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BF THINKS HE BRAD PITT, TELLS GF IF SHE WANT TO PIAK PIAK, CLEAN THE HOUSE FIRST

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My boyfriend think that I should do things for him, if I want to f him ( deserving it ) this is red flag right ?

We’ve been together for a bit more than a year. And at first, everything was fine. We had a good relationship and everything was all good and fun in the bedroom. It was often and natural, wasn’t forced at all. We f whenever we were in the mood.

But recently ( this last month) he had been acting different, telling me that if I wanted to f him, I should deserve it.

Basically, I should do good things, good deeds ( just for him). Like, cooking diner, or compliment him, helping him with things when he asks me too, clean the house,…

He wasn’t like that at the beginning and I want to help or be nice to him, but I don’t want to do it, because I need to do it in order to get my satisfaction. I never had anyone telling me, I should deserve it if I wanted it.

I’m thinking of ending the relationship, because I’m scared it’s going to be worst and that he’s trying to turn me into his maid or his thing.

I just can’t recognise him. Was he being on his best behaviour at the beginning and showing his true self now ? I’m also embarrassed to talk about to relatives or close friends.

Netizens’ comments

  1. You are correct. Using intimacy to control you is low. There can be such a thing as teasing and enticing you with a wild time as a form of appreciation and gratitude if you help with chores, and even then it’s something that needs to be agreed on by both parties.
    Using the word “deserving” and withholding intimacy is pure controlling attitude. Either call him out on it and see if he realizes he’s being out of hand or dump him if he doesn’t acknowledge his behavior
  2. 100%. Take it from me – I had a FWB who wanted me to keep a log of food I ate and, if he approved of my diet, then I would be rewarded. Once he said that to me, I NOPED out of that one real fast.
  3. In a relationship, you should both do things for one another to better each other and increase the total value of your union
  4. Run sister.

COUPLE ONLY STARTED DATING 2 MTHS AGO, GF ALREADY ASKING HIM TO MOVE IN WITH HER

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When is it too soon to move in together? My (36m) gf (38f) asked me to move in?

So I (36m) met my gf(38f) two months ago. Things seemed to be on the fast track. We met online and on first day we exchanged numbers and set a date. The first date went very well and We clicked immediately. After the first date been spending a lot of time together.

For the last month we would spend six Nights a week together. It got to the point where I rarely sleep in my own bed.

She just moved into a new place and wants me to move in with her. I’m all in favor of it, I love her and ngl I’m very happy to reduce my expenses.

While we don’t have immediate plans on getting married. We both confessed that we see us spending rest of our lives together.

I have a good feeling but I just want to be sure I’m not rushing into anything.

Netizens’ comments

  1. I would hazard a guess and say 2 months is definitely still too soon. Personally I wouldn’t consider it until at least a year of dating
  2. You are still in the honey moon phase
    Nothing good will come from you moving in this quickly into a relationship
  3. 2 months is too soon.
    You haven’t seen each other sick, stressed – hell, you haven’t even gone through a season together.
    Have you had a realistic convo about finances? Who pays for what? Who makes what? Credit, if that’s a thing where you live? Do either of you have kids? How is visitation handled? Family guests? Friends? Cleaning?
    Are you going to be a co-owner of the house? A renter? Legally, those are very different.
    What happens if in 6 months, you realize you actually didn’t know each other and you want to move out? Where do you go? Will you owe rent?
    Right now, you’re in a haze of hormones, lust and maybe love.
    Take a breath, let the haze clear, and have some hard talks.
  4. Go on at least a one week trip together, preferably lower budget. That should give you a better clue.
    But aside from that, time wise it sounds short but it differs from couple to couple so …
  5. It would be kind of fast IMO.
    Normally, I would suggest for couples to spend a year at minimal before they move in together. Really flush out their relationship and ensure there is a solid foundation in place.
    But, that is typically geared towards younger couples.
    I think a good test here would be… to see her reaction to your hesitation.
    If she understands that it might be fast and is willing to take it slow. Good sign. Don’t rush it, give it a couple more months then pull the trigger.
    If that conversation breaks the relationship, like she can’t handle the idea of taking it slow… Well… Probably a good indication that you’re walking into a trap.
    Keep in mind… People are always on their best behaviour in the early stages. You two only scratched the surface of each-other, still strangers in a sense. Better to be safe and gain some experience together… go through a couple of tests before you make a drastic decision like that.

