I was getting ready to go play a round of golf with my partner. I had heard about the game from a few of my friends and wanted to give it a try. Little did I know, my partner had a few tricks up his sleeve that would make for an interesting afternoon.

My partner had purchased a whip for golfing a few days before and was eager to show it off. He had told me it was a great way to practice my golf swing.

Little did I know, he had a plan that would require me to use the whip in a much different way.

When we arrived at the golf course, my partner told me to take a few swings with the whip. He said it would help me get a feel for the motion of a golf swing and make me more comfortable when I was on the course. I was a bit hesitant, but I trusted my partner and decided to give it a try.

So, I started to swing. It felt awkward at first, but I was getting the hang of it. I was about to take my fourth swing when my partner said, “Let’s try something different.” He positioned himself infront me and told me to swing the whip as hard as I could.

I was a bit confused, but I figured he knew what he was doing.

Little did I know, my partner had tricked me. As soon as I took my swing, he shifted his position and the whip caught him right in the behind. I couldn’t believe it! He had tricked me into whipping him!

We both laughed hysterically. It was one of the most memorable rounds of golf we’d ever played.

After that, we started to practice our golf swings with the whip every time we went to the golf course. It became a fun way to test our skills and a great way to break up the monotony of golfing.

My partner’s trick may have been a bit unorthodox, but it definitely made for a memorable experience. I’m glad he was brave enough to try something new and I’m glad I was able to laugh it off.

I guess he was hinting me to take things in the bed room to the next level.

When I think back to the moment my girlfriend revealed she was actually trans, my stomach still drops. It was the night we had just taken our relationship to the next level and slept together for the first time.

We had been together for a few months and had been taking things slowly as we got to know each other better. We were both looking for something serious and had made a pact, to be honest and open with each other if things were going to work.

At first, I was hesitant to take that step. I’d never dated someone who was trans before, and I was unsure of how to react. But I decided to take the plunge and just go for it.

The night we slept together was magical. We laughed and talked until the early hours of the morning. We felt so close and connected, I knew this was something special.

But that was something wrong, she said that we need to buy lub as she cannot get wet.

It was only when I was about to drift off to sleep that my girlfriend whispered to me that she was actually trans. She had been living as her true self for a few years and only ever shared this part of her life with a few close friends.

My heart stopped. I had been so caught up in the moment, I had forgotten that this person I was lying next to was different. I didn’t know how to respond.

But as I lay there, I had a moment of clarity. I realized that I had to accept her for who she was. I was in love with her, and that meant accepting her trans identity.

I told her that I loved her and that nothing she could say would change that. I hugged her tight, and we both fell asleep in each other’s arms.

The next day, I was still trying to process what had happened. I felt a little overwhelmed, We talked about what this meant for us and our relationship.

Although it was a lot to take in, I was more certain than ever that this was what I wanted.

My friends always joke that she looked like one but I did not expect her to really be one.

I don’t know what to do…

My daughter, who had always been a mature, responsible child, had suddenly begun to act out of character. She was sneaking out of the house and coming home late. And I had a feeling that she was seeing someone behind my back.

I had to do something. I had to take action. So I decided to hire a private investigator.

I had heard stories of overprotective fathers before, but I never thought I would become one. But I felt like I had no other choice. My daughter was making decisions that I didn’t approve of and I had to figure out what was going on.

I was nervous about what I might find out, but I felt like I had to do something. I had to know who she was seeing and why she was doing these things.

I started my research and eventually found a private investigator who seemed reputable and experienced. I hired him and asked him to look into my daughter’s activities.

That was a few weeks ago and now I’m still waiting for the results. I’m anxious to find out who my daughter is seeing and what she is up to.

The private investigator has been sending me regular updates and so far he has found out that my daughter is seeing a boy who is a few years older than her. He also discovered that the boy had a criminal record and had been arrested for a few minor crimes.

This was a huge red flag for me and I was furious that my daughter was seeing such a person. I was determined to find out more about him and his intentions with my daughter.

The private investigator had also discovered that the boy had a history of cheating on his girlfriends. This was further confirmation that he wasn’t a suitable partner for my daughter.

I was relieved to know that my daughter was safe from this boy and that she had not been in any physical danger. However, I was still concerned about the emotional and psychological effects of dating a person with a criminal record.

