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BF GIVES GF EXPIRED PAINKILLERS CAUSE HE NOT BOTHERED TO CHECK

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The other night I slept in a really weird position and my neck was hurting all day yesterday. When I got to my boyfriends house I was telling him about how bad my neck pain was (and surprisingly it was getting worse). For reference we’ve been together about 10/11 months.

I’m not the kind of person to take medication generally unless it’s like an antibiotic – I try to tough things out. So my boyfriend suggested I take a panadol.

I was surprised I didn’t even consider that an option, considering just how bad my neck hurt. So I agreed and he offered to go get me something. When he comes back to the room he has two little pills and he goes “these are stronger but they’ll really help”. I asked him “what are they” several times & he told me to stop worrying/just relax/theyll help your neck/they’re stronger than panadol.

So I trusted him. A few mins go by and I decide to ask him again – what was it that he gave me. And he goes anarex. When I asked him why didn’t he tell me, he said it’s because he had an ex who had a toothache one day and she got mad at him for when he gave her panadol. I was scared to be compared to the ex (he used to do that a lot early in our relationship and I have self esteem issues as is) and I was scared to begin an argument. Or even be labeled something negative for having a potentially irrational fear.

Inside, I felt scared, nervous, betrayed, and hurt. Had I known what it was I would’ve said no. I am so upset with myself for trying to be amicable. I am so upset with him for not giving me a choice to say no.

Anyways a few hours go by and I start to feel it kick in. I had a massive headache. It’s the next morning now and my head still hurts just not as bad. I threw up this morning which helped the headache. Last night, he tried to tell me that it’s not the pill that’s giving me the headache.

But I am certain it is. my head just feels all around heavy. I barely slept because it was so bad. And my bf goes “it could’ve been the pill was expired but I doubt it because it’s a painkiller he says.” I feel like he said that to save face? I’m not sure. He was trying to tell me my headache is from something else but I just know it’s not!

I am at such a loss right now. I want to break up with him over this but I’m worried that it’s not over valid grounds because he was trying to help me.

FRIEND WANT LEND MONEY TO BUY AIR TICKET TO SEE BF BUT GETS REJECTED

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I recently travelled with one of my closest friends, K and one of her friends that I’m not that close to, G but we go out and get along well. We went out of the city for a nice enjoyable day in a small village since the weather was really nice and we had no other plans.

We all travelled together in the past and things were fine, however G has not really been able to hold a stable job in quite a while due to anxiety and sometimes is struggling with money.. so many times when we go out I offered to pay for small things like drinks, her ticket once (cheap one), small restaurant meals, a manicure… and my friend probably did too.

She would always say ‘next time on me’ or saying she would pay back (e.g. for the ticket) – but that never happens and I kind of realized she would never return the favor or anything similar since she’s never improving her situation. I’m not gonna lie, it did bother me but I let it go considering her situation and the fact that overall it’s not that much money.

However, this time while in this village and just having a drink outside a bar, she started telling us how she really wanted to travel and see her boyfriend who lives in another country about 3h flight away and how he’s always the one to visit and it’s not fair on him.. also said she spent her last money for the month on this outing instead of securing a ticket to see her bf.

She asked my friend if she can borrow from her but my friend returned back to studying recently and quit her job and said she can’t afford to spend anything extra for at least a week. She then asked me if I could borrow her the money (this ticket is really not cheap, could have a day out with that money) and that she will pay me back first thing when she gets her salary.

That really struck a nerve and I said no. Both G and my friend looked at me in shock and asked why, to which I couldn’t answer without probably creating a drama.. and I just said ‘don’t wanna lend money to anyone’.

At that moment they both changed their attitude and G was having this disgusting face put on for a while. We later pretended that discussion didn’t exist but after we got home my friend K told me I’m evil for not lending her the money because I’m working and not in <too much> financial distress.

How am I wrong?

HOW A 17 Y.O DIED AFTER CHARGING HIS PHONE IN HIS SLEEP

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In normal circumstances, the voltage of a typical power bank is not enough to cause death.

