My girlfriend had been refusing to ‘do it’ with me for almost a month now, and I had no clue why.

All I knew was that I was getting frustrated and desperate.

I wanted to feel desired and loved, something that I couldn’t get from my partner, so I decided to look for another option.

That’s when I thought of going to Geylang.

I had never considered going before but I was so desperate that I decided to give it a try.

I looked up some ‘forum’ and found a few good recommendations and decided on one.

I was nervous but also excited. I was finally going to get the physical attention I was craving.

When I got to the designated place, I was shocked by what I saw. The woman was nothing like I had expected.

She was much older and looked rather worn out. I was worried that she was going to be a letdown, but I decided to give it a chance.

After all, I was so desperate.

The experience was not what I had expected. It was much worse. The woman was rough and uninterested in my pleasure.

She just wanted me to get it over and done with

I was so disappointed that I decided to try again.

The second time was much better, the woman was as good as what the ‘forum’ described.

I felt horrible for betraying my gf, but I kept going back.

I was so desperate for attention that I kept visiting Geylang, despite the fact that I felt guilty.

Before I knew it, I had developed an addiction. I was spending more and more time and money on Geylang, and I was getting further and further away from my girlfriend.

I was so ashamed of myself and I was afraid of being rejected by her.

Eventually, my addiction got the best of me.

Someone spotted me going into one of the houses at Geylang and told on me to my girlfriend.

She found out and broke up with me.

This was the worst mistake of my life. I had gone to a Geylang because I was desperate for attention, but it had ruined my life.

I had lost my girlfriend and my reputation, now everyone knows that I am a cheater.

I had learned the hard way that it is never a good idea to go looking for love in the wrong places.

I have a female friend who always likes to dress until very ‘atas’ and always talks about ‘business’ opportunities to everyone she meets.

Everywhere she goes, she would always be mindful about how she carries herself and would always talk and act like she knows a lot about doing business.

More often than rather, she would always post on her social media that she attended this or that event and had met some ‘VIP’ there.

She would then post a photo which she took with the ‘VIP’ and then claim that the ‘VIP’ is her friend or her business ‘partner’ and would always end the post with a message saying that she is ‘thankful’ or ‘grateful’ for the opportunity.

She would also post some daily motivational quotes on her social media and would always invite people to look for her if they want to ‘connect’ or if they want to be a ‘partner’.

One of my friend fell for her ‘luxurious’ lifestyle

Unfortunately, one of my friend fell for whatever she was up to.

He had hit her up to ask more about what she was doing and how she manage to know so many ‘VIP’ and lead such a luxurious lifestyle.

She invited her to meet up for a talk and purposely showed up late to the meeting, apologising that she had a few ‘appointments’ beforehand.

She then brought him to her ‘office’ in the CBD area where there were a few others there to listen to their ‘motivational’ speeches.

During the speech, many other ‘leaders’ at her level took turns to talk about how grateful they were for the ‘opportunities’ which they had doing what they did and how it enabled them to be ‘financially free’.

All of them were dressed up until very ‘atas’ and it sought of bought the audience over.

At the end of the day, they all split up into smaller groups and were mostly psycho-ed to be a ‘partner’.

The catch is that to ‘join’ as a partner, they have to come up with 1000USD first which the ‘leaders’ assured them that they could earn it back within a week from joining.

Those who had doubts about being a ‘partner’ were psycho-ed even further by more and more of these ‘leaders’ who came over to press them to join.

It turns out that they were just part of a MLM scheme and eventually, their hit rate of new ‘partners’ were almost 100%.

My friend was also psycho-ed to join and part with his 1000USD and after going through their ‘trainings’, he realised what they were doing and his conscience haunted him.

He knew he was already a victim but he would rather lose his 1000 USD than bring others into the same situation as he was in.

My father remarried when I was 19 and my new stepmom has a daughter who is the same age as me.

We had a lot in common and over the years we became great friends. I had always had a bit of a crush on her, but I was too scared to do anything about it.

Then, one night, we were out at a bar together and things got a bit out of hand. We ended up kissing and it felt like I had been hit by a truck. I realized at that moment that I was in love with my step-sister.

Since then, I’ve been trying to figure out what to do. I know that this isn’t the kind of thing that I can just keep to myself. I need to tell my parents, but I’m terrified at the thought of doing so. I don’t want to hurt them, but I also don’t want to keep this a secret from them.

It’s been weighing on me for months and I’m starting to feel like I need to do something about it.

The first thing I did was talk to my step-sister about it. We have a good relationship and I was able to open up to her about my feelings. She was understanding and supportive, but she also made it clear that she wasn’t ready to tell our parents yet.

She said that she wanted to wait until the time was right and that she wanted to make sure that we had a plan in place before we said anything.

This was a relief, but it also left me feeling even more confused. I wasn’t sure what the right plan was, or when the right time would be. I didn’t know how to approach my parents and I wasn’t sure how they would react. I was scared that they would be angry and disappointed, or that they would try to break us up. I was also worried that I would ruin our relationship with them and that it would be impossible to repair.

My step-sister suggested that I talk to my dad first. She said that he might be more understanding than my step-mom. I decided to take her advice and I asked him to meet me for coffee one afternoon. When I told him the truth, he was surprisingly calm and understanding. He said that he wasn’t happy about it, but he wanted us to be honest and open with him. He said that he would talk to my step-mom and that they would figure out the best way to handle it.

I was relieved that my dad was so understanding, but I was still nervous about talking to my step-mom. I was scared that she wouldn’t be as accepting and that she would be angry. However, when I finally told her, she was surprisingly supportive.

