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WOMAN SAY MONEY IS TIGHT, CAN’T AFFORD FOOD BUT ASKS IF SHE SHOULD BUY $200 EARPHONES

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The rich will only get richer and the poor, poorer

I am privileged to have come from an upper middle income family, so I never had to worry about food, shelter or even my school fees (I’m highly thankful for that).

From young, my parents have always stressed the importance of saving up and not overspending, so my siblings and I have learnt the important of money management.

Recently my online friend of 2 years (we only game together and have never met) revealed to me that she was not doing well financially and she always rants to us about how even grocery money is tight and she’s surviving on her bursary to pay the water bills, etc.

It sounded like she was really struggling to get by. But at the same time, she’ll also ask me things like β€œShould I get this $200 wireless earbuds?” Which I asked back β€˜oh your old one spoiled?’ And she’ll say nope and the next moment she really bought it.

Or I’ll see her whacking $50 on lottery and buying tons of in-game cash items. When I see her spending like that, I get really worried and also kind of confused. Not to say that you can’t get nice stuff when you’re not doing well, but I seriously don’t think these frequent spendings are justified??

Sometimes I want to lightly advise her to rethink her spending choices but I’d hold myself back because I feel like such advice will only feel like it’s from higher moral grounds.

I’ve never faced the same issues as her so who am I to judge or advise her, right? Interestingly, there’s also a theory about savings and impulse to spend.

For eg., if you only had $1000 savings, you would think twice about spending $200. But if you’re already in a -$1000 debt, spending $200 would not mean much to you as you’re already in debt.

Similarly, if you’d never had much expandable money in the first place, it’s hard to learn about money management which results in even more impulse spendings. It’s a vicious cycle.

At the end of the day, this whole thing is online and doesn’t impact my life but I feel some sort of guilt over being more privileged than others. Yet at the same time, there is no way around this other than being thankful and trying to contribute back to society.

WOMAN SLEPT WITH MARRIED BOSS, SAYS SHE ENJOYED BEING GIVEN ATTENTION FROM HIM

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I’m in love with my boss and he has a wife

I have read so much about office romance. Is it really very common?

Unfortunately I was involved in it as well, with my boss, and have let his strong initial affections get the better of me.

He makes me feel so loved and protects me at work & outside of work.

But because of obvious reasons, he had stated upfront that there wouldnt be a future between us, but we still continued the relationship anyway for a year.

He had since left the company and I am worried that he will have another office romance with other woman at his new workplace, and it doesnt help knowing that his whole team are all females.

Prior to being with him, he had been close with alot of females in our office. I think he might not have crossed the line with them, but he allowed them to lean on him, hold him and get really close with him.

I know I am not in the position to be worried about it. His wife should be the one feeling uneasy, if she knows how her husband’s super outgoing personality is.

As for myself, I have no justifications for my actions. I fall in love easily, I enjoyed the attention and affection given.

But I do regret being a 3rd party for a period of time especially when I know how good their relationship is.

That’s why I am also very upset knowing how he treated other females previously (and even when I was with him) and since this is how his character is, there is a high chance of another office romance at his new workplace.

Netizens’ comments

  1. All taking turns to piak piak lah is it
  2. Sleeping with a married boss can create a host of problems. You could be putting your job at risk, as well as jeopardizing the reputation of your boss and his or her family.
    If the affair is discovered, it could lead to legal action, public embarrassment, and damage to your career and personal relationships.
    Regardless of how you choose to handle the situation, take the opportunity to reflect on what you’ve learned.
    Consider the factors that led you to engage in the affair and how you can make better choices in the future. Use this experience as an opportunity for growth and self-improvement.

TEMPERATURE AT ANG MO KIO HITS RECORD 37Β°C ON SAT, HOTTEST RECORDED IN S’PORE IN 40 YRS

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It is pretty obvious to anyone who has stepped outside into the sunlight recently that Singapore is in the midst of some very uncomfortable hot weather.

The sweltering weather has since set a new record as temperatures reached 37Β°C at Ang Mo Kio on Saturday (13 May).

The 37Β°C is the highest recorded temperature in Singapore for the last 40 years, with the last highest recorded temperature (also 37Β°C) being equalled on 17 April 1983.

