I had been dating my girlfriend for four years and I thought I knew her inside out. We had been talking about getting married for the past few months, and had even started looking for venues for our wedding.

We were both so excited about this milestone in our relationship and I thought I had found the one I wanted to spend the rest of my life with.

Then I found out that she lacks personal hygiene

But then one day, I found out something that completely changed my opinion of her. A mutual friend had let it slip that she only showered once a week.

I was completely taken aback. I had no idea that she was so unhygienic and I couldn’t believe that she hadn’t mentioned it to me.

I was so shocked by this news that I decided to confront her about it. I asked her why she only showered once a week and she told me that she didn’t see the point of showering more than that.

She also said that to musk her smell, she would often spray a lot of perfume and change into fresh clothes.

I was disgusted and couldn’t believe that she was so ignorant.

Refused to listen to my advice

I tried to tell her that it was important to shower more frequently, but she refused to listen to me. She was adamant that she was fine the way she was and didn’t need to change her habits.

I told her that I couldn’t be with someone who didn’t care about her hygiene and I was adamant that this was the only way.

I couldn’t be with someone who didn’t understand the importance of taking care of themselves.

After that, I told her that I give her a week to change and if she doesn’t want to change, we can just forget about being together.

It was the worst day of my life. I had just lost all of my savings to a casino after my gambler boyfriend had introduced me to casino gambling.

I was so naïve and trusting of him that I had failed to see the warning signs. He had told me that we would have a great time, and that it would be a great way to make some extra money. Little did I know that it would be the worst decision of my life.

Lost all my savings

To make matters worse, I had gambled all of my hard-earned savings away just in this one night.

I had been working hard for the last few years, and I had finally saved up enough money to buy a private property.

I was so close to achieving my target, but now all of that had been taken away from me just because of my gambling that night.

I had been so caught up in the excitement of the casino that I had failed to see the danger.

Boyfriend left me alone there when I lost everything

I had been so naïve and trusting of my boyfriend that I had failed to see the warning signs. He abandoned me when I had lost all of my money.

He had walked away and left me to deal with the consequences of my own foolishness.

I had no one to blame but myself. I had been so foolish and trusting of him, and I had failed to realize the danger that I was putting myself in.

I had been so desperate to make some extra money, and I had failed to see the warning signs of gambling.

All of my hard-earned savings were gone, and I was left with nothing but regret.

I had learned the hard way that gambling was not the way to make money. It was a dangerous game, and I had paid the price for my foolishness.

When I was in Uni, one of my favorite pastimes was going out with my friends and pub hopping. It was always a fun way to spend our weekend nights, and we often got creative with our activities.

We always try to go drink without paying

One of our goals every night is to go and leech drinks off guys without paying a single cent.

It started out as a way to have a few extra drinks without paying for them. We would target guys who didn’t seem to have many friends at the bar.

We would approach them, flatter them, and then ask them to buy us a drink. Most of the time, they would be so flattered that they would agree.

We would usually rotate who did the asking, but I often found myself in the leader role. I think it was because I had the most confidence in myself and I was comfortable with the idea of going up to a stranger and asking them for something.

I would approach them with a smile, flirt a little and start a conversation. I would then casually mention that I was a bit thirsty and it would be nice if they could buy me a drink.

To my surprise, they usually agreed. I think they were either too embarrassed to say no, or they were just happy to be able to buy a girl a drink.

Either way, it worked out in our favor. We would get a few free drinks and then move on to the next bar.

Works almost 100% of the time

The key to making this work was to be polite and not too demanding. We would also try to be discreet about it so that the other patrons wouldn’t realize what we were doing.

This worked almost 100% of the time and there was not a night which I remember paying for any drinks.

It was a fun way to spend our nights out and we definitely made some great memories. I’m not sure if it was the thrill of getting something for free that we enjoyed or if it was just the idea of being able to have a few extra drinks without having to spend our own money.

