I’ve worked in the banking industry for over seven years now and I’m here to tell you, it’s not all it’s cracked up to be. From the outside looking in, it seems like a prestigious and well-respected career path. But, I’m here to tell you, there’s a lot of scandalous things going on behind the scenes.

It’s not uncommon to find employees who are cheating the system or taking advantage of their positions. From back-room deals to taking bribes, I’ve seen it all.

There are also the people who use their positions to get away with questionable behavior. It’s not unheard of for people to be caught drinking on the job or engaging in inappropriate behavior with clients.

And then there are the late night drunken rave parties. They’re not exactly part of the job description, but it’s something that happens. It’s not uncommon for employees to blow off some steam after a long day at the office with a few drinks and some loud music.

I’ve seen firsthand how some of these parties can get out of hand. I’ve seen employees doing illegal stuff overseas, getting into fights, and even engaging in adult activities. It’s not exactly the kind of behavior you want to be associated with your job.

In my experience, the banking industry is full of people who are out for themselves. They don’t care about the customers or the people around them.

They’re out to make a quick buck, no matter the cost.

It’s also a competitive field. Everyone is out to get ahead and make more money. As a result, there’s a lot of backstabbing, gossiping, and other questionable behavior going on.

It’s not like the banking industry is unique in this regard. Every industry has its bad apples. But, it’s important to keep in mind that the banking industry is a lot more visible than most.

When you think about it, the banking industry is a prime example of why it’s important to be careful when you’re choosing a career path. From the outside, it may seem like a great opportunity. But, once you get a closer look, you can see how it can quickly become a cesspool of scandal and questionable behavior.

Stay true to yourself or you will get influenced into becoming a bad apple yourself.

I haven’t been able to slow down until now, I can’t think clearly, I can’t understand. All along, in the eyes of everyone, he is the one who treats me well and wishes he could give me the whole world. He is also very diligent in his work, down-to-earth and kind-hearted. He is a very positive and bloody man, and he looks handsome, The skin is very fair, and the small mouth is very cute. Although he is 30 years old this year, he looks like a young man in his 20s. Maybe it is because of his naturally good skin, which even I envy.

I met him on League of Legends, so I added him because I liked him more, but there is no shortage of men around me, because we are in the same city, after chatting for a while.

He later learned the company where I worked and he asked the florist to send a box of flowers as a surprise.

At that time, I mistakenly thought it was sent by someone else. Later he asked me out for dinner. I was not a hypocritical person, I was very open-minded, and I would not refuse people who came to chat with me. I am not an inexperienced girl, so it is more than enough to protect myself under any circumstances.

When we first met, I felt that there was really no common language, and we couldn’t talk together, but I didn’t leave immediately because of politeness, and I also thought he was a sincere and kind man, with no bad intentions. Such a temperament is still cute in my opinion place. I met him a few times later, and I felt that he was a very good character.

We went to the bar to play with his friends. If he had bad intentions, he would persuade me to drink alcohol or do things like that, but he didn’t, and he protected me very well, even if I drink too much and rest on his shoulder, he is still unmoved, but everyone can see that he likes me, and he will send me home every time he goes out to play no matter how late , until one time when I was a little drunk and having a good conversation, he looked at me warmly in the car and said let me think about being his girlfriend, then he kissed me and sent me home, because he cherished me With respect, I once wondered if he had a physical problem.

So when he was driving, he teased him several times. He was very flustered, bright and shy like an unworldly boy, which made me feel like a veteran of the rivers and lakes, but he kept saying that there was nothing wrong with him. One day, my beastly behavior decided to thoroughly investigate and instigate him to open a room.

Controlling

But he is a small-minded man. After being with him, I hardly have any friends of the opposite sex. Of course, I also feel that there is no need, no leisure, and no interest in talking to others. 

But he still control me very closely, and questions a lot of my past love history.

When I was making out with him he would say some vulgar words or mention my past affairs. I resisted in my heart and felt a little abnormal, but I felt that he would be more excited and in a better state when he said it, so I gradually got used to it without resistance. Afterwards, he would also tell me not to take what he said during the intimacy. Until today, I don’t think he has repeatedly refreshed my view of him. I really don’t know how to define him for a man who once seemed so innocent and kind.

I bought a new mobile phone, and I gave him my old phone, so he used two mobile phones. When I cleaned up the data, I left a fingerprint and didn’t delete it. Although I know a hundred ways to pry into other people’s privacy, I don’t want to use any of them. But I know that he once used my finger to unlock and peek at my phone while I was asleep, and this was a trick I said as a joke, but fortunately, my style is magnanimous and it’s okay to be peeked at.

Because recently he took pictures with his mobile phone while we were making out, and I didn’t resist. When he was cooking, I picked up his mobile phone to see what was taken.

Wechat, and there was a chat record with a man in it, but I suddenly discovered that he actually chatted with that man in the identity of me, and send my photos to random men saying that he is me in the photo.

I don’t know what to do, I know if I make it big he will spread the photos all around the world.

I never thought I’d be in this position. It all started off so innocently. I was married to the woman of my dreams, and we had a beautiful home together.