I had a long talk with my daughter and warned her about the dangers of dating someone like that. I told her that she should stay away from this boy and find someone who was more suitable.

My daughter was understanding and promised that she would stay away from him. She ran back to her room and cried.

I don’t know if I did the right thing or was I over protective?

I’ve been clubbing for years and have seen it all. From the guys who think they’re hotshots, to the ones who just want to have a good time.

Losers

But lately, I’ve noticed something that’s been bothering me: more and more people are going to clubs just because they think they can get lucky.

These clubbing “losers” as I call them, will spend hours buying drinks, chatting up girls, and showing off in front of the dancefloor. But the sad thing is, they’ll never actually leave with anyone. It’s like they think that by going to the club they can magically become attractive and get away with it.

I can’t help but think that these people are wasting their time and money. Why would anyone go to a club just to get lucky? It’s like they don’t understand that you have to actually put in the effort to make a connection.

For starters, looks play a huge role in attraction. If you don’t dress to impress then you’re not going to have much luck in the club. You have to be well-groomed, wear something that suits you, and have a good attitude.

Also, it’s important to be confident and outgoing. If you don’t have the courage to talk to someone, then the chances of them wanting to talk to you are slim. It’s all about having the right body language and making eye contact.

But perhaps the most important thing is to be genuine.

Don’t try to be someone you’re not. Don’t try to get too close, too soon. Just be yourself and let the conversation flow naturally.

At the end of the day, going to the club just to get lucky is a waste of time. It’s like going to a job interview without any qualifications. You need to prepare yourself and be confident if you want to succeed.

So if you’re thinking about going to the club with the sole intention of getting lucky, don’t. You’ll only end up disappointed. Put in the effort and you might be surprised at what you can accomplish.

My curiosity got the better of me and I decided to check out the infamous Geylang area in Singapore.

I heard stories of how the area was notorious for prostitution and other illegal activities. As soon as I arrived, I was bombarded by middle-aged men (papa-san) offering me “one shot” sex for $50 at Lorong 18. I was stunned and immediately felt uncomfortable.

I had no idea that these kinds of activities were so openly advertised. To my surprise, I also noticed a few younger guys offering the same services for double the price. They called it “dating”, but it was basically the same thing.

I decided to take a closer look around the area and noticed that there were a lot of signs advertising “special services”. I didn’t know what these services were and wasn’t sure if I wanted to find out. I was also surprised to see so many women, ranging from young teens to middle-aged women, hanging around the area.

I later found out that the “special services” were actually prostitution. There were even signs that said “1 shot $50, date $100 and you might get nothing”.

I started talking to some of the people around the area and discovered that prostitution is actually quite a normal thing in Geylang. I was surprised to learn that the women were not coerced into this kind of activity and that they actually enjoyed it.

I also learned that the “1 shot $50, date $10-$200 and you might get nothing” was a way of saying that it’s cheaper to go Geylang than to date a girl.

Although, there is some truth in the statement. I don’t think it is healthy.

23 Years Old and $45k in Credit Card Debt – Seeking Advice please.

Hi, Never thought id be writing this sadly but here we go. I’m a 23-year-old who’s in a bit of a tough spot financially. I’ve accumulated $45,000 in credit card debt over the years, and it’s starting to become overwhelming. I’m looking for advice on how to handle this situation and get my finances back on track.

Some background: I’ve been using credit cards and have always paid the minimum balance each month. However, over time, my debt has grown, and now I’m at the point where i havent been making any payments for almost 30 days.

I am an entrepreneur I’ve been running my own business (registered LLC) for the past four years, which has been a bit of a rollercoaster financially.

Started off excellent but Unfortunately, about a year and a half ago, due to the COVID pandemic, and personal health issues my net revenue went from $100,000 yearly to a grand or 2 a month. ( i take full accountability).

I have 7 cards total with 45k worth of debt. I’m considering a few different options, such as debt consolidation or bankruptcy, but I’m not sure what the best course of action is.

I do have a few wealthy relatives with perfect credit and assets. My Actual income right now is next to nothing. 0 assets. Barely anything in my bank account. Crazy how quick things can change.

