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UNREASONABLE BOSS DELAY SALARY, TELLS EMPLOYEES TO BE GRATEFUL THEY STILL EMPLOYED

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I’ve been working at my current job for two years now, and I’m having increasing difficulty with my boss. Last week he sent out an email to all of us informing us that, due to financial difficulty, our salaries were going to be delayed until further notice.

The message was quite shocking, and, to make matters worse, he followed it up by telling us that we should be grateful that we still have jobs during these trying times.

Needless to say, the entire office was in an uproar.

I’ve had difficult bosses in the past, but this one is really taking the cake. He is not only delaying our salaries, but he also expects us to be thankful for it. I don’t think that’s very reasonable.

It’s not like any of us have a choice in the matter. We all need our salaries to make ends meet, and so when they are delayed, it puts us in a very difficult situation. I understand that the company has financial difficulties, but that doesn’t mean that we shouldn’t be treated fairly.

The boss’s attitude is also very disrespectful. He should be more understanding and empathetic towards us. Instead, he is treating us as if we are replaceable, and that’s not right. We are human beings, not robots.

I’ve spoken to some of my colleagues about this, and they all feel the same way. We are all very frustrated and angry at the boss’s unfair treatment. We all understand that financially, the company is struggling, but that doesn’t mean that we should be treated like this.

I’ve been considering speaking to the boss about this issue, but I’m not sure if it would do any good. He seems very set in his ways and isn’t open to any kind of constructive criticism.

I’m not sure what to do in this situation. I don’t want to leave the job, as I’ve been there for two years now and it’s a great place to work. But I also don’t think it’s right for the boss to expect us to be thankful that we still have jobs when he’s not treating us fairly.

It’s a difficult situation and I’m not sure what to do. I just hope that my boss will come to his senses soon and start treating us better. We all deserve to be treated with respect and fairness, regardless of the financial situation of the company.

GF CB HAIR IS SO LONG UNTIL BF COMB FOR HER AS AN INSULT

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I have a confession to make: I am the type of guy who loves a “White tiger”.

I love the feeling of having my girlfriend’s bare skin against my skin when we make love. But lately, my girlfriend’s bush has been getting out of control. Her pubic hair down there is so long that it’s starting to get in the way of our intimacy.

As a result, I’ve taken it upon myself to do something about it. I started combing her pubic hair midway coitus for her as an insult.

Yes, you read that right. I’m combing my girlfriend’s pubic hair during intercourse as a way of teasing her and showing her that I’m not happy with her pubic hair. It’s not a pleasant experience for either of us, but it’s an effective way of getting her to pay attention to the issue.

The first time I did this, my girlfriend was surprised. She had no idea what I was doing and asked me what I was doing. I simply explained that I was combing her pubic hair during intercourse because it was getting in the way.

She told me that it was an insult and but I told her she should take better care of her pubic hair.

My girlfriend was shocked, but eventually, she understood. She started taking better care of her pubic hair and now it’s not getting in the way of our intimacy.

I know this might sound like a cruel thing to do, but I felt like it was necessary. My girlfriend’s pubic hair was getting in the way of us enjoying our time together, and I wanted to make sure that she knew that I wasn’t happy with it.

Plus, the combing of her pubic hair actually ended up being quite enjoyable for both of us. It gave us an opportunity to be more playful and intimate, and we both ended up really enjoying it.

At the end of the day, I’m glad that I took the time to comb my girlfriend’s pubic hair. It’s a reminder that I care about her and want her to feel comfortable and safe during our intimate moments. Plus, it’s a reminder that I’m not afraid to take the initiative and do something to make our relationship better.

MAN UNSURE HOW TO TELL GF ABOUT HER BODY ODOUR, SMELLS LIKE SOMETHING DIED

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I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a few months now and I love her very much.

However, lately I’ve started to notice something very unpleasant coming from her. It’s a strong, pungent odour that smells like something has died. I’m not sure what it is, but it’s become increasingly difficult to ignore and it’s really starting to cause problems in our relationship.

At first, I thought it might be something coming from outside the house, like a nearby dumpster or from the neighbor’s cat, but it persisted even after those sources were eliminated. I started to get worried and asked around for advice, but no one seemed to have a solution. I knew I had to confront my girlfriend about it, but I was scared of hurting her feelings.

