For all u A cups out there, here’s some pros of being flat:

– Don’t have to wear a bra with a T-shirt and no one will know

-Can lie on stomach

-No need to buy a special sports bra

-Can wear girls and guys clothes (and some times kids)

-Jumping up and down has no gravity issues

-Fewer back problems!

*Just to avoid any misunderstandings, I’m not saying a flat chest is better, but while I was growing up I had a lot of insecurities about feeling like a woman as a lot of my friends are B’s and C’s.

Here are what netizens think:

• For ladies and sisters out there, please do not consider doing any implants to enhance your assets. A man should love you for what is in your heart and not what is on your chest. Please drop any guy who is not happy with your size.. Guy just live with our size and ability or lack of it. Peace!!

• Flat is justice!

• Next up, the pros of shorter than 3 inches.

• no need to wear underwear no one will know

• And you have way more selection for bras too bigger cup sizes are so hard to find. And yes sports bras are incredibly hard to find for anything over a D cup. And whatever clothes you buy will fit you quite well not chest area tight then waist too loose And let’s not talk about button ups it’s just a wardrobe malfunction

• A or not, you still can get a C with the A , with a chance of getting a B (iykyk)

I’m ( F23) fed up with my bf (M25) behaviour. He’s not working and completely neglects our relationship because he’s spending all this time doing his passion, thinking he’s going to get famous

My boyfriend is 25 and I’m almost 24. We’ve been together for almost three years and a half, but been knowing each other since school .

Ever since I know him, he has a passion for photography. At first, I thought it was such a great nice thing and I was admirative of him and his passion, but now I can’t stand it anymore.

After graduation, he went to study in art school and I went to university. When I was 20, I saw him at an event. After that, we started to see each other a lot and eventually fell in love with each other.

The first year was perfect. He was so funny, loving and caring. He was studying and practicing his passion but always had time for us. We had little date nights, spend hours talking, had an amazing connection and I felt like he was my soulmate.

Things changed when my bf was in his last year of art school. He was so busy with work, that we didn’t get to spend as much time together as we used to. ( we live together). I wasn’t mad at him and to be honest, I was busy as well with my studies.

But things got so much worst after he graduated. It’s been almost a year and a half now. He didn’t get a job, actually didn’t even try to find one.

He’s spending all his time taking pictures, editing them, etc. This takes hours and hours. So, that makes me the only who is working ( part time) because I have a few months left before I’m finishing my studies.

His parents help him a bit financially because he barely makes any money with his pictures. If it wasn’t for me, he would be a starving beggar already. I’m the one who pays for the majority of things.

His excuse is that, he has to be completely dedicated to photography, because he thinks that he’s going to make it big. He legit thinks that he’s going to be the next « Annie Leibovitz, male version».

I told him that I wished that for him but I can’t help but think that he’s delusional. He’s talented but for now he barely sell any pics and don’t work on any photo shoots expect his owns.

The other day, he was bragging to a friend , about how he was going to sell many pictures in the next months and was going to make more than 5k a month. I was like wtf, it’s been a year and a half already. Not to mention all the times, he took me as his assistant to help him in his photo shoots.

Of course he can’t afford an assistant since he’s not working. I stopped going because I was too busy with studies and work and also because, I’m not his f-ing assistant but his gf ( for now).

He’s taking friends now who help him for free, why not ?! The rare times I ask him to do something with or for me, he accepts but it’s for a very short amount of time. He’s completely neglecting our relationship.

The things we used to to before, were not doing them anymore. He doesn’t have time. I told him that I was fed up with his behaviour and to get a job, while still doing photography on the side.

I also told him to to be more invested in our relationship if he didn’t want me to leave. He’s 25 and a grown man who has to take his responsibilities. He said that I was being mean and not supportive. But I’m the one who is doing everything right now. I feel like I’m losing myself in this.

why should PR serve the same duration in NS as singaporean?

from primary school bills to buying houses they are treated differently than singaporean and not even getting 50% worth of subsidy of what singaporean get so why suddenly when serving the nation they got to give in the same as singaporean?

EDIT: not even trying to justify that PR should get singaporean privilege💀just asking why PR are not treated as PR in all aspects?

also, to those petty men who already served NS, if you are not giving me a justifiable answer to my questions just stfu lol.

Netizens’ comments

• I agree. PR NS allowance shld be 50% lesser than Singaporeans
• Serve, so that after NS you can get all the same discounts 🥹🫰
  • (OP) serving ns dosent come with a sg passport automatically so no thanks
• U shld serve same duration of NS as Singaporeans even though u are given less privileges .
  I think u did ur schooling here , and now serving ns. But there are people who get pr at a age where they don’t have to serve ns so there has to be difference between them and citizen but as u belong to that catergory(PR) as them u aslo get affected by them .
  Maybe the government should introduce bond for young PR , whereby signing the bond they shld serve ns , if they fail to serve ns they will pay double the cost of what government spent on them or just give citizenship to those who they think will contribute to Singapore in future.
  Imo the government shld like give some extra privileges to only selected group of pr like those school children but they shouldn’t lessen the duration of ns
  • (OP) the PRs have been getting different treatment as singaporean ever since they step in sg and now when it’s ns they suddenly gets full singaporean privilege? the logic isn’t there lol.
• Not happy just leave lor 🙁
• (OP) omg that’s so helpful why would i not know

