I remember when I was younger, the only thing I had to worry about when getting into a fight with another yp was maybe a few bruises from our fistfight.

We’d just throw a few punches, maybe a kick or two, and then walk away. It was all cool after a while and no one ever got seriously hurt. But things are different now.

YPs nowadays all crazy, use weapons instead of fists

Young punks nowadays are more dangerous than ever before because they seem to be using weapons during confrontations.

It’s like they have no regard for the consequences of their actions. I’ve seen them pull knives on each other and it’s really scary. They don’t even think twice about using deadly force.

I witnessed a fight between two groups of people previously. It was a real mess and I noticed that many of the members had penknives with them. I froze as I watched them draw the penknives and point it at their opponents.

I guess the days are gone where people still had regard for the lives of others.

Sad that they have all became like this

It’s sad to think that young punks are so willing to resort to violence and weapons in order to get what they want. It’s a sign of the times, I suppose, but it’s still a dangerous and frightening situation.

Unfortunately, I don’t think young punks are going to stop using weapons anytime soon. They seem to think they can get away with it and that they won’t suffer any consequences. But the reality is that they could end up in prison or worse, they could end up dead.

I hope that young punks come to their senses soon and realize that using weapons isn’t the answer. Maybe then, the streets will be a safer place.

Until then, all I can do is look out for myself and stay away from any potential trouble.

I never thought this would be my life. In the matter of a few months, I’ve gone from a successful, happily married man to a broken, desperate soul in debt. I have no one to blame but myself. I made a stupid mistake that cost me everything, and now I’m paying the price.

It started went I had an affair

It all started when I began having an affair with a woman from work. We kept our relationship a secret, but it was intense and passionate.

We would meet every week and I was completely in love with her.

Soon after, she got pregnant and little did I know, my wife was also pregnant.

When I found out my wife was pregnant, I was in shock. I had no idea how to tell her the truth about my affair, so I kept it to myself. I felt like a horrible person, but I was also in denial. I wanted to believe that everything would work out in the end.

Found myself with financial burden

Unfortunately, my wife soon found out about the affair, and she was devastated. She left me, taking our unborn child with her and yet still claiming the medical fees incurred from her pregnancy from me.

My mistress also found out about my wife’s pregnancy. She was furious and demanded I take care of her and the baby.

I agreed, but I had no idea how I was going to pay for it all. I had already taken out a second mortgage on our home in order to finance the affair, and now I was even more in debt.

I was desperate. I took out a loan and used my car as collateral. I knew this was a bad idea, but I felt like I had no other choice. I had to make sure my mistress and her baby were taken care of.

Now I’m stuck in an endless cycle of debt. I’m barely scraping by and I’m constantly worried about being unable to pay my bills. I regret my decision every single day. I wish I could go back and undo the damage I’ve caused, but it’s too late. I’m in too deep and there’s no way out.

My life has been ruined because of my own stupidity. I made my wife and my mistress pregnant at the same time and now I’m paying the price. I only hope that one day I can find a way to make things right.

I am a girl who loves to have fun. I like to go out, meet new people, and have a great time. I also love to flirt and can be quite seductive.

The problem is that I get too desperate to hook up with guys. As soon as I see someone I’m attracted to, I’m all over him, trying to make it happen.

I only give them 5 mins to make a move on me

I don’t take no for an answer and I’m always on the lookout for the next guy.

As long as the guy is too slow in taking initiative within five minutes like if he does not put his arm around me or establish some sort of physical contact, I’ll move on to the other guy.

I felt like I was in control and that I could get any guy I wanted. But after a while, it just got tiring. I was always disappointed when the guy didn’t take the initiative or didn’t show any interest in me immediately

I started to realize that this wasn’t the way to get what I wanted. I was too desperate and it was scaring guys away.

They probably think that I have STDs or something because I’m so ‘easy’.

Decided to change my game plan

I decided to make some changes. I started to be more patient and to take things slower.

Instead of trying to hook up with a guy right away, I tried to get to know him first. I also started to look for guys who were more interested in me and were willing to take the initiative.

I also realized that changing my target every five minutes was too short as most guys will just beat about the bush and are more ‘humji’.

I was too eager and it showed.

So now, I’m more selective about the guys I go after. I make sure that I get to know them first and that they’re interested in me before I make any moves. I’m also more patient and I give the guy more time to take the initiative.

This eventually worked well for me, as doing so make me able to be able to ‘hook up’ with more guys.

Valentine’s day is here and for those that are bummed out about being single, I’m here as a happily attached person to tell you, it’s not worth it being too sad about this.

I know of a couple who just celebrated their first anniversary this month and the bf is actively hiding impt problematic stuff from his gf.

She has no clue about this because he’s a very experienced liar that knows how to play the sunk cost fallacy game. She also doesn’t know how little she’s getting out of a partner (in terms of interest and effort; I’m not talking about money btw) just bcos he is less attracted to her physically, compared to his ex.

People showing their happy moments online doesn’t mean they’re happy

Just because you see people’s romantic couple stuff online, doesn’t mean that their relationship is an enviable one to be in.

We are all flawed people finding a way to get what we want in this world. The reality is that even if you’re a mature person that trusts your partner, it doesn’t mean they won’t take advantage of you.

You could very well be taken on a ride by a person who knows how to play the relationship game well. Your maturity might be exploited because you are healthy enough not to overthink/second guess your partner.

So love yourself a little more, and don’t beat yourself up if you are single.

Its okay to take your time to find the right one

Regardless of your gender, trust your gut and don’t despair just cos you haven’t found “the one”. Aiming for perfection is unrealistic but that doesn’t mean you should settle for anything less than you deserve.

It’s also important to pay attention to what’s not being said instead of letting someone’s sweet talk/behaviour deceive you from seeing what type of person he/she actually is.

The last thing you wanna be, is taken for a fool in a relationship that you are going to be giving so much to.