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WIDOWER’S DAUGHTER CAUGHT HIM SLEEPING WITH HIS DATE, ANGRY

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A man shared how he is a widowers and his daughter recently caught him sleeping with his date and now refuses to talk to him.

Here is the story

My daughter won’t talk to me. And I don’t know what to do.

Her mom and I were school sweethearts and had her young. We lost my wife over 2 years ago to cancer. Ever since it’s been me and her. We have both gone to therapy since it happened to cope with the grief. I was especially destroyed by it, she was the love of my life.

When I met my coworker “Maya” I didn’t expect to develop feelings. For the past 4 months we’ve worked together I just did. She knows about my history with my wife. And she’s been pretty respectful about it. Finally over a month ago I asked her out on a date, she said yes. I didn’t tell my daughter about any of this because I wasn’t ready to admit to her that I’m interested in someone else. Figured to date a while and if I felt it was really gonna go somewhere then find the right time to tell her.

This weekend my daughter was gonna be with her best friend’s family to celebrate her birthday at their home. She was meant to stay there until Monday morning. So thinking that I’d be free, Maya and I went out on our 3rd date. At the end of it we got pretty caught up in the kissing. We just wanted to be together.

And my place was the closest. We got intimate last night and fell asleep. My daughter showed up wayyy sooner than expected. Her work asked her to cover a shift on Monday so she decided to drive back early before Sunday traffic hit. She found us asleep together and lost it. When we talked after Maya left she accused me of not caring about my wife and she’s disgusted I’d move on so easily. I know what she’s saying is coming from her grief.

I tried talking getting through to her. She didn’t want to hear it though. All day today she’s been ignoring me. This is killing me. I can’t lose my daughter too and I don’t know what to do to make this situation better. What can I do for her to make this easier? This isn’t how I wanted her to find out about this

MAN HAS $200K SPARE CASH, WANT TO LEPAK & STOP WORKING FOR A FEW YEARS TO CHILL

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For some reasons (undisclosed here) , I may be incomeless for a few years. i have about 200K savings, staying in my parent home but i gave them a lump sum of 50K at one shot. told them is for next few years of me being jobless( not that i want)

Should not have any expenses since i would not go out at all! So maybe phone bill cost $30 per month and insurance which i should have enough saving to tank for five years of payment.

Anyone similar situation to me? So my question is has anyone also incomeless for a few years? So when u get back to salaryman – how did u cope. And what u do when u are incomeless and mental wise all ok? Asking for reference and mental preparation

Netizens’ comments

  • Might want to have a plan? Like what you intend to do during these few years.
    Last time I had a friend who did that, left the company and took a break for a few years, then back in, after a few years,she quit again but was feeling restless at home so she got a job which is different from her previous job, which also means she will start at the bottom but get to learn new stuff and she doesn’t mind since she has the financial means to do so.
    My mum was let go after her boss sold the company but like my dad said “her backside got nails, cannot sit at home one” , so instead of retiring, she went out to find a new job.
    Depending on your industry, you might have to play some catch up after the break to get back on track with the newer technology etc.
  • Here’s sharing my experience: I took an unplanned and unintended career break due to illness, from approx 2016 to 2021. I can’t really put a finger down to the number of years I stopped work, cos I had stepped down my employment gradually from FTE to part-time, to self-employed, then freelance, until my health required me to stop working totally.
    When my health got better in late 2020, I started reading up on how to re-enter the workforce/restart my career after a break. Honestly, despite all the hell that the pandemic caused, there were two good things that came out of it that benefitted me:
    The SGUnited heavily subsidised training/skills/mid-career programmes that came with monthly training allowance. I personally took a 9-mths long SGUS prog in digital HR to brush up my rusty skills and make myself more relevant to today’s needs, and also got to upskill in the newer tech skill
    WFH corporate jobs were previously rare in Sg, but companies were forced to make it happen and now some of them have realised the good in a hybrid workforce. Though it’s still too soon to say for sure, we will have to see how things go after Apr 26.
    And remote/hybrid work arrangements were what I really needed so as to manage my energy output better to avoid crashes/relapses. I have since started working in Feb 2022, although in a lower role but getting to restart is of more importance.
    In terms of finances I can’t really offer much advice given that I actually had to turn to family for help ultimately cos the medical expenses plus not working expended all of my savings. But the break also forced me to cut my monthly bills to only what is most essential, and I realised that a lot of the expenses that I thought were important or necessary may not actually be. So it’s important to rank your expenses I think, and perhaps as you go along your break, you can slowly cut away those things that you can do without.
    Finally, to end this off, I can’t emphasise enough that HEALTH IS WEALTH. Please take care of yourselves first and foremost, be it physically, mentally, emotionally. No matter how much you slog for any company, or offer your time and money to any religion, or bend over backwards to cater to your friends/network/etc, when disaster hits, not all of them will be willing to stay with you to ride it out and give a helping hand. But I also don’t regret or blame the higher being for having to go through what I did, cos the “social cleansing” really helped me to now know who are my important people (honestly many of those whom I thought would be in this group ended up taking flight but it’s okay, good riddance to them).