NEW STAFF WITH 0 EXP TASKED WITH $1M PROJECT, DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO & NO ONE HELPING

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How likely am I to be fired?

I was hired in an assistant role a few months ago. I had zero experience in this industry. Company decided to attach me to a senior guy for two months before moving me to another project.

Client for my current project actually asked my company for a guy with >4 years of experience, but my company couldn’t provide anyone else but me as everyone else is busy with their own project(s).

The industry I’m in is considered low SES by most Singaporeans and even some of my friends have make fun of it.

Due to this, many employees have resigned ever since the Covid restrictions relaxed and my company has difficulties hiring ever since. There wasn’t even any one in my company that was an executive role that have more than 4 years of experience.

Client decides to relent as they had good prior experiences with my company from their past working experiences together.

Back to my working conditions, So anyway I am basically almost soloing the whole project that was worth 1 million plus.

My manager is situated most at HQ and I am alone at the site office almost every day. I would call him for help with problems that I face every day but he usually said he would get back to me but he forgets due to his workload. Sometimes I forget to chase him for it too.

Now, the client has hinted that I am not performing up to his standard and might terminate the contract with my company.

So, in your opinion, how likely am I to be fired if I lose this million dollar contract for my company? I am asking because if it is very likely, then I would rather resign on my own than to have the dismissal on my resume.

28 Y.O MAN READ NEWS ABT UPSKIRT VIDEOS & IT “PIQUED HIS INTEREST” SO HE DID THE SAME, JAILED

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28-year-old Brandon Wan Yeu Herng was sentenced to 5 weeks imprisonment on Wednesday after pleading guilty to one charge of tasking two upskirt videos of a woman without her consent. with two other charges being considered during his sentencing.

The victim cannot be revealed due to a court order protecting her identity.

What happened?

According to Deputy Public Prosecutor Tung Shou Pin, the incident occurred on the morning of July 29 last year. Upon disembarking from a bus at a stop near Clementi MRT Station, Wan noticed the victim heading in the same direction. Succumbing to the temptation to film her, Wan decided to record an upskirt video.

Wan positioned the back of his mobile phone against a book he was carrying, with the phone camera facing upward. He then stood behind the woman as they rode the escalator, moving his phone closer to capture an upskirt video beneath her dress.

Continuing to follow closely, Wan accompanied the woman as they entered the MRT station’s concourse and passed through the gantries. On the subsequent escalator, Wan once again stood directly behind her and filmed a second upskirt video.

A witness named Mr. Wesley Sim observed Wan secretly filming the victim on both occasions and chose to tail them. While on the MRT platform, Mr. Sim intervened, informing the woman that Wan had been recording upskirt videos of her. Startled, Wan offered to delete the videos, but Mr. Sim demanded that he surrender his mobile phone.

Mr. Sim then showed the victim the evidence of Wan’s actions. Subsequently, both Mr. Sim and the woman approached officers from the Public Transport Security Command, who apprehended Wan.

Upskirt news “piqued his interest”

The court learned that Wan had been consuming voyeuristic content through Telegram group channels since 2021. Following his arrest, snapshots from the voyeuristic videos, along with two additional upskirt videos captured on July 13 at Bayfront MRT Station and on July 27 at Clementi MRT Station, were discovered on his phone. These two videos were considered during the sentencing.

Court documents state that Wan admitted to reading news reports on voyeurism offenses before committing the acts. The news reports had piqued his interest and ultimately led him to engage in similar offenses.

The prosecution sought a jail term of five to six weeks for Wan. Conversely, Mr. Ashvin Hariharan, Wan’s defense lawyer from Kalidass Law Corporation, urged District Judge Lim Wee Ming to consider a lighter sentence of one week in jail.

Mr. Hariharan argued that Wan’s actions were impulsive and lacked premeditation, as he decided to commit the offense only upon seeing the victim at the bus stop while coincidentally heading in the same direction. He also pointed out that Wan’s offer to delete the videos demonstrated his remorse and emphasized that Wan had sought counseling, reducing the likelihood of reoffending.

In response, Deputy Public Prosecutor Tung countered that Wan’s actions were not impulsive since he had the opportunity to reconsider after capturing the first video. Tung also highlighted that Wan sought counseling only after being caught in the act.

