I made the biggest mistake of my life when I decided to marry a rich man. I was never in love with him; I just saw him as an opportunity to make a better life for myself.

I was naive and desperate, and I thought it would be easy to take his money and have a good time.

Lived the high life, then started to fool around

I married him and immediately had access to all his wealth. He trusted me with his money, and I took advantage of that. I would go out with my friends and buy expensive gifts for myself. I was living the high life, and I loved it.

Unfortunately, I wasn’t satisfied with just spending my husband’s money. I started to have affairs with other men. I would go out with them and use my husband’s money to pay for our dates. I thought I was getting away with it, but I was wrong.

My husband eventually found out about my affairs and the money I was spending. He was furious and demanded a divorce. I was devastated, but I knew I deserved it. I had taken advantage of his trust and loyalty, and I had to face the consequences.

The divorce was long and painful. My husband took back all the money I had stolen from him, and I was forced to start from scratch. I had to move back in with my parents and work hard to make ends meet.

I had made so many mistakes, and I was paying for them. I had thought that marrying a rich man would make me happy and give me a better life, but I had been wrong. I was now poorer than ever and had to live with the guilt of what I had done.

At least I had learned my lesson. I had seen first-hand how easy it was to take advantage of someone and how much damage it could do. From now on, I would never make the same mistake again

My friend has been obsessed with finding a girlfriend for what seems like forever. Every time we were out together, he was looking for someone to talk to, thinking he had a chance with them.

It was like he was in his own little bubble, and no matter how many times he got rejected, he never seemed to learn his lesson.

He became a simp, doing anything as long as the girl asks

At first, I thought it was kind of cute and I was rooting for him. He was always so hopeful and optimistic that he would find someone he liked, and I wanted him to succeed.

But as time went on, his behavior only got worse. He started to become desperate and would do anything to get a girl to talk to him, even if it was totally inappropriate or desperate.

I started to get worried that he was going to get hurt, but he just wouldn’t listen. He kept saying that he was sure he could find someone if he just kept looking.

But then one day, it all changed. It turns out that the girls he was talking to weren’t interested in him at all. They were just using him for free meals and transport.

He was so embarrassed and angry that he didn’t want to talk about it. He just wanted to forget about it and move on.

But it was too late. The damage had already been done. He had wasted so much of his time trying to find someone who would never care about him.

Never ever learnt his lesson

After a while when he got over his heartbreak, he told us that he would be more wary about the girls he is meeting and he will not simp over a girl anymore but it seems like he had not learnt his lesson.

He still goes all out for any girl who he thinks he has a chance with and even though some of the girls had called him out for being creepy or desperate, he is still not giving up.

I had always been suspicious of my husband’s comings and goings, but I never expected to find out that he was lying to me about money.

For years, he had been saying he was broke, and yet every time he went out to drink with his friends, he somehow managed to come up with enough money to pay for his share and even at times pay for everyone’s drinks.

Took money from our joint account to pay for drinks

At first, I took it as a one off, but as I noticed the pattern repeating itself over and over again, I started to get suspicious. I began to investigate, and after a few weeks, I had managed to piece together what was really going on.

My husband, it turned out, had been using money from our joint account to fund his nights out with his friends. Every time he went out, he withdrew a large sum of money from the account, and then replaced it the following day.

He had managed to stay one step ahead of me by never going over our agreed limit, but it was still enough to cause us serious financial problems.

I confronted him about it, but he just laughed and told me that I was being ridiculous. He said that I was making too much of a big deal out of it, and that he was just having a bit of fun with his friends. I was furious, but he refused to take me seriously.

It was then that I decided to take matters into my own hands. I had worked hard to build up our savings, and I wasn’t going to let him blow it all away on nights out.

I took all of the remaining money from the joint account and transferred it into a new account in my name only.

Could not pay for drinks afterwards and his friends soon excluded him

The next few times he went out with his friends, he had no money to pay for their drinks because he could not draw any money. His friends were angry, and soon started to turn on him.

They accused him of taking advantage of them and of lying to them, and eventually they chased him away.

My husband never returned to the pub after that. He was embarrassed and ashamed, and it was obvious that he felt guilty for what he had done.

I would tease my wife about her growing waistline, and she would laugh it off and joke back. I never expected it to become a serious problem, but here we are.

Scared that my ‘kkj’ will break whenever we do it

My wife has grown too fat that whenever she rides me, I fear that my ‘kkj’ will break. It’s not that I don’t still find her attractive; I do.

But the weight has created a problem. It’s not just my ‘kkj’ of my penis breaking; it’s also that her weight makes it difficult for us to get into certain positions.

At first, I tried to ignore it. I tried to pretend it wasn’t a problem and just enjoy the moment. But I couldn’t ignore it forever. I had to face the reality of the situation.

So, I sat my wife down and told her how I was feeling. I told her that I was worried about my ‘kkj’ breaking, but more importantly, I told her that her weight was making it difficult for us to enjoy doing it in the way we used to.

Luckily she understood my concerns

My wife was surprisingly understanding about the issue, when I thought she would scold me for picking on her. She was embarrassed that her weight had caused this issue, but she was determined to do something about it. She promised to start a diet and an exercise regimen, and she kept her word.

Within a few months, my wife had dropped a significant amount of weight. We could now enjoy doing it in the ways we had before. But, more importantly, I no longer had to worry about my ‘kkj’ breaking.

It’s been a few years since then, and my wife has managed to keep the weight off. We’ve both learned the importance of healthy eating and exercise, and we’re both much happier for it.

My wife’s weight gain wasn’t an issue I ever expected to have to deal with, but I’m glad we did. We’ve both learned the importance of taking care of our bodies and our health, and I’m grateful that we were able to work through the issue together.

Now, we can enjoy doing it without the fear of my ‘kkj’ breaking.

My friend and I had been close since childhood. We shared a lot of interests, and we were often mistaken for brothers. We did everything together, from playing sports to going out for lunch.

But lately, things had been different. Whenever I asked my friend to hang out, he would always say that he was too busy.

Always free whenever girls ask him because he is a ‘ji hong’

At first, I didn’t think much of it. I figured he was just busy with work or school, and that it was understandable that he couldn’t always make it out.

But then, I started to notice something strange. Whenever a girl asked my friend to hang out, he would always be readily available. He would even make plans to go out with them, and he would never turn them down.

I started to get suspicious. I asked a few of my friends if they had noticed anything strange, and they confirmed what I had been thinking.

The male friends have tried to ask him out but if it was not for anything interesting, he would also say that he is busy but whenever a female friend or even acquaintance asks him out, he would always say yes.

Sometimes, he would even pangseh us halfway just to go and meet whichever female asked him to meet even if it was just for half an hour.

It was clear that my friend was clearly giving the girls more attention than he was giving the guy friends of him.

Its like he think that he can get something out of the females.

Defended himself and remained delusional about his actions

I disturbed him about it one day, but he denied that he was doing anything wrong. He said that he was just being friendly, and that he is not those type of hoes over bros person.

I laughed it off and thought deep inside me that such an explanation was clearly bullsh-t and decided that this was not a worthy friend to keep.

Its worse when he cannot see that the girls are using him.