Can a girl pass out during intercourse?

I (M 26) was hooking up with this girl (F 21). During the course of the act things got a bit intense. She grabbed me so tight with all eyes closed then she let go and just lay there seemingly unconscious.

She was not moving, not blinking, although she was breathing. I got scared and had to pull out fast even though I had not finished (It was our 2nd round).

This has never happened before in my life. Not with her or anybody else. I tried to wake her up at the time but could not do it, she just wouldn’t wake up.

She regained consciousness a few minutes later and told me she had no idea where she was or what had just happened.

Man, I was thinking about dressing her up and then calling emergency services. I could not imagine the shame of recounting the situation although I truly wanted to make sure she’s safe.

You can imagine the scare and level of confusion I was in. So, are such occurrences expected and common? What should someone do? Any personal experiences would be great.

Netizens’ comments

1. What’s the point of asking here, do we look like f-ing doctors?
2. Sure people can pass out. Never happened to me, but girlfriends have said it happened in the past. If it is regular it doesn’t hurt to get scanned. Doctors shouldn’t find that embarrassing. It’s interesting. Doctors like interesting.
3. May have been a vasovagal syncope (google it). If it happens again put her in the recovery position and see a doctor. There is no shame in it – medical staff don’t care about that stuff anyway. She may have low blood pressure.

I [M34] found out my wife [F28] cheated on me

We’ve been together for four years and I discovered my wife cheated on me.

But I discovered by reading her diary. I know that it’s messed up to read someone else’s diary. But I cannot help to think that what she did is worse.

I already had the suspicion she was into someone else. What I read was the confirmation of my fears.

I don’t know what to do, I have always been loyal to her.

I am so afraid to confront her. I don’t know what to say, because she would discover that I read her diary. I really don’t know what to do. I need advice you all.

Oh god look at me looking for advice on online. I feel miserable for what I did and for what I discovered. I could REALLY use some advice please.

1. Really? You found out your wife cheated and you are worried about her finding out you read her diary? FFS
2. Kick to the curb, start again. Someone who cheats on you either doesn’t respect you enough to tell you the truth, or thinks you are stupid enough to never find out.
   Both are disgusting and personally I refuse to even be friends with people who cheat on their spouse. It’s one of the most incredible betrayals a person can make, and one that is totally unnecessary (just divorce/break up). It always, without fail, indicates a failure in character and ethics that is so severe that the person cannot be trusted. Fundamentally, cheaters make a decision to irrecoverably hurt their partner emotionally for mere physical or emotional pleasure. Then, they make that decision again and again.
   And if you can’t trust your wife, who can you trust?

I finally sent the screenshots to the home-wreckers husband

My bf (soon to be ex) cheated on me 3 years ago, we went through therapy after the incident and simply cannot work things out.

He cheated on me while I was pregnant with his first child, and tried to hide it by changing her name on his phone contacts.

I confronted her when I found out, and took screenshots of the messages passed back and forth and of her claiming she was pregnant with one of his kids.

She laughed out loud when I called and confronted her on the phone and didn’t care she was the reason why a family would be broken up.

Years later I found her FB and found her husbands page. I messaged him with the screen shots, turns out they recently had gotten married when the cheating was happening.

I told him my side of the story and he confirmed some suspicious activity on her end. I feel a lot better now and can finally have closure and move on with my life.

Revenge is the best feeling, you mess with my relationship, I mess with your marriage.

Feeling so tired and drained from work everyday

I just started a new job around a month ago. But I’m tired of it. It’s very fast pace and a lot of things to do everyday.

I feel like expectations are also damn high & sometimes I feel like boundaries are so low. They’re sending emails and giving task even after work hours.

The company allow wfh every monday & friday but they keep having physical meetings on that day and expect us to come back.

Also, we can’t just come for the meeting we’re expected to stay the whole day if we have physical meetings which i find redundant of even having wfh.

My previous role was wfh 3x a week so I’m finding it very tiring now that i have to travel everyday. I travel from Pioneer – Labrador Park everyday. I am just really exhausted.

I need to also say that as a minority, I feel out of place and really feel like i don’t fit with the company culture.

During the interview, i asked a lot of about the culture etc and they really sold me on it but i realise it was crap and imagine in a whole level of maybe 200 people you can count the number of minorities in 1 hand.

I struggle a lot going for lunch with colleagues because our food needs are different.

I don’t know what i’m looking for here maybe I just want to know how do people endure a new job that’s taking a toll on you?

My FWB sometimes throws hook-up opportunities at me last minute and I am a little annoyed

I (22F) am a nurse. I work 12-hour shifts or more sometimes depending on what staff ratios are like that day/night. I don’t get much time to myself, and sometimes when I get home all I want to do is either lay in bed and sleep or relax.

My FWB (26M), is still in school, he only has one class because he needs it to move forward with the rest of his schooling, so he has free time…All the time pretty much.

The first time we initiated the FWB relationship I explained that I like being prepared for things and that a little bit of warning (like three hours in advance) would be nice, as I would have to shower, shave, and pick out undergarments etc, and coming off from a 12 hour shift means I have to clean up extremely well anyways.

For the past few encounters he has given me very very little notification, and it is really starting to bother me as I don’t have time to get well-prepared, which hits my confidence level.

I have spoken to him about it and he tells me he doesn’t care if I’m not prepared as he likes me regardless. I personally feel different.