However, when a short circuit occurs it could exceed the amount of electricity it is supposed to discharge and the surge could stop a person’s, heart. There could be a million and one reasons why a surge would occur. But one of them could be the build quality of the product.

Back in 2017, a tragedy happened in Malaysia, The life of a 19-years-old life was taken away from him after he slept with his headphones in while charging via a power bank. (None of the media has revealed what particular brand of the power bank).

The boy was charging his mobile device with his earpiece on, the mother tried to wake her son up but failed to do so.

The boy was found with burned injuries on his shoulder and laid motionless on his bed.

Since the occurrence of the tragic case. The Malaysian Consumers Association has been urging consumers to practise caution with such devices.

How dangerous can power banks get?

Doctors believed that 12 volts of electricity have a very low chance of causing death but a short circuit typically carries a high current. Normally power banks have an output of 2 over Ampere but a short circuit can easily exceed 50 times the amount!!

Nowadays we have fast supercharging power banks that can release even more power.

Think twice before charging a mobile device near your body.

Now I no longer feel safe charging my devices in my handbag.

GIRL GOES ON RAMPAGE AFTER BF TEXT HIS FRIENDS FIRST

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Please hear me out, the title sounds horrible.

I have a boyfriend that works in a restaurant in another country (1.30h flight, so there is not an issue there). He doesnt have many friends, just the ones he met at work.

We have been doing this for a year, and things have gone from good to bad and vice versa. His friends from work are mostly female, which isnt a problem to me.

Recently, his friend(F) blocked him on social media after a joke he made, and he said to her best friend(F) that he loved her. When I got upset about this, he said i didn’t understand humour and the context and i shouldn’t feel bad about this. I quickly started to realize that this friend who blocked him liked him, and felt a little uncomfortable with the situation.

I would not tell my boyfriend who he can and cannot hang out with, its not fair and not right so i don’t ever do that. I know she likes him because she stalks his Spotify to see what songs he listens to and starts conversations like that, she constantly texts him and started making fun of him(and me) when she found out about me.

He is her boss, so her being able to text him after work is a little weird to me. When there is a problem between us, he runs to those 2 females (the one who likes him and her best friend) and they always say im bad for him.

He never really sticks up for me, its always ‘hahaha shut up!’ In the most jokingly manner, you can imagine. It would come to a point where he wouldnt open my messages, but open theirs.

At first i didn’t care, but their groupchat takes up all the time we have when we meet in real life. After doing adult time, he will simply roll over and text his groupchat. I get annoyed at this. My best friend has contacted with him and lets him vent in his DMS, so he wouldnt have to text the girls about this. It makes me uncomfortable when he does that (with the girls) because we agreed to not put our problems in other peoples minds if we havent talked about them.

Im ok with him venting to my best friend, because i know my best friend wont just pick my side in arguments. He will let him rage and vent without there being an issue. However, i have blocked my boyfriend numerous of times. Reasons of this were because we were broken up or because i was over it all.

The last time i blocked him, was because he called me abusive over me blocking him on Whatsapp. I agree that i say words that hurt when i am angry and can be very rude or harsh with my words, but i never saw or thought of myself as abusive. (I am in therapy to work on myself.) because this is a serious accusation, i blocked him.

When i did, he texted my best friend that i am borderline abusive and the biggest mistake he made. I forgave him for this, but its still in the back of my head whenever i see him. He is constantly on his phone texting those females and im afraid to say anything about it because i am scared he will call me abusive again. So AITA for being annoyed when he texts them? Mostly right after sexy time.

MAN PITY JB MASSAGE VIETNAMESE GIRL & GAVE HER $2,000, NEXT DAY MIA

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A netizen shared a story about how his friend took pity on a girl who gave him a massage and later asked him for money.

We all know how bad the story will end.

Here is the story:

I went with my friend to Johor 2 weeks ago for a 1-day getaway. Go in eat some Malaysian food get some drinks and a massage.

We were staying at the KSL hotel and we were looking for a massage parlour before we have our meal.