The offense of capturing upskirt videos without consent carries a penalty of up to two years’ imprisonment, a fine, caning, or any combination thereof.

CHINESE ALLEGEDLY BEATEN BY MALAYS IN JB CAUSE THEY THOUGHT HE STEALING THEIR RICE BOWL

A series of videos emerged online, circulating wildly online alleging that a Chinese man was beaten up by the Malays in Johor Bahru, Malaysia, for “stealing” their rice bowl, after encroaching into the areas where the Malays were working.

In one of the videos, the Chinese man was seen being brutally beaten up by a group of men mercilessly, as the videographer exclaimed “Mampos kau ah sial! Bodoh ni cina” (Rough translation: Die you stupid Chinese”

In another video, a group of men were seen armed with what appeared to be parangs and chasing after a car, attacking the vehicle as onlookers fled the scene.

The other videos showed different angles of the Chinese man being savagely beaten up by the group, as he screamed and begged for mercy.

In an accompanying text that was circulated with the videos, it was claimed that one of the victims had allegedly died from the attacks.

History of Malays vs Chinese tensions in Malaysia

To understand the roots of the Malay-Chinese tension, it is essential to examine the historical backdrop. Malaysia’s colonial past, shaped by British rule until 1957, played a role in molding the dynamics between different ethnic communities. The colonial administration’s policies and practices unintentionally contributed to disparities and unequal opportunities, creating a sense of economic and political imbalance among ethnic groups.

Economic disparities have been a primary concern in the Malay-Chinese relationship. Historically, the Chinese community, with its entrepreneurial spirit and business acumen, has excelled in commerce and trade. This economic success, coupled with stereotypes and misperceptions, has fueled feelings of resentment and envy among some Malays, who believe that the Chinese community dominates certain economic sectors at their expense.

The introduction of affirmative action policies, such as the New Economic Policy (NEP) in the 1970s, aimed to address economic imbalances and reduce poverty among Malays. However, the implementation of these policies has been a source of contention. Some argue that these measures have not been effective in promoting equitable opportunities for all Malaysians and have perpetuated a perception of preferential treatment for the Malay community. This perception, in turn, has strained interethnic relations, particularly between Malays and Chinese.

Politics also play a role in shaping the Malay-Chinese dynamic in Malaysia. The country’s political landscape is characterized by a dominant Malay-led coalition, which has fueled concerns among non-Malay communities about their representation and influence. These concerns have occasionally led to tensions and disagreements, as different ethnic communities vie for their voices to be heard and their interests to be protected within the political sphere.

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TIKOPEKS CHARGED FOR MOLEST, INCLUDING 56 Y.O MAN WHO MOLESTED 16 Y.O STEP-DAUGHTER

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FIVE MEN TO BE CHARGED WITH OUTRAGE OF MODESTY

The Police will be charging five men, aged between 37 and 60, in court on 31 May 2023 for their suspected involvement in five separate cases of outrage of modesty.

The cases are as follows:

  1. Sometime in 2019, a then 56-year-old man had allegedly molested his stepdaughter, a then 16-year-old girl, at his house along Marsiling Drive. The man will be charged in court with one count of outrage of modesty under Section 354(1) of the Penal Code. He will also be charged with one count of uttering word or gestures intended to insult modesty of any person under Section 377BA of the Penal Code.
  2. On 15 September 2021, a then 57-year-old man had allegedly molested a then 25-year-old woman at his workplace along South Bridge Road. The man will be charged with two counts of outrage of modesty under Section 354(1) of the Penal Code.
  3. On 9 January 2023, a 37-year-old driver had allegedly molested a 33-year-old woman after she had alighted from his vehicle along Robinson Road. The man will be charged with one count of outrage of modesty under Section 354(1) of the Penal Code 1871.
  4. On 10 February 2023, a 45-year-old man had allegedly molested an 18-year-old woman in the vicinity of Golden Mile Complex. The man will be charged in court with one count of outrage of modesty under Section 354(1) of the Penal Code 1871.
  5. On 2 April 2023, a 42-year-old man had allegedly molested his co-worker, a 26-year-old woman at his workplace located along Robinson Road. The man will be charged with three counts of outrage of modesty under Section 354(1) of the Penal Code 1871.