Additionally, several locations across Singapore also recorded temperatures that exceeded 36Β°C on Saturday, with the previous high of 36.7Β°C being recorded last year at Admiralty.

The National Environment Agency (NEA) added that the warm and dry conditions are expected to continue, although short rain showers are expected in the coming week which may help to lower the temperatures.

The National Environment Agency (NEA)’s statement on Facebook

Several locations across the island recorded temperatures exceeding 36Β°C today (13 May 2023).

The highest temperature of 37.0Β°C, the year’s warmest so far, was recorded at Ang Mo Kio. This is the highest daily maximum temperature for the month of May, exceeding the previous May high of 36.7Β°C recorded at Admiralty just last year.

It also ties with the all-time record of 37.0Β°C for highest daily maximum temperature, last recorded at Tengah on 17 Apr 1983. Singapore’s temperature records started in 1929.

The current warm and dry conditions are expected to continue tomorrow (14 May 2023). Short-duration showers are expected next week which may help to moderate the warm temperatures.

Netizens’ comments

  1. Can you start providing official readings of heat index, or “feels like” reading. This is more accurate and let’s us know how to take precaution against heat injury
  2. With more flats and building increasing and absorbing the heat. No wonder the temperature keeps rising.
  3. Looks like going to 40 degree c soon
  4. Not hot potato but hot tomato liao.

36 & 40 Y.O S’POREAN BROTHERS ARRESTED IN MELAKA FOR OBSCENE ACTS ON KIDS IN RELIGIOUS SCHOOL

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Two Singaporean brothers aged 36 and 40, were detained by the Melaka police for allegedly assaulting and ill-treating 6 boys at a religious school in Malaysia, according to The Star as reported by Mothership.

The police chief of Melaka, DCP Datuk Zainol Samah said on 12 May that the older brother is the principal of two tahfiz centres in the Tanjung Minyak and Alor Gajah area and had performed despicable obscene acts on three teenage boys.

He added that the younger brother, on the other hand, was a warden of the schools and had allegedly physically assaulted three other boys.

Police reports against the brothers were lodged on 11 May from between 6.30 pm and 9.13 pm, and the victims were said to be between the ages of 13 to 15.

The victims said that they were allegedly slapped, whipped and assaulted by the 36-year-old younger brother, as well as being forced to perform explicit obscene acts by the elder brother.

They said that the elder brother had taken them to a condominium in Klebang to perform the explicit and obscene acts, added the police chief.

The two Singaporean brothers are currently being investigated by the police under the obscene offences against children act, and the elder brother also has outstanding criminal records of two other similar offences.

They had appeared in court yesterday (13 May) to be remanded.

Other similar offences

Earlier this year, it was reported that a primary school teacher had kissed a 12-year-old student and slept with her when she turned 15.

The 49-year-old man who worked as a primary school teacher in Singapore was charged with assaulting his student from 2006 to 2009 when the victim was still underage.

He felt faint during court proceedings and vomited before his trial on 9 March, and the hearing was then postponed.

He was reportedly diagnosed previously with anxiety disorder and had what appeared to be an epileptic attack in court on Thursday.

The hearing was then adjourned to the next day, but he once again vomited and fell onto the ground, and the court proceedings were then adjourned again to 21 March.

The man started allegedly assaulting his student when she was 12 years old, and his alleged crimes came to light in 2017. He is currently facing 7 charges under the Children and Young Persons Act, which he pleaded not guilty to.

The victim is now 28 years old, and her identity cannot be revealed because of a court order.

The man was the primary school girl’s mother tongue teacher at the time and met her when she was only 12 years old. He was married at the time with 2 young daughters.

In 2007, while he was in his car with the then-12-year-old girl, he allegedly kissed her on the lips.

In the years that followed, the man allegedly touched the girl on her chest and her private parts, as well as allegedly asked the girl to perform explicit acts on him.

In November 2010, when the girl was 15 years old, they allegedly had intercourse.

The victim then told her older sister about it years later and her sister then reported the incident to the police, and the man was then arrested at the primary school on 28 June 2017.