So we randomly walked into one massage unit, the place look very clean at the reception but the rooms look terribly dirty but we already agreed so we went ahead.

My friend and I were led to separate rooms by two Vietnamese ladies and we started our 1-hour massage, the massage feels like a cat making cookies. No power at all sibei rubbish.

After 30 mins or so the lady started to near my special area and I knew what was it and immediately said no.

So I end up getting touched for 1 hour without feeling good at all.

My friend came out about 5mins after me and told me it was fantastic, I bet he paid for the extra services.

We went to eat and my friend describe how much he enjoyed it and took the Wechat contact for the girl for whatever reasons.

I did not think much of it, we went to drink and the 1 day get-away was over.

But the story hasn’t ended, last week he told me he went to Johor again and said that he went to find the massage girl for a date.

I did not go as I was busy working.

Here comes the juicy part, yesterday he called me and said that he need to go to Johor again and asked me to accompany him. He sounded agitated and I asked him why.

He said that during the last weekend he gave the girl $2,000 as her mother needed money for surgery and promised my friend she will pay it back after a month. After giving her the money, the woman disappeared and blocked him on WeChat.

I was thinking in my mind, she works massage must press how many to get $2k, sure cannot one. Plus this kind of story he also believes. Even if we go back to the massage shop to look for her also got a lot of trouble.

So I told him no way I’m going there to start a dispute.

He told me that he had feelings for the girl and trusted her, This is not the first time he got cheated. He is always confused between the feeling of love and the feeling of lust.

He asked me what to do, I tell him there is nothing he can do. Maybe can consider cutting the Ku Ku bird and start thinking with the right head.

INTERIOR DESIGNER TRANSFORMS HDB UNIT INTO LUXURY APARTMENT

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Finding the right interior designer is always a problem for many new home and business owners. With the number of bad reps from the industry, it is not easy to find a good one.

However, Alex Decor has standout in the industry by utilising technology to help their clients visualise what their home will be like.

Alex Decor will always begin taking measurements of your new unit and begin recording the important data for drafting a mock-up 3D design in preparation for proposing a design to the homeowner.

Here are several examples of the 3D mock-ups:

Believe it or not, the following are 3D renders of an HDB located in Sumang Walk. One will only realise it’s a 3D render after looking at it twice.

Sumang Walk
Seng Kang
Palm Garden
Tampines

Completed Projects

Alex Decor specialises in creating your perfect home even if you are on a tight budget.

After a good look at your floor plan, Alex Decor will do space planning and recommend where to place your lights, carpentry, aircon piping etc.

To help you make the right choices, we can shop with you and advise you on the styles and colours that will enhance your home.

Alex Decor believes in giving the best to their esteemed clients. Their suppliers have been specially handpicked by their quality control team to ensure the best quality products and the highest level of craftsmanship goes into your home.

They even shopped with customers to find the perfect furniture and give recommendations.

Clementi
Punggol
Rivervale Crescent

Here is one of the recent testimonies:

Alex has been excellent in design, space planning and coordination during the whole course of renovation for our flat. He has shown great professionalism in dealing with our project and even built trust and friendship along the way.

The end product of our house exceeded expectations and I often receive compliments about the workmanship and space planning within the house.

I would recommend Alex to any new homeowner who would want a piece of mind for home furnishing at competitive pricing. All the best Alex!

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GRABFOOD RIDER SHARES CREEPIEST STORIES, DELIVERING FOOD AT NIGHT

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A Grabfood delivery rider shared his creepy experiences delivering food at midnight, including getting an order to send to a cemetery, and seeing a pontianak at the side of the road.

Here is what he said

I have been working as a Grabfood rider since 2019 after I ORDed from the army, and I have seen my fair share of creepy and spooky incidents.

Reason why I work as a food delivery rider, is because I don’t have much education, last time always play punk in school, and because if you work hard with Grabfood, you can bring home $2k-$3k comfortably, but must whack the orders ah.

I deliver food using my Vespa, so okay ah not bad and not as tough as the cyclists, especially when going uphill.

