Recently my girl asked me if I would let her go on a grad trip with her friends.

Did well for A levels so her dad wants to sponsor her

They just received their A level results some time back and she did well enough to go to a local university.

Her father was all ready to let her go and even wanted to sponsor her trip but I’m not convinced that she is able to take care of herself.

She is pampered and protected from young, so scared she cannot fend for herself

Three girls in a faraway country to me sounds like a disaster waiting to happen. I don’t know about her friends but since young, she rarely takes the public transport as her dad will fetch her to and from school.

I don’t even know if she knows how to find her way in Singapore. How to let her go to a foreign land? Everything at home is also done by the maid so I also don’t know if she knows how to take care of herself.

Because of all these worries, when she asked me, I rejected her immediately and she hasn’t spoken to me since.

My husband says I’m being too protective of her but we only have one daughter.

Touch wood if anything happens to her, what are we to do? I rather she hate me than let anything bad happen to her.

Here are what netizens think

• Problem is not her going on a trip but the issue is more of you both not teaching her some life skills. Please teach her some and let her go on a short trip with her friends. She’ll be thankful for that in future.
  
• Usually, parents like me nowadays, send their children to tae Kwan do, karate or silat classes for self defence. By the time they finish sec 4, they got their black belt, can fight 3. But I saw in Hong Kong famous movie guys who drug young girls from foreign countries. So if guy offer drinks, one or all of the girls must not drink. Best is keep away from guys. Don’t let them go Africa, India, Thailand, Cambodia becos many human trafickers.
  
• Maybe You should talk to her about your worries. She’s smart enough to listen.

My boyfriend and I had been together for a while now, and while I had grown to love him, there was one thing that I hated: his habit of scratching his balls then smelling the sweat on his fingers afterwards. It was, quite frankly, disgusting.

He loves the ‘sweat’ smell from his balls on his fingers

I had put up with it for a while, not wanting to rock the boat, but eventually I decided I had to say something. I was scared to bring it up, as I didn’t want to hurt his feelings, but I tried to approach the subject delicately.

I suggested that he might want to consider washing his hands after such activities, and that maybe it was a bit unhygienic. He seemed to take the suggestion well and I was relieved, thinking that maybe he would stop the habit.

But I was wrong. A few days later, I caught him at it again. This time, he didn’t even try to hide it. He just looked at me and said, “What? I like the smell of my sweat on my fingers.”

I was speechless. I couldn’t believe he was being so nonchalant about something so gross. I was angry and disgusted, and I just wanted to get away from him.

I grabbed my things and left. I never saw my boyfriend again.

It’s been a few months since then and I’m still trying to process what happened. I had been so in love with him and now that it’s over, I can’t help but feel a bit betrayed. I thought we had something special, but it turns out he couldn’t even respect me enough to stop doing something I found so gross.

I can never forgive him for that. Even if I had been wrong about his habit, he shouldn’t have been so blasé about it. I guess some things just aren’t meant to be.

My father and I have always had a strained relationship. As I grew older, I noticed that he was often away from home, and when he was around, he was distant and uninterested in me.

I always felt like I was missing out on having a real father-son relationship, and although I tried to ignore it, I was angry and hurt.

He was always sleeping around, back when I was younger

When I was a teenager, I started to feel especially distant from my father. I noticed that he was often coming home late and that he was often in the company of other women.

I wanted to confront him about it, but I was afraid of his reaction.

Decided to use this against him

Fast forward to a few years ago when he got older and noticed I always had different women over and chided me for it. That was when I finally mustered up the courage to confront my dad about his behavior.

I told him that I had noticed he was sleeping around and that I had picked up on his behavior and that it had made me become promiscuous like him.

My father was speechless and seemed to be in shock. He remained quiet for what felt like an eternity until he finally spoke.

He told me that he was sorry for how his behavior had affected me and that he wished he had been a better father. He then said that I needed to stop sleeping around and that he would help me get my life back on track.

I was relieved that my father was finally trying to mend our relationship and that he was willing to help me, but at the same time, I was still angry with him.

I wanted to believe that he had changed and that he was going to be the father that I had always wanted, but I couldn’t help but feel like I had been lied to.

Now, after all this time, I still can’t bring myself to trust my father. I don’t know if he has actually changed or not, and I can’t help but feel like I was the one who paid the price for his actions.

You know how Changi Airport always has a lot of charging points around for travellers to use?

I always bring my gadgets there to charge to make use of free electricity

I’m one of the guilty ones who always bring all my gadgets to charge there so I don’t have to pay for electricity. It’s free for use ma and Changi Airport earn so much money so this little bit of electricity is peanuts to them la.

My gf always say I very gian png but I tell you, that day I saw this woman even higher level than me.