Finally, I decided to take the plunge and talk to her about it. I was very nervous and I didn’t know how to approach the subject. I tried to be as gentle as possible and not make her feel like I was attacking her. I told her that I had noticed a strange odour coming from her and asked if she was aware of it.

My girlfriend was embarrassed and apologetic.

She confessed that she had been having problems with body odour lately and it had been getting worse. She said she had tried switching soaps and showering more often, but nothing seemed to make a difference. She was embarrassed to tell me, but she was glad I had brought it up because it was something she had been struggling with for some time and didn’t know how to address the issue.

I was relieved to know that the odour wasn’t anything more serious and I was glad she felt comfortable enough to open up to me. I assured her that I still loved her and that I wanted to help her find a solution to the problem. We then discussed different solutions such as switching to a natural soap or using an antiperspirant, but she wasn’t sure if these would help.

We eventually decided to go to the doctor and find out what was causing the problem. The doctor diagnosed her with a condition known as hyperhidrosis, which is a condition where a person sweats excessively. The doctor prescribed her some antiperspirant, which helped to reduce the sweating and the smell.

It’s been a few months now and my girlfriend’s body odour has improved significantly. It’s still not perfect, but it’s much better than it was before. I’m glad I was able to help her find a solution to her problem and I’m grateful that she was open and honest with me about it.

INTERVIEWEE SAYS: I AM AN ELITE LOCAL UNI GRAD, NOT CHEAP PRIVATE SCHOOLS

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I had been looking forward to the interview all day. I was confident that I had the right candidate for the job and was eager to get the ball rolling, but little did I know that my enthusiasm would soon be replaced by shock and confusion.

The interviewee was an impressive candidate on paper. He was a graduate of one of the top local universities and had a strong track record in his field. I had high hopes for the conversation, but it quickly took a turn that I had not expected.

The moment the interviewee stepped into the room, I could tell he was confident. His posture was straight, and he spoke with authority. I introduced myself and asked him to tell me about himself. His response was anything but what I was expecting.

He proudly declared that he was an elite local university graduate and that he should not be compared to graduates from cheap private schools. He said that the quality of education he received from the university was far superior to anything the private schools could offer.

I was taken aback. I interviewed several candidates from private schools and found them to be just as capable and qualified as the candidates from the local university. I was sure he was wrong and I wanted to challenge his statement, but I decided to remain polite and professional.

I asked him questions about his academic background and experience, and he answered them with confidence and authority. He was clearly a knowledgeable and capable person, but I still couldn’t shake the feeling that his attitude was arrogant and condescending.

Throughout the rest of the conversation, I couldn’t help but feel that the interviewee was looking down on me and the rest of the candidates. His attitude was smug and dismissive, and I had to remind myself that this was a job interview, not a debate.

After the interview was finished, I thanked him for his time and he left. I was still taken aback by his attitude, but I was also thankful that I had kept my composure and given him the benefit of the doubt.

In my experience, a confident attitude is a great trait for any job candidate, but arrogance is a red flag. It can be difficult to discern between the two, but interviewees should remember that their attitude and behavior can make or break their chances of getting the job.

He called back a few days later and we told him his attitude does not fit the job role, he can try his attitude at somewhere else.

MAN KEEP INSIST THAT HE’S BIG BONES AND NOT FAT BUT EATS FAST FOOD EVERYDAY

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I’ve been friends with Sam(not real name) for years now, and he’s always been a bit bigger than other people our age.

Lately, though, I’ve noticed that he has been getting bigger and bigger, and I’m really worried about his health. He’s severely overweight, and he insists that it’s just because he has big bones and not because he’s fat. I’ve tried to talk to him about it, but he always brushes me off and says that there’s nothing wrong with him.

The problem is, he eats fast food every single day.

I’ve tried to get him to make healthier choices, but it’s like talking to a brick wall. He’ll say that he’s going to make a change, but then the next day I’ll see him with a fast food bag in his hand. I’m really worried about his health and I’m scared that he might not be around for much longer if he doesn’t do something to help himself.

My friend doesn’t think that his weight is a problem, so I’m not sure how to approach the subject. I don’t want to make him feel bad or make him feel like I’m judging him, but at the same time I just want him to be healthy. I’ve tried to find ways to help him without making him feel like I’m saying something negative. I’ve taken him grocery shopping with me and tried to suggest healthier foods that he might like, but it doesn’t seem to make any difference.