The offence of outrage of modesty-under Section 354(1) of the Penal Code 1871 carries an imprisonment term which may extend to three years, a fine, caning, or any combination of such punishments. The offence of uttering words or gestures intended to insult modesty of any person under Section 377BA of the Penal Code 1871 carries an imprisonment term which may extend to one year, a fine, or any combination of such punishments.

The Police have zero tolerance towards offenders who threaten the personal safety of the community, and offenders will be dealt with sternly in accordance with the law. The Police would also like to urge members of the public to remain vigilant, and if they witness an incident of outrage of modesty, or are aware of someone being a victim of outrage of modesty, to report the matter to the Police immediately.

PUBLIC AFFAIRS DEPARTMENT
SINGAPORE POLICE FORCE
30 May 2023 @ 8:45 PM

BLACK SHEEP INSURANCE AGENT MADE FAKE INSURANCE CLAIMS & CHEATED COMPANY OF $10.5M

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MAN TO BE CHARGED WITH OFFENCES RELATED TO FRAUDULENT INSURANCE CLAIMS

A 45-year-old former employee of an insurance company will be charged in court on 1 June 2023 with the offences of cheating, forgery, falsification of account and money laundering. The charges include false insurance claims allegedly processed or initiated by the accused while he was under employment with the insurer.

Between July 2010 and August 2016, the man allegedly created fraudulent emails on 58 occasions to cheat his employer into effecting payments of more than $1.6m to third-party bank accounts. He was further alleged to have deceived his employer into processing 297 false claim payments of more than $8.9m to third-party bank accounts from May 2010 to September 2017. Investigations showed that about $55,600 were allegedly laundered from the third-party bank accounts to the man’s personal bank accounts.

To conceal the false claim payments, the man allegedly falsified the electronic records on the company’s claims processing system by reversing or instructing others to reverse the false claim payments which the company has paid out.

The following are the punishments for the respective offences:

Cheating under Section 420 of the Penal Code-punishable with imprisonment for a term which may extend to 10 years and a fine;

Forgery for the purpose of cheating under Section 468 of the Penal Code, imprisonment for a term which may extend to 10 years and a fine;

Falsification of accounts under Section 477A of the Penal Code, imprisonment for a term which may extend to 10 years, a fine, or both; and

Money laundering under Section 47(1)(c) of the Corruption, Drug Trafficking, and other Serious Crimes (Confiscation of Benefits) Act, imprisonment for a term which may extend to 10 years, a fine, or both.

PUBLIC AFFAIRS DEPARTMENT
SINGAPORE POLICE FORCE
31 May 2023 @ 4:05 PM

32 Y.O MAN POSTED ROOMS FOR RENT, TAKE MONEY ALREADY THEN REFUSE TO RENT THE ROOMS

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MAN ARRESTED FOR A SERIES OF RENTAL SCAMS

The Police have arrested a 32-year-old man for his suspected involvement in a series of rental scams via a Telegram group chat.

Between March and May 2023, the Police received several reports lodged by victims on home rental scams. The man had contacted the victims who expressed their interest to rent either bedrooms or the whole housing unit in a Telegram group chat, on the pretext of renting out rooms at a housing unit along Yishun Avenue 11. After receiving payments for the deposits of more than $7,500 via bank transfers, the man allegedly cancelled the agreements and did not rent the promised rooms or unit out.

Through follow-up investigations, officers from Woodlands Police Division established the identity of the man and arrested him on 30 May 2023.

The man will be charged in court on 31 May 2023 with the offence of cheating under Section 420 of the Penal Code 1871. The offence carries an imprisonment term of up to ten years and a fine.

The Police would like to remind members of the public to be wary of such scams and to adopt the following precautionary measures to avoid falling prey to rental scams:

Do not make any advance payment until the tenancy is confirmed, and pay the rental deposit and rents by cheque or via bank transfer for documentary proof;

Visit the housing unit which you intend to rent to confirm its existence, the unit’s condition and potential signs of multiple subletting; and

Verify the identities of the person/s whom you are dealing with and their relationship to the housing unit, especially when you are not engaging the services of a licensed estate agent or registered salespersons.
For more information on scams, members of the public can visit scamalert.sg or call the Anti-Scam Hotline at 1800-722-6688. Anyone with information on such scams may call the Police hotline at 1800-255 0000 or submit information online at www.police.gov.sg/iwitness.