Is there a sort of compromise?

I don’t know why I have this effect on women but anyone’s help would be appreciated.

Forever ago at work a woman was randomly giving me the cold shoulder. She’d go on about how nice and funny I am but out of nowhere she just wanted nothing to do with me at all. I’d try to talk to her and she wouldn’t even look at me. I didn’t even say or do anything weird or creepy, she just woke up one day “You know what? F that guy”

But it eventually passed. After I want to say almost 2 months her attitude towards me went back to normal. To this day I still have no idea what it was, because it was JUST me that she was like that to.

It’s happening again now with a different woman. New chick at work, ADORABLE AS ALL HELL, MY GOD WORDS CAN’T DESCRIBE HOW ADORABLE SHE IS. ESPECIALLY HER SMILE. I introduced myself one day, she already knew my name and when we’d be working together. A couple days here and there we’d chat and bullshit with each other. I could make her laugh and giggle, she liked talking with me, yadda yadda. I’d catch her staring at me a few times here and there, and when I looked back at her she’d slowly put on a smile.

But out of nowhere she is giving me the cold shoulder. Only thing I can recall me doing that could come off as creepy, is one day I proposed going on our lunch break at the same time, just for chats sake, she even agreed. We didn’t end up doing that as she went out with her girl friends, but that’s not even when the shift in her attitude towards me happened. Next day she was still giddy and excitable around me. I went to give her a hand, I will never forget the cutesy look that she gave me. At the end of the day, I said I’d see her next time, she excitedly agreed, and giggled as she walked away from me.

Fast forward to next time we’re both working, and she’s been giving me the cold shoulder. Like before with the other one, it is JUST me. She won’t even look at me when I’m trying to make conversation, I’ll ask her a question to try and spark a conversation and she will just answer in 3 words or less. I can make everyone in the room burst out laughing as she just sits there with a soulless gaze staring in the distance. It seems like I walk in the room and her mood is ruined.

Am I just vagina repellent? It’s weird this has happened twice.

I accidentally peed on my bf while riding him, not sure where to go from here…

I (18f) was riding my man (19m) last night. I had never come before and I was on top of him. I told him that I felt like I was going to piss and he told me that it could be I’m about to come.

I asked what if it’s just piss and he told me that whatever happens happens. It ended up being both. I definitely came and it felt very intense. It lasted for a pretty long time.

I did feel like I was peeing as well, it felt like there was a release of pressure and things were getting really wet and warm.

The bad part was that I couldn’t get off of him in the moment and for some reason he didn’t push me off.

He laughed a little and told me that I got a bit too excited. The sheets were very wet and smelled like pee. I apologized and felt embarrassed, he told me it was fine and made a joke about how some men pay good money for experiences like that.

He suggested we shower off together and insisted on cleaning the sheets. It seems like he was fine with it, but he had lost his hardness after I peed on him and he didn’t get to finish.

While I do feel embarrassed, I found the experience weirdly arousing. For some reason, the thought that I peed on him seems really hot to me and the feeling of having pressure build up and release was incredible. I want to experience it again. Should I bring this up to him?

I (21F) tasted myself and now I know why my boyfriend (23M) doesn’t eat me out anymore. What can I do?

So I have good regular hygiene. I shower every other day and clean myself spotless. I thought my boyfriend just wasn’t into eating me out which I think is fine, it wasn’t exactly my favorite part of intimacy but the attention on my pleasure was always a plus.

I could sometimes taste myself on him but today I was touching myself and I actually got a good taste of myself (sorry that’s kind of gross but I was curious).

And I really disliked the taste of it. It was like a little salty but a little like the aftertaste of sour milk (not the fully disgusting sour notes you initially get but like the faintest notes of acidity/bad)

oh my god this is so graphic I’m so sorry. But anyways after tasting that I was like well no wonder he doesn’t like it, I wouldn’t want to go down on myself knowing I taste like that.

Now I know that diet can affect how I taste and honestly that seems to be the real problem as I eat mostly meat with carbs and minimal greens (trying to change that because I love arugula).

I was just wondering if there’s anything else other than a change in diet that can help my situation? I don’t think I can give up meat, I love all meat especially beef. Is there like a good soap I can use or something?

Idk if it’s selection bias, but why are the Singaporeans here all earning an insane amount?

You earn 4k? Too little to survive SG it’s not even much

You earn 6k? lol that’s like every average Singaporean you’ll just survive but not live

Correct me if I’m wrong but a MAJORITY of Singaporeans are earning about 4.5k. And there’s a whole group who are earning less than 2.6k who aren’t even in the statistics.

Ffs idk if I’m out of touch with reality but this made me think that if I don’t earn 10k and above I’m not living life in SG.

And then you question why people are stressed and asking how much others are earning. No it’s not to make themselves feel better it’s to see how true these sweeping statements are.

Whether what we are earning commensurate with with our job scope and years of experience. Or have I been living in my fantasy bubble and 80% of Singaporeans are earning 10k minimum working as investment backers and software developers at FAANG. If you say 6k is too little, how would that make someone who is barely earning 2.4k feel?

I graduated from Uni few years back and minus your Comp science, IB , medicine grads, most of us are only earning somewhere between 4-5k now.

Oh yea let’s just heed their advice “Why care so much just live your life and stop comparing lol” lol and here we all are chirping in