I’ve also tried to encourage him to be more active.

We used to go on walks together when we were younger, and maybe if we started doing that again it would help. I’ve suggested going to the gym or joining a sports team, but he always finds an excuse not to. I think part of the problem is that he’s embarrassed about his weight and doesn’t want anybody to see him exercising.

At this point, I’m not sure what else I can do. I’m scared for my friend and I worry about his health every day. I hate to see him like this, and I just want to help him in any way that I can. I’m not sure if he’ll ever take the steps to make a change, but I hope that one day he will.

MAN TRIES BODY HAIR REMOVAL CREAM ON HEAD TO SAVE MONEY, ENDS UP BECOMING BALD

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It all started when I decided to try to save some money by skipping my monthly trip to the barber. I had heard about a body hair removal cream and wondered if I could use it on my head as well. I figured, why not give it a try?

So, I went to the store and bought a can of body hair removal cream. It said it could be used on any part of the body, so I figured it would work on my head, too. I was wrong.

When I got home, I read the instructions and followed them carefully. I applied a thick layer of the cream to my scalp and left it on for the recommended amount of time.

At first, I thought it was working. I felt my scalp tingling, so I assumed it was doing its job. After the time was up, I washed it off with some warm water.

That’s when things went wrong.

When I looked in the mirror, all I could see was a bald, shiny scalp. The hair removal cream had worked, but not the way I had expected it to. All of my hair had been completely removed, leaving me bald.

I was shocked and embarrassed. How could I have been so foolish? I should have known better.

I tried to make the best of it, though. I figured I could use the money I had saved from not going to the barber to buy a nice hat or wig. But no matter what I did, I couldn’t hide the fact that I was bald.

The whole experience was a lesson learned. I quickly realized that some things are best left to the professionals. I had tried to save money by using a body hair removal cream on my head, but it had only resulted in me becoming bald.

I’ve since learned to never try to do something that’s best left to the professionals. Going to the barber may cost a bit more, but at least I know my hair will stay in place. I’ve also started using a better quality body hair removal cream on the rest of my body, just to make sure I don’t end up bald.

If there’s one thing I’ve learned from this experience, it’s that you should never try to cut corners when it comes to your appearance. It may seem like a good idea to try to save some money in the short term, but it could end up costing you in the long run.

FRESH GRAD TOO FREE, NO WORK ASSIGNED SO COMPLAIN TO HR STRAIGHT

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Hi all, Just graduated and working in MNC tech. I did not see my manager for 3 months (he was on annual leave) when I first joined and I did not have any work to do then.

When he was back, he assigned a team member to give me some work to do. I completed and send my work to him in the next few hours and I then need to wait for another week to have something else to do.

Usually, HR conducts chats with us and I asked if I can be transferred to another team. They told me they will forward my case to relevant “stakeholders” but I did not know it will escalate to something really big. My manager was notified and one of the directors came down to talk to me (asked me if I liked my team, what I was doing, what was the problem etc.).

I simply told him that the work I do does not meet my career goals to avoid further issues.

The director assured me that he will try his best to help me in this case but he told me it won’t be too soon when I switch teams. I overthink too often and I do not know if I can stay on the job with the current team long enough. Do I quit my job? What should I have done or do now?

Did I ruin my career? Any feedbacks/advices are appreciated.

Here are what netizens think:

  • Should speak to your direct reporting first rather than escalating
  • Wait for story to unfold itself…
  • Ridiculous.

1) According to your story, your manager did not have someone covering for him while he was away. This is either poor planning on your manager’s part, or this is a half-truth.

2) Just because you were not assigned any work does not mean you should sit around and do nothing. Did you offer to help your colleagues or seek out new information related to your job?

3) You lack EQ and awareness of the potential consequences of your actions, thinking that the HR is so free to chat without a reason.

MAN LOOKING FOR GIRL PREVIOUSLY WORKING AT GEYLANG LORONG 22, SAYS SHE HAS ‘HIV’

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A photo of a poster which was said to have been put up at a bus stop in Canberra has been circulating on social media and mobile messaging platforms.

Man looking for girl previously working at Geylang

According to the contents of the poster, a Chinese man is looking for a girl who used to work at Singapore’s red light district, at Geylang Lorong 22.

He also mentioned that the girl has been missing since 2020 and had probably contracted the HIV virus.

