My friend and I had been close since childhood. We shared a lot of interests, and we were often mistaken for brothers. We did everything together, from playing sports to going out for lunch.

But lately, things had been different. Whenever I asked my friend to hang out, he would always say that he was too busy.

Always free whenever girls ask him because he is a ‘ji hong’

At first, I didn’t think much of it. I figured he was just busy with work or school, and that it was understandable that he couldn’t always make it out.

But then, I started to notice something strange. Whenever a girl asked my friend to hang out, he would always be readily available. He would even make plans to go out with them, and he would never turn them down.

I started to get suspicious. I asked a few of my friends if they had noticed anything strange, and they confirmed what I had been thinking.

The male friends have tried to ask him out but if it was not for anything interesting, he would also say that he is busy but whenever a female friend or even acquaintance asks him out, he would always say yes.

Sometimes, he would even pangseh us halfway just to go and meet whichever female asked him to meet even if it was just for half an hour.

It was clear that my friend was clearly giving the girls more attention than he was giving the guy friends of him.

Its like he think that he can get something out of the females.

Defended himself and remained delusional about his actions

I disturbed him about it one day, but he denied that he was doing anything wrong. He said that he was just being friendly, and that he is not those type of hoes over bros person.

I laughed it off and thought deep inside me that such an explanation was clearly bullsh-t and decided that this was not a worthy friend to keep.

Its worse when he cannot see that the girls are using him.

I remember the time when I was a kid. Back then, we had to bring our own lunch boxes to school and eat whatever our mums packed for us.

We never had the luxury of eating out or ordering from a restaurant. We were always content with whatever we had in our lunch boxes, and none of us ever felt deprived.

Shocked to see Primary school kids having money for Astons

But today, as I went to have a meal at Astons, I saw a few children in their Primary School uniform head to Astons and it is not just one or two of them but a whole bunch of them.

I was taken aback. How could the kids afford to eat here given that the prices at Astons had also increased as compared to ten years ago?

I began to wonder how much their parents had gave them for their allowances for them to be able to come in and order whatever they want.

We are talking about a price of almost $10 a meal and that is quite a bit for a Primary School kid.

These kids were also behaving like tyrants, disrespectful to the old aunty serving them

These children were also behaving like little tyrants, making a lot of noise and disturbing the otherwise peaceful atmosphere in the restaurant.

They were running up and down and also misbehaving and making fun of the old aunty that was serving them.

I begin to wonder how would these children ever learn the proper etiquette for interacting with people if they were never taught? Will they grow up to be spoiled, entitled brats who think they can get away with anything?

I felt a pang of anger as I watched the scene unfold. This is not the kind of world I want my children to grow up in. I want them to be raised in an environment that values respect and discipline and not one where they are catered to and allowed to do whatever they want.

I walked away feeling frustrated and disappointed. How have we come to this? How can our children be so rich, yet so ignorant?

How can we allow this kind of behavior to go unchecked? How can we let these children think that the world is theirs for the taking?

It’s a sad state of affairs, and I can only hope that someday things will change.

That someday, our children will be taught to respect and appreciate the world around them, and that they will understand the importance of hard work and discipline.

It was my worst nightmare come true. I had been waiting for the train after a long and arduous day at work and I was feeling exhausted and dehydrated due to my heavy pregnancy.

I was about to board the train when I noticed a 50 year old woman was also waiting for the train. As soon as the train arrived, I quickly got on and took a seat.

Nagged at me for not giving the seat to her because she’s an ‘elderly’

When I was about to get comfortable, I heard the woman’s voice scolding me for not giving her the priority seat.

I was shocked and angry at the same time, because I knew she was not an elderly, and I was heavily pregnant. I was too tired to argue, so I just kept quiet and moved to the other seat.

I was so angry that I didn’t have the energy to explain to her why I shouldn’t have given her the seat. She kept nagging me and telling me that she deserved the seat more than me because she was older.

I was so mad and frustrated that I started to cry.

