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EXES REUNITE AFTER 20 YEARS, STILL WANT EACH OTHER DESPITE BEING MARRIED WITH KIDS

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An old flame returns…

We were in a long term relationship that ended in early 20s. 20yrs later we reconnected out of the blue. Both happily married with kids but agree that we still think and thought about each other and why we failed previously due to being young and rash and it led to a decisive breakup then.

We were first loves

It was really a true 1st love… However, it was unfair to our partners that picked us up at our low point. We knew meeting would be risky as the messages brought back the fire in us. A couple of meetings and a kiss….

Its not right and not fair to go further. I cant see a future without my kids. Deeply love the other but should we be harbouring past failed love that never died?

Cant forget and cant stop communicating now that we connected. We wish the best to each other but deep down its a regret we didnt stay together. We try to stay light but always gets emotionally loving…

A dilemma that we know shouldn’t hurt the others and also don’t want any scandalous affair. … haiz…

Here are what netizens think

  • Commitment between 2 person (father of your kids) is choosing each other everyday. No matter what challenges life throws at you. No 2 ways about this.
  • yea im married and i still regularly meet up with my ex gf and we travel to batam and stay in hotel and errr do couple stuff la. like shopping and massage and ahem… my wife doesnt know all these.
  • You say you don’t want a scandalous affair, but you have already started it. You say you are both happily married yet you both started this scandalous affair. You have the right to follow your heart but don’t disrespect your wife by cheating on her and don’t be a disgusting role model for your kids. There is no two ways about it. Choose one path (yourself or your family) and accept the consequences.

GIRL’S DAD WALKS IN ON HER BF GROPING HER ‘NEH NEH’ WHILE MASSAGING THEM

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I am currently staying at my parents house to save some money to get a BTO with my boyfriend.

My boyfriend and I had been together for a few years and have been making plans for our marriage and also on how to finance the BTO which we had already successfully applied for.

Asked my boyfriend to massage my ‘neh neh’ because I liked being ‘groped’

I was hanging out with my boyfriend in my room when he came over one day and I asked him if he wanted to give me a massage on my ‘neh neh’, that time of the month was coming near for me so they’re quite sore and I really like the feeling of being groped there.

He happily said yes and got to work. Whilst he’s just fully palming both of my ‘neh neh’ while I wasn’t wearing anything, my dad walks into my room without knocking to tell us that dinner is ready.

He makes direct eye contact with both me and my boyfriend and stares at us for a couple seconds.

My boyfriend never moved his hands from my ‘neh neh’ so he’s just squeezing the twin peaks while staring at my dad like a deer in the headlights.

My dad just said “dinners ready” and walked out of my room and we didn’t make eye contact when we got dinner together.

It was real awkward to say the least, as if he had walked in a little later, we might have been caught with our pants off and doing something else instead.

M’SIAN STUDENT SAYS S’PORE IS “NOTHING BUT A KAMPUNG, EVEN YOUR WATER COMES FROM US”

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Two schoolboys in Malaysia were arrested after a viral video of them criticising the Sijil Pelajaran Malaysia (SPM) exam paper (equivalent to Singapore’s O-Levels) for asking a question about Singapore.

The secondary schoolboy was seen in a now-deleted TikTok video that went viral, insulting the person who created the questions, saying: “whoever prepared the questions for the SPM History paper, F-you,” as he pointed a middle finger at the camera.

A question was apparently asked in the exam paper about Singapore, and the boy then directed his unhappiness at Singapore, saying that he despised us.

He said, “Singapore is nothing but a kampung, they are poor and even their water comes from Malaysia, why are they being included in our exam paper?”

He said that the exam was a waste of time because the topic that he studied for, didn’t come up in the exam questions.

The district police chief of HUlu Selangar, Superintendent Suffian Abdullah, said that the two 18-year-old schoolboys were arrested after a report was filed by a teacher.

Supt Suffian said that the viral video on social media showed a male student in his school uniform expressing his unhappiness with the SPM History paper and using vulgar words to criticise those who set the questions, as well as insulting Singapore.”

The students were arrested at their homes by the criminal investigation department of the district’s police headquarters, and their phones were also seized.

The police also conducted urine tests for drugs on them and it came back negative.

They are currently being investigated under Section 14 of the Minor Offences Act 1995 and Section 233 of the Communications and Multimedia Act (CMA) 1998.

FULL VIDEO LOADING…

SIAM BU APPROACHED ME WHEN MY GF SITTING BESIDE ME, THEY END UP FIGHTING

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I went to night Bangkok with my girlfriend and a few of our close friends for a holiday. We had just finished dinner and were walking down the street looking for a place to go drinking.

That’s when she approached us, a striking Siam bu in a tight, glittery dress.