She said that she had noticed the connection between us and that she was happy that we were being honest with her. She said that she would talk to my dad and that they would figure out the best way to handle it.

She also stated that there is nothing wrong as the two of us does not have any blood-ties.

In the end, my parents were surprisingly understanding and supportive. They said that they didn’t agree with our relationship, but that they wanted us to be honest with them and that they would try to be supportive. They also said that they would do their best to help us figure out how to move forward.

My relationship with my step-sister has grown even stronger since then. We are still in love and although it hasn’t been easy, we are doing our best to make it work. I’m lucky to have such understanding parents and I’m grateful that I had the courage to tell them the truth.

The transition from “gor-gor” to “lao-gong” was not easy for her.

I had been looking forward to this moment for a long time.

Losing my virginity to my very first girlfriend was something I had been dreaming of and fantasizing about since I hit puberty.

I had watched a lot of adult movies and read a lot of erotica, and I thought I knew exactly what to expect. But when I finally had the experience, I was left really disappointed.

The first thing that struck me was the size of her breasts. They were much smaller than the ones I had seen in the movies. Instead of the large, voluptuous breasts that I had imagined, hers were the size of ping-pong balls.

It was a huge letdown, and I couldn’t help but feel a bit embarrassed.

The second thing that struck me was the amount of hair down there. I had seen a few movies where the women had shaved their nether regions, but my girlfriend hadn’t. Her bush was thick, dark and really bushy. Again, I couldn’t help but feel a bit disgusted.

The third thing that struck me was the actual experience of doing it.

In the movies, it looked so smooth and effortless. But in reality, it was awkward, clumsy and messy. We kept fumbling around and struggling to find the right positions. It was nothing like the movies and I couldn’t help but feel a bit disappointed.

Finally, the fourth thing that struck me was the lack of passion. In the movies, the couples seemed to be connected by an intense and passionate connection. But in reality, I felt disconnected and distant from my girlfriend. I didn’t feel any kind of emotional connection, and it was just another let down.

All in all, losing my virginity to my very first girlfriend was a huge letdown. Nothing about it was like the movies and I was completely unprepared for the reality of it.

Her breasts were the size of ping pong balls, her nether region was super hairy and bushy, the actual experience was awkward and clumsy, and there was a lack of passion. I guess I just have to accept that reality is nothing like the movies.

It was a typical night out at the disco in Thailand, I was looking to have a good time and hopefully find someone to share it with.

Little did I know that I would find that someone and it would lead to a life-changing decision.

I had been to Thailand many times before, but this time the experience was different. As the night progressed, I met a beautiful Thai girl and we started talking. We had a lot in common, and I felt like we really connected.

As the night went on, I was mesmerized by her beauty and charm, and I asked her if she wanted to go out on a date with me.

The next day, we went on a date and things just seemed to click. We had a lot of fun and I was really enjoying her company. As the days went by, we started spending more time together and I started to develop feelings for her.

She got pregnant and We eventually got married, and I thought I was the luckiest man alive.

Little did I know that my luck was about to run out. My Thai wife was pregnant, and I was convinced that the baby was mine. I was so excited and I couldn’t wait to become a father. Unfortunately, it was too dangerous to do a paternity test while she was pregnant, so I decided to just take care of her until the baby was born.

When the baby was born, I was overjoyed. I was already so in love with him, and I was convinced that he was my son. I started making plans for our future together, and I was sure that this was the start of something beautiful.

Fast forward one year, and I decided to take a paternity test. I had been thinking about it for a while, but I was worried that it would cause problems with my marriage. I was wrong. When the results came back, I was absolutely shocked. It turns out that the baby was not mine.

My wife later confessed that the baby was actually her Thai boyfriend’s. She had been too poor to take care of the child, so she had taken advantage of me and my financial situation. I felt betrayed and I was filled with rage.

But, there is only so much of me that can be stupid. I already recorded the conversation of her admitting about the baby to me.

It will be a walk in the park to divorce with this evidence.

Looking back, I regret ever going to that Thai disco. If I had never gone, I would have never met her and been deceived like this. I guess you never know what will happen in life, and it’s important to be aware of the risks.

My office has this reformed/ex-ah lian that I am attracted to and we get along quite well.

She has two kids though and I don’t know what her past is with her ex-husbands or boyfriends or flings and I don’t want to pry more because it might be insensitive.

In what circumstances would you date a single mom?

A divorcee that has her ex-husband have to pay alimony doesn’t seems so bad since he will be forking out the money for the child expenses while you reap the benefits of being a father.

A widow that husband passed away means that she most likely has lots of money from the insurance payout so you get to raise kids without the burden of the expenses haunting you.

But if its neither of those, then you have to raise someone’s else’s child who will never acknowledge you as their father, especially if they are of a certain age and they will just think you are trying to screw their mom.

Here are what netizens think:

• 1st of all, once she re-marries (to you), her ex-husband’s alimony ends automatically and it is (ur) responsibility to raise her kids (as step).2nd will her kid want to call u papa or can only accept uncle at most? Once u married to her, this will be the most impt qn (To her it is whether u accept her kids and to u it has to be whether her kids accept u as their dad). Otherwise u risk her in a sandwitch situation no worse than a girl asking u who would u save first when she and ur mum are drowing at the same time.

• get involved in relationships with single mom in your work place going to the biggest gossip around

• Don’t pangsai where you makan

• are you ok with her showing more or equal love/time to her kids than u? if yes, proceed. (single moms i know almost always prioritize their kids than herself fyi)