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S’PORE MAN WHO USED HIS HOME TO BREED DOGS TO SELL, FINED $9K – 19 DOGS SEIZED

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37-year-old Goh Chong Tse was given a fine of $9,000 on 31 May after pleading guilty to five charges. One of the charges was related to using his home as a commercial farm without a proper license, as he bred his dog for commercial purposes.

The remaining four charges were for owning three dogs without the necessary license and for keeping more than three dogs without obtaining permission from the Director-General of Animal Health and Welfare. It’s worth noting that Goh’s residence was not officially registered as a dog farm or pet shop.

According to Ms Joanne Wee, a prosecutor from the National Parks Board (NParks), Goh and his wife, Ms Jamie Ng Sze Eng, had a corgi named Waffles between 2019 and July 2020. Ms Ng found the dog as a stray and later registered it under Goh’s name.

In December 2020, Goh met Ms Jermaine Ang, and they reached an agreement to artificially inseminate Waffles using sperm from Ms Ang’s stud dog. Ms Ang agreed to cover the cost of the insemination and it was also decided that she would keep one puppy from the resulting litter.

Around February 27, 2021, Waffles gave birth to six puppies. Ms Ang kept one of the puppies, while Goh and his wife kept four. One of the puppies was sold for $9,500.

On February 9, 2022, officers from NParks conducted an inspection at Goh’s residence based on information they received. During the inspection, the officers verified the licenses for the dogs. It was discovered that Goh did not possess valid licenses for three of the dogs from February 27, 2021, to February 9, 2022.

Operating a farm without the necessary license could have led to a maximum sentence of 12 months in jail, a fine of up to $10,000, or both.

For each count of owning a dog without a license, Goh could have been fined up to $5,000. The same penalties could have been imposed for owning more than three dogs on his property without it being registered as a dog farm or pet shop.

MAN WHO FILMED WOMEN IN TOILET WITH HIDDEN CAMERA SMILES IN COURT, SCOLDED BY JUDGE

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Over a span of more than two years, on nearly a hundred occasions, an individual discreetly used a hidden camera cleverly disguised as a smoke detector inside a toilet to surreptitiously record at least five women, including some of his own friends.

Darren Yeo Wei Hong, aged 34, committed these offenses between 2013 and 2015, and proceeded to share certain video recordings with acquaintances who were likely to recognize the victims involved.

Why is your client smiling

However, shortly before Yeo received a one-year prison sentence for his actions, an incident occurred that raised concerns for Senior District Judge Bala Reddy.

The judge, noting Yeo’s smile, posed a question to Yeo’s defense attorney: “Why is your client smiling?” To which his lawyer Shashi Nathan said that he was nervous, and Yeo then stopped smiling in the docks.

Yeo had pleaded guilty to eleven charges, including multiple counts of violating a woman’s modesty.

These offenses came to light when an individual stumbled upon some of the videos on Yeo’s Instagram account and promptly notified the police in April 2019.

To safeguard the identities of the victims, a gag order has been imposed regarding the location where the offenses took place.

More than 20 victims showed up

On the day of the sentencing, more than twenty individuals, including some of Yeo’s victims, attended the State Courts to witness justice being served.

Most of them were attired in black. While approximately ten individuals secured seats within the gallery, the others had to wait outside as the courtroom could not accommodate everyone.

A hushed silence fell as Yeo arrived with his wife. The couple shared an embrace before he took his place in the dock.

Yeo continued to smile while standing in the dock, prompting Judge Reddy to address his behavior.

In response, Yeo’s defense lawyer, Shashi Nathan, explained that his client was feeling nervous, and Yeo promptly ceased smiling.

Hid a camera inside women’s toilet

Deputy Public Prosecutor Vincent Ong informed the court that Yeo had purchased a camera, concealed it above a shower stall in a women’s restroom, and clandestinely recorded videos of his victims.

Yeo retrieved the video clips, saved them onto a memory card, and downloaded them onto his laptop.

Given his familiarity with some of the victims, Yeo labeled the videos under their respective names.

He created two Instagram accounts to distribute videos of the victims while they were showering.

Yeo also utilized his mobile phone to record these videos, subsequently sharing them electronically. Eventually, he was apprehended in 2019, and his hard disk drive contained no less than 690 explicit films.