Asked if my gf and I were a couple, but still flirted with us

She was very friendly and gave us some recommendations for a nearby club. She asked if we were a couple, and I said yes, we were.

She then took it one step further and tried to flirt with me right in front of my girlfriend. I was taken aback, and I could tell my girlfriend was getting angry.

The siam bu didn’t seem to care and kept flirting with me, even after my girlfriend asked her to stop. I tried to diffuse the situation, but it was too late.

Gf had enough and argued with her

My girlfriend had had enough and started yelling at the siam bu. She then stormed off, leaving me to deal with her.

The siam bu was still trying to flirt with me, and I was getting more and more uncomfortable. I tried to explain that I was in a relationship and didn’t want to be flirted with, but she wasn’t listening.

That’s when my girlfriend came back, and she was livid.

She charged at the siam bu and started screaming at her. The siam bu tried to back away, but my girlfriend wouldn’t let her.

She kept screaming until a nearby security guard came over and broke up the fight. The siam bu finally left, and my girlfriend and I were left to deal with the aftermath.

I felt terrible. I had never wanted to see her fight with anyone, let alone a stranger. I tried to apologize, but she was too angry to listen.

She eventually calmed down, and we made up, but the whole situation left me feeling embarrassed and ashamed.

GIRL WHO LIKES OTHER GIRLS SUDDENLY LIKE MEN BECAUSE SHE MET A RICH ONE

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I’m a 27-year-old woman who likes girls and I had been straight forward and open about my orientation since I was a teenager.

Growing up, I knew I was attracted to women and never felt any attraction to men. I’d been in a long-term relationship with my girlfriend for 8 years, and I thought that would be the case for the rest of my life. That was until I met a wealthy man at a dinner party.

Discovered that he was rich

At first, I was completely uninterested in him. He was handsome and charming, but I just wasn’t attracted to him. But then, after talking to him for a while, I slowly began to feel a pull towards him.

I was intrigued by his wealth and lifestyle, and he seemed to have an air of power and confidence about him that I found attractive.

I started to think about him all the time, and my feelings for him only grew stronger. I began to fantasize about him and daydream about what it would be like to be with him. I realized that I had developed romantic feelings for him, something I had never felt before for a man.

My relationship with my girlfriend began to suffer as a result of my new feelings. I started to pull away from her and distance myself, which only made things worse. Eventually, I had to be honest with her and tell her what was going on.

I was honest with her about my newfound feelings for a man, and she was understandably hurt and confused.

After a long talk, she and I both agreed to take a break from our relationship. We both needed time to process our feelings and come to terms with what had happened. It was a difficult and painful experience for both of us, but we decided to remain friends and support each other through this difficult time.

Suddenly decided to like men

In the end, I decided to pursue a relationship with the wealthy man I had met. I had never felt so strongly for anyone before, and he seemed to feel the same way about me.

We both wanted to explore this newfound connection, and so we have been together for the past year.

My life has changed so much since I met him. I’ve been able to experience a whole new world of luxury and it was something I never thought was possible.

I’ve grown and changed in ways I never expected, and I’m learning more and more about myself every day.

WOMAN CHOPPED OFF BF’S KUKUJIAO AFTER HE BLACKMAILED HER WITH VIDEO OF THEM IN BED

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A woman in Indonesia chopped off her boyfriend’s genitals after he threatened her with a video of them engaging in intercourse, according to Indonesian news outlet Pikiran Rakyat.

The incident took place in Sibolga, North Sumatra, Indonesia.

The 28-year-old victim, identified as “GO”, had checked into a hotel room with the 28-year-old woman, identified as “AST”, on the evening of 25 February.

The police chief of Sibolga, AKBP Taryono Raharja, said that the man had demanded to have intercourse with the woman, who rejected him because she was upset with something that he said earlier.

The couple had met up in Padangsidimpuan to head to Sibolga together, arriving at the hotel where GO tried to get AST to sleep with him but failed.

He then threatened to spread a video of them having intercourse that he had filmed previously, which angered the woman and she then grabbed a knife and chopped off the man’s genitals.

The hotel receptionist, Evi Wahyuni Siregar, shared that the woman later approached him for help and asked for medical assistance for her partner, who was bleeding out.

Evi then called the police and officers found the man lying on the bed with his blood all over the floor, and the woman was also in the room at the time.

She was subsequently arrested while the man was sent to the RS Metta Medika hospital in Sibolga for emergency treatment.

The woman has not been charged by the police yet, as they are waiting for the man to recover and interview him first.

MAN IN HIS 40s WANT CAREER CHANGE, NETIZENS TELL HIM NOT TO DO IT

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Change job or no?

hi i hope admin can share my post to get more feedbacks. Not mocking anyone or humble bragging but i really need advices.