The police also seized his phone and retrieved messages of correspondence between the man and the victim.

MAN SCARED TO BUNGEE JUMP, ALMOST PULL INSTRUCTOR DOWN THE CLIFF WITH HIM

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A video emerged online showing a man bungee jumping off a cliff and almost pulling the instructor (who was not wearing a safety cord) down the cliff with him after presumably having second thoughts at the last minute.

The incident took place at a bungee jumping centre Go Bungy Nepal located in Pokhara, Nepal, during one of the jumps from an altitude of about 101m high.

The owner of Go Bungy Nepal, Santosh Bhattarai, was seen in the video guiding the humper towards the edge of the cliff, while counting down to let him go from the edge.

Just as Santosh releases his grip and lets the man go, the man was seen trying to grab onto his arm and almost pulling him down the cliff as well.

It is worth noting that Santosh didn’t appear to be hooked onto any safety ropes, and had he been pulled down the cliff, it very likely would have resulted in his death.

Santosh managed to pull his hand away from the jumper before the latter falls off the cliff, as he shouted at the jumper not to do that again.

The video has since garnered more than 20 million views across social media and almost 1 million likes, as well as drawing varying responses from the public.

Some of them blamed the jumper while others sided with him, saying that it is natural instinct to grab onto someone when falling and that the instructor should have been hooked onto a safety rope.

Netizens’ comments

  1. instructor should have harness for safety, especially if they trying to scare guy jumping, what do you expect
  2. We all gotta understand he was scared that’s why he did what he did he was not ready to go down
  3. since you hesitated, the fella thought it wasn’t the right time to jump. eff around and you will find out
  4. Instructor should also be hook on safety just in case

@gobungynepal Don’t do that ⚠️ #gobungynepal #gobungynepalpokhara #fyp #adventure #tiktok #gobungyfamily #goviral #bunjeepokhara #bunjeenepal #adventuretime ♬ original sound – Go Bungy Nepal

MAN VISITS SISTER’S CONDO & HAD HIS CAR CLAMPED FOR TRESPASSING, GUARD SAYS “WRONG UNIT NO.”

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Facebook user said that he visited his sister’s condomunium unit and parked his car at the condo’s carpark, only to later find out that his car had been wheel clamped.

When asked about it, the security guard said that the wrong unit number was recorded and they clamped his car for “trespassing”.

Here is what he said

On Sat 13th May, I came to visit my sister who lives in INZ RESIDENCE at Chua Chu Kang Ave 5 for a family gathering. We reached approximately 1900 hrs, where we told the guard we are visiting her unit. After registration, we proceed to our family gathering at the BBQ pit.

As the environment was rather noisy and warm, I was unable to hear or feel my phone vibrate while preparing food for BBQ. At 21:18, I checked my phone and noticed I had 18 missed calls from a number 69081072, so I called back and learnt that my vehicle was wheel clamped.

So we approached INZ RESIDENCE security. I was told that we had breached their security protocol for giving the wrong unit number, where the MA decided to wheel clamp my vehicle for tresspassing. Despite my brother in law who came with me to clarify that we were genuine visitors, I had to pay $107 to release the wheel clamp because the security guard recorded the wrong unit number and deemed that we were misusing their parking system.

1. At the security registration, My wife was on the passenger side, and I clearly heard her reported the unit number where my sister lives. It was INZ RESIDENCE security personnel who made the wrong report.

2. We did not give our name or contact no. Yet the security personnel was able to record my name and call me. Which means INZ RESIDENCE security already has my name and contact in their records, and would know that my sister’s unit number is the only one I would visit.

3. My brother in law came with me to the security guardhouse to clarify that we are not tresspassers but genuine visitors to the estate who followed the rules and parked at their designated visitor lot. But the security personnel refused to call to their MA for permission to release the wheelclamp.

Conclusion is, I had to pay $107 because INZ RESIDENCE security made a mistake by recording the wrong unit number. I did call back at 21:18, and went to the guard house with my brother in law to testify that we were not tresspassers, there is no need for wheelclamp. And even if they wheelclamp, there must be protocol to resolve misunderstandings like these.