The Deputy Public Prosecutor mentioned that Yeo had downloaded these videos from the internet.

Stole women’s bras

Separately, between 2010 and 2012, Yeo intruded upon several women’s bags in a communal area of the building to steal their bras.

He proceeded to take photographs of himself wearing the undergarments before returning them to the bags.

During the sentencing hearing, Deputy Public Prosecutor Ong urged the court to impose a prison term ranging from one year to fifteen months, emphasizing Yeo’s high level of culpability and premeditated nature of his offenses.

Asked for forgiveness

Yeo was represented by Mr. Nathan and Ms. Laura Yeo, who appealed for their client to receive a prison term of between 8½ months and 11 months.

Mr. Nathan expressed Yeo’s remorse and his desire to seek forgiveness from his victims.

Judge Reddy acknowledged the psychiatric evaluations indicating that Yeo suffers from paraphilic and voyeuristic disorders, which contributed to his offenses.

Nonetheless, the judge emphasized the gravity of Yeo’s offenses and the significant harm they caused to the victims.

He stated, “The videos captured sensitive and intimate areas of the victims’ bodies, resulting in a flagrant intrusion upon their privacy and inflicting distress and emotional harm.”

“Furthermore,” he continued, “the accused exacerbated his crimes by

GUY ON 1ST DATE STRAIGHT AWAY TOLD GIRL HE SLEPT WITH 63 WOMEN WITHOUT PROTECTION

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Sort of new to dating, is this a red flag?

I went on a first date with this guy who seemed immediately into me. We made out like an hour into the date and he asked to see me again.

Later on in the first date, he told me he wanted to tell me his body count to “get it out of the way”, and told me he has been with 63 women.

He’s only 25, and that number seems a little high, but I’m not going to judge someone’s past. I do think it’s odd he is counting, but maybe guys are different.

What I’m worried about is he also said he never uses condoms, but gets tested regularly. I recently got screened and did all the tests, blood work and everything.

I doubt he does that each time. I mentioned I’d like to use condoms until we maybe become more exclusive. We went on a second date and he’s laying on thick how he wants to keep seeing me. His actions on the first date (discussing his body count) makes me think he’s just trying to get something out of me.

Is this behavior common in dating? Or am I just being sort of prude?

Netizens’ comments

  1. Unless you just want a hookup and to be remembered as #64 when he starts working on #65 in a week or two, then I think it’s a red flag.
  2. It could be an overstatement or that could be his real body count, that makes no difference if you’re just trying to hookup. Regarding using protection, you should do how you prefer and not just agree to something or let yourself be coerced here.
  3. He’s probably a great lay! But STAY AWAY FROM dating him. He’s for the streets.
  4. I had expirence with casually dating different types of guys. I must say, not all guys are like this. If its only your first date, and he is already making the conversation so obscene, he wants nothing but to get in your pants. I mean if that’s what you want too go for it. But if you’re looking for a long term serious relationship. Dump him and find someone who is capable to give you that.

WIFE SECRETLY RACKED UP $30K IN CREDIT CARD DEBT, THEN LEAVES IT TO HUSBAND TO PAY

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I (M38) just found out wife (F38) secretly racked up $30k credit card debt.

I’m seeking the wisdom of the masses. My wife and I have been married for about 10 years and have two small kids. We both work, but we have separate bank accounts (partly because she is bad at managing money), though we do split bills, etc. My job pays a bit more. Recently, some bad financial stuff has come to light.

About 6 months ago, my wife revealed to me that she had racked up about $10,000 in credit card debt, and the interest was getting away from her. At the time she told me, it all suddenly made sense why she had been asking me for money at the end of the month for several months running—it was because she was struggling to pay off the debt. After a tough conversation, we got a low(er)-interest bank loan to pay off the credit cards, and we worked out a monthly payment plan to get it paid off within 3 years.

Now—after several more months of continuing to struggle financially despite a pretty good combined income—I started really digging into our financials, seeing where all our hard-earned money is going, and trying to create a strict monthly budget.

During this period of increased scrutiny, I asked my wife about several reoccurring expenses on her account. After some evasiveness, she revealed that she had OTHER CREDIT CARDS that she hadn’t previously told me about—totaling another $20k or so in debt, with horrendous interest rates!!