My skills/ accomplishments/ education:

-degree from a reputable university

-I am extremely skilled at sales and marketing

-Started 2 businesses and grew them from 0-100k in profit (i know this doesn’t matter now just throwing it out there)

Bottom line: I have nothing against getting a job or working for someone else but I have proven myself in the past which has me feeling really bad about where I am. Any advice or insight would be greatly appreciated. I don’t want to destroy my future. Thanks in advance for your help.

FWB falls asleep after he finishes in me, mixed feelings

I’m a 28 y.o female, but I was raised conservatively so I didn’t know what it was like to have a FWB until very recently. I know this puts me far behind the curve, but it is what it is.

Even more recently I started letting him finish inside me, but every time he does that he falls asleep very fast.

He says it’s because it feels better this way and I love feeling and hearing him while he’s ejaculating, but immediately after he goes from super passionate/animalistic to fast asleep in a minute and I’m not sure how I feel about that

I don’t know how to bring this up without ruining the mood or honestly even what to say, to be honest he’s quite out of my league, he is mind blowing in bed compared to anything I’ve had before, so I don’t want him to distance himself from me. But I would be lying if I said it didn’t bother me at all…..

Netizens’ comments

1. You mentioned it was mind blowing so it sounds like he’s at least pleasuring you too right? It would be different if he were selfish but it sounds like a good time. Many comments are saying “men are just like that” As a woman I’ve passed out after as well especially when it was too good and intense.
2. Men metabolise oxytocin really quickly and the sensation after it’s been metabolised is fatigue. Take it as a compliment but it’s also biological.
3. Be extremely proud of yourself! You knocked him out cold. That’s a good thing. He is not being insensitive as it is literally extremely draining. When he wakes up, he should be a soft and sweet teddy bear before Godzilla returns.
4. You should take that as an incredible compliment. That being said what are you hoping to get out of him not falling asleep? Are you not getting satisfied and need more?
5. If you don’t feel satisfied, you should set up a little system where he satisfies you first, through oral or otherwise.
6. I actually came on top of my BF once, we were both a bit drunk and it was late. It ended up with me fallin asleep on top with him still inside (he had not finished and got compensated next day). It actually felt good and both of us felt it was a cosy experience. Is it because he is FWB that you don’t appreciate it since you become more intimate?

My workplace used to be very toxic. My manager always gaslighted my colleagues and I just so he could slack and push blame.

Senior colleague feedback to higher management, but they choose to believe the manager

One of my senior colleague sounded out many times to higher management that my manager is not leading the team properly. I also heard stories of past employees sounding out too but got no response or improvement.

Higher management always get swayed by my manager’s words and believed all of us are lying just because my manager is harder to replace than all of us combined.

My department is known to be the worst in my company and in the past, when some employees heard that they are transferring there, they resigned.

Manager then found out senior colleague complain him, he psycho higher management to give him two warning letters

My manager caught wind of who ratted him out, and he managed to convince higher management to give my senior colleague two warning letters in 3 months.

My senior colleague who didn’t want to risk a third warning letter that would lead to his discharge, decided to resign. My manager was shocked but tried to play it off, saying “Leave then leave lah! There are always more people to hire.”

Senior colleague left, then we all left because we don’t want handle the unreasonable workload

The next day when I realised the unreasonable workload he had would be passed down to me, I immediately handed in my resignation letter too.

My manager tried to convince me to stay by telling me that they are hiring more staffs and that I will be leading the team and learning more stuff and tell me to take a day to reconsider and gave me back my letter.

The talk lasted for 2.5 hours. I didn’t give him face and submitted my letter at the end of the day. The day after my submission of resignation letter, my another colleague heard about it and submitted his too.

So in the span of 3 months, a team of 4(excluding manager) turned into a team of 1(excluding manager).

In the end manager need to do everything, then he realised its tough and left

Manager complained the workload is too stressful and he couldn’t handle it so he started going for job interviews.

He found a job and convinced the last guy in our team to change jobs with him, leaving the team without employees.

Company lost contract because can’t fulfill deadlines, management now realised they are out of touch with the ground

Higher management had to scramble to find new employees. But due to being unable to fulfill contract commitments, the department lost the contract.

This is what they get for believing in a liar and being biased.