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my boyfriend said he’ll break up with me if i don’t quit my job

i (20f) finished school and have been working in a supermarket for a year now. i always tell him about my day at work because he gets insecure.

he gets really angry when i even mention other male coworkers that i just had a friendly chat with or said hi to.

it’s gotten to the point where he’s threatening to break up with me if i haven’t quit my job by the end of the week, because he can’t handle me talking to any guys.

he just instantly thinks they’re flirting with me (which they’re not… being nice doesn’t equal flirting). i have done everything i can. i have ignored people for him. i have been dry with guys for him. i just think this is a really immature request from him and idk what to do

i find it very hypocritical bc he had a really bad addiction to adult videos at the start of our relationship and always talked highly of other girls.

i have never glorified anyone but him so it sucks to have someone trust you so little :/ sorry if this all doesn’t make much sense i’m typing this in a rush

Netizens’ comments

The problem here lies with your boyfriend, and not with you. I cannot say this enough: YOU are not the problem here. And because you are not the problem, you are going to end up being victimized by someone else’s problems. Notice, his problem is not that you aren’t trustworthy. His problem is that he “can’t handle” you talking to another guy. That right there is a very, very unhealthy and unrealistic expectation on his part. HE has the problem, but YOU have to do something to solve HIS problem. That’s not how this works.

It’s not on you to do something to solve his problem. He and only he can address his issues. And as long as you think YOU have to do something to make him feel better, the root of the problem will still be there, and it will grow over time into a bigger problem.

Throughout life, you are going to have to talk to other guys: you’ll run into them at work, at the supermarket, at the coffee shop, when you’re clothes shopping, etc. That is a part of life any time you go into a workplace, public space, or really any time you step out of your home. For your boyfriend to expect you to not have contact with other men in any capacity is unrealistic, and reveals your boyfriend’s level of insecurity and jealousy.

He is showing himself to be extremely jealous, and he is attempting to exert control over you. His behaviors are the first volley in a controlling relationship. Most men who are like that tend to increase that level of control over time. Now, he’s demanding you quit your job so you won’t be around other men, and is threatening to leave you if you do not. Later, it will be telling you what jobs you can and cannot work, timing how long it takes for you to go to a store to make sure you’re not “sneaking away”, demanding to look at your phone to see your communication history, telling you what you can and cannot wear, and may even go so far as to tell you that you cannot wear makeup when you go to work/go out, or demand that you do not go anywhere unless he accompanies you.

So what happens if you were to quit working at the end of this week? Well, you are the one who loses income and opportunities. He will not lose anything, not even his insecurity. He will eventually find something else that he “can’t handle”, and YOU will be the one who has to do something different address HIS issue. So if you were to do what he is demanding, you will pay the price, not him. And as long as he does not pay a price for his demands, as long as you are the one who is made uncomfortable and not him, as long as you suffer and he does not, he will continue asserting that YOU make choices to make HIM feel better.

It doesn’t sound like a good thing, does it? Well, that’s because it’s not a good thing. He’s treating you like a possession or a pet, rather than a complete, autonomous human being. He doesn’t get to dictate where you work or how you live your life. A mature partner works in harmony with you, not against you.

You’re very young, and you’re still getting your foot out into life. But as an older woman who was once your age and dealt with that kind of mess, I can say this with all certainty: let him break up with you, and keep your job. A true man will be able to accept that you work, and that you are around other men in your day-to-day life. A true man will not have issues with you being in a mixed-gender environment, because he will understand that you chose him already. A true man respects you as a fellow human being. And a true man faces reality.

This guy you have is too immature to be in a relationship, because his current “idea” of a relationship is to dominate you and boss you around, and he will threaten you with bad consequences if you do not do what he says. That’s not how a healthy relationship works. You did just fine before that relationship, and trust me, you will be far better off after the relationship ends. There are men, true men, in the world who can offer you far more basic respect than this guy can.

You need to put yourself in a position of assertment, instead of one of defence. Tell him flat out that you are keeping your job, and instead of you quitting because of his insecurity, HE can put in the work to control his insecurity and jealousy. It’s not your job to suffer to make him feel better. He either trusts you completely, or the relationship simply is not worth continuing.

Boss offered me a 10k + 10k counter offer

I have felt unsatisfied with my job for a while now, not just with the pay but the way in which the organisation is run.

I don’t feel confident in myself in my professional and I don’t think I’m in the best position for personal growth.

I recently was offered a job for additional 10k to what I’m now with potential quarterly bonuses. It seems like an appropriate environment for me to fit in with opportunities to learn and grow. I accepted and signed the contract.

My employer came back to say he would pay me an additional 10k on top of what his competitor is offering with promises to expand on my current role.

I am leaning toward taking the new job as I believe it would be better for my career. Am I dumb to leave all that money on the table?