It is either this condo has ridiculous by laws that are unreasonably strict, or security guards are riding on the strict by laws to punish whomever they dislike or less prefer. There is injustice in our condo management system and our government should step in with protocols to protect residents and visitors from such dictatorship style private regulations.

Update 01: [ I Normally don’t really check the parking slip issued by condo security coz I never had any issues with it. Admit I took that for granted and I should check in the future. The unit no #06-04 in my photos is the wrong unit no. I did not disclose my sister’s unit no for privacy issue.Hope this clarifies.]

Update 02: [ In the photo of the receipt, you can check the reason for Wheel clamp is not for parking at resident’s lots, but stated “Unidentified Unit Num”. Just to answer those who suspect that I parked at resident’s lot, got wheelclamped and become unhappy about it. No, I parked at designated Visitor’s Lot as instructed]

WOMAN FOUND OUT DAD’S BUSINESS IS $40K IN DEBT, QUITS JOB TO TAKE OVER & HELP REPAY DEBT

27-year-old Cordellia Ann Tan Mei Yin, who graduated from the National University of Singapore, quit her full-time job with a venture capital firm to take over her father’s car business after learning that he was about $40,000 in debt back in 2021.

Her father’s business Pitstop Tyres, which does car maintenance and repairs, was severely affected negatively by the pandemic after running for more than 10 years.

She was working with a venture capital firm at the time and earning a stable income when she chanced upon a letter in the middle of 2021 that was addressed to her father, spelling out the dire situation of the company.

She then came to the realisation that her father was in huge debt and couldn’t repay it, and that their home appliances and car could be repossessed, and she was shocked.

Tapping into her expertise of helping businesses develop, Tan quit her full time job to help her father’s business despite it being an industry traditionally dominated by men.

After joining her father’s company, she realised that her father’s bank account was negative and the company was also about $40,000 in debt.

The situation was so bad that the company’s internet and electricity bills were cut, and she had to plead with the suppliers to wait until she could sell more tyres before paying them back the money that was owed.

Things have since improved significantly, with the business sales picking up and Tan now does mainly supervising and carrying out business deals for the company.

Her father told Shin Min Daily News that he hopes to pass on the value of hard work to his daughter as well as much of what he’s learned from the industry.

He is also the only tyre technician in Singapore to have been certified by TUV, a german company that provides technical services across the world.

Despite his daughter now running the business, he still pops by regularly to watch and observe, and said that he is happy that his daughter has picked up the skills quickly.

@pitstop.tyres day in the life of a ✨ tyre gowrl ✨ #tiktoksgπŸ‡ΈπŸ‡¬ #dailyvlog #car ♬ Sunroof – Nicky Youre & dazy

PORSCHE ON FIRE BEFORE “EXPLODING” AT SENTOSA COVE HOME, AS SPARKS FLEW EVERYWHERE

A fire broke out at a Sentosa Cove home on 12 May involving a white sports car that was revealed to be a Porsche.

The fire left the entire porch area of the home engulfed in a sea of red as passers-by gathered around outside and watched on in horror.

A video of the fire engulfing the white Porsche and the immediate area of the landed property emerged online and was circulating on social media.

In the video, thick plumes of black and grey smoke could be seen billowing from the house as the bright orange flames wreaked havoc.

The netizen who was filming the video later got closer to the fire and captured the white Porsche being consumed by the raging inferno.

The car appeared to be “melting” as little embers dripped off the frame of the car, before an “explosion” of sorts erupted with sparks flying upwards from the vehicle.

Firefighters and rescuers from the Singapore Civil Defence Force (SCDF) as well as officers from the Singapore Police Force were also on-site to control the situation.

The area was also cordoned off to maintain a safe distance between the onlookers and the raging fire.

Firefighting operations appeared to have taken quite a while as the emergency vehicles were still seen after the night had fallen.

The SCDF confirmed that they received an alert about a fire on 12 May at about 6.50 pm in the evening at 12 Cove Way.

The fire was extinguished by firefighters using two water jets.

Two persons had evacuated from the premises before the arrival of the SCDF and no injuries were reported from the incident.

The SCDF said that the fire had stemmed from the contents of a car porch outside the unit on the first floor, and the cause of fire is currently under investigation.