Needless to say, I was flabbergasted by the debt and her untruthful was about it. After another difficult conversation, we’ve figured out all the debt (I believe), and now we’re working to pay it off. Because my job pays more and I’m a penny-pincher, this largely means me paying the debts.

Now I’m not happy about the secret spending and untruthfulness, let alone being stuck with the bill. But what’s really getting me is how she’s acting resentful toward me because apparently I make her feel bad by paying her debts for her. She also has been super unmotivated to get these debts paid, and I feel like all forward progress has come via me nagging and nagging her.

Example: I had to nag her for DAYS before she would do a phone call so I could pay off one of her cards. Then, afterward I made a comment about making progress in the right direction, and her response was basically that I’m doing this for my own satisfaction and am making her feel bad for not being able to pay her own debts. Not to mention she constantly complains about the forced austerity I’m advocating until the debts are paid.

I’m about at my wits end and feel like I’m in a one person team here in terms of finances. My specific question is: how do I regain trust in my wife regarding finances, and how do we avoid this problem happening again? Any thoughts welcome.

Tl;dr — wife secretly racked up $30k credit card debt and is unmotivated to help and resentful toward my efforts to pay it off.

BOSS PLANTS CAMERA INSIDE STAFF’S OFFICE TO SPY ON HER, THINK SHE DON’T KNOW BUT SHE FOUND IT

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I don’t think my boss knows that I know there’s a camera in my office
I don’t know where to start because I’m not even sure if this is weird or not.

I started at this new job not long ago, and since the first day I’ve known there was a camera in my office.

I don’t think it’s necessarily weird to have cameras in an office setting, there’s cameras in all sorts of places for all kinds of reasons. But, the camera in my office isn’t any sort of built-in fixture. And MY individual office room is the only office with a camera in it.

On my first day of the job, I realized my boss was too “aware” of my actions. He said something to me that threw me off, and I knew he wouldn’t have brought it up unless he had been watching me do something. It was just TOO coincidental. But it was casual at the same time so it wasn’t a direct allusion to the camera he has. But immediately after that incident, I scanned around the room, and I found a camera nestled into a cubby with a small wire that leads into his adjacent office.

My other boss has also indirectly responded to my actions in the group chat. The few times I had spent an excessive amount of time on my phone were times that the “hey guys! Let me know if you guys need anything to work on, I know things are slow” messages would trickle in. Anything that seemed to hint at me being watched was also said or done ambiguously enough that they weren’t revealing anything about being able to see me, as if I’m not SUPPOSED to know I’m being watched, and that’s what is unsettling to me. The camera is pointed directly at ME. Not the door, not the front of my desk, not anywhere else that would make sense for security. Ive looked at everyone else’s offices and didnt see a single camera. The camera is pointed specifically at ME. And I don’t even deal with money or anything that could be stolen

I don’t know if I should bring this up. I’m not entirely mad, and I guess I understand the reasoning, like making sure im “on task” or some shit. It just bothers me a little that I can be watched whenever, and they never even disclosed that. I feel like someone being constantly monitored has the right to know that they are. Especially since I’m the ONLY one being watched like this

I atleast use it to my advantage, because I atleast know NOT to be on my phone lol.

GIRL FEELS THREATENED BY BF’S CHIOBU FRIEND BECAUSE THE FRIEND IS TOO CHIO

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My boyfriend doesn’t get why I feel inferior to his (Gorgerous) female friend and it gets on my nerves
My boyfriend has a female friend who is very attractive and with whom we usually go out (Among other friends). They have known each other for a very long time, actually they went to school together, and I knew my boyfriend during my second year of uni.

I am, on the other hand, conventionally unattractive and quite the opposite to his friends in terms of looks. She is all I wish to be (Petite, good with makeup, small nose, etc). When I sit beside her I feel awful, like I were some kind of freak or monster.

Make no mistake, I like her. She is a perfectly sweet and respectful girl and we are becoming friends. And she has never attempted to cross any boundaries with my boyfriend. But still she intimidates me and makes me feel inferior.

I told my boyfriend about and it was like I were talking in other language. He just didn’t understand why I felt this way and pretended that the looks inequality between me and his friends didn’t exist, which really frustrated me.