I am in my 40s this year. Currently drawing annual salary of 60k+/- in administrative. Previously i was in jobs where work environments are demanding & lots of politics to face daily. After some job hopping, current office is a small set-up. My bosses are not local and the work culture is basically slow pace. I will say i do have the luxury of doing nothing daily with some occasional of preparing reports only. I am not exactly putting my work experiences to what i am doing now.

But i am not used to the slow pace work style. I am seriously considering to find another job which can pay better and more work exposures.

A close friend of mine advised me not to regret later leaving a job which is considered high paying with a chill work environment. But i am not sure if i can / should stay on here till retirement. At times i really feel guilty, everyday i am just doing nothing and wasting my time away.

If you are used to busy work lifestyle will you continue to explore other job opportunities but of course take own time to chose or logical advise is to stay put and make use the free time to explore personal interest?

Thank you

Here are what netizens think:

  • At 40, if you’re bored and prefer a busier job then go and find that otherwise you’ll have 20 more years of mind numbing days ahead of you. But if you are smart, use that free time to study or improve yourself or even ask management for more responsibility or do a side hustle.
  • Stay in the job and pick up side work while acquiring other skills. Focus on skills development where the future job / work is not subject to age discrimination.
  • If you do not have commitments outside of work, please change your job. If there are, then perhaps you can think of how to maximise your time and money.
  • Chill work environment always win. Why work so hard for the same pay? Many would want to be in your shoes. Use the time after work to improve your skills – investing, learning some marketable or “second-career” skills. Ask yourself: “If I don’t do this job anymore, what can I pivot to? Or how can I be self-sufficient?”

AUXILIARY POLICEMAN HITS STEPDAUGHTER ON HEAD WITH EXERCISE BAR & CAUSED HER DEATH

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An 11-year-old girl was ill-treated by her stepfather and mother for months, who forced her to eat chilli padi, splashing her with hot water and whipping her with a belt.

The stepfather, who was an auxiliary police officer at the time, started hitting the girl in October 2020 with an exercise bar that he had bought for his workouts at home, according to The Straits Times.

On 6 November 2020, the man used the exercise bar and hit the girl on the head multiple times while the mother didn’t intervene, resulting in the girl dying 4 days later from her injuries.

She displayed signs of bleeding internally but the couple chose not to take her to the hospital, only calling for an ambulance 4 days later on 10 November.

The 28-year-old stepfather pleaded guilty on 27 February to one count of culpable homicide, as well as 4 other charges for the other acts of violence that he committed on the deceased.

His 29-year-old wife pleaded guilty to one charge of failing to protect her daughter from the fatal attack, and two other charges for the other acts of violence that she committed on the deceased.

They are set to be sentenced at a later date, and they can’t be identified due to a court order.

Background

In early 2020, the man got angry at the 11-year-old girl because he thought that she had been stealing items from their home, as well as eating too slowly.

In March of that year, he made the girl stand on a table and hold a 1.5-litre water bottle at her shoulder level, before caning her and hitting her with a belt for 20 to 30 minutes, resulting in bruises on her arms, buttocks, thighs and legs.

The man’s family members saw the girl’s injuries and scolded the man for mistreating the girl, and his wife for not stopping him.

The man also hit the girl with a wooden backscratcher, forced her to eat chilli padi to the point of regurgitation, and hit her with an exercise bar.

The woman also poured hot water on the girl while she was asleep, as well as forcing her to eat chilli padi.

The couple was worried that the injuries that they inflicted on the girl would be discovered when she didn’t attend school from 26 August 2020 to 29 October 2020.

Two representatives from the girl’s school visited their home on 29 September 2020 but the couple refused to let them in.

A student welfare officer from the school, along with an officer from Child Protective Service (CPS) asked them for a video call with the girl on 15 October 2020, and the CPS officer didn’t observe any injury on the girl because she was made to sit at a spot with dim lighting, as well as wearing pyjamas with long sleeves.

On 6 November 2020, the man assaulted the girl with the exercise bar, swinging it at her head and knocking her out, before sprinkling water on her face, reciting prayers and calling her repeatedly, and she eventually responded after 2 minutes.

However, she was bleeding from her right ear and her head was swollen, and the man then started panicking as he knew that she needed medical attention, and he then discussed with his wife on whether to send her to the hospital.

The couple then decided against taking her to the hospital because they didn’t know how to explain the injuries on the girl.

The deceased felt dizzy and vomited on her mattress after the man left for work, and on 7 November, the woman told her husband that the girl was bleeding from her ear but he reportedly told her that “it was nothing”.

The girl had difficulties clenching her right hand, and the man then forced her to get into a push-up position, where she then fell onto the floor.

The man then hit her on the back with the exercise bar.

On 9 November, the girl cried out in pain when her mother massaged her arms, and when the man returned home from work at about 11pm, he saw the deceased in a weak and grim state, before apologising to her.