XMM’S COMPANY ALMOST ALL FTs, TAKE CARE OF THEIR OWN PEOPLE & DON’T CARE ABOUT LOCALS

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I am currently working as an intern at a certain e commerce company here which I shall not name, I am supposed to work here until the year end and I am dreading going into work almost every day.

It is not that my superiors are nasty. They are friendly and teach me stuff. However because most of the employees are not Singaporean, the work culture is quite different, even the way they treat Singaporeans is also different.

They only care about their fellow countrymen, so if the team consists of people from different backgrounds, the team will not be bonded. It is quite obvious that they are only friendly with each other for work relations.

Recently a new full timer joined my team. He is also from that country. As such, he is treated extremely well. He was given a tour around the office and they even treated him lunch.

Back when I joined, there was no such treatment lol. But I guess it is because I am a temporary staff there is no need to treat me that well. I am fine with that.

However, my supervisor has been assigning work that was meant for me, to him. Hence ever since he joined my workload has become significantly less and I don’t learn as much anymore.

I am also kept out of the loop for projects that I used to be part of, and he has replaced me. My supervisor even asked me to give him my script which I spent 1 entire month working on, so that he can take over my duties.

Now I dread going to work because I want to be busy and learn things but now I cannot because everything has been passed to this new guy.

Maybe my supervisor finds it easier to communicate with someone of similar background as her, so she stopped giving me important tasks and instead gave them to him.

It has come to the point where every day I have to ask for work because I have nothing to do. But the work assigned to me is extremely mundane.

I miss the days before this new full timer joined. I really don’t know how I am going to handle the next few months in this team.

Netizen’s comment

Do not overthink. From your perspective, it appeared that they are giving you less work and make you less important.

Take note that you are not a perm staff and will leave the company in a few months. From the company perspective, they have to plan the handover of your tasks to the perm staff. This is a normal hand over plan.

You may take this as a learning point as an intern. One day if you become the boss of the company, you will do likewise, by transferring the tasks to a perm staff before the intern leave. Your asking is valid as you have yet to see the world.

GIRL PUKED ON BED WHILE IN ACTION WITH BOYFRIEND

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A girl shared a story of how she screwed up one time by puking on the bed while her boyfriend and herself were having some ‘action’.

Basically, she had pizza for dinner and then got into action with the boyfriend almost immediately after consuming the pizza.

The boyfriend was behind her and moving a bit too hard and it resulted in her puking it all out on the bed when she tried to let out a burp.

Here is the story

“My boyfriend and I decided to have some ‘action’ last night as we had been on a hiatus for a period of time.

We started to get into the act with him moving from the back and at first I’m loving it and I managed to be satisfied a few times if you know what I mean.

After a couple minutes I noticed that I was getting a little burpy whenever he would move forward.

That really felt weird as I have never felt this way but whatever I want to enjoy myself.

I thought to myself that I will just burp it out, no big deal, right? WRONG!!

At that very second of me trying to let out the burp, he moved hard and all of a sudden my mouth is filled with literal chunks of the pizza I ate about 10 minutes before.

I quickly leaped out of bed and rushed to the bathroom but behold, the door from my room to my bathroom was locked so I had to completely back track and go around to the other entrance.

I spit out my puke in the toilet, washed up, and then went back into the bedroom.

I explained what happened and we decided to continue but in a different position so it wouldn’t happen again, completely ignoring the mess which I have created just a few minutes ago.”

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ACTOR WHO PLAYS HARRY POTTER’S DUMBLEDORE DIES AT AGE 82

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Remembering Michael Gambon: A Legendary Actor’s Journey

Introduction

Michael Gambon, best known for his portrayal of the wise professor Albus Dumbledore in the Harry Potter film series, has left an indelible mark on the world of acting. His recent passing at the age of 82 marked the end of an era in British cinema and theater. In this article, we’ll delve into the life and career of this extraordinary actor, from his humble beginnings in Dublin to his iconic roles on both stage and screen.