There were people around me but no one bothered to help me or stand up for me, everyone was busy glued to their phones.

She stopped nagging at me but continued to mumble under her breath

The woman finally stopped scolding me after noticing tears in my eyes but continued to mumble to under her breath about me.

I was so exhausted and angry that I just wanted to get off at the next station. I got off and tried to calm down, but I was still shaking with anger and frustration.

I was so angry and frustrated for the rest of the day. I felt like I was treated unfairly, and I was sure that the woman was wrong to scold me.

It was such a horrible experience that I will never forget. I was so angry and upset that it was all I could think about for the rest of the day.

Growing up, I heard many men boast about the size of their ‘kkj’. I used to believe the stories they told and the exaggerated descriptions of their manhood, thinking that men with larger ‘kkj’ must be more confident and successful.

As a woman, it was easy to be taken in by the bravado of these men and to be impressed by their claims.

Realised that many of them say until very big but actually much smaller

However, as I got older, I started to realize that many of these men who boasted about their ‘kkj’ size actually had much smaller ‘kkj’ than they claimed.

I was able to observe this firsthand when I would see them at the beach, or when I would date these men. The discrepancy between what they said and what was real was huge.

I started to think about the reasons why men might be inclined to boast about their ‘kkj’ size. I came to the conclusion that men who are insecure about their ‘kkj’ size feel the need to exaggerate and make themselves appear more attractive.

It’s like they’re trying to compensate for their lack of confidence by talking up their size.

Probably show off to make themself more ‘attractive’

These men are also likely trying to boost their self-esteem by making themselves feel more desirable and attractive. They think that if they can make themselves seem bigger and better in the eyes of others, then it will make them feel better about themselves.

It’s also possible that men who boast about their ‘kkj’ size are trying to impress other men. They may be trying to show off their manhood and prove that they are more masculine than other men. It’s a way of one-upping the competition and asserting their dominance.

Whatever the reason, the fact that many men boast about the size of their ‘kkj’ when they actually have small ones is a big problem. Not only is it dishonest and misleading, but it can also lead to unrealistic expectations in relationships.

When women hear these exaggerated claims, they may expect more than what’s actually there. This can lead to disappointment and relationship problems. It can also be damaging to a man’s self-esteem if he’s not able to live up to the expectations he’s created.

It is not about the size, but how they use it

The truth is, ‘kkj’ size doesn’t really matter as much as men like to think. It’s all about how you use it and how confident you are in the bedroom.

So for all the men out there who are tempted to boast about the size of their ‘kkj’, remember that it’s not the size that counts, it’s how you use it.

It’s a question that has been asked for centuries – can men and women ever truly just be friends? I’m a young woman and I’ve been pondering this for a while now.

I believe that men and women can never purely just be friends and I think there’s always some underlying feelings for each other.

Sure have some sparks somewhere

I think that men and women can never be just friends because of the natural attraction between them. There’s always a certain spark that ignites when two people of the opposite gender interact and it’s hard to ignore.

The flirting and banter, the chemistry – it all adds up and it’s hard to deny that there’s something more than friendship going on.

I also believe that men and women can never be just friends because of the typical gender roles that are expected.

Men are expected to be the pursuers and women are expected to be the pursued. Men are expected to make the first move and women are expected to wait and see what happens.

This dynamic creates an imbalance that makes it hard for the two to just be friends.

Finally, I think that men and women can never be just friends because of the emotions that come with being friends with someone of the opposite gender.

Confirm got something more than just liking as a friend

Friendship is a complicated emotion and it’s hard to deny the feelings of love and affection that come with it. When two people of the opposite gender are close, it’s hard to deny that there’s something more than friendship going on.

This is why I believe that men and women can never purely be just friends. There’s always an underlying attraction and emotion that come with being friends and it’s hard to ignore.

I think that it’s important to recognize these feelings and confront them instead of trying to deny them. I believe that by being honest with each other and recognizing these feelings, men and women can form meaningful and lasting relationships.