Netizens’ comments

  1. Are you sure you’re conventionally unattractive though, or if it’s just what you think?
    Either way he’s with you. Not her. So he obviously finds you attractive! She might not be his type in the looks department in the first place either. Just keep in mind that he’s likely not trying to disregard your feelings, but rather just doesn’t understand why you feel that way in the first place, because he doesn’t view you the same way you view yourself.
  2. Envy will consume you and your relationship. Your bf won’t call you out constantly on your insecurity, he probably finds you attractive. It is really toxic to constantly hammer him on something he can’t fix.
  3. So I work with a girl. She doesn’t think much of herself. She shows me pics of her friends and says she feels that they are more attractive than her. Ngl, her friends are basic and I find her much much more attractive than them and most girls I meet.
  4. What did you expect/want him to say? You’re frustrated that he doesn’t see the “looks inequality”, would it be better if he agreed with you, and told you you’re uglier?
    And what is he supposed to do about it? Not be friends with her? Call her ugly?
    This is obviously not your boyfriends problem to fix. Your insecurity and inferiority complex is 100% on you

GUY’S GF LAUGHED AT HIS PERFORMANCE IN BED, SAYS SHE SLEPT WITH GUYS BETTER THAN HIM

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The girl am dating said she had better partners before me.

I ( 26m) was having lunch at my place with my girlfriend of 2 months (22f) and out of nowhere she asked if she was the best in bed that I’ve ever had.

The question took me by surprise, i wasn’t sure what to answer especially that we hadn’t been intimate long enough for me to determine anything, so i went for the safe answer and said yes.

She looked at me weirdly then laughed , when i asked her why is she laughing , she said that am not gonna like her answer and proceeded to tell me that an ONS was better in bed than me, even said that she only had oral with him and it was so much better than all things we’ve done together in bed, she answered a question i didnt ask.

Its not a nice thing to say ,I feel now so turned off by this , and lost all of my attraction to her , even tho i have a high libido, i am considering break up but at the same time not sure if i should talk to her about it or just end it all?

Netizens’ comments

  1. Wtf, break up. Only 2 months in and she’s waving a red flag under your nose. She specifically asked you that question so that she could say something cruel to you. Don’t let anyone treat you that way. I would never ever tell my man that someone was better than him in bed even if it were true.
    If she wanted you to improve on something in the bedroom there are much nicer ways to go about it.
  2. Don’t take it as fact either, OP. Not only is everyone different, she intentionally took the conversation there. This was a planned insult, and by what you’ve described she was delighted to say it.
    If I were you I’d literally just call/text her, tell her to enjoy her ONS’, and remove her from your life. 2 months? You owe her nothing, and less than nothing after saying some stupid shit like that.
  3. Who would ever say this to someone they’re dating?! Pure evil.
  4. That’s messed up. She needs to know how hurtful that statement is. It sounds like she just doesn’t care.
    Personally, I’d suggest that she is more than welcome to date the ONS and be done with her. Life is too short to deal with that kind of bull crap

BF THINKS HE BRAD PITT, TELLS GF IF SHE WANT TO PIAK PIAK, CLEAN THE HOUSE FIRST

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My boyfriend think that I should do things for him, if I want to f him ( deserving it ) this is red flag right ?

We’ve been together for a bit more than a year. And at first, everything was fine. We had a good relationship and everything was all good and fun in the bedroom. It was often and natural, wasn’t forced at all. We f whenever we were in the mood.

But recently ( this last month) he had been acting different, telling me that if I wanted to f him, I should deserve it.

Basically, I should do good things, good deeds ( just for him). Like, cooking diner, or compliment him, helping him with things when he asks me too, clean the house,…

He wasn’t like that at the beginning and I want to help or be nice to him, but I don’t want to do it, because I need to do it in order to get my satisfaction. I never had anyone telling me, I should deserve it if I wanted it.

I’m thinking of ending the relationship, because I’m scared it’s going to be worst and that he’s trying to turn me into his maid or his thing.

I just can’t recognise him. Was he being on his best behaviour at the beginning and showing his true self now ? I’m also embarrassed to talk about to relatives or close friends.