A reward of $2,000 was also put up for information on the missing girl.

Poster’s contents

The contents in the poster reads:

“I am a 32 year old Chinese guy looking for a 36 years old girl previously working in Geylang Lorong 22 area.

This girl has been missing since 2020 and probably contracted with HIV virus.

Anyone found this missing girl, please kindly contact me at ……..

Reward $2,000.

Thank You.”

Here are what netizens think

  • Guy got hiv then go unprotected with girl? GG… The girls subsequent clients all hong gan Liao..
  • Don’t know the sequence, but at least one of them might have hiv sio
  • Maybe wana sue the girl for giving him hiv. Anyway hope he goes for treatment asap instead of spending time kpkb about a missing girl.
  • Her pic no make up.. very hard to find.
  • This is why you shdnt sleep around.
  • could be sabo…
  • how much per shot?
  • Ummm when is 36 year old a girl? Ish lao aunty!
  • these days w/ ppl wearing masks & sometimes w/ a cap/hoodie, gonna be hard to find

PRC WOMAN FEARS SON WILL GROW UP ‘USELESS’ BECAUSE GRANDPARENTS SPOILT HIM IN CHINA

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According to an article that was republished by MSN.com, a mother in China had posted on her online about her fears for her son.

Worries son will grow up ‘useless’

She fears that her son, who is 10 years old, will become ‘useless’ in life as his grandparents doted on him and spoiled him too much.

According to the article, her worries were seen as valid concerns with other PRC parents.

Son became a spoilt brat after staying the winter holidays with his grandparents

The PRC woman was shocked at how spoilt her son had became after coming back from spending the winter holidays with his grandparents (her in-laws).

He became much more demanding and according to the woman, her in-laws served him like a ‘king’, giving in to his every whim and that made him come home and not want to do anything for himself.

This included the basics like dressing up himself and even eating himself.

In a video which was seen on the website, the boy was spotted lying motionlessly on the floor while his grandparents tried to put on his pants and jacket for him.

The PRC woman also said that her son spent most of his winter holidays there on his tablet and watching TV, with none of his holiday homework completed.

She also said that her son did not want to speak much, as her in-laws spoilt him by trying to decipher his demands via his facial expressions and the movements from his eye.

Many netizens felt the same way about their children with their grandparents

In her online post, the PRC woman asked netizens if it was right to hand their children to the care of their grandparents while they continued to work.

A netizen replied her by saying that when she asked her son who is eight to do the dishes, she got scolded by her mother in law.

Another netizen said that her child also went to find his paternal grandparents for the winter holidays and she found out that he was on his smartphone daily.

Spoiling children not uncommon in China

According to the post, these cases are not uncommon in China.

Just last October, there was a case of a PRC couple allowing their daughter who was five drive their vehicle on the road at night.

A PRC man also spent almost 2 Million RMB on his son’s Ultraman trading card hobby.

MAN DISCOVERS HIS OFFICE NO CHIOBU ON FIRST DAY OF WORK, NO MORE ‘OL’ DREAMS

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I arrived at work on my first day full of excitement and anticipation. I had heard so much stories about the office building having many beautiful women who worked there.

Dreamt of dating an OL

I had even fantasized about getting a girlfriend who worked there.

I walked into the office, expecting to be surrounded by pretty girls everywhere. Instead, I was met with a room full of middle-aged men and women.

None of them were particularly attractive. I could feel my dream of a girlfriend slipping away.

I did my best to make the most of my first day, but it was hard to stay focused with all the disappointment weighing on my mind.

I kept thinking about the pretty girls I had heard about and how none of them were there.

Decided to ask colleague where are all the pretty girls at

At lunch, I decided to ask one of my colleagues about the situation. She told me that the company had recently laid off a lot of their female employees and had not replaced them.

This was why the office was full of men.

My dreams of getting an office lady girlfriend were officially dashed. I was devastated. I had been so excited about the possibility of finding love in the office.

Now it was all gone.

I spent the rest of the day in a daze, trying to make sense of the situation. How could this be happening?

It seemed like a cruel joke. I felt like I had been cheated out of something I was promised.

The next day I went back to work, but I felt like a part of me was missing. I was still surrounded by middle-aged men and women, and none of them were my special someone.

I kept this job for a about a year, but I couldn’t shake the feeling that I had been robbed of something I was promised.

I eventually quit and never looked back.