Whatever the reason, it was fun and we often felt like we had “won” when we got our free drinks.

All in all, pub hopping and trying to get free drinks from guys was an enjoyable experience. We had a blast and created some amazing memories that still make us laugh when we think back on them.

It was a great way to spend our Uni nights and I’m sure I’ll never forget it.

I had been wanting to book a massage for the longest time, so I finally decided to take the plunge and make an appointment.

However, I was in for a surprise when I received the confirmation email and saw that my masseur was going to be a man.

Uncomfortable with another male touching him

I had assumed it would be a female, as I had not seen any other options when I booked the appointment. I was immediately filled with anxiety.

I had never been comfortable with the idea of a male giving me a massage, and I was worried that if it was not a female I would not be able to relax during the session.

I tried to push aside my doubts and opted to keep the appointment, telling myself that it was silly to be so concerned about something like this.

Unfortunately, I found it hard to relax when the massage began. I was constantly aware of the fact that it was a man giving me the massage, and I could not help but feel a little uncomfortable.

My body was tense and I was unable to enjoy the session as much as I would have liked to.

Got bought over by the male masseuse’ skills

I knew that I could not let my discomfort ruin the session, so I decided to try and focus on my breathing and focus on the massage itself. I tried to think of it as any other medical procedure, and I was able to slowly relax and enjoy the massage as it went on.

I began to appreciate the male masseur’s skill, and I was able to let go of my worries and just enjoy the session.

By the end of the session, I realized that my initial anxiety had been unfounded. I had been able to relax and enjoy the massage, despite the fact that it had been a man giving it to me.

I realized that it was silly to be so worried about something like this and that it was important to be open minded and not let my preconceived notions get in the way of a potentially enjoyable experience.

Overall, getting a massage from a male masseur was not as uncomfortable as I had feared it would be. Once I was able to relax and focus on the massage itself, I was able to enjoy the session and appreciate the skill of my masseur.

Valentine’s Day has always been a difficult day for me. I was only 11 years old when my father died on Valentine’s Day.

It was a shock to the entire family, and it’s a day I’ve been dreading ever since.

Doesn’t want to celebrate V Day to commemorate Dad

I’m now in my late 20s and I’m ready to find someone special to share my life with. But I’m concerned that any potential girlfriends won’t understand why I don’t want to celebrate Valentine’s Day.

I don’t want to have to explain my reasons every year and have her think I’m some kind of Valentine’s Day Scrooge.

So I’m looking for someone who is open-minded and understanding of my feelings about Valentine’s Day. I want someone who will be okay with not exchanging gifts and not celebrating the day at all.

I’m looking for someone who will accept my feelings and show me the same kind of love and compassion I show her.

I’m also looking for someone who will be supportive and understanding of my decisions to not celebrate Valentine’s Day.

I don’t want someone who will pressure me into celebrating the day or who will make me feel guilty for not wanting to do so.

I want someone who respects my wishes and understands that this is a very personal decision for me.

I want someone who is compassionate and understanding of my feelings. I want someone who will listen to me and offer comfort when I’m feeling sad. And I want someone who will be there to support me when I need it the most.

Most importantly, I want to commemorate my Dad on that day and not on some celebration.

Difficult to find a girl that doesn’t expect anything on V Day

I understand that finding someone who is okay with not celebrating Valentine’s Day may be difficult, but I’m hoping that I can find someone who is understanding and supportive of my feelings. I’m looking for someone who will accept me for who I am and who won’t try to change me.

I’m looking for someone who will appreciate my feelings and who will be willing to create unique ways to show me their love.

I’m looking for someone who will be there for me when I’m feeling down and who will remind me all year round how special I am to them.

Finding someone who is okay with not celebrating Valentine’s Day may be a challenge, but I know that with the right person, anything is possible.

I’m looking for someone who will love me for who I am and who will be okay with not celebrating Valentine’s Day.