Delivery order from cemetery at 1am

Anyway there was once I was doing food delivery at night, and at the time I had no orders, so I was smoking beside my motor and waiting for the order to come in.

I was at Jurong Point when I got an order from McDonald’s, I took a quick glance at my phone before hurrying to the outlet to grab the food, because I was trying to do more orders for the day.

I picked up the food and opened my phone and saw that the delivery location was at Cemetery North Street, at Lim Chu Kang Cemetery.

The time was about 1am and although it was the middle of the night, ok la still got people around so I not that scared.

I thought maybe somebody working at the cemetery ordered supper or something, and I just making a living so I just go je.

Along the way as I riding, it felt very eerie, because the further away i rode, the more ulu it was along Jalan Bahar, and I was riding with my headlight on near the cemetery entrance.

You can try ah, riding at 1am alone outside a cemetery in the darkness, damn scary.

I following my GPS location and reached the place but cannot find anyone to pass the food to, I message and called the customer from the app but no reply and no answer.

I called grab support and they also cannot reach the customer, so bopian ah end up I eat the food myself.

Not really anything supernatural or paranormal, but the experience was quite scary.

Pontianak

Another creepy incident that happened to me is definitely supernatural.

Because I usually do most of my orders at night, I spend a lot of my time on the road at night until the sun rise, because the weather more cooling and peaceful ah.

So I was sending one order near Boon Lay and riding on this road by myself when I suddenly smelled frangipani flowers.

It was quite weird because there wasn’t much trees or even flowers around and I wearing full face helmet, so how to smell anything? Unless the source of the smell is inside my helmet or very near me.

I then heard a woman laughing, and it sound like it come from beside me. But I riding motor sia, how to have someone laughing beside me?

I look to my right because that was where the sound was coming from but nothing ah, I then turn my head back to look in front of where I was riding and in the distance I saw a white figure standing at the side of the road.

I sped past the figure and thought okay ah maybe tired, imagining things, then astaghfirullah I saw the same figure standing at the side of the road again.

And the frangipani smell getting stronger and I starting panic already, so i faster ride away and when I saw another car in front I was damn happy because finally got someone else.

I knocked on the driver’s window at a red light ah, and asked him if he saw the same thing I saw, and the uncle nodded his head.

I very badly wanted to use the word “pontianak” but I know if I said it out, sure kena one. But I know that the uncle knew what I was talking about.

He tell me that road quite dirty ah, he drive down here all the time and see many times already, tell me to just say a prayer and go home bathe and wash away the bad luck.

M’SIA POLICE SEEKING S’PORE MEN WHO PEED UNDER TREE @ JOHOR CIQ COMPLEX

The Malaysian police are seeking two men driving a Singapore-registered car, who were seen urinating under a tree near the Johor Customs, Immigration and Quarantine (CIQ) Complex, according to Free Malaysia Today.

They were seen driving their Singapore-registered vehicle at the border at about 11.10am on 11 June, and were seen standing side by side as they urinated under a tree.

The Iskandar Puteri district police chief, Rahmat Ariffin, said that the police would like to record the two men’s statements, under Section 14 of the Minor Offences Act, with guilty individuals being fined RM100.

The Malaysia Police’s investigations revealed that the incident had taken place near the entrance for light vehicles entering Malaysia from Singapore.

At the time of the incident, there was also mild congestion.

However, Ariffin noted that the two human sprinklers would have caused the congestion to worsen had they stopped their car to go to the toilet.

He added that they will be conducting surveillance to prevent such incidents from reoccuring.

AIA APOLOGISES FOR INSURANCE AGENT TAKING BALLOON BACK FROM CHILD

A Facebook user, Nazreen Ogisi, said in a Facebook post on 13 June that an insurance agent from AIA allegedly gave her daughter a balloon but then took it back after finding out that the woman didn’t fit their customer profile.

AIA Singapore has since said in a statement that they are “sorry for the unpleasant experience” and that they have “counselled the representatives involved in this incident”.

The company added that they have reiterated their roadshow guidelines to all of their insurance agents and are working closely with them to adhere to the highest standards of professionalism.