We had been married for years and I thought everything was perfect. Little did I know, she had been planning to take my money and run off with another guy.

It started when my wife began to demand more and more of my salary. She wanted me to give her the majority of my earnings each month, leaving me with just $300 to survive on. I reluctantly agreed, thinking it would only be for a short time.

But as the months went by, my wife’s demands became more and more unreasonable. She would take my whole paycheck every month, leaving me with nothing. I was forced to borrow money from friends and family just to survive.

I felt like I was trapped in a never-ending cycle of debt.

When I confronted my wife about her behaviour, she became defensive and refused to listen. I tried to explain that I couldn’t keep living like this, but she didn’t seem to care. She just kept taking my money and spending it on whatever she wanted.

I finally realized I had to do something drastic. I told my wife that I was going to get a second job and take back control of my finances. She warned me not to, but I didn’t listen. I got a second job and started saving my money.

But it was too late. My wife had already made her plans. She took my money and ran off with another guy. I felt helpless and betrayed. I had worked so hard to provide for her, and in the end she took my money and ran away.

I was left with nothing. I was forced to move back in with my parents, and I had to start from scratch. I had to beg for money just to survive. I felt like my life was falling apart.

A word of wisdom for those who are married out there, keep your finances seperated.

 I had been happily married to my husband for a few years now. We had a wonderful relationship and both felt very content in our lives. But lately, something strange had been happening. My husband had started taking regular trips to Johor Bahru.

He would tell me that he was going to pump petrol and then come back, but I had a feeling that he was doing something else.

Every time he came back from his trips, he would have over SGD$500 in cash and return with almost nothing. I suspected that he was visiting sleazy massage parlours and other such places. I was worried about what he was doing and why he was lying to me about it.

One day, I decided to confront him about it. I asked him what he was doing in JB and why he was coming back with so much cash. He was taken aback and didn’t seem to want to answer my questions. He tried to change the subject but I persisted.

He kept quiet so I decided to plant an Apple tag in his car and I finally have the evidence to confront him. What EMPEROR SPA ?!

Finally, he confessed that he had been visiting massage parlours and other such places. He said that he had been doing it for a while now and that he was sorry for not being honest with me. He said that he felt ashamed and embarrassed to tell me the truth.

We had a long talk about it and I made it clear that I wouldn’t tolerate any more lies. He promised that he wouldn’t lie to me again and that he would never go back to those places.

But he still wants to go JB to pump petrol. What should I do? I can’t follow him every single time I have my life and job too.

I am so over friends that always want to borrow money from me at the end of the month.

Every month, it’s the same thing. They call me up, begging for cash to buy alcohol, and I just can’t take it anymore.

It’s not just the fact that they’re asking me for money; it’s the fact that they’re asking me for money to buy alcohol. They always say they’ll pay me back, but it never happens.

It’s like they think I’m the only person in the world who can just hand out money.

I’m not against people drinking, but I’m against people who rely on other people to fund their drinking. It’s like they think it’s OK to use me as an ATM every month. I’ve talked to them about it and they just shrug it off. They think it’s funny and I’m the one with the problem.

It’s so frustrating because these are supposed to be my friends. They should know that I’m not made of money. I have a job, bills to pay, and a life to live. I don’t have extra money to be handing out every month.

And it’s not just the money. I’ve noticed that when they’re drunk, they have a tendency to get aggressive and make bad decisions. I’ve had to bail them out of a few bad situations and it’s not fun. Plus, they’re always hung over the next day and it’s really annoying.

I’ve tried to be understanding and let it slide, but I’m done. I’m sick of being taken advantage of and I’m done with it. I’m done with the constant requests for money, the drunken escapades, and the hangovers.

I’m done with friends that always want to lend money at the end of the month to drink. It’s not a sustainable lifestyle and I’m not going to be part of it anymore. From now on, if they want to buy alcohol, they’re going to have to find someone else to lend them the money.

I can still remember the day like it was yesterday. I had just returned home after a long day at work and was looking forward to a quiet evening.

My son had other plans.

My son had been dating his girlfriend for a few months and had become increasingly obsessed with her. He would spend hours texting and talking to her, and it was starting to take up all his time. I had warned him multiple times to be careful with his finances, but he always brushed me off.

That evening, I noticed something strange. My wallet, which I usually keep in my bedroom, was missing. But reappeared after a few hours.

I received a transaction SMS on my phone and found out that some one had used my credit card to buy an expensive item.

It did not take long to find out that my son had stolen my credit card and had used it to buy an iPhone for his girlfriend.

I was livid. I immediately called him and confronted him about the theft. He had no intention of apologizing and instead tried to blame me for not providing him with the money he needed to buy the phone. I was so angry that I told him to leave the house and never come back.

The next couple of weeks were a blur. I was so embarrassed and ashamed that my son had done something so irresponsible. I felt like I had failed him as a parent and had let him down.

I tried to contact him multiple times, but he never responded. I eventually learned that he had moved in with his girlfriend and was living off of my credit card. I was devastated.

My son’s actions had consequences beyond just my wallet. He had been kicked out of his school and lost all of his friends. He had also let down his girlfriend, who was now living with him in a cramped apartment with no money.