Institute of Mental Health, where he was diagnosed with anxiety issues. However, after ceasing counseling sessions in December, the abusive behavior resumed, leading to more violent incidents.

The breakdown of support for the accused is a significant concern in this case. The court highlighted that the accused’s father failed to intervene and protect his wife despite witnessing the attacks.

This lack of action raises questions about the dynamics within the family and the crucial role of family members in preventing and addressing domestic violence.

During the legal proceedings, the prosecution emphasized the need for both probation and Reformative Training Centre (RTC) reports. The doubts surrounding the father’s and brother’s ability to provide adequate support for the accused’s rehabilitation were cited as reasons for this call.

Notably, the prosecutor highlighted the disturbing fact that the accused’s father did not intervene to protect his wife, even when he witnessed the attacks taking place.

The defense lawyer, Mr. Justin Ng from Kalco Law, pleaded for a probation report, acknowledging the wrongfulness of his client’s actions.

He noted that the accused is currently living apart from his mother and has not exhibited any violence towards other family members. This information was presented as a mitigating factor during the proceedings.

To determine an appropriate sentence, the district judge ordered a probation report for the accused. The report will aid in understanding the extent of rehabilitation required for the accused’s betterment.

Sentencing is scheduled for August, at which point the judge will make a decision based on the details provided in the report.

RUSSIAN WOMAN ALLEGEDLY BIT & KICKED S’PORE POLICE, ASKED “YOU KNOW WHO MY HUSBAND IS!”

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In a recent court trial, a woman faced charges of attacking a female police officer who was attempting to ensure her safety by trying to get her off the road.

According to Channel NewsAsia, the accused, Tatiana Kuriachaia, a Russian national aged 33, pleaded not guilty to four charges, including voluntarily causing harm to a public servant, using abusive language towards a public servant, and creating a public nuisance.

The incident occurred on April 27, 2019, when Sergeant Genevlene Ho Ting En, the alleged victim, and her colleagues responded to an unrelated case of rioting on Claymore Road during the early hours of the morning. Sgt.

Ho first noticed Kuriachaia sitting on a chevron marking in the middle of the road, between two lanes. Concerned for her safety, Sgt. Ho approached her and inquired about her presence there. Kuriachaia explained that she was waiting for her Grab ride.

Sgt. Ho, prioritizing Kuriachaia’s safety, requested her to move off the road and wait on the pavement for her ride. However, Kuriachaia insisted that she would remain on the chevron marking, believing that no cars would hit her.

Despite repeated attempts to persuade her, Kuriachaia refused to comply. The officers warned her of potential arrest if she continued to obstruct traffic.

During the confrontation, Kuriachaia resisted when Sgt. Ho attempted to handcuff her. Eventually, the officers managed to secure her hands behind her back according to standard operating procedures and escorted her to the police vehicle.

However, to everyone’s surprise, Kuriachaia manoeuvred her cuffed hands from the back to the front by slipping them under her legs.

Following this unexpected turn of events, Kuriachaia became verbally aggressive, questioning why she was being handcuffed and arguing that it violated her human rights.

In the struggle that ensued, Kuriachaia kicked Sgt. Ho, striking her hand and stomach. Sgt. Ho immediately called for backup, and the officers successfully re-cuffed Kuriachaia with her hands behind her back, securing an additional pair of handcuffs to her seatbelt.

Video footage from the police body-worn cameras revealed Kuriachaia’s agitation throughout the journey to the police lock-up. She continued to shout, demanding answers about her arrest and the officers’ identities.

At one point, she leaned toward Sgt. Ho, who attempted to push her away, resulting in Kuriachaia biting down on Sgt. Ho’s arm. This struggle lasted a few seconds, with Kuriachaia showing no intention of releasing her bite.

Kuriachaia was seen in the footage saying “I’m so dangerous right!” before asking the policewomen if she knows the law, saying that “I studied law,” and asking her “did you? How old are you? You look like you are f-ing 18! you know who my husband is? Unfortunately you don’t know, unfortunately for you.”

Sgt. Ho suffered a bruise from the bite and had to undergo blood tests at the hospital. In court, the defence questioned Sgt. Ho’s actions and conduct raised concerns about her treatment of the accused. Sgt.

Ho confirmed that she had reviewed the case with her commanding officer to address these concerns. Additionally, the defence challenged whether Sgt. Ho had checked for injuries immediately after hearing Kuriachaia’s screams and shouts of pain.

Sgt. Ho maintained that she had examined the accused for injuries while placing her into the police vehicle but found no visible signs of harm.

The trial is ongoing, and if Kuriachaia is convicted of voluntarily causing harm to a public servant, she could face a maximum sentence of seven years imprisonment and a fine.

Due to her gender, caning is not a possible punishment.

DISMEMBERED HK MODEL ABBY CHOI’S BODY TO BE RESTORED WITH 3D PRINTING FOR FUNERAL

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28-year-old Hong Kong model Abby Choi was previously reported to be found dead, with her dead body being dismembered and cooked, and her body parts stored inside a fridge.