AIA Singapore also added that the team has “connected with the individuals involved to address their concerns”.

The insurance company also added that while insurance representatives or agents are authorised representatives of AIA, they are not employees of the company.

Give balloon then take back

The incident in question happened on 10 June at Century Square Mall, where Ogisi was with her 2-year-old daughter when they were approached by an insurance agent.

The insurance agent gave the little girl a balloon, and Ogisi then understood that the lady was an insurance agent from an AIA roadshow booth nearby.

She then proceeded to answer some of the insurance agent’s questions, but after that, the agent then took back the balloon from the child, allegedly because the woman didn’t fit the insurance agent’s customer profile.

Ogisi then took to Facebook to call out the insurance agent’s lack of professionalism.

Full recap

NEA RELEASING AEDES MOSQUITOES INFECTED WITH “WOLBACHIA” IN 8 AREAS

The National Environment Agency (NEA) will be releasing male Aedes aegypti mosquitoes infected with Wolbachia across 1,400 additional HDB blocks to fight Dengue Fever, according to Minister for Sustainability and Environment, Grace Fu.

The release of the Wolbachia-Aedes mosquitoes will cover 8 new locations, including:

  • Bedok North
  • Bedok Reservoir
  • Choa Chu Kang
  • Geylang
  • Hougang
  • Punggol
  • Sengkang
  • Woodlands

Residents living in these areas will be informed before the mosquitoes are released.

Here is the NEA’s statement in full

Singapore, 15 June 2022 – Minister for Sustainability and the Environment, Ms Grace Fu, announced at the Asia Dengue Summit today that NEA will be releasing male Wolbachia-carrying Aedes aegypti mosquitoes (Wolbachia-Aedes) in 1,400 additional HDB blocks across Singapore from July 2022. The releases are expected to reduce the urban Aedes aegypti mosquito population (dengue vector) in these high-risk areas, and help understand the impact of Wolbachia technology on dengue cases.

Eight new study sites to receive male Wolbachia-Aedes releases

2          NEA will expand the releases of male Wolbachia-Aedes mosquitoes to eight additional sites in a multi-site field study. The eight locations are Bedok (Bedok North and Bedok Reservoir), Choa Chu Kang (Yew Tee), Geylang, Hougang, Punggol, Sengkang and Woodlands (see Annex for Location Maps of Study Sites for NEA’s Multi-site Field Study). While the releases will suppress the urban Aedes aegypti mosquito populations in these sites, data collected will also help to determine the impact of the technology on dengue cases and clusters. The study has been scientifically designed, with the sites selected based on a set of criteria – historical dengue risk level, Aedes aegypti population, the size and landscape of the area, and NEA’s capacity for producing and releasing male Wolbachia-Aedes mosquitoes.

3          With this latest expansion, the coverage of Project Wolbachia-Singapore will increase from the current 19 per cent to about 31 per cent of total HDB blocks in Singapore. Five square kilometres of landed residential areas have also been covered. Selected construction sites and non-HDB residential sites in dengue high-risk areas will also see releases. Community and residents of release areas will be informed prior to the start of the releases.

Good results in current study sites; sustained releases still needed

4          Since April 2022, NEA has achieved full coverage of male Wolbachia-Aedes releases in Tampines and Yishun and started large-scale releases in the Marine Parade landed residential estate. High-risk areas in parts of Choa Chu Kang and Bukit Batok HDB towns will also continue to get targeted releases of male Wolbachia-Aedes mosquitoes. The results have been promising thus far. In Tampines and Yishun, where there has been more than one year of releases, we have previously observed up to 98 per cent reduction in the dengue mosquito population and up to 88 per cent reduction of dengue cases. Similar observations have been made in the current dengue outbreak where these areas have 70 per cent less dengue cases compared to similar areas without Wolbachia. The positive outcome of the field studies at release sites have shown that continued releases of male Wolbachia-Aedes mosquitoes can successfully suppress the female urban Aedes aegypti mosquito population in Singapore. 