Early Life and Career

Michael John Gambon was born on October 19, 1940, in Dublin, Ireland, to a seamstress mother and an engineer father. At the age of six, his family relocated to Camden Town in London as his father sought employment in the city’s post-war reconstruction efforts. Despite starting an engineering apprenticeship at the tender age of 15, Gambon had always known he was destined for a different path – the path of acting. Inspired by American actors Marlon Brando and James Dean, he felt a connection to their portrayal of teenage angst, a sentiment that would resonate throughout his career.

The Breakthrough: A View From The Bridge

Gambon’s breakthrough came in 1980 when he delivered a remarkable performance in Bertolt Brecht’s “Life Of Galileo” at London’s National Theatre. This role garnered him praise from critics and peers alike. His portrayal mixed volcanic energy with tenderness, sensuality with intelligence, and showcased his extraordinary acting range. Peter Hall, the National Theatre’s artistic director at the time, described him as “unsentimental, dangerous, and immensely powerful.” Gambon’s transformation into the character was so convincing that fellow actors applauded him from dressing-room windows after the first night, an unprecedented tribute.

A View from the Bridge and Olivier Awards

Following his success in “Life Of Galileo,” Gambon continued to captivate audiences with his blend of vulnerability and visceral force. His portrayal of Eddie Carbone in Arthur Miller’s “A View From The Bridge” at the National Theatre in 1987 earned him an Olivier Award. Arthur Miller himself declared Gambon’s performance as the embattled longshoreman to be the best he had ever witnessed. Alan Ayckbourn, who directed the play, described Gambon as awe-inspiring and recalled moments when he could effortlessly convey intense emotions, whether it was tears or anger.

The Singing Detective and Television Success

The 1980s brought even wider recognition with Gambon’s role in the 1986 television series “The Singing Detective.” He played a writer suffering from a debilitating skin condition, and his imagination served as his sole escape from the pain. This performance earned him one of his four BAFTA awards. Gambon also received three Olivier Awards and two ensemble cast Screen Actors Guild Awards for his roles in “Gosford Park” (2001) and “The King’s Speech” (2010).

Honors and Mischievous Moments

Gambon’s contributions to the world of drama did not go unnoticed. He was made a Commander of the British Empire in 1992 and was knighted for his services to drama in 1998, although he chose not to use the title. Beyond his remarkable acting career, Gambon was known for his mischievous personality. He would often create fictional stories, like showing fellow actors a signed photograph of Robert De Niro that he had inscribed himself before ever meeting the American actor. In one memorable instance, he convinced his mother that he was friends with the Pope, showcasing his playful side.

Later Years and Legacy

In 2015, Gambon retired from the stage due to long-term memory problems, but he continued to grace the screen with his talent until 2019. Reflecting on his career in a 2002 interview, he expressed feeling like “the luckiest man in the world” because of his work. He shared his life with Anne Miller, whom he married in 1962, and they had a son. In later years, he also had another partner, set designer Philippa Hart, who was 25 years his junior, and together they had two children.

Conclusion

Michael Gambon’s journey from Dublin to becoming one of Britain’s greatest actors is a testament to his talent and dedication. His ability to bring characters to life with depth and authenticity left an indelible mark on the world of theater and film. As we bid farewell to this legendary actor, we remember the joy he brought to audiences worldwide.

3 MEN ARRESTED: CONFRONTATION AT UPPER CROSS STREET WITH SAMURAI SWORDS

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In a recent incident that unfolded on 27th September 2023, the Singaporean Police apprehended three individuals aged between 22 and 35 on charges of possessing scheduled weapons without lawful purpose. This startling incident occurred at approximately 4 am, when the Police received a distress call regarding a group of armed individuals at a local coffeeshop situated along Upper Cross Street. Preliminary investigations revealed that the altercation stemmed from a dispute between two groups of men. However, what followed was a cause for concern as one of the groups, consisting of the three arrested men, returned to the scene allegedly armed with weapons, leading to a tense confrontation with the other group.

The Arrest

Source: Singapore Police Force

The swift response of law enforcement was crucial in resolving this potentially dangerous situation. Through meticulous ground enquiries and the assistance of surveillance footage captured by Police cameras, officers from the Central Police Division were able to establish the identities of the three suspects. Subsequently, they were apprehended on the very same day. The evidence collected during the operation was equally compelling, as it included the confiscation of three katanas and a kukri, which were seized as case exhibits.