Netizens’ comments

  1. You are correct. Using intimacy to control you is low. There can be such a thing as teasing and enticing you with a wild time as a form of appreciation and gratitude if you help with chores, and even then it’s something that needs to be agreed on by both parties.
    Using the word “deserving” and withholding intimacy is pure controlling attitude. Either call him out on it and see if he realizes he’s being out of hand or dump him if he doesn’t acknowledge his behavior
  2. 100%. Take it from me – I had a FWB who wanted me to keep a log of food I ate and, if he approved of my diet, then I would be rewarded. Once he said that to me, I NOPED out of that one real fast.
  3. In a relationship, you should both do things for one another to better each other and increase the total value of your union
  4. Run sister.

COUPLE ONLY STARTED DATING 2 MTHS AGO, GF ALREADY ASKING HIM TO MOVE IN WITH HER

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When is it too soon to move in together? My (36m) gf (38f) asked me to move in?

So I (36m) met my gf(38f) two months ago. Things seemed to be on the fast track. We met online and on first day we exchanged numbers and set a date. The first date went very well and We clicked immediately. After the first date been spending a lot of time together.

For the last month we would spend six Nights a week together. It got to the point where I rarely sleep in my own bed.

She just moved into a new place and wants me to move in with her. I’m all in favor of it, I love her and ngl I’m very happy to reduce my expenses.

While we don’t have immediate plans on getting married. We both confessed that we see us spending rest of our lives together.

I have a good feeling but I just want to be sure I’m not rushing into anything.

Netizens’ comments

  1. I would hazard a guess and say 2 months is definitely still too soon. Personally I wouldn’t consider it until at least a year of dating
  2. You are still in the honey moon phase
    Nothing good will come from you moving in this quickly into a relationship
  3. 2 months is too soon.
    You haven’t seen each other sick, stressed – hell, you haven’t even gone through a season together.
    Have you had a realistic convo about finances? Who pays for what? Who makes what? Credit, if that’s a thing where you live? Do either of you have kids? How is visitation handled? Family guests? Friends? Cleaning?
    Are you going to be a co-owner of the house? A renter? Legally, those are very different.
    What happens if in 6 months, you realize you actually didn’t know each other and you want to move out? Where do you go? Will you owe rent?
    Right now, you’re in a haze of hormones, lust and maybe love.
    Take a breath, let the haze clear, and have some hard talks.
  4. Go on at least a one week trip together, preferably lower budget. That should give you a better clue.
    But aside from that, time wise it sounds short but it differs from couple to couple so …
  5. It would be kind of fast IMO.
    Normally, I would suggest for couples to spend a year at minimal before they move in together. Really flush out their relationship and ensure there is a solid foundation in place.
    But, that is typically geared towards younger couples.
    I think a good test here would be… to see her reaction to your hesitation.
    If she understands that it might be fast and is willing to take it slow. Good sign. Don’t rush it, give it a couple more months then pull the trigger.
    If that conversation breaks the relationship, like she can’t handle the idea of taking it slow… Well… Probably a good indication that you’re walking into a trap.
    Keep in mind… People are always on their best behaviour in the early stages. You two only scratched the surface of each-other, still strangers in a sense. Better to be safe and gain some experience together… go through a couple of tests before you make a drastic decision like that.

NEW STAFF WITH 0 EXP TASKED WITH $1M PROJECT, DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO & NO ONE HELPING

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How likely am I to be fired?

I was hired in an assistant role a few months ago. I had zero experience in this industry. Company decided to attach me to a senior guy for two months before moving me to another project.

Client for my current project actually asked my company for a guy with >4 years of experience, but my company couldn’t provide anyone else but me as everyone else is busy with their own project(s).

The industry I’m in is considered low SES by most Singaporeans and even some of my friends have make fun of it.

Due to this, many employees have resigned ever since the Covid restrictions relaxed and my company has difficulties hiring ever since. There wasn’t even any one in my company that was an executive role that have more than 4 years of experience.

Client decides to relent as they had good prior experiences with my company from their past working experiences together.

Back to my working conditions, So anyway I am basically almost soloing the whole project that was worth 1 million plus.

My manager is situated most at HQ and I am alone at the site office almost every day. I would call him for help with problems that I face every day but he usually said he would get back to me but he forgets due to his workload. Sometimes I forget to chase him for it too.

Now, the client has hinted that I am not performing up to his standard and might terminate the contract with my company.

So, in your opinion, how likely am I to be fired if I lose this million dollar contract for my company? I am asking because if it is very likely, then I would rather resign on my own than to have the dismissal on my resume.