Phased approach and testing different strategies help NEA in future wider scale deployment

5          As Singapore is the first country to trial and implement the use of this technology in a high-rise, high-density tropical environment, releases were first rolled out gradually in a phased approach, allowing for systematic and rigorous reviews. Carrying out different release strategies in different areas and landscapes also allows NEA to determine the most effective and impactful approaches for wider scale deployment.

6          When NEA first started Project Wolbachia in 2016, only 39 HDB blocks and over 3,900 homes were covered. Today, Project Wolbachia has covered about 1,800 HDB blocks across study sites in Yishun, Tampines, Choa Chu Kang and Bukit Batok towns, and within five square kilometres of landed estate at Marine Parade, comprising some 160,000 homes. With the multi-site field trial, over 300,000 homes will be covered.

7          “The expansion of the project to multiple sites is a very exciting and important next step in Project Wolbachia-Singapore. NEA is very encouraged by the results in existing study sites which have shown the effectiveness of the Wolbachia technology in the reduction of Aedes aegypti mosquito population in these areas. As Project Wolbachia successfully suppresses the population of dengue vector in release sites, the community is urged to cooperate with the programme in preventing the resurgence of mosquito abundance by removing mosquito breeding habitats. Having breeding sources of mosquitoes in the community will reverse the impact achieved by the technology” said Associate Professor Ng Lee Ching, Group Director, Environmental Health Institute, NEA.

Scaling up made possible by collaboration with partners

8          To support its project expansion, NEA will increase the number of male Wolbachia-Aedes mosquitoes produced per week from the current 2 million to 5 million by end 2022. Increased capacity for expansion of Project Wolbachia is made possible by NEA’s collaboration with our partners Orinno Technology Pte. Ltd. (Orinno), Verily Life Sciences (Verily) and the National Robotics Programme, that looks at the end-to-end development of differentiating robotic enablers and solutions in Singapore. Orinno co-develops technological solutions for the mass production, gender-sorting and release of male Wolbachia-Aedes mosquitoes using automation technologies and Artificial Intelligence. Such technological developments have improved the efficiency of mosquito production by up to 40 times, as compared to manual methods. Verily complements NEA’s mosquito production and release efforts and has contributed to the gender-sorting and release of male Wolbachia-Aedes mosquitoes at the Tampines and Marine Parade study sites.

Project Wolbachia – additional novel tool to fight dengue         

9        Against a backdrop of favourable climatic conditions, low herd immunity, presence of Aedes aegypti and endemic circulation of the virus, Singapore has experienced regular outbreaks. 2022 has been a challenging year thus far as we faced an early surge in dengue cases and numbers are expected to hit a record high, with more than 14,000 dengue cases reported to date, exceeding the total 5,258 dengue cases reported in 2021.  

10        The Wolbachia technology will complement existing community efforts and vector control operations to reduce the dengue vector in our community. The tool has been shown to be useful for reducing the risk of dengue transmission in a local area, typically taking at least three to four months to effect significant reduction of Aedes aegypti population. Moving forward, NEA will assess the use of the technology as an additional tool to interrupt active dengue clusters.

11        “Business-as-usual is not an option given the escalating threats of dengue. Novel technologies, including Wolbachia and dengue vaccines, provide new tools to complement and strengthen existing dengue control efforts, and prevent epidemic transmission of this disease. The results observed with Project Wolbachia to date are promising, but it is important for the Singapore community to realise that it is not the silver bullet that will control dengue alone. It is thus important for the community to continue staying vigilant and take steps to fight dengue,” said Professor Duane Gubler, Dengue Expert Advisory Panel Chairman and Emeritus Professor at Duke-NUS Medical School, Singapore.

Community to continue staying vigilant and take steps to fight dengue

12        Even as we roll out Project Wolbachia-Singapore to more areas, the technology is not a panacea and its effectiveness may be hindered by mosquito breeding in the community. Residents and businesses throughout the country, with or without Wolbachia-Aedes releases, must ensure good housekeeping to keep our homes, premises and estates free from mosquitoes and dengue. We seek everyone’s support to stay vigilant and do their part to prevent dengue.

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