PUBLIC AFFAIRS DEPARTMENT
SINGAPORE POLICE FORCE
30 May 2023 @ 9:00 PM

TADA DRIVER REFUSE TO DRIVE PASSENGERS & KICKS THEM OUT, TADA STILL CAN ASK FOR PAYMENT

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A disgruntled customer recently voiced their dissatisfaction with a Tada driver, raising concerns about the driver’s attitude and the subsequent customer service provided by Tada Singapore. The complaint sheds light on the challenges faced during the booking process and the unpleasant experience that followed.

The customer had booked an Economy Large car, clearly indicating in the remarks that it was for five passengers. However, upon arrival at the pick-up location, the driver displayed a negative attitude towards the group, leaving the impression that he held a racial bias against the man’s companions.

Drives 6-seater but cannot pick up 5 pax

Seeking assistance on how to set up the back seat to accommodate the stated number of passengers, the customer received an unhelpful response from the driver. While attempting to figure it out themselves, the driver made a comment questioning the number of passengers.

The customer clarified that they were five individuals, as stated in the booking app. To their surprise, the driver responded that his car could only accommodate four passengers, despite the obvious fact that it was a 6-seater vehicle.

Frustrated with the driver’s attitude and unwillingness to provide the service they had booked, the customer asked if he wants to drive them or not. The driver simply refused, instructing them to get out of his car. The customers complied, and the driver drove off without canceling the booking. Left without transportation, the customer had to use their spouse’s phone to book another car.

The situation took an unexpected turn when, in the middle of the night, the customer received a payment notification from Tada requesting payment for the canceled ride.

Driver jialat, customer service lagi worse

Confused and dissatisfied, the customer contacted Tada customer service the following morning. The first representative, identified as Sarah, appeared dismissive and hurried to end the call.

The customer explained the entire situation, highlighting the payment mode discrepancy, but Sarah insisted that it was booked as a cash payment, contrary to the customer’s payment preference of QR code.

Frustrated with the first call, the customer made a second attempt to speak with Sarah to avoid having to repeat their concerns. However, the call was abruptly disconnected by a representative named Johnathan, leaving the customer feeling disrespected and unheard.

In their third call to Tada customer service, the customer spoke with Michael, who offered a similar response. Michael acknowledged that transferring calls was not possible and defended Sarah’s handling of the previous conversation.

He explained that the company’s standard operating procedure was to escalate complaints to higher authorities for investigation, and customers could expect a response via email within three working days. When asked why email communication was preferred over a phone call, Michael attributed it to the company’s SOP.

The complaint highlights concerns about the quality of service provided by Tada Singapore, leaving the customer disappointed and questioning the company’s commitment to customer satisfaction.

DRUNK MAN TAKES OFF SHIRT & CHALLENGES PEOPLE TO FIGHT HIM @ PENDING RD KOPITIAM

A netizen shared a video of a drunken man creating a nuisance of himself at a coffee shop somewhere along Pending Road on Tuesday (30 May).

The incident happened at about 3.48 pm on Tuesday.

According to the netizen, the man was seen kicking the chairs and table of a group of family that were eating at the coffee shop.

He was also putting his foot on the chairs and tables of random customers’ tables, as well as chasing people away from some of the food stalls.

Following this he then went for a short 5-minute toilet break, before emerging and heading towards and ATM, before scolding a “staff” (the netizen didn’t elaborate on who or what the “staff” was).

The man then proceeded back to the coffee shop and ordered a plate of Mee Goreng, before continuing his rampage and challenging people to fight.

He also challenged a teenage boy to fight, saying that he was from a gang, before taking off his shirt. The police later arrived at about 4.20pm.

Here is what the netizen said (SIC)

“A drunken man take off his cloth and ask for fight along Pending Road, at kopi shop”

A drunkn man create scene disturb the peace at kopi shop, & -Ma ta called for assistance at 4pm, – man in black kicking chair & table gp of family eating at foodpark “chua tio sai, man at random table put up his foot on the chair and table, approach stall chasing a people away, & afterwhich a 5min toilet break, later go ATM, & scold a staff before proceed2 kopi shop order Mee-Goreng, after at one point, turning away a couple without eating thier meal & left 411pm,

Sebsequnly at kopi stall “jio 1 -Gina teenager’s boy to fight say, his from members of a paikia group, took off his Top,-therafter ma ta arrived at 420pm, “unsure of drunken man apprehend, that i have already took a bus & left at 448pm!

‘(the man belonging & meegoreng untouched)