Sing Tao Daily has reported that the funeral of Choi will take place on 19 June at the Po Fook Memorial Hall, situated in Tai Wai, Hong Kong, with preparations already underway for the upcoming funeral rites.

This event will be a private affair, exclusively attended by close friends and family members.

To pay tribute to Choi’s memory, the hall has been adorned with splendid pink drapes, as pink held significant meaning for her.

Body restored with 3D printing

The return of Choi’s body to her family took place in April, as reported by Sing Tao Daily.

However, the funeral and cremation processes faced a delay due to the family’s decision to restore her body using 3D printing technology in order to recreate her face.

Given Choi’s deep-rooted emphasis on her appearance during her lifetime, her family enlisted the expertise of restoration specialists for this intricate, time-consuming, and costly endeavor.

Following the funeral service, Choi’s body will be cremated at the Po Lin Monastery on Lantau Island, where her ashes will also find their resting place.

Sources reveal that the entire funeral proceedings are estimated to exceed HK$3 million (about SGD$515,000), inclusive of the expenses for restoring her dismembered body.

Recap

The disturbingly gruesome murder was reportedly related to a financial dispute over HK$100 million (or SGD$17.2 million).

9 News reported that the Hong Kong police broke into a village house in the afternoon of 24 February, in the Tai Po suburb, which Choi’s former father-in-law reportedly rented.

Inside, the police found Choi’s dismembered legs, which were cooked, and stored inside a refrigerator, with the police also finding a meat grinder, an electric saw, and soup pots with human tissue inside.

A white 7-seater vehicle was also towed away by the police from the scene later that night.

Choi’s head, torso and hands were also still missing at the time.

HK01 reported that the model was last seen on 21 February wearing a white outfit on 21 February at about 2.15pm, and SCMP reported that her former brother-in-law had picked her up from her home.

He was also supposed to pick up Choi’s daughter, but Choi didn’t pick up her child and was later reported to be missing.

Police superintendent Alan Chung spoke to the media on 25 February saying that the murder was well-planned and premeditated.

He said that the property where her body was found, was carefully prepared for the purpose of cutting up a body, with nothing inside the apartment but a table and a couch, with the walls also being covered.

Choi had been providing financial support to her ex-husband and his family, and was allegedly being extorted by some of her ex-husband’s relatives.

Choi’s former brother-in-law and parents-in-law also made false and misleading statements to the police, with Chung saying that they created “plenty of lies and smokescreens to mislead us”.

They have all been arrested.

Missing head found

Choi’s decapitated head was finally found inside a big pot of soup, along with some of her missing ribs.

According to South China Morning Post, the discovery was made on 26 February, about 2 days after the rest of her body was found.

The authorities seized two large pots of soup on 24 February from a house in Tai Po Village, the same house where Choi’s severed legs were found.

The contents of the soup inside the pot had to be sent to a mortuary to be examined on 25 February and were filled to the brim with minced meat believed to be human tissue and soup, according to HK01.

Choi’s head was also found inside the pot of soup during examination by forensic experts, and it was almost intact – but it appears as if someone tried to smash it.

Her ribs were also found and are currently being stored with her head at the mortuary, and the police are still looking for her other missing body parts, including her torso and her hands.

7 suspects have since been arrested for Choi’s gruesome murder, including her ex-husband, ex-father-in-law, ex-brother-in-law and ex-mother-in-law.

S’PORE MAN TRANSFER $80K TO INVESTMENT GURU HE MET ON TELEGRAM, THEN GOT BLOCKED

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Mr. Huang (68 years old), a businessman operating his business operations in Ang Mo Kio, spoke to Shin Min Daily News and said that he received an advertisement on Telegram last October.

The sender claimed to be a professional investment mentor. After approximately two months of acquaintance, the mentor recommended Mr. Huang to join a natural gas company’s online platform and open an account for investment purposes.

“Between October and November last year, I transferred a total of 80,000 yuan to the account provided by the company in four separate transactions. Subsequently, I observed profits reflected in my account,” Mr. Huang disclosed.

He further disclosed that due to some recent setbacks, the “mentor” enticed him with high returns, stating that if life was not going well, it was even more important to earn more money.

According to the information documented in the police report, Mr. Huang made the final two transfers to the accounts of two users between November 21 and 30.

Unfortunately, shortly after completing the transfers, Mr. Huang discovered in early December that his bank account had been frozen.

This discovery only emerged when he attempted to utilize the accounts for other transactions.

Fortunately, he still had approximately S$59,000 remaining in the frozen accounts, but the situation proved immensely inconvenient as he required liquidity for his business operations.

Upon realizing the frozen bank accounts, Mr. Huang reached out to his “investment guru” for assistance. The individual initially claimed willingness to contact the bank on his behalf. However, by the end of December, Mr. Huang found that the “guru” had blocked him on Telegram.

Despite attempting to establish contact through their previous Telegram channel, Mr. Huang received no response. Additionally, messaging platforms proved unsuccessful in reaching them. Furthermore, the online links associated with the “investment company” were inaccessible.

Consequently, Mr. Huang lodged a police report regarding the incident. The bank requested that he submit the report and any relevant documents to the police’s Anti-Scam Centre.