Netizens’ comments

1. No, take the new job. Money isn’t going to change your dissatisfaction with your current org. Can confirm I’ve stayed when i should’ve gone
2. Wtf are you working as, that’s a lot of money. For that amount of money if I had to clean toilets I would man.
3. Agree. When I was hiring manager and people got proposed new jobs I told them that it’s no use to counter offer as
   -You searched for a different job for a reason
   -If we match you probably will stay for extra 6-12 months anyway
   -If the other job sucks we have open doors back.
4. Often we saw people leave and come back with new skills that would be good in the long haul. Some environments, even how hard you try, will not fit you as an individual.
5. A promise isn’t worth anything, so ignore that. A 20k pay increase is significant. So much so I’d say it’s worth thinking about, however the reality is they never tried to keep you, and only now that you are looking to leave did they come back and offer you a lot more. You also don’t like it. I’d ignore that extra 10k, it’s not worth it

My(M35) wife(F27) can’t be intimate with me due to the smell of cigarettes.

My wife is 6 months pregnant and recently because extremely sensitive to the smell of cigarettes, vanilla, and vinegar.

I would say that this started happening 3 weeks ago, and since I smoke, we haven’t been intimate that whole time, that includes kissing. Sure, a small peck on the cheek is okay, but actually kissing her is a no way.

I’ve become very good at masking the smell over the years, but damn, pregnancy noses really sense everything.

We even tried this thing where I just don’t smoke and I washed all the clothes I was wearing, but nope, didn’t work. She really, really can’t stand these 3 smells & it really beats her up.

My daughter is a baker but hasn’t baked for the past 2 weeks because my wife can’t stand the smell. Wondering if we should find loopholes or should we just not be intimate until this passes.

edit: lots of you are telling me to quit. i’ve literally mentioned that i’m not smoking at the moment and haven’t been since this thing started.

Netizens’ comments

My brother and his wife had a similar issue a couple of years ago. He ended up having to get new clothes, a haircut, his car cleaned, and his teeth cleaned before she couldn’t smell it anymore.

Cigarette smoke sticks to everything and it sticks for a very very long time. Even if you wash clothes that you wore while smoking, they’re still going to vaguely smell like the smoke. You might need to get new clothes or try having yours dry cleaned or steam cleaned.

Another thing that might help is going to the dentist and having your teeth cleaned. The tar sticks to your teeth and stains them. The stains can cause your breath and mouth to smell like cigarettes even if you haven’t been smoking.

If you haven’t quit for very long, you may just need to wait longer until you no longer smell like it. But you will have to give up the habit for at least as long as she’s pregnant, really you should give it up entirely for the sake of your baby.

How do I find a job with a 3 month notice period?

Basically, due to desperation I have accepted a job that have a 3 month notice period. I tried to negotiate it down but it didn’t work.

Now, I am thinking of getting a new job but I realised that recruiters will not entertain me after I told them that my notice period is 3 months.

What options do I have here if I do not want to resign without getting an offer?

I read the contract and it said that I can pay salary in lieu if I don’t serve the notice period; does this means that I can just pay up and go off, or is it possible that they refuse to accept it and I am forced to serve the 3 months?

Thanks all for reading.

Netizens’ comments

Your options are:

Pay up in full or in part. If u pay up 3 months of salary u can leave the next day. If u pay up 2 months u have to serve 1 more mth at the current place.

Use leave to offset your notice period but how many leave u have only?

Ask other side to buy u out.

I faced this when job hunting in 2021 when my notice period was unofficially changed to 2 mths via email without my consent. Regretted not pursueing. But after i got turned down by new prospective employer when i told them 2 mths notice i decided i was going to say 1mth going forward. I would then use leave and pay in lieu of the remaining mth.

But i have to say 3mths for non managerial role is a trap.

My [28M] girlfriend [27F] cheated on me, got pregnant and had an abortion. What now?

I have been in a serious relationship with my girlfriend for 6 years. I had been planning to ask her to marry me later this year. From my perspective, everything has been stable and loving in our relationship.

However, over the last few months, I’ve noticed that she became super secretive about her phone- and I finally got up the nerve to look through it.

Well, what I found absolutely stunned me. She seems to have developed a deep, lasting relationship with another man. Their texts range from the mundane to the sorts of fantasies they are acting out together. There are texts planning their next bedroom escapades, him asking her when I’m leaving for the day (we don’t live together) and so on.

Believe me or not, it gets worse. As I scrolled through their conversation, I found that she got pregnant by this man. There were texts about how the pregnancy is making her feel, and a screenshot of a doctor’s appointment.

I’m stunned beyond all words. My legs became weak reading this information, and I still can’t quite process it. She seems absolutely and completely normal towards me- if anything more loving than in years past. I can’t reconcile what I’m seeing in our relationship with the woman I can read about in the text messages.

I also love her very much. I’m crushed. And I have no idea how to even approach the topic with her. This is the woman I thought I’d grow old with.

So, I’m asking for advice. Do I throw away the 6 years we have? Do I try and salvage this situation? Please forgive me if this sounds ridiculous, I don’t even know what I SHOULD be asking right now. My head is absolutely spinning. Thanks for reading and for any advice you might have.