This woman I saw higher level, bring shaver there to shave her legs

Normal people is charge their gadgets one but this woman she actually brought her shaver there to shave her legs?

What the f-. So many people walked past her kept staring at her but she really power. Only focus on her own legs. Treat everyone else as invisible.

I think that gian png also got one limit la.

When she do until like that I really think that it becomes unhygienic and disgusting.

Police should come catch her.

Here are what netizens think

• Next time bring electronic cook pot there, can plug in eat steamboat with your whole kampung also.
• Find another three friends then next time bring your automatic mahjong table there and play mahjong also la, don’t need three friends also there got so many people, can anyhow people to fill up the ka.
• Changi Airport should really charge people like you all who go there just to make use of all these, hog till people that really in need got nowhere to charge their phones etc.
• They should only have these in the transit hall, prevent cheapos like you all

I love my husband a lot but there’s one thing he does that drives me crazy. Not in a good way. That is he always have to wait for the cheapest option to buy something!

Even stuff as cheap as toilet paper, he can wait for sale just to save a few cents

It’s not just for expensive gadgets or what leh. That one is normal. But he’s the kind that even one rice scoop he also want to scout a few shops to choose the best one.

A few cents difference he also want to geh gao. Several times I offered to pay, and that made everything worse. He started to lecture me on how it’s not about the money. He can afford it but why should he pay the extra?

The most ridiculous incident was how we survived without toilet paper in the house because he wanted to wait for sale then one shot buy alot.

No choice, I need to kope back from office if not nothing to clean my backside

I had to kope from office just so I have toilet paper to use at home… To save myself the pain, nowadays I really give up.

Those things that I want I’ll just buy first talk later.

Those I don’t rly care one then I’ll let him go and compare.

I will never forget the humiliating experience I had when I went to find a ‘chicken’ and she laughed when I pulled down my pants because of the small size of my kkj.

It was a moment that I will always be embarrassed about and will never forget.

She laughed out loud when she saw the size of my ‘kkj’

It all started when I decided to find a ‘chicken’ to satisfy my needs. I had heard that it was a great way to get satisfaction without having to worry about the consequences of a real relationship. So, I decided to find a ‘chicken’ and see what it was like.

I found a ‘chicken’ who seemed to be the right match for me. She was beautiful, and I was willing to pay her a good price for her services. I thought everything was going to go smoothly and I was excited to get started.

However, things didn’t go as planned. When I pulled down my pants, she started to laugh. I was so embarrassed and humiliated. I had no idea what was so funny and why she was laughing. I asked her what was so funny and she told me it was because of the small size of my kkj.

I was so embarrassed and humiliated that I couldn’t even look her in the eye. I wanted to run away and never look back, but I was too embarrassed to do that. I ended up just standing there, feeling embarrassed and humiliated.

The ‘chicken’ I had chosen was obviously experienced in the ways of the world. She could tell from the size of my kkj that I was not a man who was capable of having a real relationship with a woman.

I had been so embarrassed and humiliated that I was not able to do anything. I just stood there and felt like a fool. I wanted to cry but I was too embarrassed to do even that. I wanted to run away but I was too embarrassed to do that too.

The experience that night has stayed with me ever since. It was the most embarrassing and humiliating experience of my life.

I have never gone back to find a ‘chicken’ since that night and I hope I never have to again.

The first time it happened I was completely taken aback. I was in the middle of making love to my girlfriend when it happened, and I immediately recoiled in disgust.

It was too smelly as she had a smelly cb

She had queefed, and the smell that filled the room was unbearable. I thought I was going to vomit, and I desperately wanted to get away from her.

My girlfriend was embarrassed and apologetic, but I couldn’t get past the smell. I knew it was coming from her cb, and I couldn’t believe she hadn’t told me about it before.

We had been together for a few months, and I had never noticed anything like this before.

From then on, it became a regular occurrence. Every time we had relations, my girlfriend would queef and the smell would fill the room.

It became a real turn-off for me, and I found myself losing interest in her. I tried to talk to her about it, but she seemed embarrassed and refused to discuss it.

Broke up with her but now still haunted by the smell

I eventually reached a breaking point and ended things with her. I just couldn’t handle it anymore, and I was tired of feeling disgusted every time we had relations. I still cared about her, but I also knew I had to put my own mental health first.

Unfortunately, my relationship with my ex-girlfriend didn’t end well. She was hurt and angry that I had chosen to end things because of something she couldn’t control. I tried to explain to her that it wasn’t her fault, but she refused to listen.

To this day, the smell of her queefs still haunts me. I can’t help but think of those moments whenever I’m intimate with someone else, and it makes me uncomfortable.

I wish I had been more understanding and less judgmental, but in the end, I was just too turned off by the smell.