Legal Consequences

The trio is now slated to face charges in court on 29th September 2023 under Section 7(1) of the Corrosive and Explosive Substances and Offensive Weapons Act 1958. This section specifically pertains to the possession of scheduled weapons, and those found guilty could face severe legal consequences.

The Significance of This Arrest

The arrest of these individuals for the possession of scheduled weapons highlights the relentless efforts of the Singaporean Police to maintain law and order in the city-state. Possession of such weapons without lawful purpose poses a significant threat to public safety, and the authorities take this matter very seriously. This incident serves as a reminder that law enforcement is vigilant and committed to ensuring the safety of its citizens.

Source: Singapore Police Force

GIRL DABAO GUY BACK TO HOTEL, DIDN’T REALISE SHE WAS “VERY LOUD” & FRIENDS HEARD EVERYTHING

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One time I shocked my friends with how loud I was in bed (f19)

So earlier this year my friends and I went on a girls trip away, and they accidentally overheard some uh… let’s say “sounds”

That night we hit the town and the theme was “cowgirls”. We all went out dressed like cowgirls with the hats and everything and it was very fun.

The night goes on and we get pretty damn drunk. I met a guy at a bar who was a really cute and he managed to steal me off my friends for a while.

After some time talking with him and getting to know him I was pretty much glued to him for the rest of the night.

He bought me a ton of drinks and when we went outside we made out. I flirted with him a lot after that and asked him back to the hotel we were staying in.

He agreed and we went back and hooked up in my hotel room. The thing is, I was heavily intoxicated, and drunk me knows no limits.

Especially when it comes to noise levels. I’m naturally very loud in the bedroom but combine drunk me + loving it and you get a very noisy girl.

So me and this guy is getting it on and he’s hitting it good. I’m really liking it and getting into it. He’s hitting all the right spots and I’m enjoying every second. It gets hot and steamy, and after he finished, I finished.

That was that (or so I thought). He leaves early the next morning and I meet up with the girls again. They’re all giving me the eye, looking like they’re holding back laughter and I’m like “what?”.

That’s when they play the audio. They all came back drunk af together and they decided to record how loud I was being outside my door. It turns out drunk me is way louder than she thinks she’s being.

My friends all found it hilarious and were stunned that I was that loud. It must have been the main talking point for the next hour. It was all just a bit of fun though, I’m glad they enjoyed their free show.

WOMAN HAD LUNCH WITH MALE COLLEAGUE, JEALOUS HUSBAND CAN’T TAKE IT, EXPLODES

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I (34f) had lunch with male coworker (34m). Husband (35m) is furious.

Spoke to him on the phone during my quick morning break and said I’m really hungry today – the weather always makes me eat more!

Told him I might grab a sandwich at lunchtime and he suggested getting something hot from a cafe. Then spotted a male colleague at the school I work at and he asked if I fancied lunch at the cafe, another female colleague would be joining us.

I said yes – stomach was growling and I’m not one to sit in a cafe by myself anyway.

Lunchtime, female coworker changed her mind so me and male colleague popped down and ate (his wife teaches at the same school but she didn’t fancy coming as she had stuff to catch up on).

Great lunch, a good natter, happy days! Finished work, and my husband called me, asked who I had lunch with – I said someone dropped out so me and male colleague went anyway.

He had a massive strop, hung up on me, called me back to carry on having a go at me (eg. “Does his wife know you went for lunch together?!” And I said “yes? Of course she does”)

It was a quick half hour in a busy cafe with a hot chocolate and a panini – I was honest, no reason to lie, but sort of wish I had.

Have I crossed some sort of line by having a bite to eat with my colleague?? Be honest, I am happy to apologise for being in the wrong, but I just didn’t read that much into it and my husband clearly has… and now I’m wondering if he’s projecting.

Things were rocky lately anyway, and it feels like everything I do is wrong these days.

Once again, I just wanted unbiased opinions, I guess; my friends would be on my side regardless but I WANT to hear if I’m the one in the wrong here!! I had such a lovely day, not just lunch but at work in general and it just feels ruined now!

COMPANY HIRED FREELANCER THEN REFUSED TO PAY HIM FOR HIS WORK, DRAG & DRAG PAYMENT

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Small business owners/managers and their egos

I’m not sure if this is a common experience for freelancers but just want to rant on 2 recent experiences I had:

Service-based business, middle manager reached out to my cold call for help with his “complicated accounting system” (it’s Microsoft Excel VBA and each retail shop has its own Excel file). Work was done, but the fella kept dragging payment. Only when I gave him deadline before I file for Small Claims Court then he paid up, but not before asking for a discount.