@bengmontesa Grabe ang init….#fire #firefighter #policeaction #buggy #newsupdate #today #sentosa ♬ original sound – it's me: I L❀ve You

S’PORE WOMAN STOOD AT BUS STOP BUT BUS JUST DROVE OFF, “HUH, CAN LIKE THAT ONE MEH”

TikTok user @abercado shared how she was the only person waiting at a bus stop recently and was standing up to wait for her bus to stop.

However, the bus drove off without stopping for her as the woman wondered what she did wrong for be “rejected” by the driver.

She said in her video that she was waiting at the bus stop for bus number 2 for about 9 minutes when she saw the bus approaching in the distance, and she then stood at the front fo the bus stop by the road to get ready to board the bus.

She had thought that the bus would stop for her and didn’t flag it down, but the bus then drove past her without even slowing down despite her standing right in front.

Confused at what had just happened, she asked if it was her fault for not physically flagging down the bus by raising her hand out to show the bus.

She said that she believed the driver had deliberately driven off, and that the bus was driving at the usual speed and now slowing down for her bus stop.

However, she did note that her bus stop was a relatively quiet one and it might’ve been normal for the captain the skip that bus stop.

Netizens’ comments

  1. Take MRT also need to wave your hand, otherwise they just move off..
  2. u sit infront of your food, the food ownself go into your mouth visit?
  3. When u alighting from bus, do you think the bus will stop just by standing at the door without pressing the bell?
  4. is ur fault, u need to flag it down else bus driver think u waiting for grab or other buses
  5. It’s not your fault… Its the fault of the people who has not taught you since young.
  6. dei, it’s like saying u stand thr expecting a taxi to come to u to pick u up. no right? u put out ur hand to flag the taxi what. Same logic
  7. dei, it’s like saying u stand thr expecting a taxi to come to u to pick u up. no right? u put out ur hand to flag the taxi what. Same logic
@abercado

so done with sg bus culture idk

♬ original sound – bak chor mee 🍜
@abercado pt.2 of bus driving off without me, ok fine #ministryoftransport ♬ original sound – bak chor mee 🍜
@abercado

tldr: i just thought the driver did it on purpose and wanted to rant, anyways i’ll flag for the bus to stop, but if it happens again, am i allowed another rant?

♬ original sound – bak chor mee 🍜

AMBITIOUS COUPLES WANTS TO BUY LANDED PROPERTY AT 29 AND 30 Y.O

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Is it advisable to get a landed property as the first property as a young couple? I (30) and my gf (29) are planning to get married soon.

Our salaries are slightly above the BTO ceiling.

Although we can try to appeal, we are considering to get a landed property as our home. In particular, we are looking at those very old property and tear it down and rebuild a new house.

It’d be really nice to have our own inputs into how the house would be designed into our dream house. Both of us grew up in HDB flats sharing with many family members and we’d like to get a change of environment and get much more space.

We are thinking of getting a long loan like 30-35 years and slowly pay off as our income grow in future.

I think just the downpayment alone would totally wipe out our savings + cpf but we see it as a long term investment. Is it worth it to get such a property considering our age/ income?

Here are what netizens think:

  • A freehold landed property is a great idea. But interest rate wnt stay this low for long. It also depends on how much downpayment u are going to make. And ur job security over the next 30 years.
  • “Our salaries are slightly above the BTO ceiling” I guess he mean his solo salary and his gf solo salary is already slightly about the BTO ceiling individually.
  • No need think so much wan.. Very simple… Take 5m as budget, u pay 1m down-payment… See if bank will to loan you 4m or not lor…. The bank will help u make the decision
  • Definitely worth it. If can afford pls go ahead. Not only will you be the envy of your friends but the investment potential is fantastic. 20 yrs ago landed is less than 1m. Now it’s 5m. 20yrs later maybe 10m.
  • Rebuilding a house in 20 years ago was 2m+. After rebuilding, the valuation went up, property tax from a hundred + a year to 5k + a year, monthly maintainence abt 1k not including helper salary. Think twice and plan properly before making this decision unless u hv a strong financial support.