The next day, the girl blacked out and the woman called her husband at work and told him what happened, and he then told his supervisor about it and was told to call an ambulance.

The couple told doctors at the hospital that she had fallen down the stairs while skateboarding before they eventually admitted to the police about what they did to the victim.

COUPLE WHO GOT MARRIED DON’T WANT TO HAVE KIDS BUT HARD TO TELL IN-LAWS

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Should i have any children?

Hello:

Just to rant about a family problem of mine. I just got married in November 2022. Recently my sister in law ( my husband’s brother wife) just gave birth to a baby boy.

Ever since the birth of the baby boy, my parents in law have been bothering me and my husband to have a child. We are in our 40s. My husband and i have no plans to have any children as we do not like kids. We prefer to have a quiet two person world, and if necessary stay in a home for elderly if the need arises when we are old.

Lately my sis in law have been sending my in laws photos of her son daily. After receiving the photos my in laws will nag at me saying i am no longer fertile in my 40s and my husband married the wrong woman. My husband is 40 and i am 43.

These days i am considering should i go for IVF or fertility checks just to try for a baby. I have to admit that i really do not want any children and I don’t like them.

Should i just give in to my in laws to try for a baby? I am starting to regret suggesting to stay with my in laws to look after them before i marry. I suggested to stay with my in laws as my mil isnt feeling well with her illness. I am a housewife doing housework and cooking for the entire family of 6.

Maybe we should move out, like what my husband suggested. He said that his parents are nothing but a headache to us. He also mentioned I am doing too much for his family.

SECOND SUSPECT WHO SMASHED GLASS BOTTLE ON STRANGER’S HEAD, GETS JAIL & CANING

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Another attacker who was part of a group that attacked a stranger at Clarke Quay, had earlier pleaded guilty to his crimes that were committed a mere 18 days after he was released on a supervision order for drug offences.

He was sentenced on Monday (27 February) to 5 years and 8 months imprisonment and 3 strokes of the cane, as well as being ordered to pay the victim, Justin Chua Yong Jie, $269.65 in compensation for the assault.

20-year-old Taitus Wong Wei Zhi was previously sent to the Drug Rehabilitation Centre (DRC) for the consumption of methamphetamine, before reoffending and ordered to go through informative training two years later.

He was released under a supervision order on 2 March 2022, and was required to stay out of trouble until 15 November 2024, which he failed to adhere to.

He ganged up on 30-year-old Justin Chua Yong Jie and attacked him with his friends near Clarke Quay on 20 March 2022, smashing a glass bottle on his head repeatedly, because his friend thought the victim was staring at him.

Wong pleaded guilty earlier on1 February) to one count of assault and one count of consuming methamphetamine.

His accomplice in the assault, Dani Zulastri Mohamad Salim, was earlier sentenced to 8 months and 3 weeks imprisonment.

The case involving the third accomplice, 23-year-old Mohamad Amirul Shafi Abdullah, is currently still pending; while a fourth man who was present during the attack, 20-year-old Noor Shah Ryzwa Azman, was given a discharge not amounting to an acquittal back in August.

Context

The group of guys were drinking at Circular Road on 20 March 2022 at about 7pm when Amirul showed Dani the knife that he had in his possession.

Dani Zulastri Mohamad Salim, Taitus Wong Wei Zhi and Mohamad Amirul Shafi Abdullah were drinking alcohol on 20 March 2022 at about 7pm at The Mask Restaurant and Bar along Circular Road.

Another Noor Shah Ryzqa Azman was also with the trio at the time, and they shared a bottle of whiskey before leaving the bar at about 10.30pm.

Wong was carrying the bottle of whiskey with him and drinking from it as they walked around the area, and the four drunk men then ended up near the Riverside Point mall along Merchant Road.

They wanted to buy cigarettes and asked a security guard for directions to a nearby 7-Eleven.

The victim was with his friends nearby drinking at a bar before he left and went to the 7-Eleven by himself, crossing paths with Amirul.

Amirul thought Chua was staring at him and attacked him from behind with Wong, who smashed the whiskey bottle on Chua’s head, resulting in him losing a patch of his hair,

They also rained punches on Chua, who had fallen onto the ground by this point, and Dani Zulastri then ran towards them and joined in the assault after hearing the commotion, kicking Chua.

Ryzwa was watching the attack from afar, before fleeing from the crime scene with the trio, running towards the State Courts.

After fleeing, Amirul called Wong and told him that during the attack, he used a karambit knife and slashed the victim three times.

Chua then went back to the bar while he was bleeding to seek help from his friends, and an ambulance was then called.

He was conveyed to the Singapore General Hospital with cuts to his scalp, diagnosed with post-concussion syndrome and given 17 days of medical leave.

Wong was arrested on 29 March 2022 and a sample of his urine was found to have traces of methamphetamine.