Retail shop owner looking for help with his broken website (it’s WordPress, namoamitabha), we met up at a McDonald’s. I told him I was in an SIM tee, and he spent 5 minutes pretending not to see me despite me being the only guy with that tee in the restaurant.

Called him on mobile and he finally acknowledged the reality. First thing he asked was “oh you from SIM?”, and I explained to him I graduated from university more than a decade ago, and it was a free t-shirt. End up after discussion, he went to DIY fix his site with Wix.

No hard feelings on the meetup since no work was agreed on and it was just a preliminary discussion, but it was certainly really weird.

That said though, I have had positive work experiences with other people. Just find a certain demographic of people being really weird/egoistic with their business plans. I wonder if this is a common thing in SG?

Netizens’ comments

  1. I mean go for biz meeting probably don’t wear you SIM tee would be best especially if you are no longer a student there. It’s all about image, your client probably don’t take you seriously that’s why jerk you around.
    Imagine someone show up for job interview in SAF t-shirt, similar feeling.
    Just my opinion do what you like.
  2. I think it’s about creating respect and boundaries while being professional. Of course you need to be good in your work and provide a service they need.
    If you lower the customer qualification criteria just to get more jobs then eventually all you get are those customers.
    This kind of ego and behaviour happened even in MNC or with “educated” folks it’s an individual behaviour thing not a company thing. But when you qualify them then you are less likely to deal with such folks and also can produce better quality of work since the client also knows what they want.

DANGEROUS JOBS IN S’PORE THAT PAY VERY WELL, NO NEED DEGREES & EASY HIRE

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Dangerous jobs in SG that pay extremely well

No need degree, just risk your life can bring in at least 4k+ each month. Easy hire. Any suggestions? No SAF/SPF/SCDF

Netizens’ comments

  1. Commercial diver
    • This is true. I know people who’ve done very well for themselves in this trade.
      • But it’s long hour at random timing depending on project. In Singapore the pay is not that good unless you go offshore. And the cert cost a bomb. About 20k?
        • This is also true. But you don’t need high academic achievement for this trade. And you can exit quite rich. Provided if you save well
  2. Oil rig worker. No need higher qualifications, very long shifts out at sea with no immediate medical help but pay is good.
    • Would you recommend for a female to join?
      • It’s doable but you need to be okay with very traditional male dominated work cultures. O&G guys are stereotypically muscular jocks who like rough and tough stuff.
        Also for some reason, all the girls in the industry are very stereotypically attractive. I think the industry attracts the alpha personalities.
      • I wouldn’t recommend it to anybody, male or female. It’s a very tough job and the majority of people quit within 2 years due to social isolation and mental fatigue. You have to be desperate to do it.
        Plus global oil dependence won’t last long, there’s going to be alot of rigs closing down once renewable energy production scales up over the next 2 decades. Some will still remain open to supply the raw feedstock for chemicals and other manufactured goods, but the bulk of oil jobs will be gone.
  3. my friend, was a guardsmen for ns. after ord, rappel off building to clean window. 6.5k a mth, 8-5, No cleaning at night due to visibility safety, too windy also cannot clean, rain also cannot clean.
    • This one like solid eh where to sign up
  4. Diver, underwater welder
  5. I used to work on offshore oil rigs. Pays well. Crews on boats and ships pay well too.
  6. High raise building window cleaner, don’t need degree but need certificate…
    Class 4/5 driver
    Construction equipment operator (especially those involving heights)
    Demotion Specialist
    Work involving ships or oil rig maintenance or going up the shop/vessel/rig when it’s moving
  7. Ship cleaner/painter. 10k per trip.
  8. The issue with all these high risk jobs is that you can only do them when you are young. Commercial divers usually stop in the 40s. I know one who quit in his 40s after he lost most of his hearing and has to now rely on a hearing aid. He works in an office job now.
    • You need to plan for a second career if you work in one of these dangerous jobs because they cannot sustain you until retirement.
  9. Security on commercial ships. 9k+ for a mostly mundane job if I heard right
    • Not sure but the people I know who got it were referred by other people so it seems like a “networking” position. Most time they say the sea is boring cos there’s no wifi and not much to guard but in the event that there are pirates, well then that’s a different story. High risk, high financial reward. A lot of money changes hands in international waters.
  10. can try oil and gas companies in jurong island (technicians and such), with ot pay easily can reach 4k. think most of them trying to hire ppl, cause no sg’reans wanna travel to JI